so in love with one direction


Originally posted by craftytheorist


‘You’ll never feel like you’re alone, I’ll make this feel like home’

Yesterday me and my best pal decided to go and finally get our One Direction matching tattoos, and we got them done in each other’s handwriting (My tattoo on the left left, hers on the right right).
Fully so in love with these, they couldn’t have turned out better

Shuffle Tag

the other day I was tagged by @cyrensims to do this, thank you! :]

Rules: put your music on shuffle and list the first 10 songs, then tag 10 people.

  1. Lights Down Low - Max
  2. Closer - Chainsmokers
  3. Fergalicious - Fergie
  4. Like A Boy - Ciara
  5. Drag Me Down - One Direction
  6. Who knows - Avril Lavigne
  7. Don’t settle for me - Heather (from Crazy Ex-Girlfriend!)
  8. Crazy in Love - Beyonce
  9. Don’t Be So Hard On Yourself - Jess Glynne
  10. I Hate This Part Right Here - The Pussycat Dolls

tagging people from my activity feed because I see & appreciate you guys! <3
@shosimmie @wackysimmer @mohkii @carvernosims @plumbobsquad @samtastic-sims @thesimsdominion @silverspringsimmer @pxelplants @simloops

Rules: answer the 20 questions and tag 20 amazing followers you would like to get to know better!

tagged by @peachylesbo – thanks so much faith! ♡

Name - sami

Nickname - i don’t really have one!! my best friend irl calls me “smai” (pronounced sss-myyyyy) but that’s really it. i get “sam” sometimes and it makes me skin crawl haha (´-﹏-`;) (unless its my sibling!) but i’d really love to have one. they’re so cute and i’ve never had one (′︿‵。)

Zodiac Sign - sagittarius

Height - 5'10"

Orientation - queer! i don’t try to define it further than that since nothng else has ever felt as comfortable/accurate (。´•﹏•`。)

Ethnicity - white bread haha. though in doing my family’s genaeology last summer i found we’re direct descendants of (quite a few of) the clan chiefs from my family’s scottish clan! so… fancy white bread??? ahhaha (∗´꒳`) 

Favorite Fruit - apples!

Favorite Season - autumn

Favorite Book - edible woman by margaret atwood, but since i just answered this question the other day, i also really enjoyed reading the picture of dorian grey by oscar wilde

Favorite Scent - earthy smells like fresh rain on the ground, or the smell of the air just before it snows! also, “"masculine”“ cologne smells tbh, i find them really quite comforting!

Favorite Color - burgundy (like red wine sorta colour)

Favorite Animal - besides cats, birds and deer are the only animals that don’t kinda freak me out!! (。・・。)

Coffee, Tea, or Hot Chocolate - coffeeee ♡ ♡hahah anyone on my snapchat will know that by now

Average sleep hours - 3-4.5 hours shh i know that this is super bad!  (.・﹏・.)

Cat or Dog Person - sometimes my cat will come to nap with me and i cry because i feel blessed (. ❛ ᴗ ❛.;) so you can gues from that info

Favorite Fictional Character - picking from my fave characters at the moment feels like a death trap since it’s all just y.oi boys so kagura from inuyasha is always gonna be my first love (´• ∀ •`) ♡?? that’s how im getting out of picking between my y.oi sons- 

Number of Blankets you Sleep With - 2 and a flat sheet!

Dream Trip - i’d really love to road trip some of canada with my friends (and see the territories tbh!!)

Blog Created - december 2012 (. ❛ ᴗ ❛. ”) it’s been so long!!!!

Number of Followers - 2825 ♡ ! 

i can’t possibly tag 20 people without screaming so!!! im going to just tag some mutuals and friends hahaha but anyone ofc is free to do this too! and if i tag you don’t feel obligated to do it if you don’t want to!!! 

