so hence the real or not real quote

So, according to THR and Vulture, quoting the showrunner herself, what people always said on here about her ginormous issues in real life is nothing but truth.

I tried, for a long time, to separate the professional from the person and not draw conclusions on her personality based on the show… but now SHE is saying herself that her views on real life prevent her from writing fully functional characters. Hence why she is saying exactly what was always said on here… her incapability of having relationships is why she can’t write relationships, her incapability of loving others and commit to others fully is why she writes what she writes. Her hatred for men is why she writes men the way she does.

I commend @elegantpaws in particular because she nailed it down to a tee. You were always right, my dear.

Now we know  FOR SURE why the BS we see on screen is like that, and why it can’t change.