so i put it to good use

anonymous asked:

Idk, I'm still not at all interested in this season of TO. I just feel like they keep lying to us about everything. They said last year that Haylijah were finally over for good and tried to put the blame on Trump. I was so glad they were finally done, so if they're not I just can't get excited about the show at all.

YEAH, HI HELLO, I GET THAT, I DO. AND I FEEL YOU ON YOUR DISCONTENT, BUT I’VE ALSO BEEN IN THIS FANDOM THE ENTIRE FIVE YEARS, AND LIKE THREE OF THOSE YEARS WERE PURE GARBAGE, AND SO I’M KINDA SUPER FUCKING EXCITED FOR KLAROLINE, AND SO CAN I JUST HAVE MY MOMENT PLEASE. 

I’VE WAITED A LONG TIME FOR MY MOMENT. YOU CAN KINDA SAY MY ENTIRE BLOG LIFE HAS BEEN BUILDING TO THIS. LET ME HAVE MY MOMENT.

anonymous asked:

How can someone be a good patient? I'm in the hospital a lot more than I'd like but I always try to say thank you and not use a call light unless I really need help with something, but I know nurses put up with so much and I wish there was something more I could do.

Dear Anon,

How can someone be a good patient? That’s a tough question and the true answer is likely more complex than the response I will provide. 

A good patient can mean different things to different nurses, but I’ll try to hit what I believe are the highlights and let the rest of Tumblr nursing community fill in the gaps.

Medications

Yes, your medications may be scheduled at 9 a.m., but in most facilities, nurses can give that medication an hour before or after it’s scheduled time. This is because nurses have many other tasks and cannot always administer medications at the exact hour they’re due. And if there is a code on the floor, your nurse will likely be tied up for a considerable amount of time and may be late with your meds. Those situations are rare, but can and do happen.

Originally posted by gameraboy

We know that the pill we’re giving you doesn’t look like the pill you take at home, but it is the same drug, just a different shape.

Originally posted by classicmoviescenes

Some nurses will disagree with this next tip, but I think it’s important as your healthcare provider: ask questions about your medications. I usually review the medications and dosages with my patients to make sure everything checks out with regards to their home medications. There have been a couple of times where I’ve had a patient tell me that they take more or less than the hospital-prescribe dosage and after checking with the medical team, we found a mistake had been made and the dosage adjusted. Some nurses prefer that a patient just be quiet and take the medication because the med pass will go faster, but that’s not in the best interested of the patient.

You, as a patient, have a right to refuse any medication. Do not just swallow pills without knowing why. Don’t ever let a member of your healthcare team tell you that you “have to take this,” because as long as you are of sound mind, you have the right to refuse any medication or treatment. Again, this isn’t what some nurses want to deal with, but a good nurse will be patient with the patient (ha!) and try to explain the need for the medication.

Call Bell

The call bell is not room service or a direct line to a concierge. It’s a hospital, not a hotel, contrary to what HCAHPS scores (I hate them with a passion) encourage. If you need to use the bathroom and require assistance, use the call bell. If you have new onset of pain or other symptoms, use the call bell. If you’ve had an accident in the bed, use the call bell. If it’s something truly urgent, use the call bell. If it can wait until we check in on you, then perhaps wait. Of course, this is all common sense if you ask me and I don’t think this advice will do anything to change how patients behave. Those with common sense and respect for their medical team will not use the call bell except when needed. And those who abuse the call bell and feel entitled will continue to use the call bell excessively and become annoyed and unpleasant if their “needs” are not met immediately.

Respect the Nurses

Most people seem to think that nurses work for the doctors. Wrong. Nurses work with the doctors. I can’t speak for all nurses, but I have eight years of college, one year of residency, and more than 1400 clinical hours before I even sat for my national licensure exam (NCLEX). I am known throughout the medical team as having the most thorough physical exams of any nurse or doctor at my hospital. As a result, I’ve had doctors come back to re-examine a patient and find previously undiagnosed conditions. While I am still learning (we never stop really), I know my shit and I’m good at my job. Just because I chose not to become a doctor does not mean that I am not intelligent. 

Doctors, nurse practitioners, physician assistants, X-ray techs, lab techs, PT/OT, respiratory, and many others make up a collectively highly-trained and educated medical team. Medicine is NOT an exact science. We do our best to treat what we believe to be the cause of your condition, but sometimes it takes some time to find the true etiology of an illness.

