so shitty don't even look at me

the-fifth-key  asked:

My sister and I both live at home, and at the moment, both my parents are on a 4 month holiday so it's just us two. My sister got a cat last year (even though I'm very allergic to it and fleas) which has been alright cause it's mostly an outdoor cat. But last week, my sister decided on short notice to move in with her boyfriend and can't take the cat with her. She wants me to look after it even though I'm really allergic and generally don't like it anyway. What should I do?

I don’t think you should take it. It was shitty for her to get it in the first place while living with you, and it’s utterly unreasonable of her to decide to foist it off on you because her life decisions are making her unable to care for it. This cat’s welfare is not your obligation, and it’s not fair to you to put you in this position. 

Also, it’s worth noting that you’re likely not going to take great care of an animal you don’t want, don’t like, and have health issues related to. Even if you intend to and try really hard, resentment builds up and can affect the cat’s quality of life. That’s not fair to the cat. 

Help her rehome the cat if you’re worried about it’s future care - or if you’re worried she’ll just abandon it - but you definitely don’t have to take it yourself. 

anonymous asked:

I want to like /ance so bad I truly do but antis and /ance stans have worn me out. I was actually getting back in the hang of liking him again but then I saw more k/ance and /angst™ and it's just such bullshit? The people who 'love' him don't do his character any justice. They make it out so that it seems he's hater but truly the more they say it the more they're wearing his character thin. I'm truly even tired of hearing his name at this point and it's a damn shame cause I'm really trying. :((

The way a lot of ppl portray Lance in fanon is honestly gross it’s so ooc and makes him seem like such a dick like how are you looking at the same character as me wtf did he do to deserve to be portrayed as such a shitty character in fanon it’s sad


Unfollowed some people- still have more I’m thinking I’ll have to unfollow, but I’m feeling conflicted about it. I’m not even 100% what I want or need on these blogs anymore- sigh. 

Either works really messing with my brain or I’m just burnt out. 

so here’s the thing: flames had zero (0) penalties against them, played a beautifully disciplined game (because lemme tell you Chucky looked like he wanted to go), had five (5) power plays and scored on three (3), there was no penalty against Matthew Tkachuk being punched in the face (even though it was pointed out by a commentator) and the refs spent who knows how long trying to decide if a goal should be allowed with a high stick (pro tip: it shouldn’t have been) and then we lost 5-4 in an OT which shouldn’t have even happened

“Unlike the hallways, the lunchroom was suspiciously silent. There was a tension that filled the space, immediately setting Alex on edge. Navigating through the crowd, he managed to slip to the front with ease. In any other case, his small stature would be a brittle thorn in his side, but on the occasion it had its advantages. The scene that laid before him was one that would not soon be forgotten. Lafayette was towering on top of a table, shouting in a mixture of French and English at another boy who was standing on the ground looking up smugly at the enraged teenager. There was a small circle of students blocking entrance to the faceoff, keeping any administration interference at bay. Teenagers are like sharks, Alex thought, a fight is like a drop of blood.”

Aaaaaand here is yet another drawing from @damn-man-ham-fam‘s brilliant fic. I can’t seem to stop drawing Hamilton how did this happen

So what was so very wrong with drawing a fat character skinny, anyway?
  • SU fandom: It's fatphobic! It shames little kids who don't fit societal beauty standards!!
  • Me: So it could do harm to other people, is what you're saying.
  • SU fandom: Yes! Bigger characters need more representation in the media! Erasing that representation will make little kids who are bigger feel bad about themselves.
  • Me: But she didn't erase the character. She just drew her differently. The character and representation is still there...?
  • SU: It doesn't matter! Someone could still see her work and take it personally!
  • Me: And feel bad about themselves. Even though it didn't actually, physically harm them. Your biggest concern in all of this, basically, is that it might hurt someone's feelings.
  • Me: So it could make them depressed.
  • SU fandom: YES.
  • Me: Depressed... to the point of hurting themselves or even, I dunno, attempting <i>suicide?</i>
  • SU fandom: EXACTLY. NO ONE SHOULD EVER BE MADE TO FEEL THAT DEPRESSED BECAUSE OF A ooooh wait I see where you're going with this
Just a reminder

I know everyone is excited for BTS at the BBMAs and we all should be, the boys have come so far and achieved so much and it honestly makes me so proud. 

