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ADHD ASK GAME

I love those ask games so I made one for us ADHDers.

1. Are you a fast talking hyperactive or a pacing hyperactive?

2. Are you a doodling daydreamer or a window gazing daydreamer?

3. Do you like hand stims, foot stims, or mouth stims the most?

4. Are you a planner person or a phone reminder person?

5. Do you hyperfocus on productive things or irrelevant things?

6. Are you a multitasking ADHDer or an overhwhelmed ADHDer?

7. 504 or IEP?

8. Diagnosed or Self Diagnosed?

9. Are you a 5000 tabs person or blank tab trying to remember why person?

10. Are you a self-hate when rejected or extreme rage when rejected kind of person?

11. Are your family do yoga people, eat clean people, or put down the phone people?

12. Which were you called the most in school: lazy or irresponsible?

13. High stim or Low stim seeker?

14. Comorbid conditions?

15. Which have you been told more often: meds are cheating or meds are street drugs?

16. Not social to mask symptoms or overcompensating to mask symptoms?

17. Reading hyperfocus or reading impossible?

18. Do you parents believe it exists?

19. Diagnosed late or early?

20. Ever wonder how much of you is your personality and how much is ADHD?

anonymous asked:

Why are te and fe doms prone to using personas? How can one drop the persona and be their genuine self?

I’ve decided to devote a full article to this subject, so I’m working on it. It’s half done and a bit rough at the moment, but the main points are there to answer your question. I should finish it within the next week or two and I’ll let everyone know when it’s done. You can find what I’ve done so far here if you are eager for info:

http://mbti-notes.tumblr.com/persona

Aquarius Sun- Independent, quirky, and communicative personality. Will always stand out somehow. Individualism and ego are connected. Detachment is seen through inconsistent behavior, physical independence, and scattered communication.

Aquarius Moon- Intellectually driven, emotionally detached, thinks differently than others, desires acceptance, belonging, and freedom to express. Detachment is shown by not getting too intimate with others, intellectual conversations, lack of sentiment, and possible lack of affection or reassurance. 

Aquarius Rising- Quirky, social, and sometimes rebellious mask.

Libra - Secret Soul Contracts 

In the material realm Libra is the figure of beauty and grace, tip toeing around conflict to breathe the air of harmony. But Libra wears many masks, her social mask is assured and contained, she remarks on pleasure and appreciations, and there is a force inside that dissolves her masks. Venus is the ruler of Libra, she is the lover, the temptress, the artist. Saturn exalts in Libra, and Saturn associates with authority, government, and regulation. She is forced to stand before the laws of karma fearing great reprimand. For it is Libra who must establish law and morality for Saturn, so Capricorn can concrete this into societal values and constitutions. Libra who must prime Saturn’s rings, which represent the laws of karma, negotiating the forces of love, intuition, intellect, and justice. It is Libra who is constantly berated for indecisiveness, but their internal experience is more severe. Libra must decide what is right, what is wrong, and what is fair. The superficial impartialness helps them gather countless records, experiences, and points of view that can be streamlined seamlessly, prepared for the strict rationale of Saturn. Libra is an air sign, and tremendous intellect is required to exercise this duty. Bound by the soul and spirit, the Libra answers to a formidable internal force. Two feathers must balance in perfect symmetry on Saturn’s rings, and nothing less than righteous will be accepted.

-C.

You are loved (Bruce X Reader)

Summary: Reader comes home, emotionally overwhelmed to find the boys fighting and lets out a flood of emotion that only Bruce can calm
Pairing: Bruce x Reader
Word Count: 2267
SFW 
Warnings: childhood abuse, angst but later fluffy.

This was requested by @cas-backwards-tie #batmoms4life! 

And proofread by the lovely @cattwomannn and @thatchtheawesomecook. I’m tagging @mydesigninglife in it because I demand she read it :P


No one liked a rough day, least of all Y/N. She was on her way back from visiting her family, and that visit had gone poorly. They were not the nicest bunch of people to her, but she felt obligated to make the effort to see them and visit them. But her family were ungrateful for those visits; they always belittled her and hissed cruel words both to her face and behind her back. Y/N thought she’d escaped the worst of it when she had moved to Gotham to go to university, but their dominion over her had kept pulling her back to them, making her feel like she owed them something.

