It’s easy to convince yourself that everything is a spirit. I’ve seen a lot of beginners and even more experienced people do so. There’s also the placebo effect. Your friend says they saw a spirit and now you start seeing that thing around you. It could be because you’re giving it energy, but it could very well be a type of placebo effect. So be careful. Not everything is a spirit…
… and not everything isn’t.
Now, here I will be giving out information I have gathered around, however, take it with a pinch of salt and add what you wish to it.
Finally, remember that grounding yourself is also very important. I’ll expand upon that in another post.
Recognise a Spirit:
There are ways to recognise a spirit through all five senses, and for some, even the sixth one.
There are spirits with higher frequencies, “good” spirits, if you will. And some with lower frequencies, “bad” spirits, as some will call them. I am of the mindset that there are no good or bad spirits, just like there are no good or bad people.
Please note: I am not talking about demons, here.
Spirits with higher or lower frequencies will feel or be sensed differently.
Again, here’s a strong disclaimer. Not everything is a spirit/ghost. Especially if you suffer with a mental illness, please be cautious.
Shadows: Shadows are an easy way for spirits to manifest themselves. They’re not fully manifested, but you can see them. There’s a difference between shadows and shadow people, you’ll immediately feel the change in energy.
Partial Manifestation: Although rarer, spirits can fully manifest parts of themselves, such as eyes, face, hands. They’re often a whitish hue or even full colour. These don’t last long due to the tremendous energy it takes.
Full Manifestation: A full body manifestation is very rare and doesn’t last long, because for a spirit to fully manifest itself, it takes a lot of energy. Some people can help a spirit stay manifested longer, but I’ve seen it take an awful toll on those people’s health. I don’t suggest you try it.
Peripheral Vision: Seeing people or shadows out of the corner of your eyes.This is the most common way to see a spirit.
Air Distortions: Distortions in the air where there’s no reason to have any. Can be a sign of a spirit either trying to manifest itself or simply there.
Orbs: Orbs are small balls of light that are usually captured when taking a picture with a flash. Though a lot of them is just the flash catching dust or pollen, there are also “ghost orbs”, or spirit energy. There are even orbs that you can zoom in on and see faces/shapes.Orbs have also been spotted just floating around.
Light Distortion: Sometimes, when a spirit is of a lower frequency, the light in the room seems to be drained, lights can spontaneously go off, candle flames dwindle without a cause and so on. But when a spirit is of a higher frequency, lights seem to shine brighter and candle flames can burn high.
Hearing is the most delicate one since I have, in the past, suffered from insomnia induced psychosis for several months, and know what it is like to hear voices. Please don’t assume that the voices you hear are spirits. And even if they are, don’t let them tell you to do bad things. They have no power over you unless you give them power, whether they be real or not.
Tinnitus: So this one is rather nebulous, but a few of my psychic friends/acquaintances claim that often, when they hear a sharp ringing in their ears, it’s a spirit attempting to communicate, but either they aren’t ready to hear what they have to say, or the spirit isn’t capable to getting their message across the veil.
Zaps, Bangs and odd little sounds: Sometimes, a spirit can try and get your attention through odd little noises only you hear, and seemingly come from nowhere.
Footsteps: Footsteps in a room when nobody’s home, or on the walls or ceiling. Your house is making more noise than usual without any causing.
Tapping: Little knocks at your door or on your wall through which you can even communicate. Sometimes doors slam without wind.<
Buzzing: Your ears may buzz loudly when spirits are around.
Whispers: Hearing whispers when there is no reason to.
Voices: Hearing voices around you when there is no one. This is a delicate subject matter. Don’t trust the voices without being 1000% sure. Don’t trust the voices if you are currently in a bad mental place (unless it’s trying to cheer you up and help you, in that case, even if it’s a hallucination, at least it’s pretty positive) and don’t trust the voices if they’re telling you to do something bad. Or something that could lead to something bad. However, it is a way for spirits to communicate.
Odd Tastes: This is an odd one and I only know two people other than me that have that reaction to spirits, but it’s basically when certain spirits give you tastes in your mouth, such as blood, dirt, sugar, spices and more.
Good Smells: A spirit can manifest itself with good smells. Smells that remind you of a deceased loved one or something comforting.
Bad Smells: Just as similarly, some spirits come around with bad smells like rotting flesh or blood.
Other: Sometimes, a smell that has no reason to be there just appears. Like the smell of roast beef in the middle of the night, wafting from your kitchen.
A gush of Warm/cool air: You randomly feel a breeze when there shouldn’t be one.
A stroke: You feel as though someone is touching you, stroking you, often in a loving way, or sometimes, in a more uncomfortable way. It gives you goosebumps or shivers.
