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anonymous asked:

So I have pretty much all of the issues related to bpd-- experiencing emotions at extremes, abandonment issues, idealization, and pretty much anything and everything people have submitted here. I really feel like I might have bpd. The only problem is I also have anxiety and I wonder if maybe it's just manifesting itself in a way that looks like bpd. I'm a bit afraid to be outright with my doctor about it because I already have a long history or other issues. Could having bpd be likely for me?

a few of the symptoms of bpd override with anxiety symptoms, but not all of them. if you feel like you have all the symptoms, definitely talk to your doctor about it! it sounds likely.

All the Web Series

Hey everyone!

So my lovely sister suggested that I make a masterpost of all my favourite web series, so I started off by listing all the web series I’ve ever watched………and there are a lot. So many that I think I might have an eensy bit of a problem. But moving swiftly along, here’s my own not so little list of all the webseries I’ve watched all-the-way-through and want to ramble about in alphabetical order. As always, these are my own thoughts and opinions, and you are perfectly entitled to have different ones. Because this list is so long, I’m putting it under a read-more (cause otherwise this would seriously fill your entire dash) but above the read-more I’m gonna put a list of the web series I talk about so you can see if there’s something you want to check out :)

Adult Wednesday Addams

Autobiography of Jane Eyre

Blank Verse

Carmilla

Classic Alice

East and West

Elinor and Marianne Take Barton

Emma Approved

Frankenstein M.D.

From Mansfield With Love

Green Gables Fables

The Goreys

Hipsterhood

I Didn’t Write This

In Earnest

Jobhunters

Jules and Monty

Kissing in the Rain

The Lizzie Bennet Diaries

The Misselthwaite Archives

The New Adventures of Peter and Wendy

Nothing Much to Do

School of Thrones

Squaresville

Submissions Only

A Tell-Tale Vlog

Welcome to Sanditon

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cyborgcap asked:

stevetony, 13

13.  things you said at the kitchen table

"Well, don’t eat me out of house and home," Mr. Stark said lightly, and Steve stopped in mid bite, put down his fork.  He must have looked stricken, because Mr. Stark laughed, and it sounded rueful.  "Oh, hell, don’t look at me like that, Cap," he said.  "It was a joke."

Steve chewed his eggs carefully, then swallowed.  ”That’s as may be,” he said, “but I really am grateful for you putting up the Avengers, here, in your home, sir.”  He felt like he might be blushing.  How incredibly stupid, come on, Rogers.  It was just that Mr. Stark was so … awfully good looking.  Like Clark Gable.  He always made Steve feel a little bit flustered.  ”I wouldn’t want to be a problem.”

"Oh, God," Mr. Stark said.  Now he looked a little pained, Steve noticed with a pang.  "It’s not a problem."

"I know I eat a lot," Steve said, a little embarrassed.  "It’s … the serum, it burns through it quick, and—"

"I know," Mr. Stark said, quickly.  "It’s fine, it’s fine.  Just like it’s fine that w-the Avengers use the mansion.  It’s the least I could do.  Really."

"I’m no billionaire industrialist, but I’m pretty sure the least you could do would be nothing," Steve said.

Mr. Stark smiled crookedly.  ”Yeah,” he said.  ”You might be right.  Still, let me do this.  I don’t … er, fight the same way the Avengers do.  But I want to help.  If my money can go to that, well—” his smile softened, grew a little warmer.  ”I’ll buy out Kroger if I have to.”

Steve knew he blushed that time.  ”You won’t have to do that, Mr. Stark,” he said.  ”I don’t eat that much.  I swear.”

"Small price to pay," Mr. Stark said, still smiling at him in that softer sort of way, the expression brighter, more open.  It made Steve feel warm, like there were butterflies in his stomach.  "And it’s Tony, all right?"

