so you know that means its a big deal

this is just a tiny little detail but I really love how they made Viktor tell Yuuri his wants and desires during the course of the show because it shows a lot of character (and really displays the utmost care his VA put into Viktor’s voice)

it’s SO CASUAL 

He says this as if it’s the easiest thing in the world, no big deal, almost a throwaway comment, but knowing how Viktor feels about Yuuri it’s OBVIOUS that this carries a lot more meaning than he lets on

it’s a very natural thing to do because you want to guard the depth of your emotions and fear rejection so you present what you actually want in a way that makes it seem not that important to you, to shield yourself from the eventual rejection and embarrassment that might follow in its wake

he does this again in episode 7

he says this WAY TOO CASUALLY, as if it’s just a random solution that popped into his head (and this is also a sign of how Viktor deals with issues through actions as opposed to words), but once again he just reveals his emotions in a way that puts him out of harm’s way if he’s rejected. VIKTOR’S LIKE “Yuuri you’re crying??? Ah okay I can kiss it better if you want no big deal just doing my job as coach hahaah right Yuuri” 

like

Viktor

your gay is showing

and the fact that he actually kisses Yuuri in the end of the episode just shows that he was entirely serious the whole time on a much deeper level than he lets on (it makes me both laugh and cry that he probably waited for this moment for MONTHS……the poor man, he’s so patient)

episode 9, same thing again

presented in a very lighthearted tone this time. During the first times he talks as if it’s of little importance to him, but now his words are more sincere but with this tone instead. Once again, no grand words, no outpouring emotions, just Viktor casually expressing the depth of what he feels for Yuuri and how he desires for their relationship to progress. At this point he has his boyfriend and he has his kisses, so now he just moves on to the next stage because well, Viktor Nikiforov is madly in love with Yuuri and wants the whole world to know 

HE DOES THIS SO MANY TIMES

I’m just……so in love with the thought of Viktor, while brave enough to express his wishes, still not being able to do this in a way that would perhaps put him in an awkward spot. He’s obviously very pushy right at the beginning and as we know he cries himself to sleep in episode 2 after Yuuri rejects him 

He always appears very confident and overall sure of himself so these things are so interesting to me because, while subtle, it reveals his insecurities and how much he longs for Yuuri but fears being turned down at the same time. Viktor is, until Yuuri comes into his life, ultimately a very lonely character and it makes sense that he would grasp for Yuuri and at the same time feel uncomfortable revealing just HOW MUCH he wants these things.

These subtle choices in dialogue and expressions and voice acting reveals so much to us and I love this kind of storytelling. 

VIKTOR IS SUCH A FASCINATING CHARACTER!! I love him I’m so glad he found love and happiness and a future for himself with Yuuri by his side 

Why Johnlock is such a big deal

When Johnlock becomes canon in January there are probably going to be some people who say that it’s not that big of a deal because they’re just two cis white men and… I mean, they are but it really is so much more.

You could say that 2016 has not been a great year for LGBT representation because many of our favourite queer TV characters (a lot of whom were POC) were killed off, a lot of relationships ended and the word “bisexual” wasn’t said nearly enough times. Despite all this, we’ve been able to enjoy some amazing gay storylines in shows like Yuri on Ice, Supergirl or Skam and right now there’s more diversity than ever, but we still have a really long way to go.

Sherlock is not just a random TV show with a small number of fans. Over 100 million people watched Season 3 and it’s likely that the new series will have even more viewers. It is definitely an international phenomenon. So when the rug is finally pulled and it is revealed to have been a love story since the start, it will shock so many people because they didn’t see it coming. It will be a surprise that the two main male characters of one of the most watched TV shows ever have actually been in love all this time. This will be television history (thanks Amanda).

Something this mainstream almost never features gay couples and if it does it’s usually for like 5 seconds and Sherlock is going to be almost 20 hours of this (because let’s be real, the whole show is about John and Sherlock). This is gonna be a huge “fuck you” to queerbaiting and to anyone who still treats gay ships as a joke. Because even though this story has always been gay, it’s not just about being gay and that’s what’s so great about it. It shows that you can have amazing main characters who happen to be gay or bisexual in a really succesful TV show. It will open so many doors for all the media that’s yet to come.

