someone in this situation is lying

Why does Mon El get so much shit from the fans?

Apart from lying to Kara about who he was (which isn’t surprising considering how she reacted to Daxomites in the first place) I have no idea why the whole Fandom keeps saying Mon El is a bad guy. Can someone explain it to me cause since really don’t get it.

The biggest complaint seems to be that a) He’s somehow abusive towards Kara and b) he’s just not a good person.

For the first one, that’s absolutely ridiculous. Yes he doesn’t always support or like Kara throwing herself into dangerous situations but how does that make him abusive? He doesn’t want her to die and he worries about her. Also he’s coming from a place where he’s not trying to stop her because he wants her to be weak, he just wants her safe. Maybe he’s doing it the wrong way but can you blame him?

Secondly him not wanting to be a superhero/not being good at being a superhero. Um…..why does this make him a bad guy? If I had a superpower I would 100% never use my powers to be a superhero. Fuck that. When he first arrived he didn’t want to risk his life to fight for humans or protect people he didn’t care about and that completely makes sense. Why is his desire not to be a hero something that makes him bad? That’s stupid and it was ridiculous when Kara called him out. The expectation that he should suddenly dedicate his life to protecting earth with no compensation just because it’s “good” is total madness. He has every right to want to do whatever he wants with his life without being painted as a bad guy.

But fuck it, he changed his mind all of a sudden and now he’s a hero and whatever. He’s trying to learn how to be hero and how to be more supportive of Kara without worrying about her…..why is he a bad guy? What is he doing that I’m missing that makes him such a terrible person? Is it his sense of humour? Cause I’m not seeing it and I genuinely want to understand the hate.

The Rising Signs

What is it?

Your Rising, also known as Ascendant, is one of the most personal to you. This is the sign that changes the most, as it will go through all twelve signs within the 24 hours of a day. 

Where is it? What does it control?

It marks the beginning of your 1st house, the house of self, and also dictates your chart’s ruling planet. This is different from your dominant planet, as your ruling planet is the one lying behind every aspect of your chart, whereas your dominant planet is the one taking charge of it all. For example, someone with Virgo Rising will have Mercury as their chart ruler as this is the planet which rules Virgo. Mercury signifies communication, work ethic, and speech. Someone with Mercury as their chart ruler may find it easier to explain themselves, or push themselves in work based situations. Obviously, this is not always strictly true as other areas of the chart may affect this. In this example, having Pluto - a planet of renewal and rebirth - in the 10th house - the house of work - may sway the Mercury ruler to be less able to push and stay driven in work based situations.

What does it show within me?

The Rising sign is like a public front. It can be regarded as the more personal version of your Sun sign, but it is in itself unique and important. It is what your friends see in you, it is what you put across within a group. It underpins you at parties, you chatting to your friend, or you answering a question in class.

How does it work with other placements?

It can often work alongside your Sun, or show how you may act in different situations. For example, you usually appear as your Rising, but then will appear like your Venus around your crush. For example, Leo Rising and Capricorn Venus. Leo Rising will usually appear loud, bold, magnetic, but with Capricorn Venus would switch to quiet, polite and a little bit mysterious around your crush. So, the Rising sign can often show your basic set aura or way of being (like the Sun sign).

Can it say something about what I look like?

It can! However, what you look like and your fashion sense also relies on other parts of your chart, namely: planets in the 1st house, venus, house of your venus, dominant sign and dominant planet. Your Rising can, however, depict what type of colours you like to wear, or maybe what kind of look or facial expression you seem to give off. 

Aries Rising is bold, impulsive, and a fun lover. The young nature of Aries is seen, and this person always seems to be looking to be positive and exciting. They appear to lead an adventurous life, always laughing with their friends and saying what they think. This person is loud, and somewhat flamboyant. Aries Rising prefers rouges, and dark nature colours, and seem to reflect wanderlust and questioning in their eyes. Famous Aries Risings: Rihanna, Shakira, Heath Ledger, James Dean

Taurus Rising is stubborn, well spoken and fashionable. They seem to like what’s good in life, whether it be food or a fancy new watch. They aren’t particularly extroverted, but will say what they think. Taurus Rising appear very composed, and true to their Earthy nature, somewhat business like. They may come across as being work or career oriented, and as rather intellectual. These people love to love things, true to their Venusian Rising, and will definitely have something in life they are proud of, often of a materialistic value. Famous Taurus Risings: Martin Luther King, Lana Del Rey, Salam Khan, Halle Berry

