stop-doing-things-that-make-me-love-you

anonymous asked:

Hello! Just curious, why do you hate 2B and what season/arc is your favourite? Also, you have a perfect blog and make such beautiful things!

Thank you!

I stopped watching the show during 2B, mostly because:

  • Emma was miserable and isolated (emotionally) from the people she loves. 
  • It felt like they were pushing Swanfire and I am definitely not a fan of that relationship.
  • Neal in particular treats Emma like crap (did I mention I’m not his biggest fan?)
  • The Greg and Tamara plot was weak 
  • There’s very little Hook

There are parts of it I like but overall it just leaves me feeling a bit miserable and deflated. 

I came back during the Neverland arc and that’s still my favourite storyline.

So a lot of people were being rude about Alex’s last selfie with Lisa. Some about jalex and some about Alex’s forehead.


Let me just say JALEX ISN’T A REAL THING!!! How many times do some people have to be reminded of this?!!?? Like yeah it’s a joke it’s funny and all but it’s not real. Jack and Alex are definitely not in a relationship. Plus Alex is marrying the girl that he loves which if you were a true fan you would be extremely happy for him! I mean he should do what makes him happy right? And we should support him on what makes him happy as well. So stop saying how much you “hate lisa” or think that “ jack is a better person for alex than lisa” because Lisa is a great person and she makes Alex happy. And this is the last time I’ll say it JALEX ISN’T A REAL THING! Please get it through your head.


Ok and about Alex’s forehead. Are you seriously going to make fun of that? Really? We already know that he is insecure about how he looks. Well at least he used to be, but saying stuff like that isn’t going to help him at all. And I don’t care if you’re joking or not. You wouldn’t want anyone to make fun of you for something you’re insecure about would you?


So I’ll leave it at this, Hustlers are supposed to be he to support the band and each other. If you do stuff like this please don’t call yourself a Hustler because that’s not we are about. Thank you for your time.

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I really wish people would stop saying things like “if they’re abusive that means they can’t love you” and “if they loved you they wouldn’t treat you the way they do” because that’s a fucking lie.

People can love you so much and still treat you terribly. Abuse and love aren’t mutually exclusive, and treating them as if they are is doing more harm than good. It makes people think they’re not being abused because they know their abuser loves them. I didn’t understand that I was in an abusive situation until someone finally told me that just because they love me doesn’t mean they aren’t treating me like shit. It doesn’t mean they aren’t emotionally manipulative and aren’t creating damage.

I understand that the sentimentality behind “if they loved you they wouldn’t treat you like this” is to help convince abuse victims that they can leave their abusers without feeling guilt, but that’s not how we should be doing it.

Instead, we should be teaching people that love isn’t an excuse. Love is not the same as being treated the way you deserve. Love can’t excuse abuse. We need to teach that an abuser may love you, but that doesn’t mean their actions should be tolerated in any way, shape, or form.

You know, everybody says that dating somebody should be dating your best friend. And that’s exactly what I’m doing. They’re such an amazing person, and what I love the most is that almost nothing has changed between our friendship and dating (except now my puns are used more for flirting)
I wish that *they* would realize just how amazing they are. When they get excited, it’s the most adorable thing ever. And it makes me sad that they stop talking because they think that I’m not interested in it. Everything that they think makes them “not normal,” I admire about them. I sent them a link once, to some song lyrics. It said something along the lines of everything you hate about yourself is what I love about you. And it’s true. They’re amazing, and beautiful no matter what they think about themselves. Even if it takes a long time, I’ll make them see it.

I don’t know if these new meds are doing anything for me or if they’re making me worse. I don’t know much except for the fact that my heart is broken and I ache almost all the time. But if you are happy then that is okay. That’s all I can ask for from the people I love and whom are special to me…is for them to be happy. 