Luckily, she had a home here in Gotham with her fiance, Bruce Wayne. She hadn’t told her family about him nor their engagement. Y/N knew that the behavior would change and suddenly they would look like the perfect family. It was toxic and she would not allow herself to go down that route. Not to mention, Bruce was Batman. He’d see through the social masks of her family in a second. Even if he may not take action against them, she didn’t want to put Bruce in a position where he needed to bear her burden or defend her. This was her issue, as far as she was concerned.

Y/N drove up the driveway to Wayne Manor. As she parked the car, she rested her head on the steering wheel. Today had taken it’s toll on her patience and happiness. She was socially overwhelmed and just wanted to curl up in bed. It was the first time she hoped Bruce, and Damian for that matter, were on patrol when she got in. Taking a deep shaking breath, Y/N composed herself and stepped out of the car and into the house.

Of course, there was never a dull moment in Wayne Manor, especially when Bruce’s other sons decided to visit. She was met by Jason holding Tim in the air with Dick trying to drag Damian away.

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The Sexual Escapades of the Well-Informed Pureblood, Engaged To The Randy Prat Who Lived - Ch. 1

We made it!  Harry and Draco – our Randy Prat and Innocent Pureblood – have made plans to tie the knot! And @l0vegl0wsinthedark and I want to thank everyone who took that journey with them/us and rooted for the happy ending between them we all hoped for!

So that’s it, right? Engaged=no complications whatsoever?
*cackles *
Well, let’s see:in our very first chapter, Harry and Draco are confronted with something they maybe should have been paying attention to all along, and as this book progresses you’ll find that love doesn’t always make for smooth sailing – although, in the case of the Randy Prat and his now Well-Informed Pureblood Fiance, it usually at least results in some really interesting sex. LOL.

The previous book can be found here: The Sexual Awakening of An Innocent Pureblood, Dating The Randy Prat Who Lived


Content Warnings: Strong sexual content, discussions of mpreg, moment of non-consensual violence (that is addressed).

Chapter One: Well Done, Chosen One:

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Easy-to-Understand houses in planets

House I - talks about your ego and how you project your image to the world. People say this is your social mask but what we present to the world is strongly related with our perceptions of the world and personal values, so don’t take this as fakeness. This is more you than you expect. Is related with the boldness of Aries.

House II - talks about your wealth and resources, surviving and the material world. Also about heritage, or lack of it, and how you will deal with money. Is related with the abundance of Taurus.

House III - talks about communication. How we make boundaries and our relationships - in terms of socializing with people, friends, family. To relate with others we must communicate so this is also about studies and education, basic learning and learning through others. Is related with the discourse of Gemini.

House IV - talks about family. How you deal with emotional stress at home, your relationships with relatives, memories of the past and family traumas. Also talks how you deal with the mother figure of your life. Is related with the caring nature of Cancer.

House V - talks about creation. It can be future projects, work, children, what makes you be who you are through what you do in life, what you build. This is working with passion and impulse of wanting to express and to be seen. Is related with the performer nature of Leo.

House VI - talks about work, professional image and career. It can be your work environment or your dream work, or how you deal with responsibilities and pressure of criticism. While house V is about creating with the heart, house VI is creating with the mind, doing the cruel work of availing and judging with perfectionism. Is related with the sharpness of Virgo.

House VII - talks about love and romantic partnership. What you’re looking for in a romance, what makes you feel attracted, what makes your mind blow and your feelings boil, and how you deal with these passionate emotions. Love usually brings balance to our life, so is also about personal equilibrium. Is related with the seductiveness of Libra.

House VIII - talks about life changes. It is a fatal house of development in life: can be through falling in love, experiencing sex, facing death, going through sickness, getting out of the teenage years and into the adult world, learning through traumas and hardships. Dealing with sudden changes and overcoming them to get the reward. Is related with the intense nature of Scorpio.

House IX - talks about wisdom, moral and ethics, and also your beliefs. It can be about your faith, which religious path you will follow, how you will deal with it. While house III is about knowledge and communicating, IX is about knowledge and reflecting. To learn one must be open to new ideas, so this can also be about traveling to meet new cultures, or going through studies like college and post graduations. Maybe all. Is related with the expansive nature of Sagittarius.