Steve swallowed, and now his mouth felt dry, but he had the feeling he was smiling.  ”Tony,” he said, and hoped he didn’t sound too eager.

anonymous asked:

Hi! So I have zero problem with Swan Queen and I actually shipped it a bit back in season one. However, I have seen people complaining that shipping a man and a woman is ruining their friendship. In the Vampire Diaries fandom, some people were very unhappy with Steroline as a romantic ship. They wanted it to remain a strong friendship. I think that your anon might have been homophobic and trying to explain their problem with Swan Queen, but they might also just really like RxE as friends.

wow this is like the 2339 time someone has come to my ask and started it with a “i have no prob with swan queen” lol

look i don’t know what’s this steroline thing

but i have one opinion on the whole swan queen romance/friendship debate (or more like..this ask right here)

i do not care!

if you ship them as friends,sisters,enemies,fuck buddies,lovers..i don’t care!

you have all the rights to dislike the ship,to love it,to hate it, to ship it differently as i do ,AND we still can be cool with each other,

as long as you stay respectful and polite..cool let’s talk about how awesome they are as a team, as moms, you can talk to me about their friendship coz BREAKING NEWS I LOVE THEIR FRIENDSHIP TOO, you want to talk about s1 and how hot and cold they were with each other? you want to talk about swan queen as enemies? bring it !im so into it!, let’s talk about that..you want to talk about how cute they are with Henry? you want to see them as a family and talk about it with me? fine come and let’s discuss their platonic relationship i love that too, i’m all for that!, you want to talk about the possibility of a romance between them? you see them as lovers and you ship it so hard? good let’s talk about that a lot! i see it too!!!!

you get me now? I’m here for EMMA and REGINA, i love talking about them in every way,i’m a fan of everything that involves these two! i don’t care how you see their relationship! i won’t judge you or “force” you into shipping it, the only thing i ask is to talk good about them,to respect them as characters and their importance in the show, to admit how freaking important their relationship is on the show THEIR show! coz IT IS!, and then YOU’RE WELCOME in here, and i’m open to talk about them in any way you want as i listed above.

the problem is not with how you ship it, the problem is with the “stop ruining it for me they’re just friends”, that’s the freaking problem!

no body is ruining it for you, you are living in your OWN body,thinking with your OWN mind,you are your OWN person,you make your OWN  choices,look around you, do you see anyone forcing you to ship it as lovers? do you? now go to the swan queen tag, do you see anyone tagging your URL forcing you to ship it as more than friends?, go to your ask box, is there any msg telling you to ship it?, no! nada! ,no one cares if you ship it or not, no one is ruining it for you, the world doesn’t revolve around you, people are busy loving sq ,some people are making gifsets,some are writing fics and some are still not over from the sq promo, and some are just excited for the sq friendship!,and well some are just not excited but choose to act mature and be respectful abt it, and then there are those people (including that anon)who just can’t stop whining “oh stop ruining a beautiful friendship” i mean what? no!   no body is begging you or forcing you to ship it or to like it!

you know who does?  YOU!, the person who says “oh stap ruining it ! ” it’s you! the same person who says it  , if you want them as friends then cool talk about it!make posts why you love it ,promote it! ,why are you thinking about them as more than that and :gasp: ruining it in the process?  like..are you sure you’re okey? why all the panic? chill

yes they might like emma and regina as friends (wow me too wtf is new), but i believe they know how to use words?, so next time they should be careful with their choice of words, one doesn’t write” ruining it” and expect me to smile at em and give them a high five


this is a pro Emma/Regina blog, friends,enemies,family,lovers,fuck buddies..i’m here to talk about THEM!and their awesome relationship (sure i have my own view on their relationship lol), but i’m a fan! a fan of e v e r y t h i n g about emma and regina (whoa the shock!)

,i’d respect you if you want to talk about their platonic friendship,i’d respect you if you want to talk about them as family, , and NOT why YOU  think they work only as friends, or why in YOUR OPINION they’re nothing but a family..etc/.

get it?

woodelf68 asked:

Fluffify this! Belle stared in horror at the growing red stain soaking into her skirt...

Belle stared in horror at the growing red stain soaking into her skirt…

"Rumple!" She exclaimed. "We might have a problem."

Belle heard Rumple climb the stairs and walk over to the upstairs bathroom, where she was currently sitting on the toilet. 

"What happened sweetheart?" 

"My period came early." 

Rumple sounded a bit uncomfortable. “Okay…” he said. 

"And I think we forgot to buy tampons on our last shopping trip."

"So you’re out of tampons? Shall we go to Sneezys and get more?" 

Belle responds with a loud groan. 

"Belle, are you okay?"

"These cramps are really bad." 

Rumple thought to himself that this is one burden he is glad he will never have to bear. 

"So what do you want me to do?"

"What do you—ow!—think?"

"You want me to go to Sneezys and get tampons for you," Rumple said with resignation. 

"Oh Rumple that would be wonderful! Can you? Please?" Belle said. 