Conclusion

It sounds to me like you are a good patient. The type of patient a person is depends largely on what kind of human being they are. If a person is an asshole outside of the hospital, they’ll probably be an asshole in the hospital. If a person is kind, thoughtful, and respectful outside the hospital, they’ll probably be the same as a patient.

That being said, I think by educating all patients - and not that bullshit brochure patients get when they’re admitted - but a true, come-to-Jesus, heart-to-heart education, we may be able to have better overall patient/medical team interactions and experience.

Thank you for the question! I know this answer may seem longer than I initially let on, but it’s still just a drop in the bucket of what I could write. I’m hoping the nursing community on Tumblr (nurblrs) will contribute to the discussion.

My friend, colleague, and fellow Harry Potter fanactic @freshrn wrote a book titled “Admit One: What you must know when going to the hospital” that addresses this topic. Check it out!

Sincerely,
Mursenary Gary

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anonymous asked:

I get called a cracker all the time by exclusionists! And it's so fucking triggering, as a native person who has had their ethnicity violently denied pretty much their entire life. I just want to scream every time it happens. I'm not white, and I have that information easily available on my blog.

Holy shit

I’m so sorry you have to deal with this.

I also put it right at the top of my blog I’m not white after the first time sth like that happened and still it was a frequent thing for a good while (which at first seriously messed with me), but then again those nasty racists who pull this made such a huge effort to pretend aces/aros/anyone who supports us are all white with a few “tokens” bc erasing and treating like shit ace and aro PoC is acceptable to try and shut up our communities they hate so much

And yeah sorry you have to deal with that shit you deserve better

anonymous asked:

So we know that Damian is really good at finding out a person's desire. Maybe it was used to exploit their target back at the LoA. But lately he's been using it to give heartfelt presents. I can't help thinking that if he found out that Steph was pregnant once and put the baby up for adoption, he might search for the baby. Maybe he would take several pictures of her and make it into an album and gave it to Steph. Its a nice thought.

Ow, this really breaks my heart </3 

I miss their interactions so much and I think this would be something that 1) he would definitely do and 2) they really could bond over, given Damian’s issues with his own mother. 

I’d love for Stephanie to get to see that her baby is happy and growing up safe and loved, for her to be 100% sure that she did the best thing she could. And I’d love for Damian to realize that blood ties only count so far, and that an adopted family is just as good as any other family. 

anonymous asked:

team pistachio is such a good team ! Thank you for putting us all together! It's so organised and we all know each other so well already ! I'm so excited for the games to start

I’m happy you are getting along! And that you thknk it’s organized, we are still figuring things out but so far things are going quite well.

-Mariana

anonymous asked:

kagome being elizabeth's maid/bodyguard instead of ciel's headcanons please (i hope eveything gets better over there)

Thank you. It’s a slow process and grief is coming on and off pretty randomly, but I’m adjusting, I guess. Anyway, I’m iffy with this piece, but I couldn’t think of many ideas for your request. Still, I hope it’d be a good read!

This got long so this got the cut. For mobile users, please use your browser app to read!

here’s all the prompts–i’m only taking kuroshitsuji and castlevania requests for a time being.

Her mother was scary. She hated how the woman would always pigeonholed onto her for every little slight offense. Never mind the fact that she would put a bullet in the damn woman’s head quicker than she could draw out her blade.

But, there are mutual respect in between them, even if it doesn’t always look like it. There was a reason why she was hired to stick close to Young Lady Elizabeth. Although Elizabeth was indeed a prodigy in her own rights (more so than her own brother), with blades, she was still soft-hearted—something that Lady Midford was continuing to work on.

This came about only because Elizabeth trusted a wrong person, the person who was responsible for the death of her previous lady-in-waiting, Paula.

Lady Midford managed to keep the reasons behind the poor woman’s death a secret from her grieving daughter, to prevent any unnecessary guilt—they were quite close. Seeing her daughter’s frailty she decided to take advantage of her old Phantomhive connections, to find someone suitable to guard her daughter. And, so, there she was—Kagome who worked with the previous head of the Phantomhive years ago, as his personal assassin.

While beautiful in a subtle sort of way, Kagome looked as meek as they came and was easy to be underestimated. Jack of all trades, master of the few. Even Francis took a step back when Kagome demonstrated her skills on her demands—she was hired immediately.

