so you dont have to separate them

8

“In the moment of our separation, upon the road as I travelled, and every hour since, I have felt all that love, respect and attachment for you with which length of years, close connexion and your merits have inspired me. I often asked myself, as our carriages separated, whether that was the last sight I should have of you? And though I wished to say no, my fears answered yes.” 

 George Washington, The Life of Gilbert Motier de Lafayette

confession time: I slap pastel on everything. even the things that arent supposed to be in pastel

(thank you @novembon for the request and the kind words!!! I’m glad you enjoy what Ive got on my blog. hope this reigen trying to be cool suits your taste.)

this request post predicts the pastel apocalypse. find out how the world will end right here

10

And from all the smiles I’ve seen yours are the ones I crave for the most

“Our lives pass by so quickly that we don’t realize that there are so many precious moments to catch in [life]. In our daily life let’s record each and every moment and turn them into our memories. Let’s talk together, laugh together, sing together. That moment we share together unknowingly has already become special in our hearts. One month, you and I, the time we spent together, when we remember about this, it will be an amazing memory to us. That memory to you, I hope it will become your special daily life” - Taeyeon to her fans

#Happy28thTaeyeonDay

these babies are THE best earplugs known to planet earth I swear. and SO much easier to find (separated ones always disappear in my bed when I use them to sleep) but honestly you can’t hear shit w these. sometimes to get them all the way in I have to get them wet, I personally dab them with a wipe so I don’t get water in my ears. but really, if anyone is looking for quality earplugs, go for these.

idk over the years ive seen a lot of people say “wheeeeh u cant reward komova for her straight legs and arched toe point bc some people just arent capable of that and its unfaiiiiir *6 second long fart noise*” but seriously when i see videos of her doing just a simple stag leap it makes my heart skip a beat, there just arent many gymnasts like that anymore and that deserves to be rewarded. when you have olympic medalists who literally cant hit a fucking full split on beam, and then you have VIKA, and you’re trying to tell me that only a tenth or two in deductions should separate them???? that’s fucking insane.  and as far as the “faaaaaaiiiirness” goes, you could argue just as easily that its not faaaaaair that tumbling on floor is so highly rewarded because some people just dont have the power in their legs to pull of huge tumbling runs like simone and aly and jordyn and a million other “power gymnasts.” but that’s equally fucking stupid because this is a judged sport and unless u wanna give everyone participation medals and tell them that the most important thing is their pathetic little feeeeeelings, there needs to be a way to assign points, NUMERICAL VALUES, to performances to rank them. so im sorry for not wanting to sit on my hands and refuse to reward excellence in the sport because your fave’s feelings will be hurt if they’re told that they need to have a slight oversplit to be an elite fucking olympic level gymnast!!!!! cry me a river

anonymous asked:

"there's no rebranding" do you think people would really do that? just tell lies on the internet?

it’s funny because although there hasn’t been an official “rebranding” it’s so obvious to anyone watching that dan and phil have definitely changed their images together. on their main channels they might seem the same but on the gaming channel their dynamic has blossomed (how is that even possible i dont even know). dan might claim rebranding is a joke (and of course it is it is really funny i will make rebranding jokes until i die) but they have been rebranding in small but effective ways. it’s more risqué jokes and side glances and making it evident to anyone on the outside that their lives are so incredibly intertwined you cant separate them. 

Yknow what my tag vent wasn’t enough.

Why do people feel the need to demonize an entire community of people for the wrongdoings of a group within that community?

Homophobic aces? Yes, condemn them. Homophobia is fucking gross and wrong.
Dont condemn the entire fucking community.

The trans people doing nasty despicable things, like all the claims terfs have made (r*pe, forced insemination, sending r*pe threats, etc etc)? For the love of god yes!!! Condemn them!!
Dont condemn the entire community of trans people for the actions of a few. We dont have control over other peoples actions.

The reason I’m so angry and irritated about this is because; do you understand how many transphobic, biphobic, racist (either separate or all together) gay people I have come across??? In real life too, not just on hellsite.
But there is absolutely no talk of “hey a few people in your community do this so now all of you are bad”

I’ve come across quite a few biphobic lesbians on this site, but there is no talk of demonizing all lesbians for the actions of a few.

And some pansexuals that are on a pedestal for some reason riding the fuck out of ‘hearts not parts’ bullshit? Yeah; they’re out there somewhere. Y'all know it too. We’ve seen it before.
Is there talk of demonizing all pan people?
N o p e.

That’s literally what’s being done to ace people by discourse, and trans people by terfs. Just to name a few and establish what I’m trying to talk about in case I’m doing a poor job of wording this.