House X - talks about social position. This is about nobility, family pride and social power. Not necessarily about finances, like the house II, or work, like the house VI, but about being in charge of a leadership, or a very important role. Also about your relationship with your father figure, leaders and bosses, and how you deal with authorities and hierarchy. Since all these things are related with “successful” roles, this house also shows how you deal with difficulties and failures in your life. Is related with the ambitious nature of Capricorn.

House XI - talks about your place in society. Unlike house X that looks after power, this house is about what you do of remarkable in your society, in your groups, to make it better - or if you run from it if everything feels overwhelmingly wrong. Is about social development, and how you deal with and solve social problems, and everything that “upgrades” our present and build a better place. Is related with the inventive nature of Aquarius.

House XII - talks about your dreams and unconscious. This is how you imagine things to survive the cruelty of the world. Like the house XI this is a place for upgrades, but while the XI is about the collective, the XII is about the individual. They say what you think becomes real, and in this case is how you deal with your inner hopes and fears, expectations and rancors, and how they influence your life. Also talks about remarkable moments of joy and traumas that unconsciously shapes you, and if you use this to inspire or destroy yourself and others. Also your relation with places where you deal with your shadow self for recovery, karma payment, or escapism: prisons, therapy houses and rehab centers, or online games. If you believe in past life, this is about the karmas you’re paying from them. Is related with the romanticism of Pisces.

Libra - Secret Soul Contracts

In the material realm Libra is the figure of beauty and grace, tip toeing around conflict to breathe the air of harmony. But Libra wears many masks, her social mask is assured and contained, she remarks on pleasure and appreciations, and there is a force inside that dissolves her masks. Venus is the ruler of Libra, she is the lover, the temptress, the artist. Saturn exalts in Libra, and Saturn associates with authority, government, and regulation. She is forced to stand before the laws of karma fearing great reprimand. For it is Libra who must establish law and morality for Saturn, so Capricorn can concrete this into societal values and constitutions. Libra who must prime Saturn’s rings, which represent the laws of karma, negotiating the forces of love, intuition, intellect, and justice. It is Libra who is constantly berated for indecisiveness, but their internal experience is more severe. Libra must decide what is right, what is wrong, and what is fair. The superficial impartialness helps them gather countless records, experiences, and points of view that can be streamlined seamlessly, prepared for the strict rationale of Saturn. Libra is an air sign, and tremendous intellect is required to exercise this duty. Bound by the soul and spirit, the Libra answers to a formidable internal force. Two feathers must balance in perfect symmetry on Saturn’s rings, and nothing less than righteous will be accepted.

-C.

art by Kukula

The Ego, however, is not who you really are. The ego is your social self-image; it is your social mask; it is the role you are playing. Your social mask thrives on approval. It wants control, and it is sustained by power, because it lives in fear.
—  Deepak Chopra

INTPs are naturally known for being cold at first glance but fuzzy when you get to know them. However, it switches around when they develop decent social skills. They appear nice and considerate to the public, but when you scratch the surface, you get glimpses of a very cold and unemotional person. It’s like INTPs feel deep down so uncomfortable with this new layer of social mask, they need to repress all their cold self even though it was originally a wrong impression.

What depression feels like

Depression creeps up on you quietly.
At the very beggining you stuggle with the local things, but you usually just ignore them. It’s like a headache you tell yourself it’s temporary and it will pass. It’s just another bad day, but it’s not. You’re stuck in this state of mind. You get used to putting on a social mask and you continue to live among other people, because that’s what you have to do. That’s what others do. However the problem does not go away. You struggle to put on a blame everyday and it starts to cost you more and more. That is why you fall even deeper and that’s when you slowly start back away from friends and family, sometimes completely shutting them out. Author this faction is gone, little things that used to bring you joy are now worthless. Even the simplest tasks become painful and that is why you lack motivation. Now why would you keep on trying if nothing makes you happy anyway? All of this makes you feel even worse and you get caught up in a vicious circle. Suddenly you find yourself living in slow motion. Days become indistinguishable, just white noise, just heaviness filling your mind and spilling over your body. You feel as though you will never be happy again. You continue to back away and destroy relationships. You are assumed for everything you have done and everything you haven’t. There is a part of you that wanted to make things right. A sudden positive upsurge makes you want to go out and meet people, but it’s all very short-lived because you know it won’t work anyway. Things that make your friend excited that you be different and you become aware of the huge gap that lies between you and another failure. It is not an option. So in the end you choose to be alone in your comfort zone where noone asks any questions. Low self-esteem and the lack of purpuse become unbearable. You finally realise you can’t go on the way and two things can happen. You either was like to get some help or you might attempt a suicide.

