- what she says: i'm fine
- what she means: Lena always asks Kara for advice everytime she has to make certain decisions, she thinks that Kara's opinions about things are so important that she always asks her so she can help her decide, just like when Lena found out that Rhea had been tricking her but Rhea was still hellbent on continuing her proposition with her, Lena called Kara for advice but Kara wasn't available at the moment because of Alex so she couldn't help Lena but Lena understands?!1 She doesn't push Kara into it or guilt trip Kara into not helping her, and because Kara can't help her, she just goes on with her own decision even if she herself isn't comfortable with it. Just like when Lena called Kara so Kara can talk her out of going to Jack's dinner date invite but Kara wasn't home, so she went with Jack anyway even though she doesn't feel like doing it at all. Kara's opinions on things are so important to Lena that she always asks Kara first about it and when Kara isn't available, she just goes on with her own decision even though she knows it'd be better if Kara had her own say about it.
If you're still doing that unpopular opinion thing I have one. I'm pansexual and I don't really have a problem with a storyteller telling me that a book, show, or movie they made says that a character is gay/bi/trans after its done. It doesn't bother me because, I feel like people on tumblr take your sexuality and make it your character/identity. Not your likes, dislikes, or quirks. It's what you are that matters, not who you are. I dunno, maybe I'm dumb.