so many times with the what about how i feel

“For the last eight years I’ve been the head of communications for the UN Refugee Agency. My job is to make people care about the sixty million displaced people in the world. I wish I could tell every single one of their stories. Because if people knew their stories, I don’t think there would be so many walls. And there wouldn’t be so many people drowning in the seas. But I don’t think I anticipated how difficult it would be to make people care. It’s not that people are selfish. I just think that people have a hard time caring when they feel insecure. When the world is unstable, people feel vulnerable. And vulnerable people focus on protecting what they have. They focus on their own families. They focus on their own communities. It can be very hard to welcome strangers when you’re made to feel threatened. Even if those strangers are more vulnerable than you.”

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This is my friend Melissa Fleming, who I think is one of the most important people in the world, and who was so instrumental in helping organize the HONY refugee series. Tomorrow at 7pm we will be in conversation at the Union Square Barnes and Noble, to celebrate the launch of her new book: A Hope More Powerful Than The Sea, which tells the powerful story of a young woman who survived a shipwreck while fleeing the war in Syria. If you can’t make the signing, you can get the book here: http://amzn.to/2kb9Ga8

I told my dad about how I’m having a difficult time recently and how it’s been fucking with me cuz this depression shit don’t play. He was like when did you first feel this way? And I was like since 2007. And instead of doing the typical brown thing and instantly shutting me down talking about how I got a roof over my head and food on the table he jus let me talk. I was able to empty so many different emotions and how I’m nervous about school and how I feel like I’m fucking up. He was like yo, how many classes did your mama want you to take? And I was like she expects me to be full time. He was like listen to me. Jus take 2 until you get back on your feet. Yeah your plans might get pushed back a bit but that’s okay. These brown parents don’t understand the amount of pressure and shit you’re going through. Jus do what you need to do to get back on your feet. You’re though right? I’m not the type of person to cry but I genuinely had a tear in my eye when he said that. This is my dad yo, my hero.

voltron season 2

i’m gonna try and make this a brief list of things i loved, and things i really had a problem with

what i loved:

  • coran
  • THE POOL SCENE
  • pidge being relatable af
  • “shiro, you’re like a brother to me” aka the death of sh//eith
  • GALRA KEITH BEING CANON
  • shiro’s sense of humor. “lol i’m dying”
  • “why are you talking about my lion? how many lions do you need?”
  • KEITH’S DAD
  • zarkon being the old paladin of the black lion like holy shit
  • hunk being an actual cinnamon roll
  • lance being open to a stranger about his insecurities and not feeling important

things i really didn’t like

  • how lance got so little screen time, and 85% of the time he was on screen he was either cracking a joke or flirting
  • i thought the creators said they were gonna delve into topics such as sexuality??? bitch, where???????
  • how literally every time hunk spoke it was about food
  • the lack of klance. this may be more of a personal problem but come on. i thought jeremy said they were “space ranger partners” and what about “you’ll find that one person that, above all, you kind of fall in love with a little bit, and realize that it’s nice to have that one person, than kind of just going all over the place. not spoiling too much, but yeah.”
  • that hinting at keithXallura??? like wtf??????? nobody asked for or wanted that
  • another cliffhanger. i’m PISSED OFF.
gallopgallopgallopgallop

Patient: I’m achy all over and I keep getting fevers and I’m coughing a little and my head hurts.

Wayfaring thinks: Yeah, she probably has the flu.

*Wayfaring examines patient*

HEENT: fluid in the ears, nose swollen up and snotty, lymph nodes shotty.

Heart: SO FAST. SEABISCUIT GALLOPING INSIDE HER CHEST.

Lungs: Clear.

*wait what?*

Heart: fastfastfastFASTFAST

*Wayfaring tries to take pulse.*

Pulse: thready. F A S T. 

Wayfaring: Er uh, are you having any chest pain? 

Patient: No.

Wayfaring: What about shortness of breath or lightheadedness?

Patient: Well yeah, from the flu, right? I mean I feel sort of woozy like I might pass out.

Wayfaring: Ummm…. your heart is beating 175 times a minute. 

Patient: *blank stare*

Wayfaring: That’s fast. That’s like your heart is sprinting while the rest of you is standing still.

