someone you really love

anonymous asked:

How do you know if you really love someone? Or if someone really loves you?

Love is someone’s best kept secret and the best tool you could ever use is the belief and instinct that if it’s love you have then you just have to grab hold of it, you don’t have to label it if it’s real or not, you have to actually feel it without seeing it. But for me… It’s when you wake up and they are the first thing that comes into your mind and you search for your phone looking to check if they’ve texted or called you while you we’re asleep. And when you go to bed, you fall asleep thinking about them, with their voice or their laugh playing at the back of your mind. When you miss them, even though it hasn’t been a couple of hours since you’ve talked to them. But most importantly, when you put their needs before your own. When their happiness is more important than your pain. When you feel frustrated when they don’t feel ok and you just want them to know you’re with them, like giving them a hug or a kiss or just telling them that things will get better. When you wanted them t know that you’ll always be there during their ugly days. When you really love someone you’re willing to give it your all, and when you feel all those emotions for someone. When you look past their mistakes. When you give so much effort and commitment for someone despite the distance, age, even to look beyond the physical things and their overall flaws as a human being, then that’s when you’ll know.

I was thinking about Doukyuusei recently, and I realized one thing - if the second season of Yuri on Ice will feature a more explicit kiss then I’d want it to look something like this:

It’s explicit without being lewd, it’s intimate without being sexual, it’s soft and gentle without being overdone.

It’s actually all I’d possibly want from a kiss in an anime (and a kiss between Yuuri and Victor especially).

Personally, I don’t think we need a more explicit kiss, but if we would get one then I’d like it to either be a casual kiss on the cheek/forehead (the way most couples share them) or something like the one you see above. I think that would be a good way of keeping it clear and romantic without making it self-indulgent.

And if Yuuri would be the one to initiate the kiss, that would make it absolutely perfect.

so much sapphic positivity is focused on relationships, but not all of us have that in our lives, so here’s to the single sapphics. whether you’re pining after a certain girl, or don’t have anyone in your life. whether you desperately want a relationship, feel neutral towards romance, or are loving being single. you are sapphic no matter what and your relationship status does not define you. you are going to be okay

There’s a difference between missing someone and missing having someone.
—  you don’t miss me, you’re just lonely // a.s.m
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Wait guys are you really seeing “i love all of you” as castiel trying to cover up the first i love you? That wasn’t a cover up, that was a confession. Let me explain.

Cas says “i love you” and looks down(that is the only time he looks down, except when he’s thinking of what to say), camera cuts to dean and dean is.. a bit annoyed by it?? Because he knows where this is going. Cas loves them and he’s dying and dean is tired of all this saying goodbye crap. He’ glad he hears these words, but why are they always said in situations like these?

bUT THEN MY FRIENDS, cas says “i love all of you.” Camera once again cuts to dean, but this time dean doesn’t move a muscle. There is no need to say it twice, unless you’re one of these two idiots can’t confess their love without getting family in it. But they do say it one way or the other. He realises this is how he said that to cas and now he knows the first “i love you” was only for him. (May i add, i don’t think anybody ever said to cas they loved him except dean and dean said it this way. I might be wrong but..) It honestly looks like he’s caught off guard, he thought the L train has passed(tf am i even saying, but you get the point). And guess what, sam notices too. He’s heartbroken because his best friend is dying,obviously, but he knows cas loves them, he knows cas is family. He also knows what dean means to cas, and cas to dean. He’s spent too much time with them not to know.

Idk, to me it seemed deeper and more honest than cas just hiding love for dean in his last moments. They all already know so what’s the point. I also think this was a response (a very ironic one), to “we need you. I need you.”

When all your friends are posting pics with their significant other for Valentine’s Day but you’re still single

you know how sometimes you’re having a bad day or an okay day but then someone does something nice for you and you just smile for a long time?? i want to be someone who makes other smile like that

Ok, I’m officially sick of it.

I reblog one finnrey thing and I’m already being told that I “don’t have the right to do that because I am a reylo”

Who the hell do you think you are? You’re going to tell me what I am “allowed” to put on MY blog?

I used to actually ship both reylo and finnrey but now I only ship reylo purely because of the hateful finnrey shippers.

Listen, I am a grown-ass woman who is too busy, too tired, and too physically ill to receive complaints from whiny 14 year olds who think one year of high school gives them all the experience and emotional maturity the world can give, and all because I want two FICTIONAL characters to be together.

I’m getting really sick of it. Get a life. Get a hobby. (Yelling at adults in the computer for fictional character preferences cannot be healthy in the long term)

Small reminder that I love u n believe in u n want u all to know I am proud of u and all ur efforts kissy kissy hug hug good vibes gn✨

I’m alone
i’m unwanted
i’m undesired
i’m worthless
i’m a burden
i’m a freak
i’m an anomaly
i’m the problem

“you’re not alone. you are loved. I’ll always be here for you”