so you shouldn't have a problem with this

Angsty OTP Prompts:
  • "Sorry I ruined your life. Maybe you shouldn't have married me."
  • "If I would've known he was going to die, you think I would've done it?"
  • "It's nothing against you...I just have to leave."
  • "I know you love me, but I'm sick of lying when I say it back."
  • "That's the problem. I love you so much, I'd be willing to die for you."
  • "I'm sorry I made you into who you are today."
  • "People change, and people grow. And I think we just grew apart."
  • "When I look at you, I see my world and that scares the sh*t out of me."
  • "I don't think I can spend another night in the same bed as the man/woman who ruined my life"
  • "I always told her to quit second guessing herself...and she never listened"
  • "I'd rather die than live in a world like this."
  • "Tell me what they did to you, please."
  • "Sorry just isn't going to work this time."
  • "Her parents always hated me, I guess they were right."
  • "The one you love most isn't always the one you spend your life with...and that sucks."
  • "I'll go home, but it's not home unless you're there..."

vanejpeg  asked:

People expect everyone to stay the same forever but that's kinda unrealistic seeing as we all grow and learn as the years go by. It would actually be more concerning if you were to stay the same rather than grow and learn if ppl don't like who you are becoming which is a wonderful person who inspires others then that's their problem and they shouldn't be forcing you into a mold you don't fit into anymore

That last line really resonated with me.

I want to make you guys happy, of course I do, but I also want to do the things that I love to do.

I’ve struggled a lot in the past with self image, confidence and depression/anxiety, but I’d like to believe I have made some progress since then. Which is also why I feel it’s important to challenge and change myself so that hopefully I can become a better person! Not just for YT but personally as well!

Thank you to all of you who support what I am trying to do! I am not who I was a year ago but that doesn’t mean I am not still me. :)

Fandom spaces in tumblr have such a toxic habit of shaming and abusing people for the characters they like or the things they ship and I don’t understand how people find it so difficult to just stay out of each others business. I physically do not see what it is that makes a person think it’s okay to be outright abusive based on someones fictional relationship preferences. 

The world is a terrible place and there are horrible things going on every second of every day and then there are people who lurk on this website that spend their time slipping into peoples inboxes to tell them how wrong and vile they are for shipping a straight pairing over a same-sex one or vice versa like, why. How do you have the time and the energy to be so hateful. What do you gain. 

It is so so simple to just…not do that. It’s actually less effort. It takes valuable minutes out of your day to open someones blog, go into their ask box and construct a message about how much you, an insignificant anonymous user, dislike this thing that they like and how wrong they are to disagree with you. It is literally so much easier to just keep scrolling and let everyone do their own thing.  

anonymous asked:

Ok TQ, no offense but can though so correcting us on Frisks gender? Toby made it cannon that WE decide on Frisks gender, so since its pretty obvious that youre using cannon evidence from the game and such, shouldn't we also be able to headcannon Frisks gender for your comic? Like, you say Frisk is agender, it is YOUR headcannon, but OUR headcannon may be different. So cant we headcannon your headcannon?

If we were talking about canonical Frisk then yes, they’d be whatever gender you feel like. But we were talking about a specific individual Frisk who is, as I have repeatedly stated, agender. I can and will correct people on my specific individual Frisk’s gender identity. However I have no problem with other individual Frisks differing from mine. MWSIH’s Frisk is a girl for example.

anonymous asked:

How can you say that Uncle Ben is vital to Spider-Man and then say that Peter doesn't have to be cis? Him being cis is really important to his plot.

okay, peter parker was initially reckless and irresponsible with his powers, and that behavior inadvertently got his uncle ben killed. this caused peter to realize the importance of his powers and that he had a responsibility to use them to do the right thing, and protect the people who can’t protect themselves. he chooses to become a hero and honor uncle ben. if uncle ben hadn’t of died, peter wouldn’t have learned this lesson, and he wouldn’t have become spider-man. so yeah he’s kinda vital.