Gemini Rising is laid-back, sociable, fun. The airy nature of Gemini makes them appear detached and care-free, and whilst they are, they are also children of Mercury and thus house a more calculating side. These people are very chatty and extroverted, and seemingly get along with everyone. They seem very good at holding interesting conversations and including anyone in them. They often wish to talk about unique things, rather than the usual small talk, but are more than willing to do that too. They often have an array of hobbies, all of which they seem very good at, as Gemini Rising can be avid learners. Famous Gemini Risings: Amy Winehouse, Kristen Stewart, Mick Jagger, JK Rowling

Cancer Rising is nurturing, empathetic, and well mannered. They can often seem to put emotions and emotional ties at the forefront of their manner and beliefs. They seem to play a parental role in their friend groups, and always take others under their wing. They are the children in the playground who invite you to play with them if you look alone, or show you around the classroom on your first day. Their understanding of emotions and feelings can often make them well mannered. They try to remain polite and loving, as this is how they want others to be, but aren’t afraid to slide their Rising to one side and unleash their inner Mars side if you upset their friends and family. Famous Cancer Risings: Angelina Jolie, Albert Einstein, the 14th Dalai Lama, Tyra Banks

Leo Rising is bold, extravagant, popular. These are the people you think have it all. They come across as very confident and sure of themselves, and their energy can often rub off on you when you’re around them. They appear as a glowing light in a room, and often like to remain in a happy state. Although, due to their nature, drama can follow them anywhere and try to wreck their positive ambition. Leo Risings may seem to exaggerate a lot, as it is true they are rather dramatic, but this just makes them excellent story tellers. Their attitude and bold ways can often feel magnetic, and cause many to gravitate towards them as they appear to individual and unique. Famous Leo Risings: Marilyn Monroe, Justin Timberlake, Selena Gomez, Freddie Mercury

Virgo Rising is quiet, analytical, observant. Whilst they are not afraid to share an opinion or add to a conversation, they do sometimes prefer to just watch and listen. They seem overly composed and a little mysterious to others, as well as intellectual and calculating. They make it seem as though every moment and word has been planned and practised. Virgo Risings, however, are more ambiverted than their fellow feminine signs as they are Mercury ruled. This makes them good conversationalists, and with their observant nature, they often have interesting and thoughtful comments to make on things. Whilst they don’t feel the need to be the centre of attention, or lead a group discussion, around their friends they are more than happy to let their quiet nature take a step back, and get involved in debates or conversations. Famous Virgo Risings: Madonna, Kurt Cobain, Emma Watson, Jay Z

Libra Rising is charming, flirtatious and a people pleaser. They like to keep a peaceful exterior, and be on good terms with people. Being a Venusian Rising, it can appear to people that they are flirting, or being incredibly charming, when they may not be doing so deliberately. It’s common for people with this placement to enjoy being friendly with many people, and avoid hateful people as this doesn’t keep in with their need for positive surroundings. Libra Risings may be less likely to share an opinion they have that they deem controversial as they like to avoid conflicts, or they are more likely to pad it out with words and phrases that will avoid hurting others. However, these people are likely to talk about making differences and changes in the world, as they are very concerned with peace and well being. Famous Libra Risings: Leonardo DiCaprio, Beyonce, Britney Spears, Harry Styles

Scorpio Rising is mysterious, calculating and deep. They are the people who seem to have a lot on their mind and in their hearts. They care deeply for those in their circles, and whilst they may not let you in fast, once you are in, they become quite protective. Like Cancer Rising, they can often want to bring people under their wing, but the difference being they only do this once they believe they can trust you. They often have profound things to add to conversations, and notice the little things in anything, due to their investigative ways. Scorpio is a sign that may find it harder to trust people, so this Rising may often choose to remain a little distant in groups they are not 100% familiar with. Famous Scorpio Risings: Hillary Clinton, Justin Bieber, Katy Perry, Robin Williams