@ghostmoonchild @nightofviolet @fandoms-took-my-soul @otayurimess @selenityshiroi @starry-climes @spainsasscheeks @laneboyheathens @phaytesworld @dalishisforme @yuuriandviktorr @ritathedragon

I just reached a tiny milestone here on Tumblr, and I just wanted to say thank you. Thank you to everyone who follows me, supports me, and deems me cool enough to hang out with. Thank you to my mutuals and all the blogs that I follow for making this a really great space to love Niall and One Direction. I will do a follow forever just as soon as I am feeling better! 

To all the good friends I have made on here, I treasure each and every one of you, I am so shy, so thank you for reaching out if you did, it really means the world to me. I just didn’t understand the power of these boys to bring people together from all over the world until I made this blog. The group chat, thank you for having me, it’s been an amazing time, you ladies are astounding in every way, I adore you all.

Love me or hate me, either thank or go yell at @sweetniallofmine. This is all her doing, and I am forever thankful she exists and picked me to be in her life. She makes me better, teaches me things, makes me laugh and right now makes me cry with how much I admire her strength and light.

And finally, and most importantly, I want to thank you, the followers, you are of course the reason I am here. I read your blogs, I see your posts, I know who you are. I want you guys to know that you are important and lovely human beings that mean the world to me. I love to laugh at your tags and to see you enjoy Niall as much as I do. Thank you so much for being you, you are all fabulous human beings. I love you, and again, thank you from the bottom of my heart. 

Originally posted by niallhgifs

A True Story

Lou, I wanted to post this here, because your blog is the first place i felt comfortable sharing my thoughts. It is a safe place for me, because it feels like home, and I am sorely in need of one. So thank you.

Maybe if I write about how I was given the kind of love a person is transpired by, I can try to make sense of what I’m feeling. I know that only a short time has passed since that love has left me, but all thorough my life, from the devastation that was my childhood, to the burning wreckage of drug use and self-loathing, to drifting through my life without direction or purpose, and then to the salvation I was given when I met my wife—maybe I will find some clarity and the spirit of survival.

I met Sue at work. I was 28 and she was 25. I had just moved down to the lower 48 from Alaska. I had just gotten off the drugs and booze, had about a year of sobriety and was trying to clear away the wreckage from the burning bridges I left behind. I got a job as a forklift driver at a seafood processing plant. Sue had already been working there for a year or so. She was a line worker, packing portioned cuts of fish into a vacuum-pack machine and then putting those portions into freezer boxes. I would pick those boxes up with my forklift and store them in the huge plant freezer. Hell, I was happy to just have a job, being newly replanted in a city I had never been to.

But there is another story about Sue that haunts me now. After we got together, after we began to share with each other who we were and where we came from, we found out that we had already, and unknowingly shared the path of our individual orbits.

In 1979, I had been living in Sacramento, California. I found my first love there, with a woman named Kat. It was my first love, at the tender age of 19. Kat was the first woman I had lived with, in a tiny apartment in North Sacramento. Anyway, she was not the one. I didn’t know that then. I thought she was. I did not know what love truly was yet, and I think I was dancing around the edges of it during the year or so I was with Kat. I think it was because we were so young and inexperienced, that our relationship did not work.

We broke up and I left Sacramento, taking my shattered heart south, to Escondido, in Southern California. My oldest sister, Terri was living there with her boyfriend, and it was a kind of staging place where I went to lick my wounds and try to figure out what was next for me. Anyway, Terri put me up and I ended up getting a job at a local Denny’s as a night cook.

Do any of you believe in destiny? Back then, I wasn’t a believer in chance or synchronicity. I went to work every night, flipping burgers and making fries and trying to move on after the sting of that first love I mentioned. It was a confusing time for me, but I was a survivor and I would make do.

Ten years later, I met Sue. Before that life changing meeting, I was a commercial fisherman during most of my twenties, and the money was good. In fact, it was so good; I was able to do a lot of traveling. Rio and Carnival in Brazil, Europe, island hopping in the Caribbean, Japan, Australia—I put in some miles. It was a good time for me, it was a self-discovery journey, a tempering and healing journey.

