sometimes i dont even try


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the worst kind of cultural differences are polite kissing differences…. they make everything awkward… 

when you kiss with one cheek but they’re european so they go for the double kiss and you leave them hanging awkwardly… when they’re from somewhere that does three kisses and it’S FUCKING WEIRD WHY THREE, when they’re from somewhere in i think northern south america? where they actually put their lips on your cheek and you’re left feeling gross like why did u do that that’s wet and disgusting… when they’re from somewhere where they don’t kiss at all and you go for it and they kinda jump back and it’s awkward af….the worst…

anonymous asked:

hi! i was just thinking about that 'why do people humanize sebastian' thing the other day and basically my conclusion was that it's near impossible not to? since we, as humans, cant possibly fully understand what it would actually mean to be a demon that feels types of "emotions" that are not available to us (i know not everyone is neurotypical but they also aint demons), so its the kind of concept our minds cant really grasp (1/2)

and then just going ‘oh he’s a demon so he doesnt really fell stuff mmkay?’ would end up being a very dull way of portraying an interesting character. and even with what yana tweets sometimes i dont think shes actively trying to make us not humanize him either hehe.

REPONSE: Yes! I would definitely agree, trying to imagine a life without emotions is the equivalent of trying to imagine what new colour could look like or how big the universe is. Even the most emotionally stunted of us feel something, we just… can’t comprehend that kind of thing, it’s far too distant from our perception of everything.

However, that makes Sebastian all the more scary. I’m sure it’s a dilemma that Ciel experiences himself, he is only human and no matter how demonic Sebastian is he’s going to direct some amount of undeserved humanity towards him - especially since he’s a child.

Then, in moments such as CH95, he’s given a cruel reminder of Sebastian’s true heartless nature.

It really is difficult for most of us to make a comparison. You can say “he sees humans as grasshoppers” and it makes sense, but even in that situation I’d have to consider the fact that hurting insects is upsetting to me. Poor grasshoppers! It’s very hard to understand how Sebastian sees the world.

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Do you ever just receive a message and it just makes you feel so gross and icky and you want to rant but you want to be constructive but you just can’t find the words?

That’s me right now. 

I don’t know what to say other than creating hate blogs is not ok. Feeling entitled to treat others like shit because you ship different things is not ok. Perpetuating this dumb shipping rivalry between RinHaru and MakoHaru is not ok. 

I wrote a long rant about shipping before hand but I feel the need to repeat myself. 

It’s just, I don’t understand how some people can believe they’re being well-meaning  and supportive yet continue to just perpetuate the hate.

Idk where I’m going with this. Just please be kind to each other. 

-admin gay sama

anonymous asked:

Do you ever worry that when you're making friends that it'll be only temporary? Like you'll only be friends with them for a certain amount of time, but then one day they'll just stop being friends talking to you for whatever reason? I find that whenever I make friends I sort of have trust issues because I feel like that one day we'll just stop being friends, and I've trusted this person for nothing. I know that you can say that you don't know what's going to happen in the future, but how do (½)

How do you deal with just not worrying about that? 2/2

i feel this.. its ,,hard to deal with and sometimes i even try to ruin friendships so i dont have to anxiously wait for the Day it ends anyways with them just leaving ,,,,i dont know either how to not worry about it rip

Honestly ya’ll changing your URL’s like every week stresses me out lol 

anonymous asked:

I don't know how to compliment you without you brushing it off or getting upset by it judging by all those anon's so this is a compliment

i dont brush off compliments. i brush off what my followers ASSUME is a compliment for example

“youre so hot for a transgender”

like thats just rude as hell you dont need to include “for a transgender” or “trans guy” or even sometimes “tranny” when trying to compliment me i dont need to be reminded im transgender like i fucking know im transgender and i know a lot of people are uneducated on what being transgender is and struggles within being transgender but i mean just leave it as “youre so hot” and yea i wont answer it all the time but id probably publicly embarrass you if it was off anon and you sent me “youre hot for a transgender” because im embarrassed being trans that i have to deal with being humiliated in person 24/7 because someone always has to point out that im trans and i have to look at peoples faces when theyre first told about it and let me tell you, it isnt always a good reaction