So that’s already a pretty big deal on its own but we have to remember that this is Sherlock Holmes and John Watson we’re talking about. The most famous detective of all time and his loyal companion. The greatest fictional “friendship” to ever exist. Two of the most widely adapted characters in history will be able to kiss in public for the first time in 130 years! They finally get to be who they’ve always been because it’s not 1895 anymore and someone is finally getting this right.

It’s a fact that Sherlock wouldn’t have these many fans if people knew it’s gay so it’s obvious that this wouldn’t have the same effect if Sherlock had literally said he was gay in the first episode (even though he practically did) or if Mark and Steven had said that this is what they’re doing in any random interview ever, which is why they’ve lied so many times and why they’ll keep lying until the new series airs. This is a conspiracy. It’s real and we’re a part of it.

So yeah, Johnlock won’t end homophobia. It won’t end queerbaiting. It won’t end heteronormativity. But it’s a really big step forward and it’s definitely something that’s going to be talked about for decades. Things will never be the same.

And if that wasn’t already enough, just think about how this show and the TJLC community specifically have helped so many people figure out their sexual orientation or make friends or just feel less lonely. This video shows it a lot better than I ever could (thank you @quietlyprim ). And the best part of all this is that it will continue to help even more people when it’s happened. Because, like @marcelock said, queer people get to be people like Sherlock Holmes. We deserve this, all the LGBT people who came before us deserved this and we finally get to see it. This is for us, for them and for everyone who’s ever had to hide like Sherlock and John.

anonymous asked:

hey so I need your expertise Emily, bc you are all-knowing obvs. So why do you think its so much more of a big deal if Dan came out, than if Phil did? Cause I see all of these posts like 'When will Dan come out,' or 'We'd be so proud of him if he did,' or 'We're so glad he's becoming more comfortable with his identity,' But I never see that stuff about Phil. Why do you think its much more of a topic with Dan? Especially with the whole 'Phan' ship, when neither has come out

i mean the spotlight is really focused on dan right now ever since he announced a long time coming video idea in his last liveshow. dan’s potential coming out isn’t a bigger deal than phil’s coming out, but it boils down to the fact that phil isn’t necessarily on the radar right now when it comes to coming out considering he hasn’t announced anything about it yet and since he’s always been very subtle about his sexuality and basically anything that would entail opening up beyond a personal level with his audience. phil isn’t nearly as transparent as dan and he keeps his private life very much under wraps, so a potential coming out from phil is really up in the air atm until he announces something blatantly

It’s not that I don’t. But it’s just that once that happens it’s just like, ‘It’s over. It happened.’ Its such a big deal - it’s become such a big deal who I hook up with on the show. I mean, like in real life when you hook up with somebody and it’s real? You don’t see it coming.  So, I kinda don’t wanna see it coming. Um, y'know - and I do think that Daryl’s not a multi-girl guy. At one point he was a a guy-guy, multi-guy - I don’t know what’s going on. I don’t know. There’s so many rumors. - But, I don’t think he’s a multi-girl guy. I think if he’s gonna zero in on one, it’s gonna happen -  he’s gonna zero in sort of by accident. And he’s gonna be not-the-one-zeroing-in-first, and then he’ll just stay with her. I think - I think he’s one of those, uh, like an eagle. I think he’s - once they start flying together, they’re always gonna fly together.
— 

Norman Reedus, EW Radio (10/Feb/2015)

I get the sense though that you really don’t want Daryl to be in a relationship.

