sorry about your parents

anonymous asked:

I need advice, can you please pray for me... I had this year all planned out but my boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago and my parents are getting a divorce (it was suppose to be settled/finalized yesterday in court but wasn't) due to this I can't graduate early, get a job, move to the city, and travel like I had planned. I'm anxious, it feels like everything is just falling apart :( i feel as though I'm just wasting my life

Hi friend,

I’m so sorry to hear about your breakup, as well as your parents’ divorce. I’m so sorry you’re hurting, and I’m so sorry you’re anxious and feel like everything is falling apart. 

Rest assured in God’s plan for you though, love. Rest assured that He’s got this–He’s got you–and that you are not wasting your life, and that one day in the future you will look back on this time in your life and go, “I see what you did there, God.” 

Because even though it seems horrible now, even though it feels like rock bottom, it’s all part of His plan. I always think of all the things God may be protecting me from that I don’t know about. Maybe I’m running late for work so that I avoid being in an accident, maybe I fell down a flight of concrete stairs and chipped my bone and sprained my ankle five hours into a vacation with my mom and sister (true story) so that I would stay out of the ocean, etc. etc. That sort of thing. 

It’s easy for me to say this. I know that. It’s much easier when you’re standing outside of the storm looking in, rather than when you’re in the thick of it. But trust me on this. Trust Him on this. Everything will be stitched back together, piece by piece. It may not look how you thought it was going to/supposed to look, but it will be perfect. Because it is from Him. 

So talk to Him about this. Tell Him everything you’re thinking and feeling, and ask Him for guidance on what to do next. One step at a time, love. One step at a time. You can do this. 

For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope. - Jeremiah 29:11

Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
   and do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him,
   and he will make straight your paths. - Proverbs 3:5-6

Sending so many prayers your way, friend. <3

All my love,

S. 

anonymous asked:

I can sympathize with all the kids whose job prospects are being ruined by their helicopter parents. However, your parents meddling makes hiring managers worry they'll meddle in your daily work. "Mom won't let me use her car" & "My kid can't come in for their shift because they're grounded" HAVE happened. If you can't get your parents to understand that they are the problem, we'll hire someone who can. We ARE sorry about it, but we can't have your parents causing problems for the business.

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I’m sorry about your parents, they sound like bad people
Your daddy sounds like a jerk
I guess your mama didn’t know the gift she got when she got you
I’m sorry about your life, you had it pretty rough
Bending over backwards, never good enough
You poor thing, it must suck to be you
And I know it’s not your fault, it never is, is it?

I know what it’s like staying up all night nursing wounds
It takes more than I have, pick fights with the past, I always lose
Oh, don’t you know? That’s no way to live
I know what it’s like staying up all night nursing wounds

I get it, give me a little credit
I remember when I was that pathetic
Wear my scars on my sleeve, for all the world to see
Like look what they did to me quick, lay on the sympathy thick
You probably have the right to feel how you do
You were mistreated and cheated out of the childhood you needed
And now you’ll never succeed if you’re so convinced you’re defeated
If you’re obsessed with your yesterday then you’re destined to repeat it
And I know it’s not your fault, it never is, is it, is it, is it?

I know what it’s like staying up all night nursing wounds
It takes more than I have, pick fights with the past, I always lose
Oh, don’t you know? That’s no way to live
I know what it’s like staying up all night nursing wounds

I know what it’s like staying up all night nursing wounds
It takes more than I have, pick fights with the past, I always lose
Oh, don’t you know? That’s no way to live
I know what it’s like staying up all night nursing wounds

I’m sorry about your parents, they sound like bad people
Your daddy sounds like a jerk
I guess your mama didn’t know the gift she got when she got you
I’m sorry about your life, you had it pretty rough
Bending over backwards, never good enough
You poor thing, it must suck to be you
And I know it’s not your fault, it never is, is it?
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jude-portman  asked:

what should i do if i constantly have to pretend to be some one else to be happy. Please don't say talk to my parents we don't have a good relationship.

@jude-portman, don’t pretend to be someone you’re not. Just be YOURSELF!! Learn to love yourself and to accept every aspect of who YOU are. And I’m sorry to hear about your relationship with your parents. I hope that in time, it gets better for you. Please take care of yourself!

anonymous asked:

I just want to talk about this to someone. My dad is really transphobic and has said that he'll never view me as a boy (I'm ftm). His wife seems to have a similar view. But my little sister (who is 4 ) is really understanding and it makes me really happy. Like, she uses male pronouns even though I haven't properly come out to her. She also likes to call me Bob/Steve instead of my birth name because to her I'm not a girl so I shouldn't have a girl name. I just hope that she'll help them accept me

Your sister is so sweet! Children can be amazing. I’m sorry about your father and his wife, its awful to have transphobic parents and I hope you are able to get out of that situation one day. Hopefully your sister will help! She sounds like a really nice kid. 

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- Well your biological father at least, because of the way his parents passed away, he still has a soft spot for young individuals touched with tragedy.

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Sorry About Your Parents

“I’m sorry about your parents, they sound like bad people.”

“And I know it’s not your fault, it never is, is it?”

“I get it, give me a little credit.”

“You’ll never succeed if you’re so convinced you’re defeated.”

“Oh, don’t you know? That’s no way to live.”

“I know what it’s like staying up all night nursing wounds.”

“I’m sorry about your life, you had it pretty rough.”

“I guess your mama didn’t know the gift she got when she got you.”

“Your daddy sounds like a jerk.”

Get Well

“We’ve hurt bad enough, right, we’ve earned it.”

“I’m getting out, gonna write myself a new start.”

“So now you know all my secrets.”

“And all we’ve got left is a sorry pile of hearts.”

“Yeah we should’ve known it would end this way.”

“I meant it when I said I wanna get well.”

“Run as fast as you can and we’ll make it out alive.”

“I want out, I know I don’t need this.”

“Don’t tell the others but it’s all getting old.”

“And being lonely’s only fun in a group… It sort of loses its charm when it’s true.”

Think I’m Sick:

“I think I’m sick.”

“She’s out for blood, too soon to tell.”

“Resist at first and then reverse.”

“I wish I were good instead.”

“Life’s a war, you pick your fight.”

“In the quiet, in the dark… All my ideals fall apart.”

“The night knows me by name.”

Supposed To Be:

“I’m scared to lose myself.”

“For years, this is all I’ve known, this has had my heart, this has been my home.”

“Who am I supposed to be?”

“Make me better.”

“I don’t wanna be stuck, I don’t wanna be crazy.”

“I’ve never done this before.”

“Don’t know if I’m ready but I wanna move on.”

“Can you fix this, am I too far gone?”

“I can’t stay halfway dead forever.”

“Tell me who I’m supposed to be now.”