Just be yourself, unless yourself is unamused by everyone.

I am so INTJ I can’t even count on my fingers and toes how many times I have fake laughed or smiled only to immediately turn away and return to my expressionless face. 

I did this today on the way to the bathroom, looked in the mirror, and felt nothing. It’s amazing how much of my day is spent wearing a mask.

RP ATTIRE: Ruran Vas

Ruran is most often seen in a suit of armor. Whenever he is out hunting voidsent, exploring ruins, guarding others, or even just expecting the unexpected, he will travel in preparation for the worst.

His armor has served him well over the moons. It has undergone a few upgrades and many repairs, and it has saved his life countless times. He will endure the desert sun if it means one less wound.

When Ruran is not wearing a plated suit, he owns more comfortable outfits for ease of travel, to better bear the heat, or in social situations where the masked knight persona may be a little much. His clothes are practical, not terribly colorful, and still made to endure the elements.

Pieces of armor (pauldrons, greaves, gauntlets) often still play a part in his casual wear. One can never be too careful.

He also owns other masks, but the white one is by far the most common.


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The Types As I've Met Them

I’m an INTJ and don’t know a lot of Sensors so bear with me.

ENFP:
-WHY DO I KNOW SO MANY OF THEM???
-Very happy on the outside
-Pretty easy to unlock tragic backstory (if there is one)
-They will let you rant to them but don’t expect them to come up with solutions
-Trying their best and doing pretty good

INFP:
-Very considerate
-“I forgot the lavender infusion for my tea…”
-“I think I was a dragon in a past life.”
-Always caught between doing the right thing but wanting to avoid conflict
-Artsy and like creating things
-Not too hard to make them laugh

ISTJ:
-Owns a shit ton of antiques
-Big sweet tooth
-Lives in the middle of nowhere
-Really likes murder mysteries and Steven King
-Appreciates music more for sound than lyrics

ESTJ:
-Went to prison once
-Loves their dog but can’t take care of her
-Gives 1 fuck
-Needs to sort out social life

INFJ:
-Will fight you
-Nice hair
-Been through too much and deserve love
-Sassy™
-*eye rolls for dayz *

ENFJ:
-Fucking love cooking for people
-Can’t wrap their mind around why someone would have bad intentions
-Soooooooo empathic it hurts
-Need to stop caring about other people so much and take care of themselves for once because they work themselves to the bone trying to solve other people’s problems
-Good people
-People say they’re manipulative but it can go the other way around too

ENTP:
-They could talk bullshit for hours and I would still believe them
-Their social mask is amazing??
-The ENTP I know had anxiety and depression for years and I only found out a few months ago
-They’re really intelligent but can’t stand having a schedule and have SO MUCH untapped potential
-Many tattoos, much cigarettes, great taste in clothes, lots aesthetic

INTP:
-Friendship is based off of sardonic humour and a love for podcasts. Nothing else.
-Have emotions!!!
-But it took me 9 months for them to open up
-If they tried they’d be a straight A, honours student
-Future sociopath

ESFJ:
-All the ESFJs I know are nurses
-And they’re very nice and friendly
-Very smart but you learn that after you get to know them
-Very appreciative of food in different ways

ISFJ:
-Kind of set in their ways for an Ne user
-Very silent in conversation but pops in at random to say a comment that makes everyone laugh
-Very financially stable and has their life together

INTJ:
-Can’t understand why people are so ignorant
-Go to them if you don’t understand something and want a fresh perspective
-We’re assholes but will try if we benefit from it
-Neat af👌


That’s it. I don’t know any ENTJs, ESTPs, ISTPs, ESFPs or ISFPs. I don’t have many friends so… that’s it.