So I'm dealing with a lot of dysphoria and my dad is being more rude than usual. My dad told me it was all the LGBT+ communities fault that trans* people came to cis people's attention in bathrooms and he won't let me buy boxers or men's deodorant. My mom also told me that she couldn't buy me boxers, then said she'd order it offline and didn't offer a quicker solution until I started to cry. I explained to my mom that I was having crippling dysphoria. I just needed to get this off my chest hah.
Tell your dad to shut up and at least your mom is on your side and buying things offline for you. I hope they came in.
Try sitting down with your mom alone and explain everything and then she can go to your dad and explain to him.
Your dad sounds like a pos so if I was in your situation I’d cut him out of my life and I’d try with your mother cause at least she’s trying to meet half way with both her husband (a pos) and you, her child. She still cares and wants you to be happy but is also trying to please your pos dad.