🔊JUNGKOOK’S📢NAME 🔊IS 📢 👏NOT👏PRONOUNCED 🔊 👏👏“JOHN-COOK” 👏📢  IT 🔊 PRONOUNCED 📢📢 *CHONG-GGUK*👏👏👏 🔊  🔊  🔊

it is a big deal

having a foreign name is hard

something as simple as pronunciation can change the meaning

so please from now on pronounce his name properly

its what he identifies as

its his goddamn name

i don’t call someone named bob

boob

its okay if you didnt know even though he mentioned it many times or you can search it up

but now you know

you know what fuck the people who make fun of people that hate valentines day. never having someone to share that day with is like, not fun and kinda actually sucks… I mean i don’t know about you but I sure do love being reminded how unwanted I am on the same day every fucking year. so yeah I’m allowed to be upset about valentines day. “just chill out its not a big deal” my ASS stfu

anonymous asked:

I'm not trying to be mean or unsupportive, I'm just curious as to why you decided to choose they/them pronouns. I have a bit of a similar issue. I want to use they/them pronouns but because I also identify as a lesbian, I don't know if that's okay for me to do? Thank you <3

i just feel like i dont identify completly as a female but its also not too big of a deal for me because i feel like i do identify as a girl but i dont at the same time so im trying to see if they/them pronouns will help me get more comfortable i guess??? and yes you are completly valid!!! nb lesbians are real and alive and valid!!

anonymous asked:

Is it weird I'm interested in a dude older than me? Technically I'm still a minor (17 and 18 is the legal age of being an adult) so I don't know if I should tell him my feelings or just shut up till I'm 18

Well… I ain’t expert in this topic buut…
I mean I guess it really depends on the age gap? like if its like you’re 17 and they are 19 i don’t think its a big deal but I may be wrong?
I guess waiting till being 18 works, yeah

Just a Number

Request: Hello! Could I please get a Dean x reader where the reader is significantly younger than Dean, but both of them end up falling in love anyone.

Warning(s): Swearing, An eight year age gap if that bothers you.

Author’s Note: Sure thing. I don’t know how large you wanted the age gap, so sorry if it isn’t as large as you wanted, Anon. And sorry for its being so short.

Originally posted by warninglemon

‘Life’s too short to be scared of numbers. That’s all an age gap is is numbers. It’s not that big an age gap, is it? I mean eight years isn’t too bad, is it? It’s not like I was in high school still when he was already past college age… oh, wait. Yeah I was. Scratch that one. But it’s still not that big a deal, is it? You know what? Fuck it. I’m in love.’

You sigh as you think about it. You can’t be in love with Dean Winchester, he’s too old for you. You have fought with yourself about the situation over and over in your head, even talked it over with your best friend, but even still you couldn’t decide whether it was okay or not. Your heart said it was, your mind said it was fine if you really love him, your best friend said it was, hell, everything said it was, so what is holding you back?


“I don’t know what to do, Sammy. I like her. A lot. Hell, I’d go as far as to say I am in love with her. But there is that age gap. That fucking age gap. That’s not okay, is it? That can’t be okay. But even so, I still want to kiss her damn sexy lips and… DAMMIT!” Dean rants, only stopping to watch his little brother for a reply.

“Dean, eight years isn’t that bad. Besides, it’s just a number. If you love her, go for it. And before you say anything, yes, she likes you back.” Sam replies, not even bothering to look up from his laptop at his older brother who is pacing the motel floor.


Dean watches as you swing your machete and take off the last vampire’s head. Despite your being covered in blood and having a nasty cut on your forearm and your breathing heavy from the workout, Dean can’t help but to think you’re extremely sexy. You were just so strong and independent and beautiful, what else was he supposed to do, not be attracted to you?

You look up from the vampire you just decapitated to see Dean staring at you. You smirk, “Like what you see, Winchester?”

“Definitely,” Dean replies, a smirk playing at his lips, too.

You laugh and walk closer, and you’re soon very aware of how close you are. ‘He must have taken a step closer, too. I didn’t walk that close, did I?’

You and Dean stare into each other’s eyes, glance down at each other’s lips, and then you’re whispering “Fuck it” as you close the gap between the two of you guys’ lips.

anonymous asked:

Hey bub i know this won't mean much when your brain likes to give u a tough time but,,, i promise its not a big deal making a typo or such. I know u are a perfectionist when ot comes to these things but you're doing great!! And thank u so much btw <3

gjaagga thank u for the reassurance ;; means a lot 💕💖💓💘💞💝

Things not to say to your child when they come out!!