but yeah, ur right, remember that time the radioactive spider was about to bite peter and then before it bit him the spider was like “woah dude wait you’re cis right” and peter was like “ya” and the spider was like “oh man okay good, bc i only bite cis people. i mean i’m fine with trans people but you know, i just prefer to bite cis people, i have a lot of trans friends and have no problem with them, but you know” so i guess you’re right, peter parker has to be cis

skytry200xandharmonyc03  asked:

Like jakei said, there are REAL problems in the world and what are you guys doing?! You guys are acting like FIVE YEAR OLDS! You guys are yelling at a 16 year old animator (a amazing animator btw) of calling a person who fully deserved it retarded! People are starving to death EVERYDAY and THIS is what you guys are complaining about?! She's been dealing with a lot lately, so give her a break! Cami I'm so sorry you have to deal with this you shouldn't have to.

First world problems man. Their dashboard has to be clean of everything they don’t like.

  • Me: Does anyone know-
  • Gemini Rising: Me! 🙋🏻 I know 🙋‍♂️. You didn't even have to 🗣ask❓! What do you need to know 🤔. I know it allllll 🤓🤓🤓 so it shouldn't be a problem. 😎. Need advice? 🤝 gotchu. Need help on the homework? I got the answers 📝. ✒️Spelling? Got it! 😜. Boys? 🤷🏻‍♀️idk🤷‍♂️ JK!! 🤣🤣🤣 I got you on that too, boo 😘😘😘😘.
Fake Chats #161
  • Taehyung: have you noticed?
  • Hoseok: noticed what?
  • Taehyung: when we all bow at the end most of us just hold each other's wrists but Jungkook always holds Jimin's hand.
  • Hoseok: are you asking because you just now noticed or because you want to make sure others have noticed too?
  • Taehyung: no, I knew it all along.
  • Hoseok: okay and yeah, of course I noticed. I think it's the hand size difference thing.
  • Taehyung: only because of the size difference?
  • Hoseok: you know he loves how smol Jimin is.
  • Taehyung: please don't say smol.
  • Hoseok: you've totally called him smol before.
  • Taehyung: it was a best friend instinct.
  • Hoseok: is he communicating with you telepathically right now?
  • Taehyung: hyung, you know that's not how it works and I'm not gonna explain it. Some things just shouldn't be explained.
  • Hoseok: like you.
  • Taehyung: like me.
  • Hoseok: back to Jungkook, do you have a problem with it?
  • Taehyung: no, not really. I mean, maybe a little, but not really. Kind of. But mostly not.
  • Hoseok: just hold his hand other times.
  • Taehyung: Kookie will catch me.
  • Hoseok: Jimin will scold him.
  • Taehyung: why is everything so complicated?
  • Hoseok: where a sexy mochi goes, complications follow.
  • Taehyung: but I still love him.
  • Hoseok: me too.
  • Taehyung: I love him more.
  • Hoseok: I'm not arguing this with you.

anonymous asked:



If I had it my way, I wouldn’t even be here.

It takes SO much more strength than you could ever imagine.

So tell me, who’s hearts have I broken?

Showstopper’s? @ask-showstopper-bendy

He made that mess his DAMN SELF. Don’t put that on anyone but HIM.

Sendy’s? @sendythedemon

I barely even knew him. There was NO relationship, just fucking.

So tell me.


anonymous asked:

Do you know that they are people who think it's trashley in the Christmas bumpeless pics 😮😮😂😂

how would that make any sense hzjsjsjs

anonymous asked:

Like we shouldn't even have discussions, it's just common sense not to tweet @ them or comment on post about 'them getting together already' like fuck off if you do this.

Look, everyone knows this is how I’ve felt since the beginning: I keep all this shit off my blog because I think talking about it before it’s an issue just makes it an issue.