A Blow: A full on blow to your body. This is rare and more often happens in dream/while you sleep, while real life physical consequences.
Marks: Odd marks on your body. For example, I had a hand shaped mark on my inner thigh, in a way my hands couldn’t have done it, it was outlined with a white line, but was not a scratch. Don’t assume every bump/scratch is a spirit.
Hands: You feel someone touching you. Not really like a stroke, just a hand on your shoulder, or around your throat, or on your cheek. Sometimes a hand holding yourself.
Change in Air pressure: The air around you feels lighter, or heavier, depending on the vibrations.
Pressure on Chest: a very common one I’ve heard is the feeling someone or something sitting on your chest, most of the time, in a very oppressive way.
Electric Shocks: Some people, like myself, feel electric shocks down our spines when close to spirits.
Skin: Your skin crawls, or goosebumps suddenly erupt for no reason, you feel dirty.
Extra sensory perception, possibly the most common way to feel a spirit.
Anxiety: Unexplained anxiety, stress, fear, panic attacks, depression and such.
Joy: Euphoria, happiness, confidence, comfort, compassion, good emotions that come out of nowhere.
Empathy: Suddenly feeling emotions that aren’t yours when you, yourself aren’t an empath.
Paranoia: Sudden feelings of being watched, being in danger/vulnerable, feeling you’re not alone.
Intuition: Sudden increase in intuition, like someone is telling you something.
Dread: Your stomach drops,a feeling of dread, tight throat, unexplained sadness.
Dizziness: Dizziness, nausea, motion sickness, you just feel queasy and wrong.
Become more Sensitive:
I don’t know if someone who isn’t naturally sensitive to spirits can become it, though they probably can, I wouldn’t know the methods. So here, I’m going to list ways of increasing already existing sensitivity.
Always Start by Grounding: Grounding is incredibly important. Everyone has their method. Mine is to walk barefoot in the earth or to just stand up and feel my feet. You can meditate, use crystals and so on. I’ll list more grounding methods later.
Meditate: Meditation is an effective way of becoming more receptive to subtle things around you. Everyone has their techniques, but I like doing Anapana before expanding into consciousness projection.
Just get yourself into a spiritual state: May it be through music, walking in the woods, cooking, anything that gets you spiritual, it’ll increase your sensitivity.
Herbal Infusion: Make a herbal tea that favours psychic powers. I’ll give recipes later.
Open your Third Eye: Everyone has their method, but the third eye is a very effective way of doing so.
Work with Crystals: I’ll give a list of crystals later.
Get Spirit’s Attention: Again, many methods that I will list later, but you can find your own.
Channel: Play a good game of Ouija, or do some automatic writing, maybe use your pendulum or any methods of channeling you use. It can get you going.
There are many other methods. Find your own!
Walk: Take a long walk in nature, barefooted preferably, and just feel the earth beneath your feet.
Trees: Hug trees, meditate under trees, just be around trees, imagine yourself rooting yourself in the earth. Can work with house plants, just dig your hands into the earth and feeling your energy going deep.
Dance: Dance around, stomp your feet, rock the world, just get in touch with your physical body.
Meditate: Meditate. Just concentrate in your breath, your body. Then, you can try and expand your consciousness, but instead of reach up, go down, into the earth.
Massage: Massage yourself or get someone to massage you. Nothing airy. A nice, deep massage. Rub your limbs and pat yourself down. You’re here, in your body.
Exercise: Do physical exercise. Yoga in particular (I don’t recommend Kundalini or westernised Yoga Pilates/etc, but actual Indian yoga. Something grounding like standing poses, especially Tadasana/Mountain Pose.) and Qi Gong
Animals: Spend time stroking your dog, cat, horse, earth animal (not birds, or aquatic animals)
Earth Spirit: Ask earth spirits, such as trolls, gnomes and others to help you be grounded.
Herbs for Psychic Awareness:
NOT ALL OF THESE ARE SAFE TO INGEST!!!!!
Taken from Scott Cunningham’s Encyclopedia of Magical Herbs. Feel free to do your own research.
Astral Protection: Mugwort, Poplar, Dittany of Crete
Mental Powers (Strengthen): Caraway, Celery, Eyebright, Grape, Horehound, Lily of the Valley, Mace, Mustard, Periwinkle, Rosemary, Rue, Spearmint
I am not listing them all since there are a lot. Feel free to do your own research.
Increase Psychic Awareness:
Azurite: It vibrates at the level of the third eye chakra, for clairvoyance, crown chakra, for heightened spiritual connections and throat chakra for psychic communication.
Angelite: Used to communicate with Angels and higher frequency. It helps open you up to new information and spiritual senses.