Y'all aren’t openly demonizing gay people (just as example) for the wrongdoings of the handful of nasty people doing gross shit in the community.
Because you know its fucking wrong to do that.
But knowing it’s wrong, why are y'all still doing it to trans and ace people?

I would fucking love it if this ‘double standard’ would stop.

i remember this person making a general post about how its sad that idols cant come out and be loved for who they are and how fans think that being gay is disgusting and there’s no such thing as a gay idol

and people agreed, it was a very popular post…but as soon as someone found out that it was about kaisoo and kxk they immediately turned against it saying things like “this post was well intended but the execution is harmful” which actually proved the point of the op that they are all for gay people but as soon as there may exist a real relationship they dont want to believe it 

also is it so hard to separate people who actually believe someone are dating and actually support them from the “fetishizers” and “the ones who only see gay men as nothing more than sex objects to write about in their fanfics”

we wouldn’t be having this discussion if the thought of two people in a group dating wasn’t so far fetched that you have to be against it and defend it so much.let people think whatever they want why u have to fight it so much? why do a few people on the internet thinking kaisoo might be dating bother you so much?

shinsen-haruki  asked:

Hello! This is my first time so--hope you can do this request~ I would like separate scenarios for Midoriya, Todoroki, kaminari, and Kirishima. it's lunch time, but their s/o or crush is out of money and is so gloomy; about to cry that they don't get to have food. But then they (baes) dont want their s/o or crush to starve so they offer up some of their lunch or to buy for them too. They're so touched that they go up to them and hug them and say 'I love you. Thank you so much' or something ^^

i love you!!

midoriya izuku

Originally posted by dazaiosamu-s

“Dammit!” They shouted, leaning on Izuku. He looked at them with a confused look before popping some of his food into his mouth.

“Why are you shouting?” He asked, setting his chopsticks down on top of his bento box. He saw his crush look at him with sad eyes.

“I left my wallet over at the dorms and now I can’t go and buy something to eat.” They whined, setting their head down on the table. Izuku looked at them before handing them his bento box.

“Please have the rest, I had a big breakfast so i’m not that hungry.” He proposed, rubbing their back and almost coaxing them into taking the food. When he saw them begin to raise their head and see the half eaten bento box, they reach around and pull Izuku their chest with a hug.

“I love you so much, thank you for this!” They said before picking up his chopsticks. He really liked them, he was hopeless.

todoroki shouto

Originally posted by genosus

They grabbed the two toned boy with an almost pleading look in their eyes. “Do you have 20 yen?!” He stopped sipping his smoothie before shaking his head.

“I only carry what I need for lunch, why?” He asked. They sighed before pulling away from him.

“I’m down 20 yen so I can’t get lunch.” They sighed before plopping down at the table. He sat down next to them, setting his smoothie and bento box down.

“Just share with me.” He said matter-of-factly. They looked at him before grinning widely, tears prickling their eyes. 

“Thank you!” They hugged him tightly and he had a small content smile on his face.

kaminari denki

He held the hand of his s/o, walking to a table to sit before he heard them sigh. His s/o sat down quickly before pouting and resting their head in their hands. “Heyyy, why so down?” He asked, sitting down next to them.

“I forgot my bag and now I have no lunch.” They sighed and looked at him with sad eyes. He pouted before nodding to his food.

“I’m not that hungry! Why don’t you have some?” He said with a small smile. 

“Are you sure Kaminari? I don’t want to just-”

“Shush and eat!” He said. He felt his face get grabbed and before he could even get a word out, they kissed him.

kirishima eijirou

They were leaving the line and while talking he heard a low rumbling noise next to him. He looked at his s/o with a small smirk.

“Someone’s hungry.” They looked at him with a frown before crossing their arms.

“My brother is holding my wallet hostage so I can’t go and buy food!”

“Oh come on! I bought this for us to share!” Kirishima said with a grin, slinging his arm across their shoulders. They looked at him with a small frown.

“Kiri, come on are you sure because-”

“You always worry about nothing! Now come on and dig in!” He said while pressing a kiss onto their forehead. They sighed before breaking their chopsticks in two.

“You better eat with me.” They said slowly. The redhead nodded before feeling a quick peck to his lips.

 Here Lies Hawke The Abyss

A quick snippet based off of this old prompt.

        “No.” The word was spoken with such force and venom that it is a wonder the single syllable does not leave Hawke’s lips scorched.