Patient: Oh yeah, it does feel kind of jumpy. 

*Wayfaring gets EKG*

EKG: 

Wayfaring: So exactly how many doses of sudafed have you taken this morning?

Patient: Oh only like 4. 

Wayfaring:

“I love you”

Note: These responses are absolutely serious. They aren’t stereotypical at all and I assure you that every single type will definitely react like that in real life.

Ne: Ohh I love you, too! But I also love pancakes, sunshine and… bread! Like, bread can be so amazing. There are so many different types of breads! Like MBTI types! OMG I NEED TO MAKE A POST ABOUT MBTI TYPES AS BREAD.

Ni: But what is love? What is it about? How come that we are able to feel such a deep connection and how does its pattern fit into this complex world?

Se: Ohhhh I love you, too– wait omg! There’s a butterfly! *chases the butterfly*

Si: One time I loved someone, too. It was the most romantic story of my life and it started on a rainy day in November…

Te: Do you have evidence to support your statement?

Ti: …. What the fuck. Why?

Fe: *tears up* You love me? Someone loves me! LOVE ME FOREVER! PLEASE DON’T LEAVE ME!

Fi: ……. Wait a minute, I have to check whether love is acceptable according to my personal values.

  • 707: urgh... I don't feel so good...
  • Zen: Whats wrong dude?
  • 707: I feel all nauseous and I've got goose bumps all over.... and my face keeps getting all flushed...
  • Zen: [laughing] Sounds like you're in love....
  • 707: What do you mean I'm in love!?! HOLY SHIT IS IT CONTAGIOUS!?!?

MY GOD IT WAS SOOOOO GOOD TO HAVE OUR BOYS BACK!! I’VE MISSED THEM SO MUCH!!

  • The boys were so loved up and domestic making breakfast and everything!!
  • They actually TALKED ABOUT THEIR WEDDING AND AARON WANTS TO START PLANNING!! HE’S SUCH A ROMANTIC DEEP DOWN!! *screams*
  • Diane FINALLY acknowledgingthat what she said to Robert at Sarah’s grave was out of order and way bellow the belt!! About time!!
  • AARON PLAYING WITH HIS RING!! HOW FREAKING CUTE IS THAT!! 
  • Aaron looked SOOOO bloody GORGEOUS in his white shirt and suit!! HE NEEDS TO WEAR THAT MORE OFTEN!! 
  • CHEEK KISS!! HOW UNBELIEVABLY ADORABLE WAS THAT AND THE BIG SMILE ON ROBERT’S FACE!! JUST KILL ME!!
  • Aaron giving relationship advice!! OMG AARON’S ACTUALLY BECOME THE GUY YOU ASK FOR ADVICE BC HE’S HAPPY AND ABOUT TO GET MARRIED!! I’M CRYING!!
  • Robert looked so freaking FIT even when trying to break the law!! His new hair cut and suit looking SO on point!!
  • THE BACKGROUND PHOTO ON ROBERT’S PHONE IS ONE OF HIM AND AARON!! YOU DON’T GET ANYMORE COUPLEY THAN THAT!!! HE’S SUCH A SOFT LAD!!
  • Robert ripping into Rebecca and telling her how he’s only USED HER ALL ALONG!! SHE’S NOTHING TO HIM!!
  • “I ONLY WANT THE MAN I’M GONNA MARRY.” KILL ME NOW!!
  • Robert coming home feeling low and all he wants IS A CUDDLE FROM HIS FIANCÉ AND TO TELL HIM HE LOVES HIM!!! I’M DEAD!!
  • ROBERT BEING HONEST WITH AARON AND TELLING HIM HE WAS WITH REBECCA BC HE DOESN’T WANT TO BE THE GUY THAT LIES ALL THE TIME ANYMORE!! ALL BC OF AARON MAKING HIM A BETTER PERSON!!
  • “Everything I need is right here” bc AARON IS EVERYTHING!!
  • ROBERT APPRECIATING AARON IN A SUIT AND GIVING HIM THE ONCE OVER!!!
  • THE BOYS BEING ALL FLIRTY AND BIG GRINS!!
  • “Do you want to take this upstairs?” - AARON’S GRIN WHEN HE SAID IT!! HE JUST WANTED TO HURRY UP TO THEIR BEDROOM AND HAVE SEX WITH HIS HUSBAND-TO-BE!! THESE TWO CAN NEVER GET ENOUGH OF EACH OTHER!!