Amethyst: Opens higher chakras, helps strengthen psychic abilities, protects and good for meditation and dreams.
Bloodstone: This one is really known to strengthening psychic abilities of all kinds, especially clairvoyance. It also protects from lower frequencies.
Carnelian: This one helps heighten/develop intuition, clairvoyant and clairaudient gifts. Used to transfer living to the spirit realm and vice versa.
Fluorite: Offers psychic protection, from negative energies and psychic vampires. Helps strengthen intuition, psychic abilities, connection to spirits and spirit guides.
Herkimer Diamond: Especially known for having magical properties, the Herkimer Diamond helps with telepathy, connections to spirit guides, past life and enhancing psychic abilities.
Kyanite: Great stone to use in meditation, to aid lucid dreaming, astral projection, connecting to spirit guides and Intuition. (Do use with caution since it’s really strong)
Sapphire: Helps open communication lines with the spirit world, helps give clarity, open the third eye and enhance psychic visions. Also aids with out of body, telepathy, precognition and intuition.
Turquoise: Enhances clairvoyant and clairaudient abilities, strengthen psychic powers and balance chakras.
Quartz: Quartz is the most powerful stone for psychic abilities, and the most accessible. It enhances psychic vision, understanding messages from the spirit world, opening communication with it and balancing chakras.
Labradorite: Good for protection against negative energies and very powerful psychic protection.
Tiger’s Eye: Also amazing to keep you safe from negativity, it helps mostly with more human bad energies. Still very good.
Black Tourmaline: Black tourmaline helps ground you and keeps you incredibly safe from negativity. Like a pillar. My personal choice.
Emerald: Emerald is incredibly powerful psychic tool and keeps you safe from negative energies.
Most of the crystals mentioned above are really good for protection too.
Most black stones are good for grounding/protection/Absorption of negative energies, such as: Apache tears, Black tourmaline, obsidians and more.
Finally, a disclaimer. I don’t know everything. I may have made some mistakes. Please take care of yourself when working with the subtle and please don’t force yourself into doing something that frightens you or that you don’t feel ready to do. If you are mentally unstable, first look into healing yourself before going into spirit communication, since spirits can trick you, just like humans.
Please take care, but don’t be afraid either since fear is food for spirits with lower vibrations.
is one way of creating a protective amulet. This method involves
taking powers and energies and adding them on to a “blank”
object. This method works well and I have used it many times before.
many of us in spirit work are not really interested in
witchcraft-based spellwork. I would like to present a new method of
creating a protective amulet, by awaking the spirit within the amulet
itself, and getting it to agree to protect whoever wears or holds the
though, a few words on protection.
generally expect certain nature spirits to be nice guys. Never met a
vicious crystal (a few grumpy and mean ones, but never an evil
rock). A few plant spirits have attacked me but I stray far from
home. I do not think anyone carrying out these exercises of talking
to basic, friendly spirits is going to be at risk. There are however
a few notes I do have:
DO NOT work with any
materials that make you feel uncomfortable, nervous, or worried. Such
feelings are not indicative that the material has a lot of power; it
means the material is WRONG for this project.
Stick with my recommended materials list coming up if you really want
to focus on spirits that are known to be friendly towards humans.
It is up to you to adjust the contents of this post as you see fit,
experiment, and try new magic. Once you leave the beaten trail, you
need to start working within your own system of protections.
will be using a rock or crystal, a natural object like a pine cone,
or a collection of herbs bound in a sachet. It is vital you choose an
object which you believe contains a protective
If you associate bluebirds with flowers and clouds, don’t use a
bluebird feather for this project.
more traditional because people have had success with them over and
over again. I will list my recommended amulet materials next.
You will “awaken” this
spirit, talk to it, get to know it, and secure its service as a
protector. You can then empower the spirit and learn how to take care
of it, feed it, and cleanse it.
In the end, you should have
an awoken and empowered spirit vessel working as a powerful protector
on your behalf.
“Protection” doesn’t work the same way with every spirit. An onyx
spirit may produce an astral warrior to fight your enemies, while a
cinnamon spirit may produce a wall to protect you. Which would better
serve you? Choose your allies wisely; talk to many potential allies
before you choose the one you really want to work with. Even better,
secure several allies who can all work together to help you in
Here are my recommended
black crystal or rock, or any crystal or rock known for its powers of
protection. Examples are onyx,
tourmaline, and hematite.
Also, hag stones
make excellent natural protective amulets.
piece of wood from any holy tree (perhaps from a pagan tradition you
follow), or a tree with traditional protective properties in your
culture. Examples where I live are oak
Dried and preserved leaves/needles, bark, acorns, or pine cones, will
also work well.
or bay leaf
are my top six herbal allies for defense and protection. Put them in
a tiny necklace jar or in a small cloth sachet.
