this is an incredibly stupid question so sorry in advance- how do i know the difference between finding someone attractive (ie wanting to look at them, date them, etc) and wanting to look like them myself?
God, I don’t even know sometimes so I don’t think it’s a stupid question at all. I think is comes down to if you want the look for yourself or not. So if you really like a style it can be reproduced on you and you are happy. If it’s just liking them, then it goes deeper than the cool style. Sometimes its both