so shitty don't even look at me

anonymous asked:

Personally, I think that S3 is going to be a disaster, even worse than S2. We have Kara being so devastated bc she lost her bf that she's about to throw "Kara Danvers" away. Everything that she formed since she landed on earth. And why? Bc she's lost her bf? Many people go thru break ups but being this dramatic about it is some next level shit. How can this show still claim that they're progressive and feminist if their lead is about to throw her life away bc of a man? Truly disgusting.

Don't get me started on how shitty s3 is looking. it’s so fake edgy it doesn’t even look like the same show. This is meant to be a family show and yeah, they should explore dark aspects of the characters but wtf is that? Kara isn't even IC? Kara Danvers helped her fit in. How is losing a boyfriend suddenly going to make her stop being Kara Danvers? HOW DOES THAT EVEN RELATE TO THE SITUATION? Like, honey, aliens did that shit. In fact, Mon-El caused that himself. Not humans. Logically Kara should be realizing how fucked up the whole relationship was and the fact Mon-El caused the invasion and had her press that button to eradicate a whole species when that fucking happened to her own world. She literally did what she went through as a child. Of course, they escaped but she did it and they just happened to fuck off fast enough to survive. But still. She lost her actual world. Her family. And she would be willing to do that and now act like losing her abusive boyfriend is as bad or somehow worse than losing her parents and entire world as a child?

Supergirl is subscribing to the belief that a boyfriend should be a woman’s entire world and that losing them, even when they are abusive, should break them. They literally want me to think Kara Zor-El would break apart and become more like redk Kara because she lost a shitty abusive boyfriend. WTF. First of all, she already lost her damn world. And now she’s snapping? NOW? Not when Clark gave her up and she went to live with strangers? Not when yet again she lost someone when Jeremiah “died”? Not when she realized (because of dumb writing) that she could not do what she does and date James? Not when she found herself isolated from her loved ones? Not when she found out her boyfriend had been lying to her and planned to continue? But because said boyfriend who continuously abused her left. 

Nice to know the message the Supergirl writers want to give to young audiences. That abusive guy you know and hate? You should date him. He abuses you? It's tough love. Oh he lied to you? Poor him. You should really stick by his side. Even when he takes no responsibility. Just sacrifice who you are, your job and your other relationships to please him. ONLY HE MATTERS. You two aren't together anymore? You should feel like you’re nothing without him. Only he gives you meaning. Be completely dependent on him. Also, your value depends on him and him alone. As does your identity.

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(( OOC: So this… this literally the first time I ever attempted cosplay. I don’t think these gifs even made it online. And as god-awful and cringy as they are, it’s still pretty to funny to think that’s where this whole thing began.

With dip-dyed hair and a shitty eyeliner beard. ))

the-fifth-key  asked:

My sister and I both live at home, and at the moment, both my parents are on a 4 month holiday so it's just us two. My sister got a cat last year (even though I'm very allergic to it and fleas) which has been alright cause it's mostly an outdoor cat. But last week, my sister decided on short notice to move in with her boyfriend and can't take the cat with her. She wants me to look after it even though I'm really allergic and generally don't like it anyway. What should I do?

I don’t think you should take it. It was shitty for her to get it in the first place while living with you, and it’s utterly unreasonable of her to decide to foist it off on you because her life decisions are making her unable to care for it. This cat’s welfare is not your obligation, and it’s not fair to you to put you in this position. 

Also, it’s worth noting that you’re likely not going to take great care of an animal you don’t want, don’t like, and have health issues related to. Even if you intend to and try really hard, resentment builds up and can affect the cat’s quality of life. That’s not fair to the cat. 

Help her rehome the cat if you’re worried about it’s future care - or if you’re worried she’ll just abandon it - but you definitely don’t have to take it yourself. 

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No comment on the quality and/or the drawings will be made.

Sooo I wanted to draw something for Ace Mis Week and remembered this post by @just-french-me-up that made me laugh some months ago (yup I definitely did spend two hours trying to find it). Also I was looking for Ace themed shirts and this one was just epic. 

Anyway, have a great Ace Mis Week everyone! :)

anonymous asked:

I hate the double standard (*SOME*) plus girls have. I've always been skinny, never weighting more then 115. I'm 5'6 so what little weight I have stretches makes me look even skinnier. I always see memes about how "Men don't want to cuddle a skeleton" or "Real men like curves; dogs go for bones" & "Real woman have meat" etc. They can make/reblog/share/post shit like that~ but all hell would fucking break loose if I called one of them a fat cow. I NEVER would, I'm not a cunt. But still. :/

It’s true that people can be shitty to skinny people, I’ve seen them call skinny girls in my school anorexic, but rarely. And that’s harmful and upsetting, I get that.