STEPS - tl;dr:
Cleanse the vessel and cast a circle.
There is one basic safety
measure everyone can take when approaching a potential new spirit.
You can thoroughly cleanse and purify the vessel. A harsh cleansing
is not necessary; something gentle and thorough will suffice. Choose
a method that will not damage the physical material you have chosen.
Take some purifying incense. If you can manage it, burn or singe some
bay leaf. Hold your object in the incense smoke and vividly imagine
that the smoke goes not only over
the object but inside
of it! Imagine the gentle cleansing incense purifies the object and
takes away every negative energy and ill-intent, leaving it purified
and connected to Nature.
Place your object underneath running water (the sink or tub will do;
natural is great if you can manage it). Imagine that the water
of and through
the object, rinsing away every negative and unwanted energy.
Bury the object in natural soil for 24 hours, or three days for a
very serious case. Expose the soil to sunlight and moonlight to
improve the process.
Using your favorite energy work technique, create a ball of purifying
and cleansing energies. Immerse your object inside of this sphere of
energy and let it be cleansed. Draw the energy inside of your object
so it is thoroughly cleansed.
you cleanse you will want to follow a basic protective measure. This
is possibly the simplest thing you can do to protect yourself at this
stage. Cast a circle intended to keep spirits out.
When your object is
cleansed and ready to become an amulet, go to where you would like to
talk to the spirit (I usually choose my bedroom because all my
magical stuff is in there). Face east. Point at the ground and
envision a blue flame spring from the ground. Turn around in a
clockwise motion, repeating this phrase:
“This ground be purified,
protected, and blessed, in the name of my highest Powers; this circle
keep all spirits out except the one I invite.”
(Alter this to refer to
your higher powers by name, or reference your own power).
Once you finish the circle
and return to the east, imagine the blue flame springs up in a
glorious sphere that completely surrounds you, keeping out all
spirits except the one you invite.
Now you are ready to begin!
TO THE SPIRIT FOR THE FIRST TIME - tl;dr:
Focus on the spirit, talk to it. Ask it if it will help you make an
amulet; if it says no, move on. If it says yes, continue talking and
communication is the easiest thing in the world. Don’t
psyche yourself out about it. Hold your object or place it on a nice,
clean surface. It should now be purified and you should be inside a
protective circle (why a circle? When you call for a spirit and not
in a properly warded space, any
spirit may arrive. Always ward before you call spirits!).
Focus on the object.
Consider what may be inside of it, what spirit may rest there.
Touch the object if you
feel like it. Hold it close, put it on your forehead like me if you
really get in to it. Do whatever feels comfortable. When you are
ready, call to the spirit:
“Spirit of this [object],
known for its protective powers, will you come greet me today? I need
to speak with you.”
While you make this call,
visualize or believe that your words reach the soul of the object you
are talking to, igniting it and ‘waking it up’ from its slumber.
For me an action like this
typically garners immediate response. If you do not receive a
response, a few things may be going on: Either the spirit is not
interested in speaking with you, or you don’t know how to hear it, or
it didn’t hear you the first time.
Try asking one more time,
and see what happens. If the spirit still does not reply, put the
object down, feed it some energy, and try again later.
you actually get a response, DO NOT expect a living fae to rise out
of the physical stone, dancing in front of you like so many LSD
hallucinations. You are going to receive a response within
9 times out of 10. You will receive input in one form or another.
Some people experience external emotions, feelings, and sensations
which are not their own. Other people hear words, sounds, songs, or
other verbal communication. Other people have visions of spirits
within their mind. Some people simply “know”, and “know” when
the spirit hears them and “know” what the spirit’s response is,
without ever having any kind of tangible input. Everyone’s
experience is different.
In my typical experience, I
would “see” a spirit in my mind’s eye, as well as feel the
spirit’s energies and intent, and hear words they speak. You may have
a totally different way of communication!
For first contact,
introduce yourself. “Hi, my name is Cranberry. I called you because
I would love to work with you, and I think we can be of benefit to
each other.” State who you are and clearly state your intentions.
There is no need to beat around the bush, spirits aren’t usually
offended when people seek out their aid.
Then, you wait for the
spirit to respond. If you get “no way”, “not my thing,”
sensations or feelings, thank the spirit and put it away and choose
something else to be your amulet.
You’re a fucking idiot if you force spirits to be your servants and
slaves. They’re only eventually going to turn against you, and you’ll
eventually gain a permanent spiritual reputation as an asshole that
good guys won’t work with any more. There are SO MANY good and
helpful spirits that will willingly work for fair pay, which we owe
I’ve heard the most stupid, idiotic excuses that novices
make to defend
abuse and slavery.