“You always have to be different, dont you?”
“Why do you always have to make a big deal of things??”
“90% of all teenagers are confused you are just the same”
“Wait so if youre bi that means you will cheat on people?”
“Its not normal”
“I want no one else knowing of this”
“Dont post anything on social media about it”
“Dont tell the rest of the family”
“Yeah im glad you didnt mention this im front of your younger sibling its yknow,, inappropriate”

thechiyonosakenyc said: //you would be surprised that there’s a niche few who do that :3

wtf?? that is disgusting… this is the first ive seen of this tbh and i am just shocked. i mean i know i do underage threads but they’re like 17 (i lost my vcard at 16 to my 18 year old bf so to me its not a big deal especially since i consented to it) and i use actors who are in their 20′s! but this is just fucking alarming as fuck.

3

“Somehow none of it seems to matter when we’re in Dublin. Class and all that just fades away. I’m Mrs Branson and we get on with our lives like millions of others.”

Don't insult SIH & JR in my presence

(this  happened to me and my little brother on Friday )

* with my Lil bro on the couch watching a movie* 

* Takes out phone see’s JR notification*

Me: *randomly squeals* 

Lil bro: oh god i know i know junjou romantica s3 is almost here I get it

Me: You don’t understand  Do you have any idea how long we have waited for this AND ITS LITERALLY ALMOST HERE!!!

Lil bro: Wait what do you mean we?

Me: *Randomly spins around* I mean the whole JR community we have waited like for 7 YEARS!!! for this so yeah its a big deal to us

Lil bro: Wait what 7 years! i would have given up on that 

Me: Oh you silly silly little boy that shows how clueless you are on how the power of love (fujoshi’s) can conquer anything 

Lil bro: Ha you mean overly obsessed yaoi fans *stares directly at me*

Me: I’m not obsessed i just love it full heartily

Lil bro:  Says the person who literally is a Wikipedia for * mispronounces* sekai ichi hatsukoi 

Me: Its sekai ichi hatsukoi for your information and whatever the point is that this is important for me and others too can you just..

Lil bro: * sighs* fine fine i’ll deal with your dumb show’s.. oops!

Me: oh i know you just didn’t  insult my darlings i think you still need a little more explaining

Lil bro: no no no no i didn’t mean to please no 

*Starts dragging him out of the couch into my room he struggles on the way*

Lil bro: hey let go!!

Me: ohoho you think i’m letting you of easy prepare yourself for a complete SIH & JR marathon maybe i’ll add hybrid child to it as well hmmm?

Lil: * face in terror* WAIT NO PLEASE SPARE ME LAST TIME YOU MADE ME WATCH FREE! S1 & 2 PLUS LOVE STAGE!

Me: hehehe you know you liked it but you’re still not getting out of this we’re going to have soo much fun!!! * smiles widely*

Lil bro: NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!

* 23 Hours later* walks out of room both sleep deprived 

Me: sooo what did we learn?

Lil bro: Never offend or badmouth your favorite shows and that SIH & JR are amazing 

Me: Good boy 

* Both collapse on the couch to sleep*

8

Lets talk JPG vs RAW! I deliberately messed up some photos for you (1 bad 1 severe) in both under and over exposed!
To keep this as real as possible, I shot each JPG and RAW in the same settings and the edits are exactly the same, just so you can tell the exact difference (so, JPG 1 and RAW 1 are shot and edited just the same etc)

If you don’t know what it means; in JPG when you mess up it is harder (most often impossble as you will see) to recover all the details lost. In RAW, the details are saved (like you’d actually have to try to heck up hard enough not to be able to save them) and it is easier to manipulate the photo without losing quality! Moving on.

First (less severe)t: to me there is a clear difference, but not really obvious why its that a big deal.
The RAW photo is sharp(er), the colors look better and no details were lost. 
The JPG is so much softer and lacks all sharpness. The details near her eye were not salvageable. Same goes for spots on her ears and back.

