so identified

I’m now watching the one movie that has a scene that always makes me teary in it, help me

anonymous asked:

Hey, so I don't identify as trans, and I hope I can express my gratitude for that pic without hurting anyones feelings. I just really like your trans keith drawings, and the period one kind of struck me, maybe because it was cool to see a /boy/ like that. I try to ignore my gender identity for the most part, but seeing something that I, for some fucking reason, relate to so much, kind of shook me. So like, kudos, man.

this isn’t in the least bit hurtful, don’t you worry. I didn’t expect that drawing to shake anyone up so badly, but I hope it’s in a good way! This ask made me smile tbh. I don’t wanna get into a huge attempt to articulate it but this is v sweet thank you ahaha

anonymous asked:

uhm hey so i identify as demi-panromantic ace currently (ha i know it's a mouthful) but i'm not entirely sure... i think i could be aromantic?? i've *sort of* had a few crushes before but the thing is in those situations i've never wanted anything more than hanging out and possibly cuddling? like i've never really wanted to kiss anyone? and so i'm not sure if what i've felt is romantic or just platonic or what even qualifies as romantic??? agh i'm just generally confused

Oh sweetie, these are okay things to be confused about! Remember that labels are only important insofar as they help us feel validated and they help us find and build community: but they rarely fit us perfectly, and it’s okay to be many things at once, or many things at different times! As for what’s romantic and what’s platonic, that depends! Often there’s not a clear line! Like, I’m a hella cuddly and flirty person, but I don’t want to romantically be with everyone I want to cuddle and flirt with; whereas other people observing me would think that my behavior is romantic, you know? So it’s different for everyone, and you’re completely legitimate in having your own definitions!! I’m sending you so much love, darling! <3 <3 <3

anonymous asked:

do you have any tips for stopping binges? i hate feeling guilty and bad about myself and i want to avoid them :(

rlly wish i tagged my how to stop binging asks lol but

1) recognize ur “binges”: are you defining them as whenever u go past ur restriction limit or is it a true binge (3k+ cals in under an hour and 10k+ in a day). If it’s the latter than u should probably just eat mire and try to maintain a healthy caloric intake to keep urself safe

2) if it’s a true binge recognize the cause: for me i tended to be in a binge purge cycle, so i wouldn’t eat much for days and then one day i’d eat thousands upon thousands, so upping ur intake to a healthy amount daily can save u from a huge binge later on. For other ppl they’re caused by stress or boredom, or sheer habit and they’re fixable problems so first identify the cause

3) be consistent + know urself: i cut out sodas for a month and was v strict abt it b/c certain foods had me craving more. it sucks the first couple of days but eventually u get used to it and now sugar is far to sweet. Another thing i did was eat 3 meals. I didn’t even eat much and it was sooo hard for the first couple of days, but making sure to eat period helped me to not binge. i kept this up for a month and my binges have been far less frequent since then

i hope it helps xx

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emeraude talking about how the writers room handles different sexualities (x)

Here, in case I haven’t quite driven the point home:

shoutout to nb lesbians who feel like no girl is gonna want you bc you’re nonbinary and you don’t fulfill the Lesbian Criteria™ you’re as much of a lesbian as anyone else and you’re gonna find your girl don’t worry ab it

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FELIZ CUMPLEAÑOS REINA // ten of my favorite photos of Frida Kahlo. Her birthday is July 6, 1907

Shout out to everyone who is trans/nonbinary/questioning their gender and identifies as ace and/or aro - spec but aren’t sure if they are actually ace and/or aro or if it just dysphoria acting up.

You are valid in using the ace or aro labels. If you find out later it was dysphoria or something else that made you identify as ace or aro and you want to change labels, then that’s completely ok and great!! And if you always identify as ace or aro, that is also completely ok and great!! I love you all and I wish you all the best!~

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❝ I am no longer accepting the things I cannot change.
I am changing the things I cannot accept.❞

- A N G E L A   D A V I S

↳ for @girlsvstrump

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NUMBER NOTHING’S GUIDE TO IDENTIFYING BANDS- PART III

Power Metal

  1. Can’t wait to see how fast this gets reposted :)
  2. I can’t wait to see how many people complain about inaccuracies :)
  3. Specifically the fact that there are ‘symphonic’ or ‘gothic’ metal bands in here but you know what suck my ass it’s not the worst thing to happen in these guides trust me
  4. I am NOT LINKING this one to the other two because they happened a long time ago and I Am Embarassed.
  5. I hope this makes some people happy :)

You know I think my love for Azriel genuinely exceeds my love for any other fictional character I’ve ever been obsessed with because I NEED him to be happy and I don’t give one shit how that happens.

Moriel is endgame? AWESOME. He moves on from Mor and falls in love with someone else or maybe just keeps doing his own thing? AWESOME. The slim chance of Elriel happening? AWESOME.

I literally have 0 ship preference with Azriel except him and happiness because DAMMIT HE DESERVES IT AND IF HE DIES OR IS SAD AT ALL AT THE END OF ACOWAR I WILL NEVER RECOVER.

Nah, but for serious if I was looking for any kids show to introduce a trans female comfortably and with success, I would be looking at Star vs The Forces of Evil. A show which has diverse personalities for all its female characters - Jackie, Janna, Star, Ponyhead, Starfan 13. All of them are different, but they are all still girls. None of these characters are ever told to be more feminine or are called manly. Janna who literally says in the show, “I just hate contributing to gender stereotypes”.

If Marco were to identify as a trans girl in the show, they’d know not to make him any different than he is already. They already know that girls have different interests and looks and attitudes and everything. All they’d have to do is for Marco to say the words, “I don’t think I’m a boy” or “I’m a girl” and you’d believe it because that is what the show is about. Being a girl. Not wanting to fit into the standards people expect of you as a girl. Marco identifying as a girl fits into the show so well and fits into everything it is trying to represent.