        “You said it yourself, the Wardens started this mess. So it’s only right that—“

        “NO!” It’s a good thing Hawke shouted the word this time, because the earsplitting shriek that erupted in the valley below would’ve drowned them out otherwise. The pools of black ichor that they had waded through in the Fade were slowly drawing together. They rose up and took form, congealing like blood trying to clot a nightmare-shaped wound. Precious seconds slipped heedlessly through grasping fingers. There wasn’t enough time to explain. Not enough time to tell Carver everything he should have been told.

        “I never could get out of your shadow anyways. The best thing I can do with my life is to save yours.” Hawke was shaking their head as he spoke, moving forward to take him by his shoulders. First father, then Bethany, and mother too soon after. Not Carver too. It stopped here. Carver must’ve seen that weight and determination in Hawke’s eyes, because something in his posture faltered. He opened his mouth to speak, but the reassurance died in his throat as another roar split through the air.

        “I know you stopped listening to me a long time ago,” Hawke said, their words were rushed but still spoken with gravity. “But just for old time’s sake, little brother—” there, Hawke’s voice cracked a fraction, “—just one last time, do as I ask.”

        “Hawke,” The Inquisitor warned, because in the brief silence the Nightmare had nearly taken full form. It towered over them, despite being rooted in the valley below.

        “I’m so proud of you,” Hawke croaked, resting their forehead briefly against Carver’s. “So proud.”

        “T-together…” Carver said, trying to protest, but Hawke shook their head again.

        “Live, Carver. But not for me, not for anyone else. Live for yourself. You’re worth it.” Hawke was pushing him away with their last words, trying to get him to move. The Inquisitor had taken hold of his arm to lead him away because all he could do was stare numbly at Hawke.

        One last roar from the Nightmare shook Carver from his stupor. He looked up at the creature that was swinging itself around to face them.

        “Sure would be nice if a dragon could swoop in and save the day, huh?” Carver rasped as he stumbled away with the Inquisitor. Hawke recognized the assent that the joke represented, and their laugh was one of relief and false bravado.

        “You never know what might happen,” they called after Carver as he and the Inquisitor retreated toward the Rift. The young Warden looked once over his shoulder just before stepping through the astral green tear in the Fade. The last glimpse he caught of Hawke was of their smile, their face turned toward him to make sure he had escaped. Even so far away Carver could see it, knew exactly how the expression marked Hawke’s features. They had worn that smile for him whenever the Hawke’s had been forced to move to avoid Templars, and Carver found himself struggling in a new place yet again. They had worn that smile when father had died, and Carver had thought the whole world would simply stop spinning. They had worn that smile in the Deep Roads when Carver had felt the Taint slowly consuming him.

        And whether it was a trick of his mind, or of the Fade, Carver heard what Hawke always said when they wore that smile. Everything’s going to be alright. You’re going to be fine. They had always been right before. But when Carver came tumbling back in to the real world with tears in his eyes and the blood of his last sibling on his hands… he wasn’t sure it would be true this time.

@zaddy sorry hun but you still havent answered my questions exactly as i need them to be, so instead im going to break it down for you. please read this CARFULLY . -4 times through to make sure you fully understand exactly what ball python care involves. This is going to be long and cover all the bases. I dont mean to be rude, but i find it strange that it seems you are dancing around my questions- i could be entirely wrong in the way i am interpretting it, so im deeply sorry if you mean otherwise.
i am unable to help without those 4 very specific questions being answered fully.

Temperatures:
There are three temperatures you need to be recording, with two separate tools you need to be using to measure them. Ball pythons should be given the same consistent temperatures in the day and the night. You should never have to shut off any heating element to change the temperatures.
Heat mats are best for belly heat as ball pythons are NOT basking animals. They do not actively seek out spots in the sun to lay in. Instead, they use the heat accumulated from the ground. The heat mat MUST be used with a thermostat to control the temperature. Without a thermostat the temperatures will not be correct and risk killing your snake. Because you are using a tank, you will need a ceramic heat emitter NOT NOT NOT a heat lamp that guves off light- INCLUDING RED LAMP BULBS. these will negatively affect your animal because they can still see the light. being that they should have the same consistent temperatures day in and day out you cannot use any heat source that gives off light.

Ambient temperatures: Ambient means the air temperature of the enclosure. Ball pythons should be allowed to have a gradient- meaning the temperatures should be warm on one side and warmer on the opposite side- to allow them to choose which temperature to regulate their bodies with. This should be measured using a DIGITAL thermometer and NOT an analog gauge because they are incredibly inaccurate and will not give you correct readings. (as shown in this link) Acurite sells some fairly accurate digital thermometers that will tell you the air temperature within one or two degrees of accuracy.

The temperature of the cool side should be ideally 78-80 degrees and NEVER below 75.

The temperature of the warm side (NOT the hotspot) should be around 85 degrees. If your warm ambient temperature is any warmer than this, it means your hotspot is WAY TOO HOT.