I feel like I am suffocating because I cannot turn off my brain. I am the biggest piece of shit so I guess I deserve all of this. I can’t stop thinking about the way things used to be and I’m aching. There is so much inside of me yet the only words I can conjure up to describe things is that I am heartbroken. I feel like broken tiny aching pieces of my myself. This time last year I was still sleeping in your arms and now I’m just here writing poems about you in my head. 
People don’t realise how I am hardly keeping myself together. Most days I am disgusted with myself and I feel everything building and building but I don’t know who to talk to or even what to say. All I do is feel. I feel just so strongly like how strongly it felt so good to be beside you.

Maybe death has a way of twisting people into things they never saw themselves as because ever since last summer I don’t recognize myself when I look in a mirror or when I speak or act. I don’t feel like I’m here. 

Right now I just need to be held. I need to be spoken to softly. I need to be soothed. 

This is not me looking for attention or responses. This is me just needed to let things out and knowing that there are people out there that will read this and hear me. This is just me trying to ease the pressure. 


Things that will drive me straight up a fucking wall when it comes to shot composition in film:

  • Framing the shot so that it implies the POV of a lurking person when it is not, in fact, the POV of a lurking person.

That’s it.  That’s the list.  Stop fucking doing this, Miss Fisher’s Murder Mysteries.  I love you so much, but every time you do this and it’s just a fucking off-key, distracting, poorly-staged distance shot you make me want to punch my screen in frustration at the unnecessarily-heightened tension that rendered the scene emotionally confusing.

anonymous asked:

What's YOUR favorite thing about Luke? :)

(how much time do you have because I definitely picked more than one I essentially just waxed poetic for a thousand words)

I talk about this so, so much it’s probably annoying at this point but I love that Luke’s so funny like, we have the absolute same sense of humour and there are so many times he says things and i’m like ? why isn’t anyone laughing at him that was so funny? and i love when he doesn’t know he’s funny and i love it even more when he knows he’s funny and he needs someone to reassure him and acknowledge how funny he is or how cool or how clever he is like when he did that card flip in the cards against humanity interview and he’s cool for like 5 seconds before he needs to make sure his coolness was documented and all the cool points he just earned disappear and he’s back to being a dork. 

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Phrases/Sentences said in your relationship: Jimin

“I can’t keep my eyes off you.”

“Come here…”

“Stop being so attractive, I beg of you, it’s doing things to me…”

“There’s no way I could forget you, honey.”

“But you are beautiful. You can see that right?”

“Should we go out somewhere, tonight?”

“I need to make it up to you, let me.”

“I don’t want you to leave… Stay with me, please.”

“Heheh, I love your laugh… It’s amazing.”

“Warm me up…”

“Smile for me. I know things are hard, but just smile for me.”

“Stop trying to feed me!”

“Come to the fansign… Things might be suspicious though because I’ll constantly be looking at one girl.”

“I need to loose a few pounds.”

“I miss you so much…”

“Kiss me.”

“Jagiya! I missed you so much!”

“Just one more kiss before I leave, please?”

“I need you.”

“Make sure to text me!”

“I want to make you feel beautiful…”

“Why do you love me? I don’t understand it, you could have so many other guys… Yet me?”

“You’d be better off without me.”

“You’re like an addiction..”

“I love your eyes.”

“I love your curves.”

“I love your lips.”

“I love you. So so much.”

anonymous asked:

i 100% understand if u dont do requests. i cant check if u have an faq bc i am on mobile and my connection is weak af on my mobile browser. so if u dont take requests then pls ignore this!!! i am ver sorry. if, and only if, u wanna doodle a sad danny (every1 loves making danny sad y is this a thing man) it would be rly gr8, but if u dont wanna then dont do it!! again i am ver sorry if u dont take requests, and i am ver sorry 4 bothering u. either way i hope u have a rly great day!

bby please dont ever feel bad for talking to someone. if they make you feel bad then they are not very nice. But I only stopped taking requests cause some people were very rude to me when I did not draw what they wanted. Hope this is ok?

