so dont assume you are hated

#letbangtanlive2k16

listen you preteen hormonal shits, how can you possibly assume that beCAUSE YOU SEE THE REFLECTION OF A GUY IN A MIRROR WEARING THE SAME SHIRT AS JIMIN THAT JHOPE’S SISTER AND JIMIN ARE DATING?????? HOW DOES THAT CONCLUDE TO ANYTHING OMGGGGG. I WANT TO THROW MY MACBOOK IN THE FIRE IN HOPES THAT THIS RUMOR WILL BURN WITH IT. DONT YOU THINK ANYONE ELSE IN THE WORLD HAS THAT SAME SHIRT??? WHY CAN YOU ALL ASSUME THAT IT WAS HOSEOK’S SHIRT AND JIMIN BORROWED IT BECAUSE THEY LOVE SHARING SHIRTS??? WHY CANT YOU ALL JUST WAIT FOR JIMIN TO SAY IF HES DATING SOMEONE?????????? WHY DO YOU ALWAYS ALWAYS A L W A Y S SPREAD SO MANY RUMORS ABOUT THE BOY. LET HIM LIVE FFS. 

im adding the picture because i know one of you is gonna message and ask me for it. and i purposely cropped out her instagram username because i dont want anyone sending her anymore hate than shes already getting. shes hoseok’s sister guys, please, have some sensibility and do not send her hate. 

anonymous asked:

tsukkiyama marriage headcanons ?? (i have no idea if youve done this kinda headcanon/if you actually do headcanons for certain ships and im sorry if you dont aa)

I haven’t done these kinda headcanons before, but I do write things for pairings!! As long as they aren’t any of the pairs I hate
TsukkiYama is my Haikyuu otp though so :3c

I assumed you just wanted married life headcanons but I had ideas for the proposal n stuff so I included them. Also let’s just assume they were in university or something when they got married (yes they marry early but shh these are my hcs) n all of Karasuno is still friends n keep in contact with each other n stuff. No sads allowed

Proposal/Wedding

  • They both proposed at the same time, not having a clue that the other had prepared. They were at a park together, watching the sunset, when they turned at the same time to ask the question. It had them both laughing to tears, but Tsukishima recovered first to properly ask if Yamaguchi would marry him.
  • Surprisingly, Tsukishima was the one who started crying at the wedding first. Tanaka, Nishinoya, Kuroo, and occasionally Hinata like to tease him for it, but it’s not something he’s embarrassed about. Why would he be embarrassed over the best day and best decision of his life (he has said, embarrassing the heck out of poor Yamaguchi)?
  • Suga snuck a small dinosaur cake topper on the wedding cake before the ceremony started and Yamaguchi isn’t allowed to tell anyone that Tsukishima kept it.

Married Life

  • Not too much changed after the wedding. They were already living together as a couple, they had just gone the extra step in their relationship and had the rings to prove it. Although they did move and get an apartment of their own, instead of continuing to live in a university dorm.
  • No matter how much time passes, Yamaguchi is still in awe that they’re even married, half expecting to one day wake up and realise all of it had been a dream - an incredible, amazing dream, but a dream nonetheless. But waking up beside Tsukishima each morning and seeing the simple gold band on his finger always reminds him that yes, it’s real. It never fails to make him smile as he snuggles closer to his husband’s side.
  • Meanwhile, Tsukishima’s just amazed Yamaguchi stuck around him so long for them to even get that far in their relationship. He knows he isn’t the easiest person to be around, and he’s honestly surprised Yamaguchi loves him so much that he put up with him all those years. He’d never admit it, but whenever he thinks it, he starts being just a lil extra affectionate.

anonymous asked:

Freddie there is something I dont really understand. How can you and bananashemmo be friends when youre in the front part of anti hating Luke while Julie is literally the complete opposite and keeps shaming people for hating on him for immature reasons? I assume you might have discussed this before I just find it bizare

We understand each others points of views. We’ve talked about it and she understands my reasons (and somewhat did agree with me on some, but did tell me off for others so) I don’t really send hate towards Luke or anything because I’m not that immature. I just get uncomfortable and don’t write about him anymore..and sometimes make jokes about it that people take to seriously I try not to mention him anymore. I do love the kid though don’t get me wrong. 