But this isn’t the first comment like this I’ve seen on Facebook/Instagram, so it’s definitely starting to become a problem and that’s why I wanted to publicly post my opinion about the matter

I’m still not looking to have a big discussion, this will probably be the last that I post about it, but like… I needed to say something because I know who/how many people see my blog and tbh I figured I should use the platform I have to get the message across that people need to grow the fuck up and learn to be respectful

This show is Ryan’s baby and if you can only talk about a non-existent relationship at him, that completely disregards all of Ryan’s hard work and is just really fucking rude

anonymous asked:

anon from before: Holy Shit... I didn't mean to cause offence i was only joking, i'm so sorry it came across that way! i shouldn't have said anything i'm so sorry.. Kiss your friend/fam all you like i don't have a problem ahh again i'm so sorry

(( OOC: HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! omfg!!!! XD No offense taken dearie, you’re just fine. Don’t stress! )) 

Overly Analytical Problem #16
  • Same Kittens, Same Question, Totally Different Motive...
  • Person: Aww... aren't kittens cute. Why are kittens so cute!!! Why are you such a cutie pie!?!?
  • V.S.
  • Analyst: Kittens are so cute... I wonder if everyone thinks that. If everyone thinks that, I wonder why. I know it's something like innocent shapes and high noises that trigger mothering instincts, but shouldn't that stay within the species. I have to find out. I want to know why. Scratch that, I NEED to know why! WHY ARE KITTENS SO CUTE!!!
Rizzy & clace.
  • I find it quite hypocritical how everyone is so upset about rizzy, but with this blood addiction storyline I can see why it would bother people. Despite how they started you can clearly see there is more to it. It could be the addiction talking, but it could also be so much more. It's quite possible that during their drug fueled frenzy they have developed real feelings for one another and that would be wonderful because something positive would come from this negative storyline.
  • To reiterate my point, I find it ridiculous that for the ones that read the books still shipped Clace when they thought they were siblings, which by the way could have easily been resolved with a DNA test. Regardless fans still rooted for Jace to have feelings for his presumed sister.
  • To the relief of many it turned out that they were never related, yet when they believed the opposite they still acted as more than siblings, even sharing a few passionate kisses, thanks to the very cruel Seelie Queen. How is this not toxic and more damaging than the addiction storyline. Surly recovering from the damage of being in love with your sibling would take years of therapy. I agree that the addiction between Isabelle and Raphael is bad, but people do recover from this disease. It may take time, but recovery is always possible and it is never anything to be ashamed of. It can be part of a person's journey and in the end make them much stronger as they overcome.
  • I imagine it would be much harder to recover from having strong romantic, even sexual feelings for one’s own sibling. This can cause real mental and long term psychological issues that may take years of therapy to heal. This kind of addiction is far worse and even immoral. How is it that everyone can be cool with Clace , but have a bigger bone to pick with Rizzy? Raphael and Izzy’s issues are far easier to overcome than dealing with the trauma of having incestuous feelings for ones on sibling. Since when is it more toxic to ship to addicts who will become stronger when they overcome their addictions together.
  • We all know that Clace aren't really related, but fans still rooted for them and indulged in their romantic scenes. As for the ones that haven't read the books and started shipping them from the show, not knowing it may have been toxic to root for them. I just feel that Rizzy is getting more hate than they deserve as it's not completely justified. If you ship clace you shouldn't be so harsh on Rizzy.
  • So how come everyone is cool with clace but have a bone to pick with rizzy??? At least rizzy' issue/problem can be dealt with very easily, it's something 100+ suffer from but having romantic feelings for your own sibling it's not any easy thing to overcome.
  • There is no need for all of the rudeness toward this fandom. If you didn't hate Clace during their dilemma then why all the hate for Rizzy, that will surely beat their current addiction. Everyone should be respectful, regardless of your views. No ship is perfect and usually have problems of their own that need to be addressed. With time a ship can evolve and become better because of their previous issues. In the end a ship can become a beautiful thing, mirroring those of Clace and Malec in the end.
  • credit to @outlawsandcircles for proof reading and improving my post.
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  • Random Person: So Rabbit is a girl now?
  • PW VI: Well, she was always designed to be female she just wasn't finished, and technically robots don't have a concept of gender so labeling her as male or female is moot, but for the sake of argument, sure, she's female.
  • Random Person: But she still sings love songs about women?
  • PW VI: That is how the songs were written.
  • Random Person: Shouldn't you change them?
  • PW VI: Why?
  • Random Person: Because she's a girl now!
  • PW VI: Oh, right.
  • PW VI: Here you go! A new version of On Top Of The Universe.
  • Random Person: That's not what I meant!
  • PW VI: But we fixed the pronouns?
  • Random Person: Never mind!
  • Rabbit: What's th-their-their-their problem?
  • PW VI: No idea.