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So this topic is really hard for me and I’m doing this because I know there are people who go through really hard things. I just want you to know that giving up is not an option. Believe in yourselves and I’m here for you, even if it’s not much, I do care. Also if you are susceptible to this kind of thing, please do not continue reading. Please remember that we don’t intend to offend anyone and I apologize if that’s the case. This is an important thing so I’ll try to make is as serious as I can. Love, Admin A~

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Chanyeol: “Jagi!! Stop!!! What are you doing?! Please… come here with me… We’ll talk about it.. please don’t do this!” *Really worried*

Kris: “Y/N? What it this? Can’t I make you happy?” *Grabs your hand and takes you to a safer place so you two can talk about it*

Sehun: *In a lot of pain* Why didn’t you tell me about this before Y/N… We could have looked for a solution… You know you have me and I’ll always stand by your side. Please don’t do this, I beg you. I can’t live without you”

Tao: *He took you to a safer place stayed next to you until you calmed down. You finally decided to tell him what was going on and that you felt so lonely even if you actually weren’t. He can’t stop worrying and blaming himself for this*

Kai: *After a few days after finding you trying to do something “stupid”, he can’t be strong anymore and cries all the time. He feels so bad because he didn’t notice your suffering earlier and wants to make you feel better, but he doesn’t know how”

Xiumin: “Please Y/N… don’t jump… I won’t be able to live with that. I love you. We can find a solution together… I’ll make you happy. Please…”

Baekhyun: *He is really nervous and scared that you might do it* “Jagi… please look at me and hold my hand. I’m here, you don’t have to be scared. I love you” *Takes your hand*

Luhan: *After saving you he took you to his house and laid next to you until you fell asleep. Then he watched you in your sleep and started to cry because he wouldn’t bare losing you*

Chen: *He was just in time before something bad happened to you. You got some injuries due to the knife you were holding but you will survive. He waits until you wake up, but he feels desperate, he feels his heart is about to stop*

Kyungsoo: *Heals your little cuts and takes away the pills you were about to take* “Look at me Y/N.. Life without you has no meaning. I can’t imagine it. But no matter how hard it is for you, I’ll be by our side and never leave you alone. You have me here for you, don’t forget that” *Hugs you until you feel a little bit better*

Lay: *Thinks about it for days. The way he found you and the look in your eyes. He knows you are safe now but he can’t stop thinking about the causes. He wants you to feel happy but he feels he is not helping at all*

Suho: *Falls on his knees when he sees what you are about to do* “Don’t…. please … don’t Y/N… I beg you…. I need you… This is not the end…” *Really really suffering* 

And now I’m looking at you,” he said, “and you’re asking me if I still want you, as if I could stop loving you. As if I would want to give up the thing that makes me stronger than anything else ever has. I never dared give much of myself to anyone before – bits of myself to the Lightwoods, to Isabelle and Alec, but it took years to do it – but, Clary, since the first time I saw you, I have belonged to you completely. I still do. If you want me.” 
― Cassandra Clare, City of Glass
morrissey responds to q's 15th anniversary questionnaire, 2001

1-WHERE ARE YOU?

In L.A., which is roughly 9000 miles west of Rawtenstall. You can’t miss it.

2-WHAT WERE YOU DOING 15 YEARS AGO?
Planning 15 more Smiths albums

3-WHAT WAS THE WORST THING ABOUT BEING 15?
Being emotionally sodomised by “teachers” at St. Mary’s School in Stretford

4-DID ANYTHING GOOD EVER HAPPEN TO YOU WHEN YOU WERE 15?
Yes, I stopped crying for half an hour

5-WHAT MUSIC ARE YOU LISTENING TO NOW?
Viva Hate by Morrissey. What a lovely voice. Why doesn’t he have his own tea-time telly show?

6-WHAT’S THE BEST RECORD OF THE LAST 15 YEARS?
Oh stop it, you’re making me blush. Otherwise, I loved Born To Quit by The Smoking Popes, and When I Was Born For The 7th Time by Cornershop

7-WHAT’S BEEN THE HIGHLIGHT OF THE LAST 15 YEARS?
Foot and mouth. We told you so. You wouldn’t listen. Watch BSE become the new AIDS. Otherwise, watching Elton John publicly metamorphose into Christopher Biggins. Our sympathies go directly to Christopher Biggins.

