sorry i don't know who the rest of the people are

So many questions…


Ok I have something to say about all this stuff (not my photos btw)

Who thought it was a great idea to point out to Himchan- a person who in the past has struggled with weight issues and (from the interview above quite obviously) an eating disorder- that he has gained weight? How do you think he would feel seeing this? Fans who think that this is ok and amusing even confuse and borderline disgust me (ofc there are people who genuinely don’t know the consequences saying this stuff brings in which case please take note and don’t do it again ty).

Just imagine being Himchan, celebrity who just like any other celebrity is almost always in the spotlight for any small changes to himself, and after given the opportunity to rest (yes I know a lawsuit isn’t a rest but point is he’s got time right now to recover) and needing BABYs support during this hard time, he’s instead got people pointing out about his weight gain, which obviously would hurt him and open up a bunch of old wounds. I get that fans say this with no malicious intent, and I get that in Korean culture pointing out that someone gained weight is considered to be ‘caring’, but we as people, as humans should know how it feels to have something that is very sensitive to us pointed out to the whole Internet. Its not ok. I can only really hope that he didn’t read the comments because I would feel horrible if I found out he did. We should be writing comments that would support B.A.P during this time, not bring them down (What is your purpose of even writing those comments? Like what do you expect Himchan to say? “Oh yes that’s right BABYs I got ‘fat’ hahahaha”? There is actually no purpose to those comments?)

Finally, Himchan is not fat (even if he is what’s the problem with that?). If you haven’t figured it out already, kpop stars are extremely skinny and unhealthy in terms of dieting and what not. Himchan gaining weight should be something that he’s proud of, not ashamed of, because by gaining weight he’s just becoming healthier.


Carolina sighed as she sat on a chair in the corner of the room. She had been coerced into joining the party but instantly took her spot along the wall to stay out of the mayhem. Having snuck out of her room, she was on edge, worried her brother would figure out any minute and ground her for the rest of her life. As she sat there, watching the people in front of her, she was startled by a body that bumped into her. “I-I’m sorry,” she stammered out.