anonymous asked:

i didn't know you were an engineer; that's super cool! i would desperately like to be an engineer but i underperform so consistently on exams that one of my profs told me i shouldn't do grad school if i don't ace the next one. this terrifies me. i feel like i understand concepts, but do math slowly and over-deliberate on problems. i don't know how to fix it. do you have any advice about this?

I am not an engineer, I’m a technical writer. I just work closely with them. 

And my advice about career stuff is heavily biased by the fact that in college I was So Miserable, All The Time and in the real world I am really happy and fulfilled, and of course that’s not how it works for everybody. 

But - if you are miserable in school, that does not mean you’re going to be miserable in the real world. If you are struggling in school, that does not mean you’re going to be struggling in the real world. I think it’s often impossible to infer too much about how you’ll do in a job from how you do in the ostensibly related degree program, they just don’t have much to do with each other. So you might be perfectly fine in an engineering job even if your grades aren’t good, and if that’s what you enjoy and desperately want to do, and if you’re just having academic trouble right now (as opposed to ‘having academic trouble and also miserable and depressed’), then it’s probably worth figuring out how to jump hoops a bit so you can get the certifications to do the work you like. 

The easiest way to get faster at solving problems is to solve a ridiculous number of them. You’ll almost always ace tests if you understand the concepts and have done all of the practice problems you can find in the textbooks and online, and if those aren’t enough you can always go ask for more practice problems. This is time-intensive, but every problem you solve means that sufficiently similar problems will be effortless and in-the-same-genre problems will be easier and once you’ve done this enough, the whole test will be easier. 

This might be totally undoable for any number of reasons. If it’s totally undoable because you’re involved in eighty different things, then probably you’re not going to be able to succeed in school while involved in eighty different things, and you should think about whether you can disentangle yourself from most of them during exam time. 

If it’s totally undoable because the idea of doing unstructured practice work is really overwhelming and stressful and you know you’ll end up avoiding it for no good reason, then you might have some anxiety/executive dysfunction/depression/motivation issues which are holding you back.

If it’s totally undoable because you just don’t want to spend that much time on work you don’t like and don’t care about, and that’s true not just about one specific boring class but most of your classes in your major, then that would actually be a sign you’re in the wrong field. 

If you keep messing up basic arithmetic and getting things wrong because you can’t reliably complete simple steps of calculation then you should look into resources for dyscalculia and ADHD. Whether or not you meet the clinical standard for those, the resources will probably be helpful for you. Resources for disability aren’t Off Limits if you don’t have, or haven’t been diagnosed with, the disability. If they help you, you should embrace them. 