Fuck you if you enslave spirits.
If you get “go ahead,”
“I’m interested,” or, “go on….” vibes, continue.
THE DEAL – tl;dr Be
nice to the spirit and ask it to help you.
There is a difference
between wild spirits that can fend for themselves, and spirits taken
out of their natural environment to come live in my house. A spirit
that lives in my unnatural house may not have access to the food and
ability to cleanse and care for itself as it otherwise would. So
right away I usually ask a spirit that lives in my house if it would
like a nice, small offering. A glass of fresh water is more than
enough, sometimes a bit of incense is appreciated. Occasionally a
spirit will ask for a specific enchanted formula in my room that will
give them a good boost.
In general, continue
casting your protective circle every time you talk to this spirit.
ESPECIALLY if the space you are working in is not fully warded!! If
you are working in a fully warded space and you know how to connect
with the spirit inside the object, then I wouldn’t worry too much
about protective circles unless you really just want to be extra safe
Up to this point, the
object has been cleansed and we are inside a protective circle. We
are assuming I have just made first contact with the spirit and it
has given me signals to continue. So here I will offer it a small
offering such as a glass of water.
If the spirit is quiet or
is not saying much, or if it asks for more info, fill the spirit in.
Simply tell the spirit you seek a protective ally, one that can guard
you against malicious spirits and negative energies, and protect
against the ill-intent of other humans. Say why you have chosen this
spirit – did it come highly recommended? Have you had a personal
experience with its protective abilities? And state what you will do
to pay the spirit back. Try offering a cleansing twice a month and
energy feedings once a week, or both whenever necessary.
Many protective spirits I
know are warriors and are proud and boastful about their abilities.
They often leap at the chance to protect someone and will gladly do
it. Other spirits are more cautious or coy and will not agree right
away, instead wanting to talk more and get to know you more. If a
spirit is not agreeing to protect you, no need to beg or convince it;
thank it, put it away, and try another spirit instead. You may find
it is just necessary to actually get to know spirits in general more
before they agree to work with you, so in that case it is fine to
spend however much time you need getting to know the spirit.
Ultimately most spirits I
know will have some questions so spend some time answering anything
the spirit wants to know. They may want to know if you have any
enemies they must defeat, what kind of ailments you have, what
energies you are facing, what kind of cleansing they will receive,
what kind of food they will receive, and so on. Hash out the details
and take notes as needed so you do not forget any part of the
agreement being made.
In general you are making a
business deal (even if you guys become great friends and allies) and
you need to work out some details:
Will the spirit help you
only when it is specifically called? Do you need to be aware of
danger before it will kick in? Or will the spirit stay vigilant and
watch? Should you tell him when to be vigilant? Do you want him
always aware? The more active the spirit is, the more feedings it
will require. Everything is an exchange. Do you want to be aware of
when you are being protected of negative energies, or not? Do you
want the spirit to alert you if it senses something nearby? Will it
protect an area it is in, or only a human who specifically holds it?
Work out all these details. In general, asking the spirit to give you
a sense of security when it is “working” is a great idea. It lets
you know within a few moments if your spirit ally is able to help you
If you are making a general
protective amulet, skip this step. If you know you have specific
enemies, whether they be human or spirit, ask the amulet spirit what
it can specifically do to protect against your enemies. Depending on
how easily you can work with spirits and make amulets such as this
one, it may be worth your while to spend the time finding an ally who
can help you the most against specific beings you face.
Sooner or later the spirit
is either going to agree or disagree. I’ve never gotten a “let me
think about it” from a nature spirit before. They pretty much seem
to know what they’re going to do. If the spirit disagrees, thank it
and return it to where it belongs. If it agrees, you now have secured
the services of a protective spirit!
YOUR AMULET -tl;drshow me what you
Now a spirit has agreed to
be a protector. But in my way of working you don’t just “finish
up”. For anyone interested in above-beginner energy work, spirit
work, spell work, and astral travel, you need to figure out how this
magic is actually literally realistically going to work on your
Once I am in communion with
the spirit and they have agreed to help me, I ask to see an example
of how their protective powers work against a specific enemy.
For example, you can ask, “how would your charms help me against
another spirit seeking to harm me?” Then wait and see what input
I will get visions of how
thinks “work” according to my understanding of the astral. No
matter what you should gain at least a slightly better understanding
of how your enchantment is going to work, even if you only get a
feeling such as “security” or an image of a wall.