Sagittarius Rising is comedic, expansive and bold. They don’t ever seem to have a care in the world, and don’t seem to know restrictions. The chart ruler of these people is Jupiter and it shows in their happy-go-lucky and ambitious ways. They are often the class clown or joker of their friends, but also the one willing to argue and debate. They often have hobbies they know a lot about, and are knowledgeable about worldly and political issues. This can often be a surprise to others, as the comedic positive face turns sharp-tongued and domineering when faced with an argument or debate. Sagittarius Risings are also fine with making fools of themselves and facing embarrassment, as to them these are just more life experiences. These people are bold and adventurous, and this can often draw many to them as their nature is so unique and sometimes hard to understand due to this. Famous Sagittarius Risings: Brad Pitt, Scarlett Johansson, Oprah Winfrey, Bruce Lee

Capricorn Rising is reserved, calculating and orderly. In their Earthy nature, they appear calm and collected, as well as quite businesslike. These people may not always be the leaders of a conversation, as they are not overly extroverted, but they are still present and often add value food for thought to a discussion. They seem to process things very logically, and give advice from an objective place. Again, like their Earthy counterparts, they can see work oriented, but this is due to their ambitious and high-flying nature. This, to some, can make them seem competitive and superior, but Capricorn Risings don’t necessarily feel that themselves. They don’t answer questions in class, or tell you if you’re wrong to spite you, it’s just that they’re honest and objective. Why would they let you live a lie? Famous Capricorn Risings: Taylor Swift, Megan Fox, Ariana Grande, Lorde

Aquarius Rising is eccentric, individual, and characteristic. They are bored by normal, average things and are drawn to people or hobbies with something special about them. They’re good at keeping interesting conversation, and make people question what they thought they knew. Aquarius Rising doesn’t want to blend into the crowd and let others opinions wash over them, so they always speak their mind, or play devil’s advocate. They’ll be the one to question things or other another view if they feel things are very one-sided. Speaking out for themselves and others, they aren’t afraid to stand up. They may ask questions on the behalf of others, or call people out for behaviour they don’t agree with. Famous Aquarius Risings: Barack Obama, David Bowie, Nicki Minaj, Audrey Hepburn

Pisces Rising is sweet, sympathetic, and naive. These people like to put emotions into everything, rather than look at them logically. They often try to see how others feel or look at things, but may not ever truly understand, although this is something they try desperately to do. Like Libra Risings, they do enjoy keeping peace and thus try their best to be polite, but like Leo Risings, drama can often follow them due to their ethereal sweetness. Pisces Rising, whilst usually preferring to remain like an agony aunt or a helpful servant, can also be quite chaotic itself. These people can let the emotions they put into a situation get the best of them, and this can cause them to be petty or more gossipy than their usual positive selves. Famous Pisces Risings: Michael Jackson, George Clooney, Demi Moore, Whitney Houston

What Makes The Signs Uncomfortable:
  • Aries: changing plans last minute
  • Taurus: changing daily routines
  • Gemini: long silences
  • Cancer: peer pressure
  • Leo: being the third wheel
  • Virgo: unsupervised children
  • Libra: defending someone
  • Scorpio: personal questions
  • Sagittarius: lying to be nice
  • Capricorn: ditched at a party
  • Aquarius: radical conservatives
  • Pisces: authoritive adults (*is an adult*)
LDR Bad Words
  • (Kinda based off of a situation... 🙈)
  • Little: (on video call) F**k. F**k. Mommmyyyy f**k.
  • Mommy: What was that?
  • Little: N-nothing.
  • Mommy: (in stern voice) Little girl... I better have not heard a bad word come through those pretty lips of yours.
  • Little: Um... I said nothing mommy...
  • Mommy: Are you lying to me little girl?
  • Little: Uh.. maybe?
  • Mommy: Nose in the corner. 10 minutes missy. You will put me someone where I can see you.
  • Little: *sighs* Yes mommy.
Hospital AU

So this is a Percy Jackson AU head canon that I had in which they are all mortal and Percy and Annabeth went to school together when younger but never really talked.

