can i just take a second to say that i'm very glad you interpret YD the way you do? cuz i identify with her. i'm in a time of my life that's stressful and very full of work, with little time for socialization. i'm not happy about this, but there's not a lot i can do about it. i could take breaks, but then i'd just have more work later. i usually deal with negative emotions through avoidance and withdrawal. and when i finally express them, someone always gets pissed off at me or hurt or both.