still not a good idea

anonymous asked:

I came out as agender a while ago but I'm thinking that maybe I'm actually a trans man. Exploring this possibility seems scary because there's a girl I love who identifies as gay and I'm not sure there'd be a chance she'd date me if I came out as a trans guy instead of agender. That sounds kind of silly. I've also been identifying as gay, I like girls, while identifying as Agender but I'd be straight if I was a trans man and I feel like I'd lose something. Any advice you could give me? Thanks!

Charlie says:

I know it seems daunting to explore your identity, especially with other things at stake, but I think it would still be a good idea. If it reassures you, you still don’t know if you’re a trans man or not.  I really think, however, that it’s far better to be true to yourself than be someone you’re possibly not to please another person (and if you identify as a man and knowingly date a lesbian, that’s not the most morally sound decision.) 

I suggest trying out the new identity in a different space, for example online or in a separate social setting.  If you end up being straight, that’s not the worst thing!! While you might no longer fit in with ‘gay culture,’ you’re still very much lgbt!! You would still be able to participate in community specific spaces.

anonymous asked:

In school a few years ago a guy tried to be spiderman and split his pants right down the middle. His boxers were white with red hearts. Are you still sure patterned boxers are a good idea

Patterned boxers are a great idea.

I mean for me to look at and not for those who wear them.

I mean how often are guys pantsd? We’ll be laughing at the situation and then laughing at the cute pattern on his undies pfff

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Well yeah, Wendy would be the least suspected one of the bunch, that’s for sure

I swear I’m never wasting so much time on stupid comics again. Out of all the asks I could’ve used, I chose this one. Someone shoot me please .+:。(ノ・ω・’ )ノ゙

bonus:

how do you expect anyone to suspect her

redid my first andreil cat neighbor!au piece from all the way in april!

Day ?? - Interacting with your crush

Would you believe me if I said I drew this first out of all the prompts in the challenge? LOLOLOL I wanted to post them in order but I realized the fatesona child thing was also a prompt so… oh well. 😂😂😂

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How did you decide when someone was irretrievably lost—when they were so evil or toxic or just plain set in their ways that you had to face the fact they were never going to change? How long could you keep trying to save them, and when did you give up and grieve for them as though they were dead?

READ IN 2016 » the hammer of thor, rick riordan

Day 23: Magnus + Battle

The portal shimmied into existence and Magnus glanced up, face set into a smile, a greeting on his lips that soon died when instead of his tall, lanky and dark haired boyfriend, he was staring at his blond, cocky, more compact brother.

“Where’s Alec,” Magnus asked as his eyes darted behind Jace waiting for Alec to step through the portal. The portal closed, leaving him and Jace alone in his loft. “I didn’t grant you all a private portal so you can drop in any time you please Wayland.”

Jace shrugged. “Sorry.”

Magnus arched a brow. “Well? Where is he?”

Jace winced. And if that wasn’t enough to give him away, the way his eyes darted about, unwilling to meet Magnus’ eyes confirmed it.

Magnus growled. “No.”

Jace took a step back. “Magnus…”

“You didn’t.”

Jace held his hands up. “Hey. I couldn’t very well tie him down you know. Alec can be quite insistent.”

“Insistent,” Magnus hissed. “He hasn’t slept in four days Jace. Four days. And you let him accept another mission?”

Jace shook his head. “I wasn’t in the institute when he got called out. By the time I got back, he was already gone.”

Magnus pushed off from the seat, a snap of his fingers changing his red draping shirt and jeans into a dark purple military jacket, and black cargo pants that he’d specifically had tailored to fit his body like a glove; his spiked combat boots on his feet. He walked around Jace, ignoring him as he went to the drawers and pulled out his jeweled daggers, a twin set Ragnor had gotten him back during the witch trials, so he could defend himself without necessarily resorting to magic. Ragnor had had them spelled so even when they left him, they always returned to him when he called for them.

He still carried them with him any time he entered a fight.

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People Who Have Been Called Nazi/White Supremacists So Far
  • A Jewish gay man with a thing for black dudes
  • A youtuber whose family comes from Iran
  • A girl wearing a parody hat about bitcoins
  • A guy who says “white supremacists are as dumb as SJWs”
  • A fictional frog
  • A fast food chain for posting a pic of said fictional frog
  • Justin Trudeau (That’s right, Justin “Current Year” Trudeau. Not joking.)
  • Patriot fans. Yes, even the PoC ones.
  • People who dislike a Nexflix TV show

Still think that the whole “punching Nazis is okay” thing is a good idea?

YES HELLO IM STILL IN LOVE WITH HEIMAN YES

pointers on how to be a writer for bbc sherlock

  • use queerbating
  • write a female character and had a male character who is there to protect the women by saying shit like ’under my protection’
  • kill female character until only male lead characters remain
  • sexualize women
  • write bitch female characters
  • more queerbating
  • end episode with cliche shit by saying crap like ‘the game is on’ or ‘did you miss me’