  • Percy Jackson is walking down the street, going home.
  • He is listening to his headphones as he hears a scream so loud it overrides his music.
  • Wondering what it is he takes off his headphones and jogs towards the area from where he heard the scream.
  • He looks around and then sees someone running off from a girl who’s lying on the floor.
  • He gets closer and notices she is badly injured and heavily bleeding from her leg.
  • With a jolt he recognises her as Annabeth, an old friend from high school.
  • It is clear Annabeth was mugged and in the process of fighting back she got stabbed in the leg.
  • Members of the general public flock to the scene.
  • “Okay, everyone, stay calm,” Percy yells, taking charge of the situation.
  • He checks for dangers and decides it’s okay to approach. 
  • He checks for a response - “Hello, Annabeth,” he waves his hand above her eyes. "Can you hear me?” She nods weakly.
  • Slowly she loses consciousness.
  • “Okay,” Percy says, addressing a member of the public. “Call 911 and ask for an ambulance. She’s lost a lot of blood from a leg stab wound.”
  • Next he takes off his T-shirt and wraps it tightly around Annabeth’s leg wound. 
  • He checks her airways and ensures her breathing is okay, which it is.
  • Finally, he checks her circulation which is also okay, although she is losing a lot of blood.
  • With the T-shirt tightly wrapped around her leg, it is staunching some of the blood loss, but not enough.
  • All the while, Percy’s desperately trying to stay calm because he knows he needs to.
  • Finally, the ambulance arrives. The paramedics quickly deal with her and soon enough she is on her way to the hospital. 
  • Percy sighs in relief when it’s over. 
  • He searches his memory for stuff remembers about Annabeth.
  • He remembers that she is super clever, loves architecture and weirdly enough he remembers that she loves the flowers Azaleas.

*four days later*

  • Percy is in the reception of the hospital where he found out Annabeth was taken to.
  • He is holding a bunch of Azaleas and a card.
  • “Are you a friend or family?” the kind receptionist asks when he asks to see her.
  • “Uh, friend…”
  • He waits half an hour before being admitted through to go visit her.
  • She is unconscious but he feels like speaking because its awkward otherwise.
  • “Uh, I, brought you some flowers and a card – just wanted to check that you were all right.” He smiles, leaving the flowers and card by the bed and then walks towards the door.
  • “W-wait,” a weak voice calls.
  • Percy turns around and notices Annabeth is awake.
  • He smiles widely, “Oh, hey, uh, I just came to see how you were doing, after the…”
  • Annabeth smiles. “Yeah, thanks. They told me I would be in a pretty bad condition if not for you. So thank you.” She meets his eyes.
  • “I haven’t seen you in a while,” she comments. “How have you been?” 
  • “I’ve been good,” says Percy, smiling. “My mom’s fine, I’m fine. But how about you? How’s the leg?” 
  • “Much better, thanks. Can’t walk for another week at least though, the doctor said.” She sighs, slumping into her bed, and looking at the flowers.
  • “Ooh, these flowers are lovely! These are my favourite, how did you know?” Annabeth looks at him.
  • “Uh, lucky guess…?” Percy scratches his head.
  • “Thank you very much,” Annabeth gushes, glowing. “I can put them on my desk at my architecture firm.” 
  • Somehow Percy isn’t surprised she’s achieving her architecture dream.
  • She opens the card, softly and neatly opening it so she doesn’t rip it.
  • Dear Annabeth,

          Just wanted to say that I hope you get better soon,

          Love from,


  • “Thank you Percy,” Annabeth says, “I really appreciate you coming here.”
  • Percy nods. “I guess it gets pretty lonely here, huh?”
  • “And boring. Nothing to do all day, other than chat to the nurse. Had a few visitors, although none of them saved my life.” Her eyes pierce his and he realises how beautiful they are.
  • “Least I could do,” Percy mutters, blushing.
  • They stay there in silence for a bit, Percy looking around the room (but mostly at his shoes) and Annabeth at Percy.
  • The nurse pops her head through the door, “Sorry, I’ve got another visitor for you honey,” she says gently.
  • “Oh, yeah, sorry to keep you Annabeth, I’d best be going,” Percy mumbles as he leaves.
  • “No problem, nice meeting you again!” She smiles as he agrees under his breath and leaves the hospital in a flurry as he realises he is late for his mum. “I hope I’ll see you soon,” she calls out shyly as he leaves. 
  • He grins at that.
  • He visits every day and checks up on her until she’s released. Every time he brings a bouquet of her favourite flowers.
  • Percy wonders why they didn’t stay in touch after they left school.
  • He knows he’s not going to make the same mistake again.

*five years later*

  • Percy stands in the waiting room of the hospital again, pacing up and down, anxious as he waits in the queue to see the receptionist.
  • He is holding a bouquet of Azaleas.
  • “Are you a friend or family?” the familiar face of the receptionist asks when he asks to see her.
  • “Family,” he says firmly.
  • Then he walks in to see his wife and his new child.
[AU] the “year” between their first meeting and their reunion

ETA: I’ve been (thankfully) notified that my timeline of events is way off so this is 100% inaccurate. However, it makes for a lovely AU (because who doesn’t like pining!Victor amirite) so I’ll leave it up. Just keep in mind that this does not follow the canon timeline. At all. Thanks, @nika11ama, for clarifying things for me!