I can’t begin to describe how proud I am of hoseok. He works so very hard all the time to be his absolute best. He cares so much about giving people the highest quality entertainment. Every time I see him doing what he loves and works so hard at my heart grows twenty sizes.
At the same time though I wish he thought about himself a bit more. He focuses so much on what other people want and how to make others happy that I feel like he forgets his own happiness is important too. I know this is what he loves to do and he’s probably very happy to do it. I just hope he’s not forgetting himself during it all.
I hope he knows he doesn’t always have to be “jhope” and takes time to be hoseok. I love him so much more than I can explain and I know many other people do too. I hope hoseok loves our hoseok as well.

Sanvers Thanksgiving

So we know that Maggie isn’t going to be at Thanksgiving dinner at Kara’s place. And I have a strong feeling that she isn’t having dinner anywhere. I mean her girlfriend just broke up with her, she probably doesn’t want to take time off of work to go all the way home, and she says she doesn’t have that many people in her life that she cares about. So my bets are on her being alone for Thanksgiving. So what I wanna see is her and Alex hanging out Thanksgiving night, Alex joking about how her drunken coming out speech was interrupted by a portal to another dimension. But then she asks Maggie how her Thanksgiving went, only to have Maggie tell her that she spent the holiday alone. And of course Alex is completely distraught by this. “You were alone?! Why didn’t you say something, you could’ve eaten dinner with us!” But Maggie just laughs, saying how it’s no big deal and how she didn’t want to intrude on their family gather. “Really it’s fine. I’ve spent the past couple years alone on Thanksgiving giving. I’m used to it.” At first, Alex is speechless. She wants to ask why she didn’t go home to her family. She wants to ask why she was never invited to go home with any of her past girlfriends. But she knows Maggie isn’t one to open up so she doesn’t ask. Instead she just tells Maggie to follow her, bringing her to this small diner. She orders them two turkey sandwiches and as they sit there in the nearly empty diner, Maggie thinks that this is probably the closest thing to being with family on Thanksgiving than she’s ever had before.

BTS Reaction to: Their Crush Asking Them What They Like About Her

Jin: get ready for something cheesy like “what’s not to like? you’re kind, smart, funny, beautiful. well, not as beautiful as me. but close enough.” if he senses that words aren’t enough for you, don’t be surprised to come home to a home cooked meal and a foot massage

Originally posted by eatjin

Suga: “are you really asking me such a stupid question? why do you think I could simply list off the reasons why? there’s too many.” treats your question like it’s stupid but inside, he knows what that self doubt feels like. but instead of wasting time with words, he writes a song or composes something on the piano for you

Originally posted by uketheartofanesthesia

J-Hope: at first laughs off the question since he thinks it’s a stupid one but the more he thinks about it, the more he starts to wonder if he’s not been showing you enough, how much he cares. so from then on, he grows more clingy and into skinship and texts you as much as he can when on tour

Originally posted by bwipsul

Rap Monster: takes a long sip of his drink so he can think through an answer before coming out with something so romantic and cringe before taking your breath away with a kiss. you don’t ever wonder why he likes you again

Originally posted by itsrapmonster

Jimin: this lil squishy is so upset by it that he sits you down for a serious talk, asking you where the q was coming from. then spends the rest of eternity showing you he cares & why he cares, showering you with hugs and smooches and his precious eye smile

Originally posted by jikookxkookmin

V: can’t understand where the q is coming from. quirks his brows and asks “what do you mean? did I not give you enough reasons last night? unless you want a round two?”

Originally posted by bwiseoks

Jungkook: “to be honest, the first time I looked at you … I thought you looked kind of like IU.” whether you take his joke to heart or not, he knows not to push it too far. “ah, you know I’m just kidding, right? I like you for so many reasons that even if IU asked me for my number, I probably wouldn’t give it to her.”