You can be friends with someone even know there views are different, I like Julie and I know she talks about people shamming for stupid reasons and I do agree with her. 

I like Julie for her not her love for Luke…

anonymous asked:

How about shadowhunters? I'm not sure if that's how it's called lol

my tv and book opinion are different so for the sake of this ask im gonna assume you mean the show?

  • the first character i ever fell in love with: isabelle
  • a character that i used to love/like, but now do not: none in the show but in the books, jessamine lovelace
  • a ship that i used to love/like, but now do not: i dont have any for this series
  • my ultimate favorite character™: clary fray
  • prettiest character: isabelle lightwood
  • my most hated character: in the show rebecca lewis tbh
  • my OTP: clace or malec
  • my NOTP: clalec *please make it stop*
  • favorite episode: M A L E C
  • saddest death: ragnor bby :(
  • favorite season:
  • least favorite season:
  • character that everyone else in the fandom loves, but i hate: maureen tbh i never liked her in the books, i like her a little bit more in the show but she’s still not my fave
  • my ‘you’re piece of trash, but you’re still a fave’ fave: camille belcourt
  • my ‘beautiful cinnamon roll who deserves better than this’ fave: jace jace jace
  • my ‘this ship is wrong, nasty, and makes me want to cleanse my soul, but i still love it’ ship: jalec i mean its not nasty its just never gonna happen
  • my ‘they’re kind of cute, and i lowkey ship them, but i’m not too invested’ ship’: clizzy

anonymous asked:

i m going to assume you re white, (since you do look that way), im curious to know your opinions on white privilege and police brutality

Yes, I’m white. 

I believe police brutality happens and it breaks my heart to see. There is so much evil in the world and as a Christian I believe all the strife between races has one cause–sin. We sinful humans (myself included) have created so much hate in the world and I think that’s exactly what the devil wants. He wants people to stand divided and for hate and violence to take over so people will turn away from Christ. And if you look at our world today, I think that’s exactly what’s happening. 

When incidents of police brutality happen I try my best to listen to what’s being said on all sides. And as a Christian I refuse to ignore the cries for justice from my brothers and sisters, and I mourn with them. I want things to change.

I think terms like “white privilege” can have the potential to do more harm than good by creating more division between people groups, but I’m not blind to history. I know what white people have done to people of color in the past and how that has shaped our modern society. 

Racism is real, police brutality is real, and these things have given certain people groups more or less power over each other. All these things are wrong. But for me, it all comes back to this–we are all children of God living in a twisted world full of sin and hate and strife, and if we want to fix any of these problems, we need to turn to Jesus Christ and let him heal and change our sinful hearts–only then can we really battle the evil that’s taken over this world. 

Never assume

That I’m mad, that I’m ignoring or anything of me. Serious, its the quickest way to really get me hella pissed. I do not like assumptions and I sure as hell hate being told what I’m feeling. As if somehow someone just knows more than me. If I dont respond I’m either: BUSY, AWAY, OR SLEEPING. if you couldn’t tell, im annoyed. Had a friend spam my inbox assuming I was mad cause I havent responding to her. Mind you- I’m suppose to be having a family day so Im between doing so & playing Pokemon. Honestly, my good mood has dropped cause of this person and I am now going to ignore her while I try to lift my mood.