Kagome wished Lady Midford hadn’t picked her.

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Positivity about the signs

My gemini sun is taking over and so I’m feeling filled with positive things to say!!

Aries: These individuals are so fiery and fun to be around. They’re the friends that’ll volunteer you to do something you would have never done otherwise but have fun doing anyway. They give off these lovely energetic vibes and are some of the most outgoing people you’ll ever meet. Even if they are shy, they still show their amazing lively personalities in one way or another.

Taurus: These people are so down-to-earth and are actually secretly so caring and sweet it’s fantastic. Their the person you want to go out to a movie with and yes they actually will share their popcorn, stop with the stereotyping guys. Their also so level headed they’re just the right people to talk to when you need advice.

Gemini: These guys are so much fun to be around omg they’re always so humorous and playful it’s just great. They’re the best people to hang out with when you need a good distraction from life. They give off such optimistic vibes it’s just great. Even if they’re a shy Gemini you can just tell by their laugh that they are full of fun. And they always have the best topics to chat about! They’re great at keeping awkward silence away. 

Cancer: These people are so sweet and pure omg I love them. I swear they’re even cute when they’re pissed. Sure they can be a bit emotional but that just means you’ll never have to worry about them hiding something from you. They’re some of the most kind people I have ever meet and honestly I really hope my next girlfriend is a Cancer!

Leo: You are so kind and generous and yes you are a bit prideful but that isn’t necessarily a bad thing! It’s lovely to have people around who like themselves, it brings positive vibes. I always find that there is something magnetic about a Leo’s personality which makes everyone just love them which I am super jealous of, you guys are so lucky!

Virgo: Ahhh you guys are so kind and organized I LOVE YOU. I love that while you can be super kind and caring you also can be real and serious and just get to the damn point it’s awesome of you. You’re also such hard workers and I can really appreciate that! 

Libra: I love how kind you guys are and omg may I just say that you are all so pretty! You make such fun, nice, and funny friends. You may not be my favorite sign but I can still find plenty of things I love about you guys. Like you give off such great vibes <333

Scorpio: You guys are so hot and yet so cool and that is awesome. I love your sarcastic sense of humor and your powerful presence. Sure you intimidate me a bit but hey I still think you guys are wicked cool. You’re always like that badass friend that people are always just aspire to be!

Sagittarius: YOU ARE SO MUCH FUN TO BE AROUND OMG. I love adventuring you you guys you are so exciting and yet so chill and omfg I just love how accepting you are of everything. Idk why but I just love your good vibes and your explorative attitude and how you take initiative.

Capricorn: I absolutely love the energy you put towards your work. I mean I absolutely aspire to be like you in that aspect! Sure you can be a bit serious at times but I’ve seen that you can still be really nice! You’re also just so much more level headed than the rest of us plebeian non-Capricorns that like honestly I bow down to you.

Aquarius: Ahh I love how unique you guys are! You groove to your own beat and that is just fantastic, I really wish I could be more like that! You’re also so smart like that is so great. I also always have so much fun when i with you guys like I really appreciate your presence.

Pisces: Oh my you sweet little thing I know you’re really sensitive but you’re so kind and empathetic it’s just so lovable. You’re so caring and your smiles are always just the most heartwarming things. Ah I may not get along with some of you due to your sensitivity but I still really love this sign and your cheerful, calm, caring vibe.

kids won on the doodle comic poll but I wanted to doodle these two together anyway because I’m not the boss of me

morally dubious sass pals judge locals while sharing latest gossip on hexes

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Haylijah’s first kiss 1x20 vs. their reunited Kiss 4x01

Aka the parallel where Hayley feels Elijah behind her, and attacks him with a kiss.

Interviewing your Crystals

This is a fairly simple spread that I came up with after buying some new crystals and not really knowing what to do with them. This is just one of the many ways you can get to know your crystals and find out how to put them to good use!

1. What are your energies?
I consider this to explain the overall ‘personality’ of the crystal. If you aren’t great at sensing energy, or can’t get a fix on the energy, this could help you.

2. What can you heal/cleanse?
So many people use crystals for healing and cleansing themselves, spaces, etc. Consider this the form of cleaning your crystal is best at.

3. In what ways can you fit into my practice?
There are so many hundreds of ways to use crystals! If you like to have specific crystals for specific things, this will help a lot.

