shut up megg


I need feminism because most men’s restrooms still aren’t equipped with baby changing stations. As someone who was married to a man who had sole custody of his young son, I’m hyperaware that feminism means EQUALITY, not female superiority. Feminism should and does support a man’s right to be as much of a parent to his child(ren) as any mother is allowed/expected to be.

I am quite inebriated. Honestly though it’s been helping me a lot; I get tension headaches and back aches almost daily because of tensed muscles. A lot of it is anxiety related, so the only way to calm down is to be under the influence here and there. Alcohol allows me to relax and stop being so anxious for a few hours. Sounds bad, but I know my limit and overall it works out for the better. The sex helps too I’m sure.

Originally posted by l-l-lickmyballs

Fucking exhausted. Bed now. Plan for tomorrow:
  • Write some porn (wake up - 1:45pm)
  • Marriage equality rally (2:00pm - 3:30pm)
  • Birthday dinner with friends (4:30pm - ???)
  • Musical marathon at Nikki’s (??? - no-later-than-2:00am)

Musical line-up: Les Miserables, Rocky Horror Picture Show, REPO! The Genetic Opera

I’ll be 32 years old in 21 hours. Ugh. 

I saw something a while ago where people were saying that dying one’s hair nontraditional colours made them “attention whores,” and that’s bugging me tonight. Maybe it’s because I’m planning my next dye job, but whatever… the reason doesn’t matter.

I don’t dye my hair for attention. If people notice and compliment it, that’s great, and I appreciate that they like what I’ve chosen to do. But, even if no one ever noticed, never commented or complimented, never even *saw* it… I’d still dye my hair. I dye my hair for me. I like it. I’m not seeking approval. I’m just augmenting what I see in the mirror every morning.

I hate that everyone is so hell bent on the belief that everything a person does is for the benefit of someone else. Why must it all be a cry for help or a desperate grab for attention? Why can’t I just like the way my hair looks when it’s teal and purple (or whatever colours I do next)?

Sorry for the rant, but I was annoyed. I feel better now. Thanks for listening or reading or… whatever. <3