"I will be back soon."

_________

Rumple made his way through the narrow aisles of Sneezy’s pharmacy but he did not see any signs that seemed to indicate where he could find tampons. It was while he was looking at nasal sprays that he nearly ran headfirst into Charming. 

"Oh sorry Mr. Gold, I didn’t see you there," Charming said. 

"I’m looking for something," Rumple replied. "It’s um…difficult to explain. Belle has certain…womanly needs and she—" 

"Aisle 3 ‘Feminine care,’" Charming said. "Best of luck!" 

"Thank you," Rumple said. 

As soon as he was at Aisle 3, Rumple heard Charming shout behind him in a voice loud enough for the entire store to hear:

"THEY’RE BY THE CONDOMS MR. GOLD!"

While shaking his head, Rumple picked up a box of tampons that was pink and covered with white flowers. Then, with his cane in one hand and the box in the other, the almighty Dark One strode to the checkout line. Due to what he was carrying and Charming’s outburst, everyone was staring at him. He glowered back as if daring them to say anything. Nobody did. 

________

"You’re back!" Belle exclaimed when Rumple had returned to the Pink House. 

She was now in the living room lying on her bac and drinking chamomile tea. She had changed out of her skirt and was wearing sweatpants. 

"I got you what you wanted," Rumple said. 

Belle got up, took the plastic bag containing the tampons out of his hands, and gave him a big wet sloppy kiss. 

"You’re the greatest husband in the world!" She said. 

"I rented a movie too," Rumple added. 

"Which one?" 

"Red Tide," Rumple said. 

Belle glowers at him and hits him playfully on the shoulder. 

"Just joking, I got a Miyazaki film."

"What’s a Miyazaki?" 

Rumple smiled. “Not a what, a who. Miyazaki is a person from a faraway realm called Japan and his movies are magic.” 

veryrareadaptation asked:

HOw u feel about tyga and kylie

The same as I always have been, I think the 8 year age gap is a tad bit too much, but if he makes her happy then I don’t see what  the problem is. It would only be a problem if they had a sexual relationship because that’s illegal, but once she turns 18 this August, she can legally go whatever she wants. We don’t know them, so I don’t think we have any right to judge their relationship. Who knows, they might just be really good friends.

Just a bit of a Quick Note! :)

Hey guys! Just a quick note! Let’s try to avoid using the word ‘crazy’ in a joking manner because there’s alot of stereotyping/stigma towards the mentally ill regarding that term and it can be a bit disconcerting for some who see it as a joke about something they struggle with!

I’ve just got a friendly message notifying me about the issue and I can see how that might adversely affect some people! If you’ve used the term jokingly before, it’s okay! I used to do that too; we’ll just have to make sure to correct ourselves to the best of our ability! I’ll try to tag my posts better so that people don’t get triggered by anything I post! If anyone has any problems/issues with what I post, feel free to notify me :)

This has been a friendly PSA, have a wonderful day everyone!!! :D 

prussiaplayer2:

"Really?" He quirks his head to the side, eyes a bit wider than usual, but nothing too exaggerated. He was intrigued, to say the least. He stepped aside to allow Zsoka inside, making a small gesture to welcome her in. 

Zsoka went inside and set the box on a tabletop, moving away from it after she’d done so.  “Yes.  They’re yours anyway, you should have them.  I…hope they help.”  More than they hurt.

anonymous asked:

Everybody I've tried to talk to about potentially having ADHD has turned around and said to me "Oh well I do most of that" when I try to explain why I'm going to the doctors about it. How am I supposed to respond to that?

It’s hard to get validation from people who don’t really know anything about ADHD. I’d save that conversation for your doctor. If you have to tell people that you’re going to the doctor (I understand talking compulsions—I’m lucky if I don’t tell my friends about my toilet trips), maybe you could keep it vague, like, “I’ve been struggling with organization and feeling overwhelmed lately, so I’m going to the doctor to see whether it’s a medical problem.”

—Elise

That happened to me, too. This ask might help you a bit, and this one may give you some insight into why people are saying these things.

