so maybe i find some debate friends

Things that my  ENFJ brother did/does(from an INFP older sister's view)

A list of things my ENFJ brother does/have done at some point, that strongly show his personality, imo. I’m not an ENFJ but maybe someone will find these relatable!

  • Started talking and made friends with a stranger at the bus just to prove me he could be anyone’s friend- they still talk;
  • Started a debate in the midst of class because someone asked his opinion and he decided to share it with everyone;
  • L o v e s debates;
  • Tried to teach me how to start a conversation without dying on the small talk’s lack of content. I failed (it seems so easy for him);
  • Starts conversations out of nowhere and is actually very good;
  • Defends introverts when people judge them;
  • He probably started a revolution at school at some point; 
  • Is SO stubborn but you end up becoming his friend;
  • ADOPTS INTROVERTS regardless of their opinion about being adopted-they end up becoming great friends;
  • Likes to know how his friends are feeling, like all the time;
  • Sings a lot, wherever he is(he’s a good singer tbh);
  • Compliments people he admires “just because they deserve compliments”;
  • Constant SUPPORT AND ENCOURAGEMENT;
  • Talks very openly about his opinions(and feelings, with the closest friends);
  • Self Care™ at its best, meanwhile I’m here forgetting to eat
  • Takes things very personally if they affect him/his friends directly in a tough way;
  • Will remember that thing you said by mistake with a ‘just-got-up-voice’ three years ago, and make jokes of it, maybe even a meme, to remind you in the most random moments of your life. You will still find it fun.

no but please consider this:

Downworlders’ nights at Magnus’s loft with Meliorn, Luke, Simon, Raphael & obviously Magnus

the first time they do this, it’s mostly to talk about the Downworld, the Accords & Shadowhunters but everytime they meet up, they feel more and more relaxed and they soon become great friends (even though Simon talks too much to Meliorn’s taste, but he is still lovable so he is forgiven)

anyway one evening Simon suggests they should watch series on netflix and everyone agrees so they all sit on Magnus’ couches and watch Daredevil because they’re all big nerds (safe for Raphael, who is a grumpy big nerd)

that becomes kind of a habit for them, once a week they meet up at Magnus’ and they either order take-out or Luke comes with food from Jade Wolf, and sometimes Meliorn even brings fae home-made pastries because they’re so good and everyone in their little group loves them so much

they keep watching series, mostly Marvel/DC ones - cuz they love all the superheroes -, and when they finish Jessica Jones they’re a bit sad because they don’t have anything left to watch so Magnus gets up and opens a secret door of his loft

when he comes back, his arms are full of comics and he hands them to his friends whose eyes are wide 

so they end up reading comics and debating on who is the best superhero of all time (they don’t find an agreement of course)

meanwhile, there are whispers in the Downworld that some of the most important figures of their species are gathering up to talk about political business and are maybe plotting against the Clave, when really it’s just a meeting of huge nerds