If you do already solve tons of practice problems, and you always get the right answer, but your maximum pace just seems to be too slow to succeed on exams, you can work with your university’s disability office to get more time on exams. That’s a common accommodation and not one it’s typically hard to get. Some universities will require you to have diagnosed something-which-would-merit-a-accommodation; some don’t. There is nothing wrong with asking for or getting this; our education system is unfairly often set up in a way that means students succeeding hurts other students, which makes students really upset with anyone who seems to have an unfair edge, but this is stupid and not your fault. It is totally okay, if you’ve investigated as best as you can and you seem to have an issue that requires accommodations, to ask for accommodations. If they are given to you, that’s the system deciding that you ought to have them. It is always okay for you to consistently and truthfully advocate for yourself.

picole-de-coca-cola  asked:

Yo, it's ok to have a art block, senpai. We all have creative block sometimes, it's not your fault and you shouldn't feel useless for it. You're an amazing artist with an incredible art style (seriously, your art style is just AMAZING omg), you're just having problems. Whatever it happens remember that we are all here for you! And we will always try our best to help you or at least give our support! ♥

thank you so much for the kind words! <3

i don’t exactly have artblock, just have difficulty to find the time for drawing and finishing up my works. 

i’m already having exams in the weeks (had 1 THIS MORNING ALREADY :( ) and need to concentrate on my upcoming finals too. not to mention, i don’t get much alone time now, cause i’m back in the dorm with 2 roommates (whom i love to the heart) and something always comes up.

so i’m just having a hard time right now, but i’m trying hard to update stuff here!

:D again, thank you for your message! it really helps a lot :3

anonymous asked:

How do you think the PTs would be like with kids? I feel like Akira would just naturally attract children (cause they don't have standards) and kids would just think he's really cool and Ryuji would probably be the cool uncle until the parents pull their children away from him cause 'you shouldn't be hanging around with that yankii'

It looked weird in paragraphs so I hope you’re cool if I just list them out? So yeah take my rambling headcanonish things, i guess.

Akira: like he is with Shinya honestly, tends to relate more to the trouble kids than the presumed good kids. finds himself trying to fix their problems a little too often. Akira’s actually made to look unassuming so I don’t think kids would take much notice of him if he didn’t want them to, since that’s the idea.

Morgana: they just wanna pet him which he’s fine with, but as soon as he see’s sticky hands he’s out… he did once scratch a lady who was yelling at a little girl because she lost her hat. So do with that what you will.

Ryuji: misses them, before Kamoshida happened and he wasn’t such a ‘delinquent’ he spent a lot more time with the neighborhood kids helping them with sport, and homework he barely understood himself. Most of the parents who knew him never blamed him for what happened, so it’s not that the kids aren’t allowed to spend time with Ryuji, Ryuji’s just a little too self-loathing to realise he still could.

Yusuke: kids? you mean aspiring artists? those finger-paintings? gorgeous. The 50 pictures of the same house with the sun in the corner? practice makes perfect. The… is it a dog? ah it’s a man sword-fighting? they must’ve started abstract art. astounding. Sadly parents think he’s a little… unique, so he doesn’t spend time with them much.

Goro: has no idea what to do with kids at all, on account of his family situation. However this also means he tries his best to always be courteous and polite in the event that he has to deal with them, which due to his fame is often. But hey, at least the children aren’t as clingy as their older siblings. Those he gave priority to have *ahem* removed from the metaverse were generally bad to their kids. 

Ann: as an only child and having moved around a lot she has little experience with them. She’s not rude, just a little confused on what to do. She appreciates their honesty though and doesn’t really believe in sugar-coating things to them.

Makoto: stern, has a tendency to treat them like little adults, as she was mature as a child too. she prefers not to spend time with them in large groups but doesn’t usually mind them on an individual basis.  

Futaba: awful just awful, she had no desire to be around anyone for a while so children are… very new. She’ll talk Phoenix Ranger with them if needed (how you’d get her in that situation idk) but at that point she’ll just be acting like a kid herself.

Haru: the biggest pushover honestly, and she knows it. She treats children how she wanted to be treated as a child so overt affection, kind words, caring smiles, the works. helped look after the children that were brought to corporate events and was always sad with how serious they could be. 

anonymous asked:

How do you headcanon Padmé pregnancy? Was it something she wanted? Or Anakin? Did they discuss about it? They wanted to keep their relationship a secret so… A baby would have been a problem isn't? They live in a world where everything seems possible so birth control methods shouldn't be a problem… I'm quite puzzled tbh.