-J

anonymous asked:

If I were to start watching Dr who, where would be the best place to start? Cuz they're on like the 10th or 11th doctor right? So do I have to start with the 1st doctor to understand everything?

if you’re starting with new who (the 9th doctor onward), you don’t necessarily need to watch classic who to understand what happens. there are things that kind of fly over your head, but you won’t really be lost (i haven’t had the chance to watch classic who and i haven’t found it to be a problem at all).

if you decide to skip doctors, it might make things a bit more difficult to understand, but at the same time i find that you could still probably watch a run of a certain doctor without needing the previous ones to understand. but this is a lot more difficult than missing classic who, because there are things from the past that continue to pop up or parallels and/or references to previous doctors or previous story lines that might make things confusing 

(example: there is an episode in the 10th doctor’s run where river song is introduced. if you miss that episode, you will miss a key piece of information/back story when you watch her again in the 11th doctor’s run)

so yeah, tbh i would suggest starting at 9 and just going from there, but if you decide to skip it’s still fairly doable :)

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lmao ye this from an actual rp convo between myself and fenixethekid; the larger context is that meno up there was involved in… hmmm a bit of a love triangle between alena (a lamia) and hess down there. after having this chat with maci they ended up solving the problem by becoming a poly ot3!

tbh!!!! the real reason i drew this is bc maci is a nymphomaniacal asshole and i never really show that side of her except for what i say in descriptions, and so. here. some proof that maci is a nymphomaniacal asshole.

also i might?? make this sort of a series?? illustrating canon convos is super fun so hmhmmhm we’ll see

[meno and alena (+meno’s dialogue) belong to fenixethekid; maci(+her dialogue) and hess are mine]

crimilan asked:

18, 20, 29 :)

18: Favorite beverage?

Black coffee (black like her soul), pretty sure the girl has an addiction but it keeps her up and going, especially when she starts getting tired and she’s very invested in a project. It wasn’t her favourite at first and took a long time to get used to but pushed through it because she’d be damned if that stuff didn’t keep her running most days. 

20: Childhood illnesses? Any interesting stories behind them?

(Oh personal headcanon time for this small Keir!)

Thanks to a box of dark eco exploding in her face as a young girl, for a long while she was blind and had slight dark eco poisoning. She’d gotten lots of green eco treatments thanks to Samos (which managed to clear up most of the poisoning), but it was the one light eco treatment that finally cured her. After that, Samos adopted her, and now sometimes she has days where her eyes can be overly sensitive and her vision can wane. (Shortened version, since the actual story is upsetting and very long, but this is mostly how Keira became Samos’ daughter- also why he’s very over-protective with her). As well, insomnia was another illness she’s had since she was a young girl, though wasn’t as prominent and as harsh as it is now.  

29: Reaction to sudden extrapersonal disaster (eg The house is on fire! What do they do?)

Small moment of panic until her brain finally snaps into gear, trying to resolve the problem as quickly and efficiently as she can or doing what’s in the best interest of hers/everyone elses safety. Of course, she’s probably the one who started the disaster in the first place. Being a clumsy girl who works with dangerous machinery can illicit some crazy happen-stances. 

Hiatus?

The laptop that I normally draw on (and has all of my saved works) has decided to take a crap, and the charger’s broken. Because of that I’m not sure when I’ll be able to start drawing again?

I am also not in the best condition, I think. I’m constantly stressed out about home and school, and there have been a lot of medical problems for me within the past few months alone, and I’ve missed too much school. For now I need to take a bit of a break and focus on my schoolwork and my well-being. I just wanted to announce me leaving for a bit this time, considering I never exactly say when I’m going to be gone.

So that’s that, and that’s why I might not be updating for awhile. I hope you guys understand vuv
I love you all <3

anonymous asked:

Hi! Love this blog! How would you ship me? I am a 5’2’’ black girl with dark brown hair and brown eyes. People describe me as smart, poised, serious, and hardworking. I am quiet and shy but can be chatty about things I care about. I am loyal supportive to loved ones but stubborn, prideful, melodramatic, a procrastinator and rather detached and clueless about other people’s feelings. I can be goofy and affectionate if I really like you. I love reading, video games, daydreaming, and music. Thanks!

I ship you with Bilbo. (And it’s not because you’re short, trust me.)

You’d probably get together over something you’re both passionate about and he’d enjoy the conversation and want to see you again.

anonymous asked:

*literally camps out in front of ur blog in wait for Rung getting Swindle to tell him about The Wreckers*

GET OFF MY LAWN, YA PUNK

Direct continuation from this. The rest of the AU is here. (these keep getting longer and longer. someone please help me. seriously. help.)

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