In general I ask these
“Can you show me how you
will protect me against malicious spirits?” “Can you show me
how you will protect me against energies or spells?” “Can you
show me how you will protect me against malicious humans?**”
**These amulets are for
protection during spiritual encounters, not physical
encounters. Do not rely on magic to keep you physically safe.
If I am satisfied that the
spirit knows what it is doing (and if you used any of the recommended
materials, it should), I thank it for its time. I give it a feeding,
a nice offering as thanks for making this deal, and I either “hang
up” or spend enjoyable time with this spirit.
YOUR AMULET AND THE SPIRIT WITHIN
– tl;dr uphold your
end of the deal, feed the spirit, be nice to it.
your deal has been made, try talking to this spirit regularly. This
is especially nice if you have no other companions or limited spirit
experience. Remember to cast your circle every time if you are
working outside of a fully warded space. Try wearing or touching the
amulet as you work with it :)
forget to cleanse and feed the spirit as you have agreed. If you have
to “take a break”, low spoon month, etc. – see if you can’t at
least say hello to the spirit and explain the situation. Otherwise, I
often find these types of protective spirits to be good-natured and
not prone to anger (especially rocks).
or hold your amulet whenever you need it. Activate it by whatever
word or signal you agreed to if it does not always remain aware.
this amulet as protection while doing other spirit work, astral
traveling, or simply when you need it daily. Talk to the spirit
within the amulet regularly; it is not a mindless spell, it is a real
being. Ask it about things that happen to you and seek greater
insight. A spirit that follows you around regularly may have great
insight in to your life.
spirit may be empowered
in certain ways. Keeping the vessel very thoroughly cleansed and
energetically fed makes a huge difference.
energetically feed a vessel, choose one of the following methods:
Take some vivifying incense, something bright and enjoyable. If you
are unsure of what to choose, ask the spirit within or choose a scent
you think that individual would like. If you get an unclear response,
go with basil and chamomile or any stick incense. Hold the vessel
over the smoke and imagine the smoke is drawn within and turns in to
a feast for the spirit to enjoy. Imagine the spirit of the vessel
feasting on the smoke and enjoying it immensely. If you get feelings
of “no” or “stop”, the spirit does not like the incense
presented and you should of course stop immediately.
Light a candle of any type. Hold the vessel over the candle flame and
imagine the heat and light from the candle arise and go inside the
vessel, warming it and giving the spirit pure energy from which it
can heal and rest.
foods, beverages, consumables (such as tobacco), and/or alcohol.
Place the offerings next to the vessel and encourage the spirit to
come out and enjoy all the physical offerings placed before them.
Using your favorite energy work technique, create a ball of
energizing and healing energies. Put this energy in to the vessel and
encourage the spirit to use it and enjoy it according to their
greatest needs and desires.
spirit may also be empowered by giving it various magical waters,
potions, and formulas. A spirit vessel adorned with War Water can
give the spirit within special abilities, in
my experience UPG alert I guess I’ve never heard anyone else talk
about this. I find my
spirits greatly enjoy the formula Glory Water, which they request
regularly. They also like a custom blend of mine called Snake Water,
which is actually just a very simple and highly cleansing formula.
your vessel somewhere it is comfortable. I hang mine on the wall
usually, you may want to keep yours on your altar or in a nice,
special space. If you ever lose the need for this vessel, tell the
spirit within that you have lost your need for its services and break
Here are multiple methods of blessings objects, feel free to add your own, and I’ll credit you!
#1: Simply Meditate:
The method I favour is to infuse the object with my personal energy whilst meditating. You infuse it with love, with the intentions you have if it and so on. I hold the object in my hands of between my legs as I meditate and focus it there.
Simply pass the objects through the smoke of an incense for a few minutes. Look into each properties of incenses to better use them. Practical for paper or parchment.
Anoint the object with either a mix of essential oils (or one single one), a herbal brew (either a tea made for those purposes or a mixture made for that.). You can do so by making a specific symbol while doing it, like drawing a pentagram with the oil.
I’ve done it twice and it’s a powerful but lengthy process. Bury the object in a place that means a lot to you, I prefer doing it under a tree, and ask the earth to bless it. I left it six months, but do as you feel. You may draw a symbol on the earth where you buried it.
#5: The Moon:
On a full moon, ask the moon to bless the object and leave it on the window sill, under the moonlight.
Use a singing bowl, or bells or instruments to really soak your object with the blessing. Or sing yourself, words of blessings or just humming. High notes heal and bring about a higher vibration.
Make a grid of crystals around the object and the the crystals bless it. Most commonly used would be crystal quartz.
#8: A Spell There is an infinity of blessing spells out there. Find the one that suits you best.