Hotspot: Hotspot are measured with an infrared heat gun because it is a SURFACE temperature. You can learn the difference between ambient and surface temperatures by checking out this link.

For ball pythons, hotspots should be 88-92 degrees and not any hottern again using an infrared heat gun NOT your average thermometer.

Humidity: Keeping humidity up is just as important as temperatures. Because you are using a tank you need to have some humidity holding substrate. Paper towels and aspen will not work. Ball pythons require this humidity because if it is any lower they will begin to lose water through their skin, quickly dehydrating them. This is another cause of not eating, but can also kill your snake. Humidity should be 55% at MINIMUM but is better at 60%. You will need a digital hygrometer to measure this- acurite makes these too.

Please read about making a correct tank habitat through this link.

Feeding: Many ball pythons NEVER learn to take frozen thawed prey. This is a reality you have to accept. If you are not willing to feed out live prey, then ball pythons are not the animal for you. It’s highly concerning that you would choose to force feed the snake before attempting to feed out live prey. Force feeding is a VERY stressful process for the snake and should only be used as a last resort after literally EVERYTHING else has been tried. Even then it should only be done by a professional such as a vet who has experience in doing this because it is dangerous and harmful. It will also cause your snake to associate you with scary things and not safety.

It is NOT normal for young or underweight snakes to go off feed of which yours is both. When people say ball pythons go off feed it is the adults in breeding season- NOT HATCHLINGS. The only reasons a hatchling would not eat is if they are fresh out of the egg which yours is not. The other reasons are wrong husbandry and illness.

Feeding should always take place in their enclosure. Yep- you read that correctly- do not remove your animal for feeding. They are ambush predators that sit and wait for their food. They do not actively seek their prey, like corn snakes. removing them is stressful and increases the chances of you getting bitten, but also increases the chances of your snake throwing up ots meal which will make it go off feed even longer.

Enclosure: Ball pythons are secretive animals that hide 85% of the time. As they say, a happy ball python is a hiding ball python. They should generally only be active during the wee hours of the morning. not during the times humans are generally awake. Every empty space should be filled with a permeable visual barrier- in other words, things that look big and bulky, but are made for the snake to pass through.
Ball pythons require at least 2 hiding holes (one on the hot side and one on the cool side) that are completely covered on all 4 sides with a small hole to allow entrance and exit. Half logs are not appropriate hides whatsoever and make the animal feel exposed and unsafe.


Handling: Ball pythons are not animals meant to be handled daily or for more than half an hour. Again they are a secretive and shy species that are very particular about their habits. Handling them more frequently or for longer is doing them a huge disservice. At most they should be handled 3-4 times a week for no more than 30 minutes. Again, if you plan on handling him for longer or more often then ball pythons are not the animal for you. Excessive handling will cause them to go off feed and associate you with stress and scariness. They key to building a relationship with these animals is to create a confident and calm snake, not one that curls up or tries to get away as soon as they see you.


I am sorry this is very blunt and may even come off as harsh or rude, but the state your animal is in is very poor and some drastic changes need to be made immediately.

@followers please dont bombard her with suggestions. Normally i would welcome additional input but in this case it is not helpful or effective for you all to be adding in extra comments, especially because some of the ones ive seen are not correct and will only hurt. Please leave this up to me- i have this handled.

bettyneptune  asked:

I bet Infinity War is gonna be a Science RomCom w T'challa being Tony's new flame and Bruce running to the altar to stop their wedding

Thats what the war is about? LMAO Tonys hand in marriage.

Priest: If there are any objections speak now or forever hold your peace
Bruce: ///CRASHES THROUGH THE DOOR LIKE THE KOOL AID MAN!!!!/// ROOOOARRR!!!!
Everyone: ??!?!
Thor: //over the phone/// My apologies second Man of Iron. I could not distract him any longer!

Bruce: I OBJECT!

Tony: BRUCE?!
TChalla: So be it.
Tony: TCHALLA WHAT THE HELL WAS THAT UNDER YOUR SUIT THE WHOLE TIME?!