But guys please please remember to respect the other artists at the show, especially if they interact with BTS. A lot of these artists the boys actually like and look up to and are excited to meet to please try remember that even if the artist in question isn’t necessarily one you personally like. 

An example is The Chainsmokers, there are lots of posts going around with them deliberately and maliciously cut out of their photos with BTS  - guys please try not to this so much because please remember that ARMYs behaviour reflects on BTS, we could make the boys look bad by being disrespectful towards the other artists 
Now i’m not saying you have to like for example The Chainsmokers - hell personally i’m not that fond of how they sound - but still BTS are obviously excited to meet them 
(probably some of them more that others, i mean there’s 7 of them they’re all gonna have different music tastes)

Now i know not everyone is doing this with malicious intention, it’s ok if you’re just trying to collect pics of the boys, there’s nothing wrong with that.
Just please remember to be as respectful as possible about any interactions BTS have with the other artists. (Unless an artist is rude to them or just really rude in general there is no reason we can’t be polite)
This is a huge night for them and it will be fun so we should all enjoy it as much as possible 

thank you <3 

you even looked beautiful in your underwear, drunk on the bathroom floor; your bony knees touching the bruises on my shins. you sat up between pukes to re-collect yourself, and i brushed your hair back, resting my lips on the newly bare skin of your forehead. your hair always falls forward so gently, like satin ribbon to the floor when you cut it. (i still don’t know how to cut ribbon correctly.) i know you hate the way it feels when it touches your eyelashes. you know i hate the way it feels when your eyelashes tickle my cheek. yet you always do it anyways, excessively, because you love the way my laugh sounds. (and i love you for that.) i leaned back and slipped my hands down to your flushed cheeks (the best cheeks my skin has ever touched), and i looked into your glossed over eyes, red from the strain of dry heaving. all i could think about in that moment was how much i love you. how much i love when you give me that shy look u always do when we share silent moments (like this one), and how much i love the half-grin that comes immediately after eye contact is made, (right before your eyes quickly jump to another spot in the room.) i don’t know how it is possible to radiate beauty while clinging onto a toilet, but you make nausea seem convincingly attractive. (is this what they mean when they say beauty is pain?)

thedemonsofmysoul  asked:

Once you get this you have to say five things you like about yourself, publicly. Then, you have to send this to ten of your favourite followers. non-negotiable and try to be positive about yourself!

i’m sorry i can’t find even a single thing. every part of me is just so shitty. i’m sorry i couldn’t follow through with this.

I think I just found a new spider species? I never saw any spider likes this, if its an already discovered species someone should tell me because I can’t find literally any info on what might be this spider’s species.

I’ll probably take pictures if I can but my phone has a shitty quality so they won’t look very good.


Small, about half the size of the fingernail of the little finger.

It’s not hairy.


White fangs.

Its front legs have both a white stripe by the end of it.

I think it has a spiky abdomen????

It runs AND jumps really fast.

4 legs in each side.

It played dead when I first captured it, then it slowly started moving again when I stopped moving. 

It keeps putting its front legs up in the air like a mad bitch. 


A/N: I posted this before but tumblr screwed up so I’m posting it again. 

Description: Phil isn’t sure what they are any more. Then he screws up. 

Word Count: 2K

Their situation is fucked up. Like… well and truly beyond what is normal.

Phil first met Dan four years ago. At the time Dan had a girlfriend. Phil can still remember the disappointment he’d felt at that. Dan was… everything he was attracted to. Smart, funny, sarcastic, quick witted… the fact that he was also very nice to look at didn’t help Phil’s immediate crush at all.

The first year he knew Dan was confusing. There were moments. Many moments between them. And Phil wasn’t sure if he was just projecting the feelings he couldn’t seem to will away on to innocent situations, or if there was actually tension between them.

They were glances amongst conversation when no one else was paying attention. Late nights texting each other well in to early hours of the morning. It was Dan always making sure he was sitting next to Phil and nudging him at every inside joke they had (because in that first year they shared so many jokes between them).

And it could have all been innocent.

But Phil wasn’t sure.

