so done ;a;

  • A relationship between two adults with a large age gap is not inherently abusive.
  • Parents maintaining some form of control over their child’s life whilst that child is underage and still under their parents’ care is not inherently abusive.
  • A parent reasonably disciplining their child is not inherently abusive.
  • Arguments in a relationship of any kind do not automatically make the relationship, or any of the people involved, abusive.
  • Friends who aren’t available to tend to other friends’ needs 24/7 are not inherently abusive or “toxic”.
  • etc.

Can people seriously stop automatically categorising things as abusive because it just trivialises the seriousness of actual abuse. I’m so tired of seeing things like “if your partner yells at you then leave them”, “if a friend isn’t there for you then they’re not a real friend”, “if your parents don’t let you do what you want then they’re bad parents”.

Just because you don’t agree with someone’s behaviour it doesn’t mean the behaviour is abusive. Humans are complex and very emotional and while small things can sometimes be indicators of abuse, usually negative emotions or behaviours are just because people are fucking complicated.

Things are not as black and white as “100% abusive” and “100% not abusive” - please keep in mind that there are shades of grey such as “possibly abusive” or “a shitty thing to do, but not abusive”, or “just fucking normal human emotions because not everyone can be 100% positive and nice to everyone all the time you twats”.

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LENA LUTHOR IS A REGULAR IN SEASON 3
LENA LUTHOR IS A REGULAR IN SEASON 3
LENA LUTHOR IS A REGULAR IN SEASON 3
LENA LUTHOR IS A REGULAR IN SEASON 3
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LENA LUTHOR IS A REGULAR IN SEASON 3
LENA LUTHOR IS A REGULAR IN SEASON 3

anonymous asked:

Heads up. There is infact a canon evil-verse jack. Called Mad Jack.

LMAO i know right isnt it great!?? this shows got it all. I love Mad Jack he’s such a piece of shit bahahahah

I just call him underfell Jack tho, because Jokes™

  • <p> <b>Zack:</b> So how is the prettiest person in the world feeling today?<p/><b>Rachel:</b> *Barely glances at him while reading.*<p/><b>Rachel:</b> I don't know, how are you?<p/><b>Zack:</b> *Voice cracks* I'm fine..<p/><b></b> *Meanwhile beside them*<p/><b>Cathy:</b> *Casually drinks her latte while watching them* 'Get your shit together boi'<p/></p>