8-WHERE DO YOU SEE YOURSELF IN 15 YEARS TIME?
Sitting in a pub saying “I could’ve been Elvis”

9-WHAT’S THE STRANGEST STORY YOU’VE EVER HEARD ABOUT YOURSELF?
That I’m racist. It’s a bit like the notion that Tony Blair is a worthy Prime Minister - it could never be substantiated

10-WHAT’S YOUR PERSONAL MOTTO?
Why put off today what you can wiggle out of tomorrow?

11-HOW DO YOU KEEP BUSY THESE DAYS?
I have a very demanding cat

12-DO YOU THINK THE SMITHS ARE OVERRATED?
Probably. But are you going to tell me that the Rolling Stones aren’t?

13-DID YOU HAVE ANY SAY IN THE RELEASE OF THIS YEARS’ THE SMITHS’ GREATEST HITS?
None at all. I’ve never been involved in any post-Rough Trade UK release, so it’s distressing when people attribute those awful WEA sleeves to me - the hellish things I’m forced to suffer… this latest one must really be the final nail: horrific sleeve, title misspelt on artwork, wrong publishing information… I had to buy the CD on import in order to hear the remastering! I cried. Remarkably, no one at Warner Music was sacked! I believe it reached number 31? Too high, if you ask me.

14-IS ROCK MUSIC CRYING OUT FOR A NEW SMITHS?
No. The past is dead boys.

15-HOW ARE YOU WEARING THE HAIR THESE DAYS?
Fashionably close to the head

16-WHAT DO YOU THINK OF RADIOHEAD?
I don’t know why they don’t just call themselves The Edgar Broughton Band and get it over with

17-CAN YOU SUM UP THE LAST 15 YEARS IN ONE WORLD?
Hhmmppfff

18-CAN WE EXPECT A NEW MORRISSEY ALBUM SOON?
Yes. Can I expect a dreadful review from Q? Yes, oh the rhythm of life… (x)

anonymous asked:

I really doubt this, but is being manipulative a bpd thing? Like just over random things like. Where you wanna go to eat? Or buying you something? And then feeling really really guilty over it and trying to take it back but secretly hoping it'll still stand. Idk..

oh boy

nah man being manipulative is like one of the main traits of bpd everyone hates us for

I do it ill admit it like i used to plan out elaborate ways to fuck people over and i caused a lot of damage that way but now i’ve calmed down to just using it for little things that dont really make a difference

once you realize your being manipulative its really hard to stop too because its almost like a natural reflex and it takes some training to catch yourself because half the time i dont even notice im doing it until after i already succeeded

and yeah the thing with this is it’s one of those ‘i love being evil’ bpd things like my emotions are conflicted about it but theres a part of me that understands i have a talent for being an asshole so its kinda a waste not to utilize it? like obviously you have to fight that (which is where the conflict starts of not wanting it vs secretly wanting it) but on a deeper level yeah i get satisfied when i successfully make someone do what i want out of a complicated formula of guilt tripping and black mail

and then I feel guilty about feeling satisfied about it and it starts this whole shame spiral bc i want to be a good person but im good at being a bad person so what do i do

If you’re manipulating people its better to stop doing it if you can though bc it really doesnt get you anywhere in the long run and it can be source of a lot of anxiety and guilt when accumulated over time which could easily be avoidable by just stopping for a minute and deciding its not worth the time and energy

anonymous asked:

It makes me sick to see the things Durianrider has said about you. He's clearly delusional, because anyone can see that you are one of the kindest, realest, most compassionate souls the world has to offer. He spends his days tearing others down and degrading them, but you are the complete opposite of that—you are a beacon of positive light that encourages and spreads only love. Sending that love right back to you bb, keep on doing your thing.