Then, exactly a year after they had met, Dan told him.

‘Emily and I broke up.’

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People keep sayin Maxie doesn’t have a bed in his room… But, hear me out: what if his couch is a hideabed? I mean, it’s practical. I could totally see him being too sleep deprived to make the effort to actually pull it out, though. Or he probably just forgets or doesn’t use it often. But if like Archie came to his base and was like, “Haha wow Maxie, you say you’re such a genius but you don’t even got a bed in your office?” And Maxie would pull the bed out just to prove a point.

(Bonus: Maxie jumps on the bed, lays in the ‘french girl’ pose with the smuggest look on his face. He then gives Archie bedroom eyes and says some shitty innuendo like, “I pulled it out for you, so why don’t you pull it out for me? ;) ;) ;)” or some dumb dick joke like that.)

  • bobby's rap: look at me I'm the fucking greatest don't even try to come at me! hanging out with all these cool 1llionaire dudes, turning up, winning smtm, making it rain, i'm so cool *word play everywhere*
  • hanbin's rap: life is cruel and the weight of the world is on my shoulders. I'm gonna work hard and reach my goals for myself and for ikon but it's hard and I'm sad......turn up?

anonymous asked:

frank iero and gerard aren't even attractive and Michael Clifford is better than both combined, so I don't get posts that show a pic of Gerard saying "me" implying that oaf is hot and then a pic of Michael impying he's ugly. Mcr are fags honestly and these shitty ass emo fanbases need to stop hating on 5sos all together

Ahh yes, that post. Unfortunately, your michael’s inner character and disposition is reflected by his uncomely looks. And your choice of homophobic insult proves the point that he has failed as a role model and, in all honesty, existing as decent human being. I’m sure you know that he has constantly used this word, and I’m also sure that you’re using it now because of him. This isn’t about who’s attractive and who’s not, this is about the moral integrity of the people who we choose to look up to and follow. I do not hate 5sos, I simply do not condone their members' hateful and discriminatory actions.

anonymous asked:

Why do you hate Maya and Topanga's relationship so much? I think it's sweet

*psa, when I use the term boyfriend, I really mean there is a mutual thing going on*

As a whole, I don’t hate it, but in regards to the love triangle, I think it’s unrealistic and extremely frustrating. 

Right now, Riley is in a lot of pain, because her best friend has developed feelings for the guy she is seeing. Maya spent two seasons flirting with Lucas and developing feelings for him despite the fact that he was seeing her best friend. Imagine being in a mutual relationship with someone, and then having to deal with your best friend pulling your boyfriend by the shirt and bringing him close enough to her face to kiss him. Imagine your best friend looking visibly turned on around your crush and saying things like “pick up the bed with one hand” because she is voicing that she is attracted to him. Imagine your best friend developed a crush on your boyfriend and started flirting with him and making her feelings known through her actions. How would you feel?

Now, imagine talking to your mom about feeling overwhelmed because your best friend thought it was okay to pursue the guy you were seeing. Imagine having to deal with that kind of pain and betrayal and going to your mom for comfort, only for her to get up and comfort the source of your pain and tell her that the situation is not her fault. How would you feel?

I have had the same best friend my entire life. She is my next door neighbor and we are extremely close. She is also very close with my mother. My mom saw her as soon as she came home from the hospital and often used to babysit her while her parents were away at work, or needed some time to themselves. Yet there is no way in hell my mom would sit there and comfort her if she decided to flirt with the guy I was seeing. Because what Maya did was shitty. She hurt Riley and she did in fact mishandle things. And to sit there and watch Topanga coddle her and tell her that she did nothing wrong (and in front of Riley nonetheless) pisses me off big time. 

I’m just extremely tired of the narrative not holding Maya culpable. And it kills me that Topanga, Riley’s mother, is doing the same. 

anonymous asked:

Hi! I saw your post about sending ideas for drawings and if it's not too much trouble could I throw the idea your way of drawing Sammy with a manbun just looking cute? It's totally okay if you don't draw it :) I absolutely LOVE your art!

“sammy where did you even get that hair tie” (dean probably)

You are so kind, thank you so much anon! There’s a still version here and *whispers* these are both transparent!

send me stuff to draw