Originally posted by jung-koook

You should be afraid (Jumin x Reader/MC) (Alternative Ending)


Oh god, I feel so embarrassed rn lol
This is not even that smut… And I’m like cghdcgshd WHAT AM I WRITING. 

Ok, this is alternative ending of my Jumin’s fic. If you want to know when it’s started, please read the first part here.

(I also changed the title)

@pansexualtrash  helped me with my bad grammar, misspellings and other mistakes, big thanks to her. Go check her fanfictions!


“How many times I need to tell you that I don’t care about my damn hand?” He growled, looking down at you, his eyes eager and needy.

You rarely heard him curse- most of the time, even when he was angry, he didn’t show his emotions that much. But now he was just livid, and you didn’t know what to do anymore. You should’ve said something, tried to stop him, but you didn’t. You felt like you were desperately losing this confrontation.

“Besides that…” There was an amused glow in his eyes, quickly overtaken by lust, “You said that we shouldn’t do this, but your body tells me another story,” he pointed out with a purr of pleasure.

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Important announcement about future Sondertale updates

Hey there! First off I want to thank everyone for being so incredibly patient and kind while waiting for updates. I feel very lucky that so many people are interested in this story and want to see what happens next, and I know that having to wait a long time for an update can be hard, but I really do appreciate how wonderful and understanding people have been. So thank you, sincerely.

Before you get to wondering, no I am not canceling this story.


However, from this point on I’m only going to update this comic when I can.


There will be no set update schedule. Pages will update once I have a set of them ready to be posted.


And this is how it’ll be unless I say otherwise.


So that’s the announcement. For people who want to know why the change or why this is different than what I’m doing now, it’s just that I’ve been struggling to update this comic on top of all the other things I need to take care of. Which obviously I don’t need to tell you that - updates have been progressively slowing down and getting further apart. And I cannot even begin to put into words how disappointed I am in myself for not being able to make it all work. But I just can’t allocate the time to making this comic exactly how I want it to be and update regularly. I just don’t have the time, which hurts. It’s a personal disappointment. And I know this is disappointing to a lot of other people who enjoy the comic, and I’m really, really sorry. All the determination in the world can’t outweigh the fact that I just don’t have the time to consistently work on updates anymore. And that just hurts me, it really does. I’m so sorry.

I have a lot of pride in my art and storytelling and I am incredibly stubborn when it comes to making adjustments in my artwork. I am so incredibly determined to finish this story exactly the way I want to - as a comic with all the stops pulled out. I have mulled over making changes to try to speed up the process of me completing pages - not coloring pages, not being as precise with the lineart, simplifying how the dialogue look visually, even going so far as to write out the story as opposed to presenting it in comic format. None of those options are appealing to me. And I’m not willing to sacrifice quality just to update faster.

So I understand if people don’t want to hang around to see how it ends, because it could take a while. Heck, it’s almost been a year since starting this comic and we’re not even through the first chapter… I know some people will probably lose interest in this fandom and AUs, and this story too. So I thank you for the time you’ve spent following this story and supporting it thus far. I really appreciate it. But as long as someone wants to hear this story, I’m going to continue it. And this story (and blog) will not be over until I post that last page. It’s going to take me a while - a long while, probably. But I’m going to keep working on this until I’m done. This is all too important to me to just give up and quit.

Thanks for letting me go on there for a bit. This was an announcement I’ve been dreading to make for a few weeks now, but it was important to make. It’d be unfair to keep you all in the dark about this. The next update is not too far from being finished so it shouldn’t be too long of a wait for it.

Thanks for listening, feel free to ask questions, and I hope everyone has a happy and wonderful new year :) 

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G-Dragon

*His soft side would automatically get the best of him. He’d apologize profusely and embrace you, gently petting your head*


T.O.P

*He holds your cheeks with both his hands right after the wrong is done.*
“I’m so sorry, I didn’t mean to do this!”
*He’d kiss your forehead and brush away your tears. You could see how apologetic he was*


Taeyang

*He’d be a bit unable to look at you and unsure what to say, feeling really bad about it*
“Y/N… Sorry…”


Daesung

*He’d get depressed that he did something like this to the person he loves. You would know he’s sorry, and he would tell you that many times, but he’d feel down for the majority of time*


Seungri

*He’d move away from you*
“I’m so sorry! I never thought I’d do something like this! I didn’t mean to…”


[ MORE BIG BANG REACTIONS ]

ID doc´s  year in life

TIME

Christmas is almost here and I can´t believe that it´s gonna be a year since I started…doctoring. AND WHAT A YEAR. I feel like i learnt a lot but also like I still have even more learning to do.