This ask rubs me the wrong way. Why would you even want to call someone a fat cow? Like of course people would be angry and upset if you called them a fat cow wtf? That’s nasty and hurtful. This doesn’t make any sense.

Those things you see that say “real men like meat on their bones” are rooted in misogyny and also hurt fat girls, because it revolves around what men like and it also sexualizes fat girls as well, and enforces the idea that women’s appearances and weight only matter if men like them. Not to say it doesn’t hurt skinny girls as well, that kind of thing hurts all of us because of misogyny. You can’t say that fat people and skinny people deal with the same bullying because the truth is they don’t. Not even close. Fat people are jokes in TV shows and movies. Skinny people represent just about ever character, especially main characters.

I know some people can be made fun of for being skinny, usually when they’re really skinny. I get that. But you need to realize that society is fucking terrible to fat people. Maybe I read into this ask wrong, I just woke up and I’m still half asleep but it really did rub me the wrong way.

Bittersweet Daenerys' ending

It’s sure that’s not gonna happen but this just came to my mind and seems both heartbreaking and heartwarming. Trigger warning: Daenerys potential death (it’s much more BITTER AND HEARTBREAKING than I expected though…)

She is in the middle of a battle with the Night King. She’s riding Drogon and Jon’s riding Rhaegal. A lot of Northians and Free Folks fighting on the field with Wights. Night King is flying around on Viserion. Other White Walkers fighting with “bosses” (Jaime?, Brienne?) and some of them tries to shoot dragons with ice spears. The White Walker (or the Night King himself) shoots Drogon. He doesn’t die instantly but he falls (just like in 7x4). Dany falls on the ground away from him. The Night King lands with Viserion in front of her. She looks away at Drogon but in that moment a White Walker shoots him again and Drogon dies looking at Daenerys. She’s in grief shock, tears fall down her eyes. She looks traumatized. She has lost another child, her beloved child. She turns back to Viserion and desperately starts to call his name. The dragon doesn’t attack her - he seems like he knows her. However, he growls at her and shows his teeth. Despite that Daenerys tries to touch Viserion. We can see the pain and love in her eyes. Her hand stops halfway when Viserion growls again. In that moment Daenerys understands that even if he recognizes her, there’s no chance to bring him back on her side. She looks around the battlefield, she sees slow motion fighters. She looks at Jon flying Rhaegal and realizes how much they own each other. Rhaegal wasn’t her dragon anymore, he belonged to Jon. They are a family now, jest like Rhaegar is Jon’s father. She remebers Jon is the true heir of the Iron Throne, not her. She looks at him with love and she knows he will be a good king. She looks at dead Drogon now. All memories come back to her when her husband khal Drogo died. She recalls the vision from House of The Undying - Drogo and their child in a tent. She hears in her head Drogo’s voice telling her they will meet again. She smiles through tears. She knows now. No dragon belongs to her anymore, no mission she has left to do. She looks into Viserion’s eye with a love of mother. She smiles sadly again. She’s not afraid anymore and she’s not going to fight anymore. She almost feel the warm touch of Drogo’s hand on her shoulder. Looking last time at Viserion she says “Dracarys” quietly. Viserion does listen do her. His blue flames enfold Daenerys. The last thing she feels is strange burning cold of icy fire that’s magic can destroy even The Unburnt. She’s about to meet again the ones she lost.

So what was so very wrong with drawing a fat character skinny, anyway?
  • SU fandom: It's fatphobic! It shames little kids who don't fit societal beauty standards!!
  • Me: So it could do harm to other people, is what you're saying.
  • SU fandom: Yes! Bigger characters need more representation in the media! Erasing that representation will make little kids who are bigger feel bad about themselves.
  • Me: But she didn't erase the character. She just drew her differently. The character and representation is still there...?
  • SU: It doesn't matter! Someone could still see her work and take it personally!
  • Me: And feel bad about themselves. Even though it didn't actually, physically harm them. Your biggest concern in all of this, basically, is that it might hurt someone's feelings.
  • SU fandom: YES, holy shit. Feelings are important, IT'S WRONG TO MAKE PEOPLE FEEL SHITTY. THEY COULD BE SERIOUSLY DEPRESSED OR MENTALLY I'LL.
  • Me: So it could make them depressed.
  • SU fandom: YES.
  • Me: Depressed... to the point of hurting themselves or even, I dunno, attempting <i>suicide?</i>
  • SU fandom: EXACTLY. NO ONE SHOULD EVER BE MADE TO FEEL THAT DEPRESSED BECAUSE OF A ooooh wait I see where you're going with this

dandelionandbuttercup  asked:

How do you get inspired? I'm asking you because you seem like an inspired artist

Inspiration is an illusion


Real answer, at no point in my day do I feel inspired, and yet here i am making art. The more you progress with your art the more you realise that feeling really inspired to create something specific is very rare, and it doesn’t necessarily lead to better artwork. In short the trick is to create without feeling “inspired”, but it’s not a very good answer so I’m going to elaborate ahead. This is super long, but I feel like you deserve a serious answer.

