DC:okay you get to decide one thing that will happen for sure in the cinematic universe, what will it be?
Me:HARLEY QUINN GETS TO TAKE A NAP
DC:you can pick anything you want--
Me:IN A WARM, CLEAN BED WITH LOTS OF PILLOWS. SHE'S SAFE, HAVING A GOOD DREAM. MAYBE HER HYENAS AND/OR A DOG OR TWO ARE SQUISHED ONTO THE BED WITH HER. SHE HASN'T CRIED IN AT LEAST 48 HOURS SHE IS SLEEPING SO VERY WEL--
Making fun of a-spec words and orientations is lower than low.
Squish refers to a relationship that is more than a friendship but not dating.
It’s used by a-specs because it describes, for some of us, an ideal relationship; in which both parties get affection, companionship, but don’t have to pretend to be what they don’t feel.
Making fun of this term, especially in sexual ways, is damaging to these people. “Daddy squish me” as some have said, is triggering to csa survivors and fucking rude to those who have squish relationships. (A large portion of the a-spec community are csa survivors.)
Queerplatonic/quasi-platonic refers to a relationship like a squish.
Making this out to be terrible because it contains “queer” is frankly insulting.
Demi, grey, flux, lith, cupio, etc are prefixes that add a finer point to a-spec identities. They are orientations. Imagine asexuality or aromanticism as liking green. Adding one of these prefixes describes what shade of green the person likes.
one thing i really REALLY love about your art (and i dont know if its on purpose or not) is how sometimes when you draw kisses, you draw their noses kinda squished!
THANK YOU you’re like the first to notice!!! :D I usually do that because it makes the entire kiss look more ‘close’ without the other person disappearing into the others face which can very easily happen lol.