There is a lot of u here, still don´t get how this rant-filled blog has so many followers but I am glad it has. I am glad there are folks out there caring about my every day bs (and some of u even follow me on twitter! what a ride that has to be.)

Well anyway, I feel like i haven´t posted anything of value in a while. So for the first time in a long frickin time i sat down with my computer, opened a bag of extra cheesy nachos and started to write down some ideas.

In this first post (out of few i guess) I wanna write u down some of the ideas/schemes which worked for me about how to handle your time as a first year doc. As u can see I won´t be using the term intern. Where I am from …u r not really an intern. U are a full fledged doc who still needs some supervision but also sometimes when somebody professionally younger ends up with you….sometimes I am the “attending”. Doesn´t happen often but it does happen sometimes. So if u are from similar backround, or even if u r not…I hope this is gonna be helpful…or something.

  1. Plan your year

What? A year? YOU MUST BE CRAY.

No actually it´s pretty neat so just hear me out. Have some sort of plan/planner. I use my iphone calendar which can sync with my computer´s and I use a paper planner too…bc I am oldschool. 

There are occasions like birthdays and anniversaries, work stuff like a conferences and tests and certificates to take which has to be planned super ahead. Making a rough outlook of your next year wont hurt. Setting up a reminder for your boyfriends bday a month ahead so u can research the perfect gift? I mean common…that can be neat. Reminding u the next dentist or gyno visit…..The last possible day to pay for that conference….SET UP SOME REMINDERS. Made my life so much easier.

2. Plan your month

Girl u gotta set up those period reminders. Getting stuck in a all nighter without pad or a tampon and  have to ask the nurse to bring u some from the supplies u have for patients….not pretty…and those pads and AWFUL. Nothing worse that handling your shift well just to realize your panties are like something from a murder scene. 

Totally kills the vibe.

Also it´s good to know when do u have shifts. Mark the dates. Do meal prep before a shift and a “cool down” activity after a shift. I usually go out to see a movie or just plan a fun night with my bf and a bottle of wine watching Gilmore girls. It will make u something to look forward to as u get up at 4:00 in the frickin morning for otherwise healthy young man who had one watery stool and vomited once…and u bet your ass he called himself an ambulance. OH the rage.

If u have some holiday that month…do so! Sleep in, cook food, chill out…self care folks. Planning is caring.

3. Plan your week

I usually play my week around three or four main activities. Firstly work, second my free tme, my chill time and my beauty time. I´ll talk about work later.

My free time is all about friends, family and my boyfriend. I make sure I stay connected with people I care about even only when I send the poo emoticon to my brother. I call with my mom. I do some reding for work, I check up with finances, I check up what´s needed at home. I make plans to cook/buy/clean up. If not on paper at least in my head. I do yoga.

I CANNOT recommend a more useful app as Wunderlist. If u like lists and u have a partner with who u share a flat THIS IS THE SHIT. It makes u share lists and u can see if he or she checks the boxes as DONE. Makes doing house-work and buying stuff way more easier. And fun.

My chill time is about winding down. I don´t usually do a lot of moving during my chill time. I either just watch netflix or read a book or scroll on tumblr or play new Dishonored. I just chill and I dont care if there are dirty dishes or if my core isnt tight enough.

Beauty time is all about the pampering. Working at the hospital is gonna take a lot. Not just the stress and long hours - but also the overheated rooms during winter when the ganitors run the central heating UP TO MAX SOLAR LEVEL BURN BURN EVERYONE BURN. Your hair suffers and your skin suffers and its all dry and kinda unhealthy looking and there are weird spots and veins….I take long baths, I do face masks and hair masks and essential oils. At least once a week there is a section which is all about that bod. Your body is your temple. And u wouldn´t want your temple to be dry gray depressing wasteland would u. Take care of that bod. There are few essentials, when it comes to these things- I use/bring to wards everyday but about that some other time.