I can’t think of any specific headcanon at the moment, sorry. but I think it was something the both wanted more than anything. I don’t think it was planned but judging by their reaction it was something they desired for themselves. Both that strong familial bonds and they both wanted a family of their own. I think deep down that’s why they got married. Their relationship wasn’t about only passionate desire, it was commitment. It was about starting something lasting.

I believe they discussed the future in abstract terms and only about the “distant” future. I guess my headcanon is that they talked about Anakin leaving the Order one day and the two of them living together, openly, as a family. I doubt they had time to go into too much specifics, like the number of kids, where they would live or where Anakin would work.

Yes, the pregnancy was problem because it exposed their marriage:

“And she watched that joy fade as he began to understand that their marriage could not stay hidden much longer; that even the voluminous robes she wore could not conceal a pregnancy forever. That he would be cast out in disgrace from the Jedi Order. That she would be relieved of her post and recalled to Naboo. That the very celebrity that had made him so important to the war would turn against them both, making them the freshest possible meat for an entire galaxy full of scandalmongers. And she watched him decide that he didn’t care. [matthew stover – ROTS novelization]

 Padmé, I think, was for more aware of the consequences of the pregnancy and their secret marriage than Anakin (who thought that leaving the Order would have been easy and enough).

“She looked away. “I had been thinking—about going somewhere … somewhere else. Having the baby in secret, to protect you. So you can stay in the Order.”

“I don’t want to stay in the Order!” He took her face between his palms so that she had to look into his eyes, so that she had to see how much he meant every word he said. “Don’t protect me. I don’t need it. We have to start thinking, right now, about how we can protect you. Because all I want is for us to be together.” [matthew stover – ROTS novelization]

 In a way, I think they were both wrong. Anakin was wrong to believe they would have just left him (powerful and increasingly unstable) and his children go without questions. I doubt the Jedi would have become violent like forcefully claiming Luke and Leia or arresting Anakin but I think Anakin would have to explain himself before leaving (and they would probably keep an eye on him and his kids).

Padmé was wrong in how much people still worshipped the Jedi. She knew about the negative public opinion but I don’t think she understood how immune Anakin was to that (thanks to Palpatine). At that time, Anakin was a celebrity for saving the chancellor and the Republic but the Jedi Order was seen as a declining self-serving wizards. Sure, people would be shocked at first but eventually Anakin leaving would only make him look even better. And, let’s face it, Palpatine would use the opportunity to turn the public against the jedi by leaking stories about the dumb decisions of the Council (ghost prison) and how Anakin had stood up to them. Besides, who can resist a story about forbidden love? the Jedi hero and the Senator, i’d bet they would make a holomovie out of it :P

As for the birth control, well… who knows? lol Honestly, I can’t think of any reason why someone as aware as they were of the consequences of their secret marriage would leave something like this to chance. Anakin was away for months sometimes and they only spent a few days together every once in a while so maybe it was something they didn’t deem necessary. Maybe Palpatine had her diaphragm pierced (:P). Maybe they decided to just go with it and see what happens or maybe George Lucas just wanted her pregnancy to be a surprise lol

anonymous asked:

Everyone keeps saying "you need to find your own style, don't try to copy other artists"... But I'm a beginner, despite being 40 already, and I have no style of my own. It's really discouraging, to the point where I often think I shouldn't even bother learning to draw at all. It's not your problem, of course, but I love your art. Do you have any advice, for an aspiring artist, who hasn't enough personality to have a proper style of her own?

Hi anon–first, please imagine I’ve offered you a hug through the internet. Well-meaning but unintentionally discouraging art advice is a topic that’s close to my heart so I’m gonna throw the rest of this under a cut and ramble, like, a lot.

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