The whole expectation that i will want children one day and i will want to get married, from my family, It’s kind of exhuasting?? The subject is always brought up at these family events and even though every time i express the idea of having kids in my life and the huge committment of marriage isn’t my thing. It’s still pushed on me.
“What if you’re wife wants kids! You’ll want them someday, they’re the greatest joy in life! You’ll change your mind later!”
Maybe i’ll change my mind later, maybe i’ll get married someday, but right now it’s none of your god damn bussiness?? like back off, chill out, fuck. Why does it matter to them so much??