I usually plan one or two fun activities each week. Might seem like that´s not enough but When I come at home at four, it already dark outside, and its six below zero…there isnt much will left in me to even do stuff, not talking about going outside! that´s cray! So that leaves weekends. I plan meetups with friends, trips to the cinema, getting to know the city (bc we moved). Anything really. Something to look forward during your work hours. Unless you work weekend in which case everything sucks and nothing can save you.

4. Plan out your day

Oh boy. I use to plan a day  into two big sections. Firstly work, secondly the rest.

I have to be at work before 7:00 and I should know at 7:00 if shit went down with my patients. It usually means sitting behind a computer, eating my breakfast, slurping strong coffee and reading my colleagues notes about the night shift.

Then I make small notes about my patients like
“Miss X will have CT today, need to call the tech and tell him…..”

or

“Mr. Y doesn´t like his diet…gotta talk with the diet nurse and come up with something..”

Stuff like that. Stuff actual FOR THAT DAY. 

If u are freshly out of school and suddenly u work at a hospital…the whole process can and probably will take some time to getting use to. You will have to make up a system which works for u -  from how to best manage patient, who u can turn when u need a surgeon´s opinion when the the surgeon on call is a total asshole. Which therapist is the best and actually helps people. Where u can score some free pens ? Stuff like that.

For me the hardest thing was how to most effeciantly do rounds. I often have 8-10patients. SOmetines when I am all alone on the floor I have 20patients. And they can be all very difficult cases. And nobody is there to help me.

So I usually start - first the acutely worsening - septic, old folks which cardiac problems, suspected PE etc….there is A LOT that can happen in ID department. If there isn´t anyone actively dying on me I usually start with new admits. They normally take the most time.

I check their papers, their vitals, their main complains and after I go check on the physically. Then I come back and write my notes, order tests etc. When that is all done I check out if any new results came in.

!!I always write notes into my patient´s papers about which results we are still waiting for.

Again, if nobody is actively dying, around twelve I go to have a lunch. I eat regularly. Bc, once again guys. Self-care. The department won´t crumble after you leave for 20-40minutes for your legally required brake. Also running a floor…its a team effort.

And thats why I have to make  a correction here…

The first thing I actually do when I come in in the morning, I ask the nurse: Who do I need to see first. Bc nurses are your eyes and ears and hands.

After lunch I write down plans for my patients, something like :need another chest xray and if clear will go home the day after tomorrow…etc. In that case u always know who and when u wanna discharge somebody.

Also I write discharge papers…I try to write a bit every day of their hospitalization…but i am gonna be honest…sometimes I am just too frickin lazy.

And then its 5minutes before the end of my work day. And that´s that.

When it comes to most of my notes in my planner about my post-work activities….I usually have writing down stuff like - V cooks dinner, dishes are on me this time, gotta start christmas decorations. Gotta buy a christmas tree! Write down all the food I wanna cook on christmas…look up recepies and ….

U get the idea.

I was never a big planner. I kinda swam tru my life plan-free. Stuff happened and I managed. But once I started working as a doc I realize there IS A LOT I have to keep up with - work and home and friends and LIFE. It cannot be all work and no fun.

anonymous asked:

I know that many kpop artists want to be taken seriously as musicians and producers (aka yoongi and namjoon etc.), so how do you think they feel when they are at fanmeetings and are made to do aegyo and put cat ears and bows and stickers on them? I wonder if it makes them feel like people don't take them seriously? You know what I'm saying? And I know it's to please fans haha. I just wonder how they think about it ya know

they can be both at the same time. i remember namjoon saying once that being an idol means you get a wider audience, and a wider audience of youth at that. to get his message and what he wants to say out there to his intended audience, being an idol was the best course of action, and it worked.

this is something namjoon has struggled with in the past. in the beginning, he’s said he was heavily criticized by his rapper peers for choosing to become an idol. it’s clear if you listen to his mixtape and read the translations. listen to awakening in particular, which has the lyrics “yeah fuck you i’m an idol, yeah yeah i’m an idol / at one time i hated it but now i love to get that title.”

besides, namjoon loves cute things and is just an all around adorable person in general. just looking at his room is proof of that. it’s not like he’s pretending to love being cute. he is cute lmao. he’s just a regular three dimensional person like all of us. 