Second (more severe): I don’t think I have to tell you there’s a difference at this point lol.
The RAW really impressed me here. I actually expected some detail to be lost, but there wasn’t! Just looks like a nice vintage twist.
The JPG.. Do I even need to say it? What is happening on that photo? Details lost in both dark and bright places.

Third (less severe): Pretty much what I expected.
RAW kept 98% of the details, though I *think* a small part of her snout lost details. Not sure if that was just a editing fail on my behalf.
JPG lost some detail in the legs, chest and face. 

Fourth (more severe):Oh boy!
I am SUPER impressed by the RAW file! Absolutely no detail lost. I could not edit to a point where I actually liked how the picture looked but that’s just me being me.
JPG was a goner. There was absolutely no salvaging it, most of the white has lost its details and you can’t tell if its hair or a glued on piece of paper.

I hope this was helpful!

Confessions of a struggling self confident

High hopes
Physical success
Maybe if I starved
I would weigh less
Thy gaps are goals
I have one I know
But I’ve always wanted to be thinner

Bigger is better
Unless you mean weight
Inches and size
Food on the plate

I want to be thin
Like the girls on tumblr
I hate when my thys touch
I wish they were slimmer
Its discusting I know
When the fat between them touches
I don’t think I have a problem
There’s no need to discuss this
Yes I’ve purged
What’s the big deal
Sometimes my stomach hurts
After a meal
So I end the discomfort
So what, I need therapy?
I could be doing drugs
Taking after my mom
But I’m fine
Just a little shy to comfort.

[Dan was sitting curled over with the laptop on the table. He was typing so fast his fingers were pretty much sprinting across the keyboard, and the digits and letters on the screen moving just as fast. His foot tapped on the floor in a sort of habit kind of way, and his tongue slapping against the roof of his mouth quickly too. He was buzzed on what he was focusing on, only tearing away whenever he messed up somehow, which you could tell because he would make a small noise at disapproval.]

all this “i cant wait for ronan to come out” stuff, but lets be real, ronan is not the type to have ever kept this a secret, and he’s not the type to make a big deal about coming out. he’d just show up with a boyfriend and gansey would be like “you’re … dating a boy??” and ronan would be like “yep” and that would be it. also in what world does everyone not already know that ronan is gay? adam obviously knows, so why wouldnt ronans best friend know? just because its not talked about all the time doesnt mean they aren’t aware. I mean how often do you talk to your lesbian friend about the fact that they are a lesbian? probably only when its relevant to talk about, which it has yet to be in this series

anonymous asked:

not trying to offend but just asking- what do you mean Amelia was shit?

I’m not offended! So the short version is that she was a crappy veterinarian. Sam hits a dog with his car, brings it in, pays for its care, and she friggin guilt trips him into keeping it. Like you don’t know his fucking story, you don’t know if he lives somewhere he can’t have dogs, etc. Adopting a dog is a big deal and not something anyone should be forced into. And vets see way worse stuff than people bringing in and paying for an HBC dog only to not adopt it. That dog was purebred and pretty, it would have been easy to find a home for, and tbh it probably already had a home considering how clean it was for a long-haired dog. Did she try to keep it for a few days to see if anybody came looking for it? No. Like we see people bring in pets and want to euthanize them because they’re getting old and they want a puppy or kitten. That sucks. A man being a good samaritan and saving a dog’s life? He doesn’t deserve bullshit or guilt from you.

She could have been a great girlfriend or whatever, but honestly I can’t forgive her for having the balls to confront Sam like that when he did nothing wrong. And it wasn’t in the best interest of the dog. The dog’s best interest is being adopted by someone who wants and is ready to own a pet. Sam probably did a good job with it, but she had no way of knowing that. 

The short version just kind of became the long version. I have a lot of feelings.

Oh, and shoutout to cute dog that was terrible at acting hurt. Look at its face. #boredwiththis  And the fake-looking fake blood. And that Sam hair was flawless.