so *hugs*

So for the next week or so, I will posting @fiddleford-appreciation-month week 4 hugs and kisses for Fidds from all his family and friends cause he now has a nice big family!

Day 1: Stan/ord Pines
Day 2: Stanley Pines

Maybe it’s better that Bellamy and Clarke were separated this ep tbh I don’t know how Bellamy could’ve handled Clarke’s hair down without brushing it away every four and a half seconds

Som still needs a hug
(That’s me btw I need hug if anyone would like to offer even though it’s not irl I will still take as many virtual hugs as I can get rn)

anonymous asked:

you ever feel remarkably lonely because despite all your attempts at making friends you always feel like you're coming on too strong or too weak and then you get left in this lull of loneliness? I feel like all my close bonds have faded except for my girlfriend who i love so much but I'm so platonically lonely and I feel so useless at making friends, even online which should be easy. I'm sorry for the vent. I just admire you and didn't know who else to write to. I guess I could just use a hug.

Anon my sweet… I’m so sorry to hear you’re feeling this way. However, I want to remind you that friendships online are in no way easier than in real life — it’s easier to REACH people online, but keeping up with them can be very difficult due to life, time-zones etc. Don’t beat yourself over finding it difficult!

It can feel like hell, not being able to keep up with people you hold so dear, especially if you’re someone who needs and yearns for affection and verbal assurance of how people feel about you. I understand that, and I can imagine how bad you must be feeling. But please don’t pressure yourself or feel like people don’t care for you even if they can’t keep in contact with you day-to-day. It’s hard, it’s unbearably lonely sometimes, but please trust in the love your friends online have for you. It doesn’t disappear just because you can’t keep in contact as much as both of you’d love to.

Making friends is incredibly diffifult, and takes a lot of time. I understand how it could make you feel like an outsider, holding out on that time, especially if you see people socializing online all around you. Please don’t compare yourself to those other people with different situations, lives or social skills than you. Focus on your own feelings and what YOU want out of a friendship. Perhaps you should start out small, and try to make one friend first instead of trying to get a big bunch all at once?

I’m terrible at socializing, and most of my friends are painfully aware of this. But just because you’re clumsy socially doesn’t mean there’s no hope for you. You will make friends, slow and steady — just give it some time, and try to bravely contact people in communities you enjoy or share interests with. It all starts with babysteps, and will take time to grow. One friend becomes many, but it WILL take time and work. You’re alright, and you will get there. People love you, you have a wonderful girlfriend, and you deserve the friendships you yearn. Give yourself time. Don’t beat yourself over being clumsy about it.

I’m sending you tons of hugs, anon sweet. I’m sorry for ranting, but I wanted to let out what I think. I truly hope you’ll feel better soon, and will be gifted with all the affection and friendship you want and deserve. You’re a lovely person. Please don’t be afraid to reach out to people, both on- and offline. I believe in you!!!

90’s 🥀

I had a dream that my channel hit 2 million subscribers and i had to scream about it to mark because i was like so happy i started crying and he hugged me and kissed the top of my head like a proud father and aahhhhhhh it was sweeeeet and then i animated a video of me just walking amd throwing flowers at everyone because i was so hecking happy

anyway!!!! allow me to present michael ealy as clark kent:

he’s got the baby blues:

he’s got the great smile:

he’s a dork:

here he is in glasses:

pls imagine this face directed at lois lane:

and this one:

he can do serious too:

look at him:

these gifs:

and finally:

michael ealy as clark kent 2k17