I kept asking myself why, if they’d previously met (at the Banquet) and Victor had really fallen in love with Yuuri that day, had he treated him that way in this scene? How could he  be so nonchalant in that situation? It didn’t make sense.

But what if Victor had spent the entire year lying to himself? Telling himself over and over that he couldn’t possibly have fallen in love with someone after only a day? Forcing himself not think about Yuuri or web-stalk him. Chastising himself every time he caught himself remembering their dance or, worse, pining. 

So a year passes and he thinks he’s golden, thinks that time has finally done its job and eroded his little “crush.” And then he sees Yuuri again and tries to treat him like he pretty much treats everyone else, only it completely backfires on him.

He watches him walk away and tries to convince himself everything’s fine. That he’s fine. That he doesn’t care. And yet he can’t bring himself to tear his eyes away from Yuuri’s back even after the other man is long gone. 

And it’s like a floodgate opens. Every wall he built over the past year to keep himself from obsessing over Yuuri collapses and he finds himself incapable of not thinking about him.

And then he sees The Video™…

…and every lie he’s ever made to himself just turns to dust. His defenses are down. He can’t fight it anymore. He doesn’t want to fight it anymore. He’s in love. Has been in love since since the day they met, and maybe it doesn’t make sense but he’s reached a point where he just doesn’t care anymore. He’s going after what he wants, and what he wants is Yuuri. 

So when an opportunity presents itself he seizes it and flies to Japan without a second thought or a backwards glance. He’s wasted enough time and has no patience left. 

See, he made a promise the first day they met, though not with anything as obvious or empty as words. Yuuri seduced him, and Victor fell, hard, and the traitorous little organ in his chest promised itself to Yuuri without him realizing. It took him an entire year to. 

And that’s why Victor, who’s notorious for never remembering–and therefore keeping–the promises he makes, remembers Yuuri’s request an entire year after he made it. 

The heart doesn’t forget. 

Okay I wrote this in the tags of someone’s post but I’m gonna spell it out here because I’m not sure if people actually read my tags:

The Irene text was done on purpose by Sherlock. The whole episode was Sherlock using his knowledge of John to manipulate a situation where he could bring him back and save him from what he was going through. Sherlock knew exactly when John would be leaving, he timed that text.


Because Sherlock knew it would create the emotional response needed in John for him to come out and say everything he needed to say. It was planned. It gave John the excuse to say those things he needed to say to himself, but within the facade of saying them to Sherlock. We even see John’s subconscious (Mary) call him out on that fact. That led to John admitting out loud what was really upsetting him. The cheating. Not feeling like he was good enough. Wanting something more. This was Sherlock’s final step in saving John Watson.


You woke up lying next to someone, spooning to be exact. As you turn over you notice that it’s Dave who’s holding you in his arms. You shake him a little to wake him up. When his eyelids are fully open he smiles. 

“Morning.”he says while looking at you.

“Dave what happened last night?” You asked ashamed of your situation, you have never had a one night stand and you definitely didn’t expect to have one with Dave the most popular guy on campus.

“Well y/n, I think it’s pretty obvious what happened last night.” He sits up smirking down at you.

“Yeah but why, I can’t remember anything.” You exclaimed feeling embarrassed.

“You like me, I like you. It’s really not that complicated.” He laughed.

After he stopped laughing he looked deep into your eyes. Slowly he leaned in pressing his lips on yours. The kiss was gentle and sweet at first but soon turned into a fiery and passionate make-out session. Your tongues were fighting for dominance however his soon won. Moaning into the kiss your arms found their way around his neck pulling him closer to you. However before anything could happen Dave pulled away.

“y/n as much as i want this right now, i would rather take you out on an actual date.” He said tracing his lips.

“You mean this is not a one night stand.” You asked him mildly shocked. he sighed looking down then back at you again.

“Iv’e liked you for some time now and I would really enjoy it if you would go out with me.” He said while laughing slightly nervously.

“YES, OF COURSE” You exclaimed while wrapping your arms around his neck again, while he wrapped his around your waist.

After a few minutes you both got up out of bed and went downstairs to make yourselves breakfast.