Will never stop doin my thing, because I have countless amazing souls like yourself by my side supporting me down the path of life. Blessed is an understatement, I am eternally grateful xxx

arrow characters as @wolfpupy tweets
  • Oliver Queen:tired of people always telling me go to hospital and that i've lost a lot of blood, its my severe head injury not yours stay out of it
  • Felicity Smoak:my sims didn't die in a tragic cooking fire accident so that people like you could say your opinions at me
  • John Diggle:stop being so defensive i am just trying to hit you with weapons
  • Thea Queen:i just want to take this opportunity to throw all the homework i was suppose to do into the river. thanks to those who support this decision
  • Moira Queen:if anyone needs me i'll be dead in my grave
  • Quentin Lance:the best way to solve problems is to create more problems until you are dead
  • Donna Smoak:sea shells? dont mind if i do
  • Sin:some say love is a river, me i say things that make sense
  • Nyssa al Ghul:vampires hate sunlight because it kills them, but me, i hate sunlight for legitimate reasons
  • Malcolm Merlyn:i dont want to hear your excuses, or anything else you have to say, i want to hear a cool song about me and my life
  • Tommy Merlyn:if you want my advice i say be so bad at digging your own grave that they do it for you then fall asleep in it before they kill you
  • Roy Harper:seems to me if we all worked together to make my life better then eventually everyone elses lives would get better at some point probably
  • Slade Wilson:you look tired, why dont you close your eyes for a while, trick some people into thinking you dont have eyes
  • Amanda Waller:blood is just nature's red water that flys out when you make a mistake. relax and enjoy the experience for once
  • Raisa:lets forget about the bodies for a second. what do you really want to let hit the floor? your feelings perhaps?
  • Ra's al Ghul:honestly now that i have it this throne of human skulls is crazy uncomfortable to sit on
  • Count Vertigo:at the end of the day whats important is not the enemies you've crushed and killed, it's the gems, coins, and jewels you got from doing it
  • Isabel Rochev:if the magic spells i wrote dont work its because you dont believe in them enough. no refunds
  • Walter Steele:thats me in the expensive italian suit looking at the ocean through opera binoculars to see if the surf is up
  • Lyla Michaels:sometimes the people that hurt us the most are the ones swinging big knives around while screaming and trying to cut us
  • Clock King:in a way aren't we all responsible for my actions
  • Helena Bertinelli:everyone who has betrayed me will deeply regret it or wont be bothered at all or some other option

I want to be in a relationship where everything is equal and no one is trying harder or putting in more effort than the other. I want to be able to find common ground and handle arguments and fights in a way that won’t change the mood for the whole day and make it to where our conversations are dead and we can’t find a way to set aside the situation and be happy. I want to feel the same amount of love I felt when you first told me you loved me, five or six months down the road. I want the little things without having to beg for them and feeling like a nuisance every time I ask for something as simple as a little reassurance every so often. I want to feel good enough and complete, not empty and drained because you chose to stop doing all that you did to win me over. I want someone to keep trying even though they already know I’m theirs til the end. I want someone who will never choose to stop trying to win me over. I want someone who won’t get mad at me over my insecurities and will love me just the same. I want someone to finally want me as much as I want them.

natashiisms asked:

✉ ✘ ☠

natashiisms

(✉) Nat: Sometimes I know I’m a shitty kind of guy and I do things that aren’t exactly the best (in theory) but I mean, I try really hard. I don’t know if it’s the time of night or the fact that I literally cannot stop listening to but sometimes I feel like I make a bigger problem than what needs to be there. I’m down and out.

(✘) I love you, and God am I sorry. Even though we know what we know about one another, I could never let you get stuck with me. You may think you’re a monster but you’re not. You are the most beautiful thing I have ever laid my eyes on, and there’s nothing in me but destruction. I couldn’t destroy you. Or at least I couldn’t bare to watch me destroy you.

(☠) Nat, I swear to God you are the only person in this world that I could snap in two and not feel a thing. You brought me back. You let me get attached to people. You knew what I was, but you couldn’t let me be happy. And now you won’t be either.