1. Step one: get a sketchbook

You’re going to want a place to generate ideas in. Get a sketchbook, it doesn’t have to be fancy or expensive (and for what I’m about to suggest I think it’s actually better to get a cheaper one), ditch the loose sheets flying around your room, keep them for finished illustrations (but we’re not there yet). Aside from keeping all your drawings organized together (thus preventing you from losing your drawings), a sketchbook is fun to flip through.

I’ve had these two for this purpose and was very pleased with both (yeah, they’ve got scribbles all over them. don’t worry about it) the good thing about them is that they’re relatively cheap, but the paper is still of a decent quality.  They have lots of pages,so you’re not as afraid to “waste” them.

2. Step two: Scribble in it, a TON

Keep doodling and scribbling all over it, keep throwing ideas at the paper to see what sticks, even if it’s a shitty idea. Don’t be afraid of “wasting paper”, that’s why you bought a cheaper sketchbook. It doesn’t need to look pretty, a sketchbook is for learning and brainstorming. Looking and my art blog (and most artists’ honestly) you see mostly finished illustrations, so it’s easy to think that I just come up with an idea and then finish it. But in reality what I upload is a fraction of what I draw. My sketchbook is FULL of sketches that nothing came out of. Fill an entire page with doodles of hamsters, or landscapes, or even instagram models. It doesn’t matter, keep drawing.

Here are some examples of pages I did not upload.

3. Step three: don’t worry about it

About six months ago I was looking to get into art school, and of course to pass the exams I needed to present a portfolio. At the time I’ve been drawing in sketchbooks nearly exclusively for over two years, so I had very few illustrations to show. So I had about a month to build a stronger portfolio, and naturally I decided to make more, and more “inspired” ones. Let me tell you I have never produced more artworks I hated than I did then. Not even a single one was included in my portfolio. And of course after I had already presented and the pressure to create good artwork was off I finally was able to create more things I liked (I did get in to art school, so no need to worry). Point of the story is that you’re a better artist when you don’t put yourself under the pressure of constantly being good, so don’t worry about it (specially if you’re not a professional).

4. Step four: keep throwing shit at the wall and eventually something will stick

Ideas are like an avalanche. They can just stand there for ages if you’re not doing anything with them until they eventually melt and disappear. But it also means that it takes just a small push to bring all of them down. What you initially thought was a bad idea might lead you to a different better idea, and that one might lead you to another idea, and it would lead you to two more. Keep the momentum going until sometime in the future when you find and idea you’d like to turn to a finished painting. I am not the best example (because I don’t draw as much as I should), but even then there are times when I can seat for days and not draw a single thing, and then all of a sudden one sketch leads me to burn through 5 pages of my sketchbook in an hour. It took me 7 sketchbook pages from initial concept to final design when I was coming up with Major Tom, all done on the same day. And I drew even more characters that day that I haven’t uploaded.

5. Not exactly a step five: don’t neglect your technique

That’s a piece of advice I wish teenage me hadn’t ignored. Your technical skills are the tools you use to create. The better you skill are the more ideas you can execute. that means drawing the boring shit, like hands, perspective, still life etc. I started out like a lot of artists, drawing mainly anime, avoiding drawing hands, or any perspective to speak of. My art today suffers because of it. I’m 22 and still struggle with drawing proper hands, my perspective is off at best. Learn from my mistakes, it’s ok to draw the fun stuff, but also draw the important boring stuff.
(Disclaimer: this is a lesson I haven’t quite finished learning myself)

6. Step six: don’t limit yourself to one style

Beware the trap of “that’s my style”, beside limiting you in skill, committing to a style when you’re still young will limit you in what you can draw. Again, when I was younger I drew nearly exclusively anime. That meant I was very limited in what I could draw, and worse - I was getting sick of it. By the time I graduated highschool I couldn’t stand the idea of making another single anime drawing. i was going through a small art crisis, since all of a sudden I didn’t have a set style anymore. At that time I tried a bunch of different styles from realism, to american cartoon, and for a short time even french catoon. Today I draw in a fairly realistic style, leaning towards more or less cartoon depending on the specific subject. The best style is having no style. Your art will always have your touch to it, it’s something you can’t escape. Make the style work for you, not the other way. When in doubt look to Picasso. This guy exchanged styles like socks and he’s one of the greatest artists of our time, and even though his artworks are sometimes completely different from each other they are all still undoubtedly Picasso.


