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If your friend comes to you to vent about a guy:

Even if you told her to leave him alone

Even if you told her that he is no good

Even if this isn’t the first time he hurt her

Even if you know this might not be the last time

DO NOT TURN AWAY FROM HER

Because at the end of the day,

You weren’t there during their late night phone calls

You weren’t there when their bodies were intertwined beneath her sheets

You weren’t there when he kissed her with passion

You weren’t there when he looked her in the eyes and said “I Love You”

AS A FRIEND

You don’t have to support her

You don’t have to fix her

You don’t have to tell her what to do or how to feel

BUT YOU SHOULD

Listen to her

Take a moment to put yourself in her shoes

Try to see the situation from her eyes

Give advice, well thought out advice

Show her that she does not need that asshole

Never give up on her

Because when you give up on her, she won’t feel like running into anyone’s arms but his.

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