Thinking: Attraction Pt 2
Identifying who likes you back.
Its so simple.
They’ll tell you, they’ll show you, they’ll make it so obvious that you can look at them and say
“You like me.”
When someone likes you… no.
Lets go deeper.
When YOU like someone,
what do you do?
You stare, you blush, you stay near them- want to be in line of sight, want them to look at you. Talk to you. Be friends with you. BE WITH YOU.
Is it not your goal to get close them? Even if you are shy, (being a shy person myself) you still do small things for that person.
Its there. And if you haven’t noticed before- you can sit down and think about it now.
If you have a crush right now- and you know for fact you are ready to pursue- are they showing the same behavior?
Believe it or not, like the first “Thinking: Attraction”, im sure your crush shows the characteristics of being fun, loving and/or confident, anything you admire…
But are they being nervous by you?
Do they get fidgety, blushing, nerve-wracking and/or giggly? Do they do things for your attention, get you to look at them?
Never have I seen a person who really liked someone be so deadpan “confident” that they wanted them.
Never have I seen someone not be so vulnerable and nervous to fear risk and heartbreak of what they have and what they want more of.
Its a lot.
Because its worth a lot.
The person you like, you feel they are worth a lot.
And you yourself, you are worth everything.
So, is it not worth the risk?