This answer ended up being super long because most artists online would reply to this question with something along the lines of “look for things that inspire you!” which I think is a cop out answer and it completely misses the point (sorry basically every youtube artist), it’s an important question that deserves better. You’re asking for advice to get inspired because things don’t inspire you, thats the whole problem. I also think this isn’t a very good advice in general, I feel really inspired maybe four times a year, and yet I created more than four artworks. Don’t sit around looking for inspiration because it won’t come. Draw without “inspiration”, you don’t need her anyway.

“Unlike the hallways, the lunchroom was suspiciously silent. There was a tension that filled the space, immediately setting Alex on edge. Navigating through the crowd, he managed to slip to the front with ease. In any other case, his small stature would be a brittle thorn in his side, but on the occasion it had its advantages. The scene that laid before him was one that would not soon be forgotten. Lafayette was towering on top of a table, shouting in a mixture of French and English at another boy who was standing on the ground looking up smugly at the enraged teenager. There was a small circle of students blocking entrance to the faceoff, keeping any administration interference at bay. Teenagers are like sharks, Alex thought, a fight is like a drop of blood.”

Aaaaaand here is yet another drawing from @damn-man-ham-fam‘s brilliant fic. I can’t seem to stop drawing Hamilton how did this happen

anonymous asked:

I just wanted a cute voltron icon, and they were so nice that I happened to look at the blogs that made them and majority had "don't follow or like if you support shaladin ships" and it made me feel so shitty, even though it's practically pure speculation of Shiro being older with no actual proof ((and the toy thing doesn't count since it doesn't come from the actual writers and directors of the show))

If you’re still looking for 100% shaladin approved/ship-positive icons, I suggest checking out this page

I’m just as tired from this fandom as you are anon, you’re not alone.

Keep reading

anonymous asked:

I want to like /ance so bad I truly do but antis and /ance stans have worn me out. I was actually getting back in the hang of liking him again but then I saw more k/ance and /angst™ and it's just such bullshit? The people who 'love' him don't do his character any justice. They make it out so that it seems he's hater but truly the more they say it the more they're wearing his character thin. I'm truly even tired of hearing his name at this point and it's a damn shame cause I'm really trying. :((

The way a lot of ppl portray Lance in fanon is honestly gross it’s so ooc and makes him seem like such a dick like how are you looking at the same character as me wtf did he do to deserve to be portrayed as such a shitty character in fanon it’s sad

anonymous asked:

Name a better recast than Karl to Ryan? You can’t.

IT’S NOT POSSIBLE NONNIE <333

Originally posted by roseprincesugden

THEY MIRACULOUSLY LOOK NOTHING ALIKE BUT HAVE EXACTLY THE SAME FACE AND PULL EXACTLY THE SAME EXPRESSIONS. QUITE INCREDIBLE REALLY. <333

OK SO UH IM REALLY PROUD DON’T LOOK AT ME MY ARTS SO SHITTY NEXT TO YOURS B Y E

anonymous asked:

I don't get why people stan these shitty queens lol. Alyssa laganja trinity SHARON Bianca & shea are all trash. It makes me so mad when they all try to excuse their shitty behavior and worse the fans don't care either. I'm glad you call it out most of the time lmao but even you excuse queens sometimes.

Sharon trinity and Bianca are trash, yes. But nah these other queens are not trash because they chose to work with someone. that’s such a reach. I reblogged the jstar post so people would realize how dumb they look trying to demonize shea for working with AB.

Y'all realize these queens are just trying to help their careers by working with more famous people, that doesn’t make them trash. What makes people trash is spewing nasty ass racism, and transphobia like Sharon, Trinity and Bianca have all done.

queenofdykes  asked:

i dont know why you hate me. if its for that time i messaged and then ignored you, im so sorry. it was really shitty and i dont remember why i did it. i wish i never did that. im sorry if i ever hurt you, but i don't understand how i was abusive during our relationship. i loved you so much, and i'll admit that i still love you, but this whole situation hurts a lot and idk what made you hate me so much.

Look, I don’t know how you got that message I sent my ex a while back or even why the fuck you’re doing this, but just fuck off this isn’t funny

god there’s nothing i hate more than my mother trying to look over my shoulder to how i’m doing in school because i’ve been doing really bad and she thinks i’m operating at full capacity instead of being at the end of my rope after several years of a shitty fucking depression so she just shames me and calls me lazy and overconfident - and even if she knew i had depression she wouldn’t be sympathetic she’d just be angrier and think it’s me making an excuse