Anyway, one night early in our relationship, we were pillow-talking, still getting to know each other and sharing some of our pasts with each other. Sue mentioned that she grew up in Rancho Bernardo, a suburb north of San Diego. And then she told me that after high school, she moved to…Escondido, in 1979. She told me that her and some friends used to go to this Denny’s and drink coffee and eat French fries. My French fries. Sue came into Denny’s when I was working there.  We might have even noticed each other, but no contact was made until ten years later, as I said, when we met at that seafood processing plant.

As we were lying in bed, and when she told me this little tale, I started to become a believer in Fate. We synced up our stories, and we knew that we were meant to meet and share the rest of lives together. I married her a year later.

When you know you are meant to be with someone, all the pieces of your life fall into place, and since then, neither one of us were ever alone again. Until now. I feel a loneliness that I didn’t think I would ever feel again after I met Sue.

I am going to try and sleep. It’s been over 48 hours since I’ve had any. Perhaps I will pick this up later. There is a whole lifetime behind me that I want to relive, but I’m not too far gone to realize that I will not purge myself of the pain and loss I feeling right now overnight.

I do want to thank everybody who has reached out to me. And because I try to be an honest person, that support, right now, is just another shadow in my mind. My heart is broken and it feels like it will never mend. But talking about my life with Sue helps me.


Thank you for sharing your love story, Gene. You and Sue really were fated from the beginning, weren’t you? It really makes you realise that you were in a love story before you’d even met Sue. And you’re still in that love story now that she has gone on ahead. This is such a beautiful and amazing story. I think you should turn yours and Sue’s life together into a book. You’re a writer and maybe documenting your lives together will be a form of solace and homage to all that you were and still are to each other. 

I also think finding a way to rest is also something you need to focus on right now. Take your two little doggies and cuddle up with them and close your eyes. Listen to your music and just try and find some rest. I know that feels impossible right now, and that your life is just filled with impossible things, but you need to just stop and close your eyes. 

You and all of yours and Sue’s family are in my thoughts and prayers. 

How to tell if an INTJ likes you

-If we tell you: It’s that simple. We are straightforward individuals. If we are not interested, then we will most likely not even look at your direction.

Still, for those of you who are looking a more developed answer, I will provide it for you, so here it is.

How to tell if an INTJ likes you: The extended list.

  • If we approach you first: If an INTJ is the first one to strike up a conversation with you, then you can make sure that not only the INTJ has researched you beforehand (either by friends in common or stalking) but also that it has a good impression of you. That means you’re up to a good start, so keep it up.
  • If we talk to you first: Even if it’s online or in person, if we start the conversation it’s a given are want to know you and share things with you.
  • If we talk about our passions with you: INTJ’s don’t easily share what we really like with just anyone. We have to make sure you won’t insult our likes before speaking about them. You can take this as a warning; Treat us with care if you encounter an INTJ that’s willing to share.
  • If we ask you how you feel: Not as in small talk, but if we ask you seriously of how are you feeling. If we ask that question is because we are willing to deal with emotions and help you if the answer is that you are not okay. This occurrence is extremely rare, but possible.
  • If we listen when you talk: If we are always paying attention when you speak when there are lots of people around and then remember the details later, prospects are good.
  • If we ask things about you: If an INTJ likes you, they’ll want to figure you out, this goes for all of us. After the INTJ feels that the research is enough, and trusts you, then they’ll most likely move forward in the relationship.
  • If we go out of our way to make favours to you: It’s not that we are not generous people.. but we tend to have a slight favouritism in some favours me make (We are Fi users, after all)
  • If we let you be in our personal space: We are not physical people, but if we let you be closer than an ordinary person, that’s a win. I can let close friends in my personal space too, so it’s not so romantically exclusive.
  • If we touch you: You’re are close to singing victory if we do.
  • If we correct you: This is actually a pretty positive thing, it means we are concerned about you and want you to improve in whatever thing you are doing.
  • If we suggest things to you: As INTJ’s, we always want to be effective in everything. We are constantly looking for better ways to do things and love innovating and discovering new ways of learning something. If we suggest things to you, whatever minimal the suggestion is, we truly want you to accomplish your goals, and in an efficient way no less.
  • If our humour flows smoothly with you: We aren’t usually self-conscious about our sense of humour and our jokes, but we are careful letting them flow with someone that we are not positive they won’t feel offended by it (At least polite INTJ’s do, in my case, I’m always a sarcastic ass) So if you are lucky enough to presence our impressive sense of humour, we trust you.
  • If we treat you differently: We tend to categorise people (sometimes wrongly) into two very different categories; the mass, and the interesting people. This distinction is made mostly with personal biases and most of the times we are just judging, but if you are one of those people we pick out from the mass, and you are neither a very close friend nor a potential close friend, then we might consider you as a potential partner.

