instead of assuring everyone that it “isn’t a phase”, why don’t we just assure everyone that if it is a phase it’s fine? it’s healthy to figure yourself out? because if we tell everyone it’s not a phase and it ends up being a phase, those people are going to feel guilty, like they stole resources or wasted time. It’s not bad to ‘go through a phase’. It’s a healthy way of finding out who you are. And if it isn’t a phase, that’s fine too. But if it is, there’s no reason to feel bad.
Listen. I support every race and ethnicity 100 %. But why so many black people feel the need to take every white people that ever invented something and be like "yea the jokes on you cause if we look at it this way it was actually a black person who invented it." Like jfc yes maybe, but no one cares who it was originally, it's 2015 why aren't we living in this day? No one cares if it was a white or a black person.