But most importantly, while doing any of these or you own techniques, remember to: a) State your intent. Your words are a vibration that will begin to bless the object before you even start anything. b) Get yourself in a calm state of mind. I don’t see the point of having a big get up for a simple spell (big rituals, yes, but one spell, no.), so without necessarily casting a circle, lighting 20 candles and and surrounding yourself with salt, just meditate a bit, calm your mind. Because you will also be blessing it with your own energy, even if you ask for the help of a deity. c) Use your own energy. That’s your most powerful tool. More than anything else. You are the most powerful tool in witchcraft.
Feel free to share your experiences with me by tagging me or adding to this post!
Unpopular Opinion about Cultural Appropriation in the Spirit Keeping Community
So here’s a popular belief: We should not work with spirits that are not a part of our own culture. Okay… I can understand that to an extent. Some cultures are very sacred, and we Americans are trademarked as being brash and… kind of unappreciative of what we have. But listen. Here’s the unpopular side.
We aren’t forbidden from working with spirits of other cultures. Am I forbidden for working with the Aztec goddess Xochiquetzal because I’m a Caucasian American? No, I’m not. After a year of enlightening work and meditation with her, I never felt like she was angry that I worked with her. In fact I felt that she was calling as my matron for some time before I even knew who she was. I work with many different culture spirits, and here’re my thoughts:
Cultural appropriation is really, really silly when it comes to the spirit world. Yes, it’s important for you to understand other cultures depending on what spirits you’re working with because you don’t want to offend them by giving them the wrong kind of offering or performing the wrong kind of ritual, but if you have the spirit’s permission to work with them, what’s the big deal? Besides, many of us have had past lives from different cultures, and we like to connect to our past life soulmates and previous friends. Cutting off ties with certain spirits because of their culture is not cultural appropriation IMO. It’s racism. It’s being SO careful about who you offend that you’re actually offending the spirit you’re trying NOT to. I hope that makes sense. You’re being overly careful here. If you call on a spirit and they say, “I don’t want to work with you because you’re a _____,” then thank them for their time and say goodbye. And DON’T WORK WITH THEM.
But if the spirit in question is completely fine with working with you, I think you would be doing DAMAGE to your relationship with them and offending them more if you said, “I can’t work with you because I’m a ______ and not a _______ of your culture.”
I’ve had Arab Djinn approach me in the past. Japanese Tanuki and Kitsune, Catholic Saints, Germanic Alps, Romanian Vampires, and Greek god messengers. I accept them all as friends or mentors, and I appreciate and respect their cultures. Unlike the popular opinion on Americans, I don’t take, take, take. I accept the spirit, appreciate their culture, and respect them.
…I’m gonna get so much hate for this. I just know it.
post was written by Thicket, Rosemary, Tom, and Alexandria.
for all spirits
what name may I call you, if you wish to give me one?
offerings do you enjoy? How often do you need them? (This does not
mean you must give offerings as often as a spirit requests. Do things
on your own terms)
is your true nature?
laws do you obey?
you live near me?
did you answer my call today? (alternatively: Why are you here?)
do you manifest to me? (Visions, sensations, light orbs, etc)
do you like to do for fun? What are your pastimes?
is your preferred method of communication? (Psychic, tarot, runes,
your spirit home comfortable?
there any danger to me at this time?
is your normal method of protecting me? (Magic, brute force, cunning)
you able to do your job alone? (Be careful, some spirits may find
this question to be insulting)
may I assist you in keeping me safe?
you like a thoughtform to aid you in your task?
are my wards and shields?
what area are my defenses lacking?
there any pitfall or dangerous situation I am getting close to?
do I need to be careful of at this time?
you require any healing?
problems can we take care of together?
says: “What attacks are necessary at this time?”
says: “Do not listen to Alexandria, be careful when engaging the
form are you most comfortable in?
and Alexandria say: “This is mostly for human curiosity and does
not really matter.” Thicket disagrees; the form a creature can take
can communicate very valuable information to the practitioner.
do you think about the direction I am going in?
paths are available to me right now?
says: “Do not agonize over the future.” I think this is personal
advice and not really a question.
am I doing right now that could be dangeous?
advice do you have for me? (Tom and Alexandria feel this is an
do you feel the outcomes are for this situation? Tom and Alexandria
warn you to not be constrained by the limited futures a guide can
can I improve my life right now?
can I aid you in your goals of guiding and directing me to a more
is your goal for my life?
long have you been with me? (Tom and Alexandria doubt the usefulness
of this question, especially Tom. They communicate that this has no
real bearing on a spirit’s ability to do it’s job – Thicket again
situations should I contact you about? (Serious, casual, everyday,
for helpers and servants
are you able to assist me?
am I able to assist you?
