When you’re in a committed relationship or marriage with kids then y'all are both the parents. I’m sick of seeing posts from moms or hearing where dads are like “Take the kids with you” “Hubby just took the baby so I can have a nice bath for once” or like “Well it’s up to you to do that”
It takes two to make a child. Split the responsibilities. A mom shouldn’t have to take the kids shopping if a capable dad is at home. Nor should they have to wait for someone to ‘watch’ the kids so they can relax. Same with in public, or at a family gathering, doctor appointments and school events, the mother shouldn’t be the only one with the kids. That’s your child too, you should no what’s wrong with him or her. It’s not just up to mom to feed, bathe, and play with the kids either. Be a parent, split the responsibilities. You’re a dad, not a babysitter. Be responsible. I know it can work both ways but I’ve only seen this happen with dads acting like they are babysitting their kids. Grow the fuck up.