sooner i wish

When I think back on how my life used to be, I realize how much time I’ve wasted when I could have spent my time finding you instead.
—  Poets Love Her

alright something that needs addressing:
being abused by a man and later realizing you are a lesbian does in no way, shape, or form mean that one caused the other.
your love of women did not cause him to hurt you.
him hurting you did not cause you to love women and not men.
and if anyone tells you otherwise, that’s toxic to both abuse victims and lgbtq+

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dragon age: inquisition  josephine montilyet/ayla lavellan

she says that people stare, cause we look so good together

It only just hit me that Prompto spent twice as long waiting for Noct to return from the crystal as he did actually being his friend while he was around.

If I never knew you I wonder how lonely this night would be, how I wouldn’t be here laying awake while my life sleeps so lightly so close to me. So little has passed but I still wished there was a way for me to meet you again. I wish I could meet you sooner; seconds, minutes, hours, days, years, loves, sorrows, heartbreaks sooner. I wish I could go to your door and send you a note so you would know to wait for me. That your sweet smile would stay the same through every hardship. That after every day, in the end I would be here. I would always be here.

Ahhh I’ve grown to love these two much more than when I first started watching/ reading BNHA. Ok I liked Aizawa a lot more than I wanted to admit even before this
And I know how some of my followers love them as well, so this is a thank you!

I’ve been on a long hiatus until last New Years Eve and so gaining 100 followers and fellow BNHA - fans in the span of a little over a month really moved me. ♥

a PSA for artists

i’ve been thinking about this a lot. it’s something i wish i learned much sooner. it’s something i wish more people knew.

the idea that art has to be any one way is wrong.

your art does not have to be realistic, or look like anyone else’s, or keep up with popular trends.

the idea that you have to be able to draw realism to be a good artist? wrong.

you don’t. you already are a good artist.

everyone has their own style. it’s fine and normal to adopt style choices from other artists, but everyone has their own style, there is no changing that.

and why would you change it?

your style is what makes your art YOURS. it is unique. it is perfect in it’s own way, because it is perfect in it’s style.

draw something. now look at it. you just created something new. a visible projection of your thoughts. something nobody has seen yet, not in the way you present it. isn’t that amazing?

you are so powerful. you can create your own characters, worlds, stories- you can give and take lives and control all that happens in your own universe, through your own beautiful style. that’s incredible!

there is no such thing as bad art. those “bad art”/”bad oc” blogs mean nothing. they are bitter, worthless beings with the intention to hurt you. please don’t fall into their trap.

“okay, so i don’t have to draw realistically, now what?”

you practice!

get to know your style. familiarize yourself with the shapes and lines. just keep drawing the way you do, maybe making small improvements every now and then. but remember, improvements are just what you think looks better.

nobody can tell you how to make art. nobody can tell you your art is bad, because it isn’t. it’s simply different, and that’s the way it should be.

keep going, okay? it’s amazing to watch people follow their passions, and it crushes me to see them beat down for superficial things.

(note: this does not mean you can be offensive with your art! try not to do that)

#DearMe,

it’s ok to give yourself a break when you feel like a failure and not be so hard on yourself for everything you think you should be but aren’t.

Perfection doesn’t exist. You do.

And you are amazing.