Tony: My wedding…. God is this how Pepper felt all the time?! //sobbing
Rhodey: Dont you even think of coming to the after party Thor! YOU HAD ONE JOB.
Thor: HAVE MERCY MAN OF IRON!! I TRIED!!!! //sobbing
Vision: ….Shall I separate them Mr. Stark?
Peter: OOH OOH ME TOO! LET ME HELP TOO MR STARK!
//dutiful sons

[Background]: //Hulk smashing noises and stock sound effects of a panther roar.

yall: “micro labels” are harmful and no one should use them
yall: no one should identify as queer
yall: how can you be ace and have sex
yall: dont call your relationship queerplatonic bc “its really just a friendship”
yall: if i dont like your labels then they arent good enough
yall: you must be “sga” or trans to be a certified lgbt
yall: literally police queer kids identities all the fucking time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
also yall somehow?: the MOGAIs keep forcing labels on young impressionable kids :/ yikes

anonymous asked:

I dont get it, so Jikook were very close during 2015 to 1st half of 2016, always sat next to each other at fansigns and both festa 2015&2016. Then since the other half of 2016, they've been separated in an obvious way, so we can consider that how Bighit and Bangtan have been trying to not let them be touchy. But suddenly they're obviously showing us that they're in love again, sat next to each other at Home party and were lovey-dovey at concerts, what do you think? Did bighit give up on them?

For the record, I’m like 200% in favour of splitting Jikook up at fansigns because I don’t even get why they do they things they do when they sit together. I mean it’s probably some weird sort of fanservice in their minds but they do it so hard they forget to service the fans ._.

And I wasn’t surprised to see them apart. If you think about it, it makes sense they they’d be apart at some point, even if just by chance, so don’t think so much of it for now. I think we should rather be paying attention to how super :D :D :D :D they get when they’re at concerts or doing photoshoots together and such, and to this day I think the brightest I’ve ever seen Jungkook smile was when he was complimenting Jimin’s killer shoulder ;)

True feelings speak aloud, so whether or not there’s some dramatic, intervening force like we believe (which is up to you), we should just focus on the happy while it lasts for now.

anonymous asked:

I dont want to be that person but, i agree with you, thats not enough reason to separate them the way they do, aaand for example on Taes bday bts bomb why did they rapidly changed the focus of the cam that was on tae cause tae was the bday boy and changed to jin just because kookie went to tae? Like? They werent working on that moment, that moment was for tae to be with the members and have fun, so those are things that doesnt have an explanation at least for me

Exactly. If it was just to stop them from messing around when they’re with their fans why cut out all the moments they have on Bangtan Bombs? (and it always happens to only be taekook, they’re fine with the other members having skinship so why not Taekook too??) also Taekook weren’t at all disruptive in the recent fansign they sat together in so??? They were just very soft around each other (¬_¬)

You know this was how i thought the show was going to end. With clarke dying and bellamy becoming a leader who will use both his head and heart because of clarke. I really would have loved that ending cause im a masochist but im so happy they’re giving this to us cause i cant wait to see what those two characters are after 6 years. After 6 years of being separated but carrying the other one with them every day. Cause in large parts they are what they are because of each other and no matter how much time passes that never changes.
This is it. They are the otp

anonymous asked:

Hiii>< could you do some headcannons for tsukki and kuroo w a s/o who's having really bad cramps

im assuming like period cramps here!! i know how much they suck so im here for you anon ((and so are the volleyball boys!!)) also not sure if you meant both of them in a poly relationship or separate so i wrote them separate!!

tsukki

-pretends like he doesnt care and tells you to grow up and get over it!!

-spoiler alert: he cares immensely and is really upset seeing you in pain

-he’s furiously typing on google remedies for cramps and just like that hes heating up a water bottle and giving you a foot rub

kuroo

-you dont have to even tell him as soon as you show the slightest sign of discomfort kuroo becomes a complete worrywart

-he absolutely babies you,, honestly he practically acts like you’re dying and stays by your side and does anything you ask

-literally whatever you want kuroo will do, your having cramps? hes got you a heating pad and is ribbing your stomach right then and there. hungry? he’s cooking up one of his mom’s homemade recipes. cold? blankets. bored? movies. need to go to the bathroom? hes all over you saying how he can walk you there but by that point you’re shooing him away and telling him you can do things on your own. 

cmyk look-alike tutorial (photoshop)

im making these paranormal buttons and i thought i’d make a tutorial while im at it. they’re meant to look like cmyk screenprints, but entirely digital. you can do this with any image, but i found that photographs look the best. give a cool vintage postcard feel to your pictures or artwork!

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goatinatrenchcoat  asked:

I have read your "Apollo in red" reincarnation AU five separate times today. It's absolutely amazing and I love it. You're really an amazing author!

anon said: Elise!!!! your reincarnation fic for enjoltaire week is gorgeous i’m crying ! i need more!!

Aaaw thank you so so much!! I’m glad you both liked it! I just liked the ambiguity of them not remembering their past selves even at the end, maye they’ll remember later, maybe they won’t, who knows?

I unfortunately dont have inspiration for what comes next, but if ever I do one day, I’ll be sure to write it!