you able to carry out the tasks I have given you?
is preventing you from carrying out these tasks, if anything?
is your favorite task to complete?
do you get out of helping me?
you require energy or recharging at this time?
do you need in order to carry out your tasks?
you need a period of rest? Is it regularly required?
you discovered anything important that you need to share with me?
for companions and friends
are you feeling today?
everything comfortable for you?
you feel you are receiving enough attention from me lately?
there anything you would like to talk about?
me about your day. (Tom especially likes this question; Alexandria is
fond of it).
can I get for you right now?
you pleased with your spirit home? Does it require upkeep?
have you been up to lately?
any of your preferences changed? (Alexandria likes this question a
can I bring you as a special gift some time soon?
there any place you would like to travel to soon?
I doing anything lately that is bothering you?
are you getting along with my spirit family?
you still enjoy the offerings you are receiving?
spirits appreciate being chattered to all day long, just like a close
friend. Other spirits prefer to be contacted only when a serious
matter arises, or even not at all. When greeting a new spirit, ask
them how much they would like to communicate in general.
not directly ask for names. Names are serious business in the spirit
world! Instead ask, “by what name may I call you,” indicating you
are not searching for a true name. Tom feels that even these given
names should be kept somewhat secret, and another nickname used to
communicate about this spirit to humans. Alexandria somewhat agrees.
Do not be offended or worried if a spirit refuses to give you any
sort of name at all.
not confuse offerings with worship. Offerings are more like gifts –
literally, you are just “offering” something to a spirit. A cup
of coffee, a shot of liquor, some food, or even a nice glass of water
makes a good gift. Just as you would offer snacks and beverages to
any guest in your home, politely offer spirits something just to be a
asking questions that give spirits leverage over you. “How do you
feel about me?” is a question asked primarily by insecure people.
Tom thinks this is harsh. Alexandria thinks this is correct. Some of
these questions you may feel are somewhat unavoidable in
companionship relationships. Let me encourage you to just be careful.
Tom wishes to leave a final note: “Always be careful. Spirits are not always what they seem.”
we all have moments where we wonder whether we’re talking to ourselves or to an actual spirit, moments where we second-guess ourselves. here’s a method i’ve been using to separate the two:
in the middle of the conversation, try to make the spirit you’re talking to say/do something absolutely ridiculous that you know they won’t do using only your thoughts. if they do as you think immediately, then it’s imagination. if you continue your conversation with them and/or they reprimand you, then it’s real.
other signs i’ve noticed when a spirit is real:
they say things you don’t expect
you get impressions of feelings and thoughts aside from words
they teach you things you don’t know
you feel a distinct presence when talking to them
you might get tired if you talk to them for quite some time (while imaginations don’t tend to suck your energy)
For those of you that don’t make your own candles you can still do something a little special for the store bought ones.
I get my 7 day candles from the 99cent store. Before using them for any spell work you need to make sure that you clean and cleanse them. I like to make a solution of salt, water and lemon essential oil spray it on a cloth and clean the glass and the top of the candle. This part is extremely important. You don’t want some 99 cent store workers energy on the candle not forgetting all the 100′s of people that might have picked it up and put it back :-p
The candles that I made today are to be used on my altar for Hekate. This candle is pretty basic. If I was doing a spell candle I would write names, actions or something like that on the glass.
Remember, while you are dressing your candle concentrate on your intention for the candle. Thinking about what you’re gonna cook for dinner while making it will tarnish the affect.
What you need
Oils (I’m using homemade Hekate oil)
Screw or stick (For the holes)
Clean your candles and tools
Take the screw or stick and pierce holes into the top of the candle. I use a pretty big screw so that I can go all the way down to the bottom of the candle.
Use a dropper to put one drop of oil into the hole. Then use the cotton swab to spread the oil through-out by dipping it in the hole.
*If you don’t have a dropper you can cover the tip of the cotton swab and coat the inside that way*
*When working with oils, Less is more. The first time I ever used oil on a candle I covered the top with tons of it and it set on fire lol. So be careful!!!*
Place small amounts of your chosen herbs over the holes and then use the cotton swab to push them inside. You can add as much of the herbs as you wish, it’s just easier to push down if you do small amounts at a time. I have in the past put small chip crystals down the holes too.
*Some witches add a layer of herbs to the top of the candle. I don’t do that with these ones because I leave them burning for a while and I don’t want the herbs to catch fire while I’m in another room*
Once you have finished your candle it’s time to activate it. Some people write a spell or a blessing to say as they light it. Others say their intent for the candle out loud. Find the right way for you.
For this candle I say a little prayer (that I wrote) to Hekate and let her know that these candles are dedicated to her.