  • Me playing FFXV for the first time: what a game! This is glorious! This is epic! So fun! The music! The graphic! My feels OmGGg i cry for everything, these characters are so good
  • Me playing FFXV for the second time: ahahaha what does that even mean. ok, but they didn't explain basically nothing. Where are connections. Lol. Maybe they didn't had the time to finish to write this scene. Ehy. No. XD Is there even somethings actually canon. What the

I wish that I had the words to comfort and console all of you tonight, to make you feel safe and that everything is going to be okay. But I don’t, I just don’t even know what to say. I had to go and wake up my mother because I was sobbing so hard - which, if you know me, usually only happens about once a year. I couldn’t stop crying for the longest time, and now I just feel numb. 

I don’t have words. I can’t believe this has happened. I’m terrified, and so many of my tears were shed for all of you, for your pain and suffering and how helpless I am to do anything about it. I love all of you so much, and I wish with all my strength that I could protect you and your loved ones.

Many of you are already coming to me with your fear and desperation, and all I can tell you is that I love you and my heart is with you. Please don’t hurt yourself, no matter how hopeless you feel. Please stay with me. I need you too, so please don’t leave me. Hold onto me, and I’m going to hold onto you, okay? We have each other. I love you.

Magnus saying just send a text message is honestly something that you ALL should recall for next time!

Most people with bipolar disorder have a coexisting anxiety disorder or have many similar symptoms that can be linked to anxiety. 

So basically a really good snd small thing that you can do to help is that before you call them or (just speaking to them in person) explain to them why.

Example: 

  • Hey, can I ask you about ____________
  • Hey, can I call nothings wrong just _____________

So use the above instead of just ‘Hey can I ask you a question?’ Knowing the subject of what’s coming their way or even how you’re feeling can really help them from having their thoughts run away from them. Because they have some form of confirmation of knowing how you feel or what’s going to be happening and they can prepare for it

I have a fair number of feelings about Alex and figuring your shit out later in life and not really being able to explain why it all just doesn’t….work for you like it does for other people. But. I’m reluctant to co-opt that conversation from queer women. 

So instead, I want to talk about Maggie’s face in that scene. I know that face. I HAVE that face. Warm, and compassionate, and encouraging, but careful but also proud, aware of what a special moment that is for the other person, no matter how many times you’ve sat in witness. It’s always special. 

A girl at one of my trainings a few weeks ago sat in a crowded bar with me one night and talked to me about her journey to ending up with her girlfriend, the first girl she’s ever been with, and how she doesn’t like anyone but she likes her. And how that changed things for her. I know I had that look on my face. Sometimes it’s all I have to offer, sometimes my truth isn’t one I can speak in that moment for whatever reason, I can’t empathize and share that I know…I KNOW what that’s like. But I smile, and I encourage, and try to be careful and compassionate and I always feel proud. 

That was a good look, an important expression in a world where queer people can and do speak with other queer people. I’m grateful for that. 

anonymous asked:

Do you get a lot of hate for your art? If so how do you cope with it? Because I used to draw fontcest and the hate was so bad I deleted my account because I couldn't take it. I don't feel motivated to draw anymore :C

Omg, i’m so sorry to hear about that!
I think it’s the firts time when i’m REALLY angry for haters. It’s very sad that because of them you stopped doing what you love. 

I don’t care about hate cuz most of that haters just kids which have too much free time. Or maybe they don’t know how to block someone. When i don’t like smth i just don’t look at that.

I get hate, but also i get so many cute and supportive messages from my followers and it’s really inspire me to draw more :3

I’m really very sorry that you don’t feel motivated to draw. But it would be so awesome if you’ll start draw again!) At first you can start doing it only for yourself and then, when you’ll feel that you’re ready, you can start posting your arts again)

And i say it again. It’s just a fiction. We’re drawing fictional relationship between two fictional characters. I don’t see anything wrong in this.

Fuck these haters dude! They are not worth it. You shouldn’t stop doing smth that makes you happy because of them 💙💙💙