Aries overly open viewpoint is what can mess them up in social situations. Some Aries can be boisterous and aren’t afraid to say their views even if it comes out as condescending or if others don’t agree with them. Some Aries simply have the problem of being overly trusting and believes that no one will really judge them off of their ideas, opinions, and secrets. Aries needs to learn discernment and caution when it comes to social interactions.
Taurus can be overly cautious in some social situations and is afraid to look stupid, foolish, or odd. A lot of times this is from a combination of Taurus’s natural cautious side and any insecurities they might have. Taurus might take some time to develop confidence and bravery in the social world but ultimately Taurus needs to take themselves out of their comfort zone!
You can argue that one of Gemini’s biggest social issue is their superficial tendencies and possible short-attention span. While this can be an issue for some Geminis I would say their lack of emotional sharing is the biggest threat especially when trying to create close bonds. A Gemini doesn’t mind getting to known how you work but when others want reciprocated emotional sharing Gemini can lack. Also there are Geminis who can be very changeable, unstable, and flaky which adds to the struggle to build close bonds. By expressing and sharing their feelings more Gemini can not only have close friendships and even closer lovers but this helps them to learn more about themselves.
Cancer has a wild imagination and this can work against them in the social world! Cancer can be a very suspicious individual even with people they don’t know well. Being caught up in trying to figure out someone’s intentions, thinking someone doesn’t like them (when that isn’t the case at all), or thinking an individual is out to get them can be common with this sign. Learning to give people the benefit of the doubt and trying to be more unbiased in social situations can help Cancer.
Believe it or not Leo being too awkward or too confident is what messes them up in social situations. This all stems from Leo’s ego. A more negative and sometimes just a younger, inexperienced Leo can have an ego that lacks nurturing which makes them highly awkward in social situations and they can be someone who really fears other people’s opinions. Also an insecure Leo or one who maybe has had too many ego boosters in life can be overly cocky and therefore turns others away. Finding a balance between a healthy self-esteem and having respect and admiration for others can make Leo highly likable and sunny and charming in social situations.
Some Virgos are shy, some can have a lot of pent-up nervous energy, and some are just more introverted, but Virgo’s biggest social challenge is being too judgmental! Some Virgos are judgmental by being snobbish or elitist while others try to fit everyone into some sort of category, and others are just quick to assume things. Taking a step back and being more open-minded about social situations can help Virgo greatly. They need to learn tolerance without completely abolishing their discernment.
Libra’s sugar-coating optimism is their social downfall! Libra gives everyone the benefit of the doubt and can make excuses for even strangers by saying “oh they just forgot or they are just having a bad day”. But sometimes Libra needs to just listen to their intuition that says no, this individual IS a mean person or person B doesn’t like the Libra!
Scorpio’s suspicious side can get in the way when it comes to social situations but their natural intensity is what can easily intimidate many! Obviously a Scorpio shouldn’t change who they are so they can “fit in” but Scorpios who are more patient, who use their understanding and compassion, and who use their perceptiveness to figure out how to approach someone can become less intimidating.
Bluntness and impulsiveness can sometimes stand in the way of Sagittarius’s social life but burning through people and their energy is actually the biggest issue. Sagittarius is known to burn through romantic relationships quickly but this tendency also reaches into their general social life. Burning too quickly through friendships and connections can be a reoccurring problem in many Sagittarius’s lives. Balancing a healthy dose of space and committing to keeping up with others can help fix this. Also trying to focus their energy can help keep their own passion and interest prolonged.
Capricorn has a hard time trusting others, plain and simple. They can also get in the mindset that people are disposable and can use others (this is so they don’t get used themselves). Being more open and understanding is what Capricorn needs to not be so closed-off socially. This sign normally doesn’t struggle with fitting in or being accepted but they themselves keep their distance and can be cold. You will find that a Capricorn who puts themselves out there is very likable and even popular!
Aquarius can appear to not have any problems in the social sphere, they do great in a group, tend to be charismatic, and is the type of person to have a lot of buddies and acquaintances. Aquarius’s distant trait can keep them from creating close bonds, but this is a hard aspect to change in Aquarius. Making an effort to create closer bonds is healthy for this sign but they have to do it on their own terms! Also being “different” can make social situations hard for Aquarius but just because they are odd or follows unpopular opinion doesn’t mean they should change themselves. An Aquarius in this predicament should try explaining to others why they believe in what they believe, like what they like, etc.
Pisces sensitivity is what can get them in trouble in the social world! Pisces sensitive nature is hard for them to control. Their emotions run deep and they are naturally fluid and expressive. Being openly moody isn’t fair to others or Pisces, trying to keep a professional appearance even in a non-professional atmosphere can help out this sign. Pisces should never block their emotions but they need to take a step back and think about if an issue or situation is really worth being upset over.