“Person A tries to find some inspiration for a Still Life project for art class. They sit on couch after they think they can’t find any inspiration. Person A then notices Person B, lying prone and asleep on the couch across from Person A. This gives Person A the inspiration needed and they start sketching Person B. They get closer to Person B to sketch out the little details, and slowly realize how cute Person B is. Person B wakes up from their nap, only to see someone looking a them, with Person A realizing how awkward the situation is now that Person B isn’t asleep” AU

- (@fairy-isle)

Love Advice For The Venus Signs
  • Aries: It's okay to fall hard but remember that you're enough with or without someone else. Get some perspective on your current situation before making any big decisions
  • Taurus: Make sure the person you invest all your time and trust in will give you the relationship you deserve. You're much better off without people who are going to only be there when it's convenient for them
  • Gemini: Avoid routine and the mundane in your love life. You are too bright to be wasted on someone who feeds off the light of others and creates none of their own
  • Cancer: If you think someone is lying to you, trust your instincts. You have every right to walk away from someone who hurts you and never look back. Your sensitivity is a good thing, don't lose or bury it
  • Leo: Your partner is not the sun, so don't make them the center of your universe. Allow imperfection and give as much as you take
  • Virgo: Take as much time as you need and if someone pushes you, push back. Be confident in yourself and don't compare yourself to others because it's a disservice to all your good qualities
  • Libra: Don't let people think your love is a right and not a privilege. Nobody is entitled to you, and the moment someone starts acting like they are is the moment you should take your heart somewhere else
  • Scorpio: Your feelings are very real but are never going to be acknowledged if you never talk about them, so tell people how you feel while you can. Not everything is going to be perfect, but you will still be complete no matter what happens
  • Sagittarius: Find someone who challenges you and don't settle for less. Allow yourself to care as much as you want and don't brush off things that could make you happy
  • Capricorn: You act like you have so much to hide but it's okay to open up. When someone says they care about you, believe them and don't dismiss it. You won't always be in control and that's alright
  • Aquarius: It's not your fault they can't always understand you, so keep being proud of who you are. You will fall in love when you find someone who loves you for your mind and grows with you
  • Pisces: In your life, you will encounter some people who don't deserve to be forgiven. Unconditional love is a beautiful thing to give, just make sure you find someone who has it for you in return

“Look, kid, there’s a lot going on here that you don’t understand.”

“Stark said you’d say that.”

Tonky deliberately prevented Peter from hearing out the full context of the situation aka he! manipulated! him! He brought him into the situation completely biased instead of finding someone, a superpowered adult who’d more likely understand his perspective and be willing to fight alongside him without lying and bribing.

And then Tonky has the nerve to turn around and act like a so-called ”mentor” in Homecoming. I mean, we don’t even know if he ever actually explained why they were fighting in the first place which is just more dishonesty towards Peter who deserves a little more fucking credit as a intelligent teenager.

His first interactions with Peter Parker were bribing and manipulating him to fight the battles he created. That is not a good foundation for a mentor relationship much less a father-son relationship like fucking yikes.

Toto Stunk can choke okay.


I’m sure you expect me to feel slighted, to cut you off in anger and give you an easy out from a tricky situation. I think I expected that from me, too. And yet…

I don’t know how much easier I can make this for you.

Everyone else you had to shock, had to make excuses, or keep lying to. I’m letting you come clean without penalty, without losing this special rapport we have. Kara, for once please let someone else help you.

I can’t change the past, and I know I’ve made the truth a difficult prospect for you before. But aren’t you tempted? Don’t you want simple and honest with someone who might actually understand, for a change?

I chose you for a reason, Kara. To be my assistant, to be my new reporter, to be the person I share these private moments with. You know who I have in my contacts list, and still I offered the exclusive to you. What does that tell you?

Not to mention that my new job will put me back in your orbit. And that word choice is as intentional as everything else I do. You have access no other reporter will be granted, even without my specific request. It’s time to use what makes you special, instead of running from it.

From what I’ve always heard, I suspect you could use an ally in that place. One with more real and less local power. Who would support and promote you, just like I’ve always done in your career.

The offer is there, but I need to be sure about who’s accepting it.

I understand the dangers of putting it in writing. Let me know what alternative you prefer, if you want to finally unburden yourself. I’ll make sure you know where to find me.