4. What lessons can be learned from you?
Meditating and scrying with crystals can show you many things, and sometimes there are lessons to be learned. There might be a specific message this crystal wishes to get across. 

As an added note, you can also use the first card to figure out what the crystal’s associations might be (that is if you’re like me and don’t always feel like common crystal associations fit 100% of the time).

Feel free to tag me or let me know how this spread works! It worked pretty well for me, and I’d love to see what other people think!!!

Robert Downey Jr.’s been on a pedestal with me since I was a very young man. I’ve just always admired him and been a fan. And I’ve said for years and years and years that I hope the crossover happened because I thought that Drax would have such great interactions with Tony Stark and Robert Downey Jr. And it just all kind of came to fruition and actually it’s gonna happen and it’s good. It’s really good! It’s better than I ever thought it would ever be. I’m really excited.

Immediately (there’s chemistry between us). And here’s the thing– I went to the premiere in London for Avengers 2, and Robert went out of his way to come and meet me and say how much he loved me in the first (Guardians) film and that meant the world to me. So that put me at kind of an automatic comfort level with him.

So as soon as we hit the stage, man, there was no pressure there, there were no walls, I just felt like this guy was very supportive of me and I felt very comfortable with him. I think that’s just him. He’s a very giving actor all across the board. But just for me personally, I felt totally at ease with him and it makes for great chemistry when you’re comfortable with someone.”

—  DAVE BAUTISTA, when asked “in the Infinity War set, is there anyone in particular that you were most excited to meet?” (July 15, 2017).
Spirit-B-Gone Powder

Originally posted by goddamnitmorgan

This is a powder designed to quickly banish a spirit, while neutralizing any of their attempts to harm you. It is not designed to play nice, so keep that in mind when deciding when to use it. Hopefully you will never need it. (Though if you DO use it, I’d love to hear about your results since by nature it’s something I kind of avoid thoroughly testing!)

Ingredients:
I mix them intuitively, so the amounts are whatever feels right. Generally this takes more salt, though.

  • Salt (Protection, banishing)
  • Pepper (Banishing, protection)
  • Chili Powder (Banishing)
  • Grey Salt (I make this the same way as most black salt recipes, with the ashes of incense. Grey is neutralizing.)
  • Cayenne Pepper (Banishing, adds strength and speed)
  • Ginger (Banishing, adds strength and speed)

Put it in a bottle or container and give it a good SHAKE!!

Angel in the Darkness (M) pt.7

Originally posted by aestheticvbts

Summary: After a patient urgently pleads you to go and help a friend of his, you naively agree to it. Little did you know, that you would get more than what you agreed to, when he leads you to a brothel, to help a dangerous prostitute named Jeon Jungkook.

Pairing: Jungkook x Reader (ft. Jin, but not romantically)

Genre: Smut (M), angst, mafia!au, prostitution!au

A/N:This is a dark and filthy story! Graphic descriptions of sex (masturbating, etc), heavy dom/sub undertones, drug use, vulgar language use……(alot of smut comes in later) This is a mature read! You have been warned!

part 1 | part 2 | part 3 | part 4 | part 5 | part 6 | part 7



The air conditioning caused the dimly lit room to be abnormally cold, as Jin slightly shivered. He was sitting with his hands forming fists, while his father gave him a stern look.

He didn’t want to be here, that was for sure. He knew his father must have started to become suspicious of him, since it was taking an unusually long time for him to locate Jungkook and you. So when he got another message that his father wanted to see him – he couldn’t stop shaking.

What was he supposed to say? He couldn’t keep lying and give his father the same answer of ‘they are close.’ No, that definitely wouldn’t work this time, as he could tell with the look his father currently gave him.

“Son,” his father spoke with a grim voice. “How stupid do you think I am?”

Even though Jin was nervous, he managed to pull off his infamous poker face as he replied, “What ever do you mean?”

“Save your lies for someone else Jin,” the greying man mocked. “You may be able to fool others, but certainly not me. Now tell me where they are. Now.”

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Good Lord that pompadour!  That’s all, it just deserves its own post.

Originally posted by funnybunnyshit

as a movie theatre employee: it is okay if you say “you too” when we tell you to enjoy your movie!! we don’t mind!! i find it endearing bc (presumably) you thought we were gonna tell u to have a good day and you were polite enough to automatically say “you too” (also we usually get free movies so we will, eventually, enjoy our movie and your “you too” will be put to good use)