Is it wrong to NOT be asexual? Is it wrong to have sexual desires?
……………………………………………………..so i’m gonna assume the best intention behind this ask and attempt to temper my response accordingly
no? obviously it isn’t. as long as your attraction doesn’t involve harm or violation of consent, it’s not any more wrong to experience sexual attraction than it is to not experience it.
like i said, i’m trying to assume the best possible intent behind this ask, so in the interests of that i’m going to keep my editorializing to a minimum, but: my ““““““participation”””””” in the shitcourse, if reblogging posts i agree with can really be considered participation, takes the form and frequency it does because there is far more out there telling asexual people “it’s not okay that you experience no sexual attraction” than there is telling [x]sexual people “it’s not okay that you experience sexual attraction.” so. no. it’s not wrong to experience sexual attraction that doesn’t entail harm or violation of consent of others. but as an asexual person who’s had more than enough of the world telling me my asexuality is not acceptable and who has generally rejected that expectation as utter fucking bullshit, my priority lies in making sure other asexual people who may be following me realize that it’s also not wrong for THEM to experience their sexuality in a way that doesn’t align with societal expectations of sex-positivity and sexual attraction and sexual activity. and i’m gonna stop editorializing here because i’m gonna tilt harsher if i don’t.