As you can already see, none of the things I wrote about are romantically suggestive, the list getting perfectly to the point I want to make: It might prove difficult to figure out if an INTJ wants you just solely as a close friend or wants to pursue a different kind of relationship. Most of the things I listed overlap with how an INTJ would treat you if it’s interested in being friends with you. To make things even harder, INTJ’s don’t flirt and that’s not only because we don’t know how to flirt, but also because whenever we try to flirt, we end up doing something we think it’s flirting but it’s not really flirting, and that could be perfectly anything that I listed above.

So we are back to the beginning now.  If an INTJ likes you, It’ll just tell you, or just be clear from the beginning and not subtle at all about its intentions. We are conscious about our romantic/friendship overlap, and that’s why we just like to be direct. If we like you, it’s obvious. We’ll just treat you differently.
However, it does not always work like that, sometimes an INTJ can like you and just… not really bother. If you are friend that we value we’ll sometimes prefer things to stay the same. It’s not easy for us to make friends, and relationships always end at the end. It’s not that easy for us to open up, once we give the key to someone, they can open us forever.


anonymous asked:

I'm a diff anon but i love your blog for Hillma and just purely Hillary bc every other "hillary blog" posts some gem photos of her but there's some random old dude who is always in them??? And i do not have time for that in my day. But it's so cute H/H are still "together", I shouldn't be surprised but I am!

RIGHT!! I’m desperately searching for a neutral Hillary photo blog. If anyone finds one, direct me to it.

Monday 8:27am
I woke up with you on my mind.
You called me babe last night —
my heart is still pounding.

Tuesday 10:53pm
Today I realized we won’t work.
What we are is hurting her.
And I think she matters more to me than you do.

Wednesday 11:52pm
I broke things off with you today.
She barely said a word.
I’ve never regretted anything more than this.

Thursday 4:03pm
I shouldn’t have sent that message.
You shouldn’t have been so okay with receiving it.

Friday 9:57pm
I almost messaged you today.
I didn’t.

Saturday 8:49pm
I’m walking around town in search of alcohol.
They say that liquor numbs the pain of having a broken heart.
I want to put that to the test.

Sunday 2:32am
I heard you texted a girl you’ve never spoken to before.
I wonder if it’s because you’re trying to replace me.
I can’t help but wish you weren’t.
I thought I was irreplaceable.

—  a week with you on my mind, c.j.n.

Also, posting this video I forgot that I made. But my mom found it on my phone and gave me a look, as if to say “why do you keep disappointing me?”

Harry, Niall and Liam all wanted to be there to support Louis tonight for what was undoubtedly one of the most difficult moments of his life.

“It was an incredible and special thing for them to get back together as a four and be like brothers again.

Niall flew in overnight from New York so he could be there and Liam came from Los Angeles. It was that important they were together.

They were all in Louis’s dressing room together and it was obviously an incredible emotional night.”

Harry Styles + Cocky/Smug Moments