I need your help with sources on Donald Trump sex crime accusations and cases, and why some were ended

Basically, a very good friend of mine @itwasapuzzle is getting into it with someone we both know over on twitter, and hes very much in support of Trump, while my friend is trying to bring it his very uninformed attention a bunch of shit trumps been doing.

he used the “send me links or youre lying” card, so we cant really back out of this now without making him look like he’s in the right

can you guys please send links my way that show how bad trump is with all this stuff 

please this is really important to me, its a small thing in the overall situation of this country, but its small battles that turn the tide of war

i’d type more but i have to leave right now, but please

please send links to me or my friend, ill forward whatever i get to them when i can

also things about how trump is not going to help LGBT people would be cool too

all-you-sinners-hum-hallelujah  asked:

Heya Kellie. So, my friend's a really talented artist but she's gotten into this really bad habit of beating herself up over any work that's not the best thing she's ever done. Have you ever been in that situation and do you have any advice on how to get out of it?

I think if you haven’t been in that situation then there would be something wrong with you…  And if someone says they never felt like that before then they are lying to your face haha

Its something that every artist/anybody goes through.  You just have to tell yourself that it will get to where you want to be and focus more on how fun it is to do rather than the results, even though it may seem impossible.  Yeah results are nice, but if you beat yourself up about it and do nothing, then nothing will change.  So yeah I’ve beaten myself up about it many times, but now I see it as just crying like a big baby cause its something I want now rather than not working for it which is a mentality a lot of people have.  So instead of whining about it, I rather try to improve myself than stay in the woe is me state cause thats more tiring than actually trying to improve if you know what I mean. So I think less about that now and more about how fun and expressive art is for me :)  I know that may sound harsh, but thats what stopped me from those negative thoughts, was by calling myself a baby haha.

Autistic Person: (doesn’t talk to people)

Allistic Person: Well, it’s your own fault that you have no friends. You don’t talk to people. And you must be freely choosing not to talk to people, because it’s impossible for someone to not know how to talk to people. Talking to people comes natural to me, so I wildly assume that it comes natural to everyone.

Autistic Person: (talks to someone this one time)

Allistic Person: See? You can talk to people. You have friends. You were lying every time that you said you struggled in social situations. For the next three years, if you say that you struggle in social situations, I will use this one conversation you had as an excuse to deny your experiences.

Number One (Ramsay Bolton x reader imagine), chapter 1

Originally posted by aviateurs

Fandom: Game of Thrones

Chapters: ¼

Warning: None

Summary: Imagine meeting Ramsay in the wood and him helping you

A/N: Do you love Ramsay too? :3 Enjoy beginning of the story!

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anonymous asked:

Do your hormones ever "act up" around girls? Also have you ever heard "you don't want to die a virgin, do you?" Around campus?

Jaune: im pretty sure that phrase is the most commonly repeated thing
Jaune: like
Jaune: every day someone tries that
Jaune: usually in situations that are complETEly contextually irrelevant

Answering a question with a question is not answering at all.

The technical term is “question dodging” and is used by people who want to avoid giving a direct response. Possible reasons could be they don’t know the answer, or the person is being interrogated and does not want to answer. Most politicians use this tactic to avoid lying, so they answer with a question to take control of the situation. 

So, if someone does not want to answer a question, and they have strong convictions about lying, then they will “question dodge”. For example, someone asks, “Are you available?” If the person wants to avoid lying, but also does not want to tell the truth, they might say something like, “Isn’t that what single means?”

See, they really didn’t answer the question. They asked a question, making you think they gave an answer. In fact they tricked you into thinking that they implied a truth which really was just a diversion. Very powerful tactic for one who wants to stay true to his word. 

This has been your Psychology class for the day. 

P.S. Single means that you don’t have a spouse. ;)

Originally posted by teacuphiddles


How is it easy for people to enter someones life, make them feel special, make them feel prioritized, make them feel loved and in a snap just leave?

You don’t know how hard it was to trust again, to let someone enter in my life. I know my life was shitty and I tried my hardest not to make it shittier. And when I was ready for someone, here you came with all the beautiful flowers. I was blinded and did not see you’re destroying my garden.

But here is what I can say, FUCK YOU for making me feel giddy. FUCK YOU for tryna make me fall and left me hanging. FUCK YOU for lying. FUCK YOU for my feelings taken for granted. FUCK YOU for acting like it’s a normal situation and that it is okay for someone to feel this way. FUCK YOU for making my fucked up life more fucked up.