I get that most people haven’t watched season 1 and 2 but it just kinda annoys me that everyone is going on about what a great friend and ally Jonas is. The thing is Jonas is pretty smart and kind, and Im sure he will prove himself to be a supportive friend that dont have problems with Isak being gay. BUT. Jonas is one of the reasons why Isak feels the way he does about himself.
In season 1 he made fun of Isak for having lame taste in music (like friends do) but he used the word gay, not lame or dumb or something like that. When Elias said he didn’t want to share a room with Isak because Isak is gay, Jonas didn’t call it out, he laughed at that joke. It’s very obvious that calling isak gay was like a dumb in-joke they had. And they still do that, they still use gay in a negative sense, or they make fun of Isak when he’s not having a straight™ reaction to things. And non of the guys probably remembers or notice that they do that, but trust me, Isak does. Also them being so extremely heteronormative, and Isak playing along for so long probably means that he is afraid that they will feel like he’s deceived or lied to them. ((spoiler alert) That whole thing with him spending season 1 stirring shit because of his crush on Jonas does not help things in that department)
All in all, his friends plays a big part in what makes this difficult for Isak, which is why it pissed me off when Jonas got on his high horse and called him out for making fun of that dance instructor. It seems like a lot of people don’t really get why he doesn’t feel comfortable confiding in Jonas. I don’t mean that Jonas is being mean or something on purpose, its just, he’s a 17 year old straight dude and sometimes that becomes apparent. and that's very realistic and something i love about this season.