Originally posted by stueckschokokuchen

anonymous asked:

how does it feel losing all ur friends cause u dont give a shit abt them and constantly give half assed apologies?

anon, if you know me at all– and i’m assuming you do, since this is a very personal attack– you’d know that i don’t apologize unless i actually, really, truly and sincerely mean it. i hate apologizing. i hate admitting that i’m wrong. so if i do, i really do mean it and i really do realize that i’ve fucked up. obviously that doesn’t mean i have to be forgiven for whatever it is that i’ve done but i feel like it can’t just be brushed aside if i really am genuinely sorry

i’m not losing all my friends. i’ve lost some. i still have plenty– all of who i care about deeply– and in the future i’ll make ever more. i’m not a perfect person, no one is, but i strive to be better and to learn from my mistakes and to ultimately be fundamentally good

also, fuck off. there’s no way you haven’t seen my recent vent posts. playing with someone’s anxiety isn’t cute.

anonymous asked:

i'm still the ghost anon and this is probably my last ask for you. you are insensitive. so that's how you deal with things? you joke around hating on something we love and once you're called out you make everything as a joke? hm.

hey uh i really dont kno what u mean ? cuz i was like… really joking frm the start like im sorry i offended  u i really didnt mean 2 i was jus joking… i thought u were too thats why i kept on going w the whol thing… anyway i dont think its fair that youre assuming stuf about me esp cuz u dont know me ? in the end i really was jus fooling around like this is my blog n tbh no offense 2 u but idk why youre so pressed over some fandom ships that ARE literally nothing more than queer baiting…

anonymous asked:

okay it's time to turn anon off you're getting quite a lot of hate messages I assume you aren't a terrible person you're absolutely lovely in my and many other people's eyes and you don't have to stop posting your suicidal things on your blog because an anon said so on another note, how has your day been going?

i know you wanna help but dont tell me what to do please,, like, i will turn them off when the day ends

anonymous asked:

lots of jasper fans relate and have been through abuse themselves. i feel like there's this assumption that jasper fans only like her because of her appearance & would defend anything she did, but i've researched this and literally 100s of people have talked about how they relate to her + oft relate lapis to their abuser. so whenever anyone says jasper was the only abuser i just feel awful, especially when RS actually said they were both bad for each other, so its not a "we just dont know" thing

I’m not 100% sure what called for this ask so I’m just going to assume it’s my ‘I hate the Jasper fandom’ thingy? I hope that’s right. i said a bunch of random stuff in hopes there’s a response that you’re looking for.

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In regards to the hate I have been getting:

Go ahead and anonymously tell me about how transgender people are gross and wrong. I can handle it. BUT, I do ask you to do one thing. JUST ONE THING. I am asking you to reevaluate yourself. For starters, you obviously have a tumblr so there is a high chance you’re a lesbian. That is “wrong”. I am also assuming you have drank under age. That is “wrong”. As well as having sex before marriage, smoking weed, lying, and many other things. Instead of worrying about others and what they are doing with their lives, please focus on yourself and your “wrongs”. Dont hate on someone just because they are different. And if you feel the need to message them and their friends, dont be a coward and do it anonymously. Own up.

i need like constant reassurance about everything and i feel so annoying¿ like oh friends i lose contact because i over think that they dont like me¿¿ i am literally so confused because i need to people to tell me that they like me or want to be with me or i assume that they dont like me¿ i hate this like if you tell me i.e. oh youre really cute i have a crush on you like ill need reassurance every so often because ill feel like im not doing enough and AHHHHHH I DONT KNOW AND I FEEL ANNOYING

i got to portland and i was gonna play pokemon go with a friend but it’s too hot and im tired and i just kinda wanna chill inside but i dont want him getting any funny ideas then that other boy wants to hang out tonight but he’s the type who “hates crowds” which always makes me assume someone just wants to get me alone to murder me but anyway i’m ignoring both for a couple more hours

having ppl actually want to hang out with you is so hard. i can barely handle 2 how could i ever deal with actually having friends 

anonymous asked:

Do you ever feel like there is more you could do for god?

I dont like this question bc it kind of assumes i need to work to earn God’s approval and i need more actions to win his love but i dont. I already have it all. Even if i hated him I’d still have all his love. So im gonna say no, not meaning I’m perfect but meaning there isnt more i can do for him he already did it all. Love u 💕