should i tag this as block b

“Asian eyes makeup.”
Warning: Rant ahead, proceed with caution.
I’m not even touching this as a Bang Yongguk fan, no matter how much i want to.
I’m calling this out as an Asian woman who, during a brief stint in an american high school, got ridiculed by then Caucasian schoolmates because of my ‘chinky eyes’ and called me and my cousin asian prostitutes when we wore kimono in school.
Look at how the tides have turned.
I guess it wasn’t as famous back then because if it is, i would have been asked tips on how to make their eyes look like mine instead of just pulling it at the corners.
Seriously. Asian eyes isn’t even a thing. Do you know how diverse Asia is? How much people’s looks vary from one region to another?
I’m not going to go too deep because this will turn into a 10 page rant.
Sigh. The type that carries all the disappointment and frustration that I felt, and still feel, about this.

NSFW Alphabet Game

A/N: Hello I’ve seen this going around for a while so and I’ve always been intrigued by it - I’m also very much lacking inspiration right now so it fits to whip it out.

So, how it works is that you send me any member from the groups in my FAQ (requests for underage members will be deleted) along with some letters and I’ll answer it in a blurby form for each letter!

A = Aftercare (What they’re like after sex) 

B = Body part (Their favourite body part of theirs and also their partner’s) 

C = Cum (Anything to do with cum basically…) 

D = Dirty Secret (A dirty secret of theirs) 

E = Experience (How experienced are they? Do they know what they’re doing?) 

F = Favourite Position (This goes without saying. Will probably include a visual) 

G = Goofy (Are they more serious in the moment, or are they humorous, etc) 

H = Hair (How well groomed are they) 

I = Intimacy (How are they during the moment, romantic aspect…) 

J = Jack Off (Masturbation) 

K = Kink (One or more of their kinks) 

L = Location (Favourite places to do the do) 

M = Motivation (What turns them on, gets them going) 

N = NO (Something they wouldn’t do, turn offs) 

O = Oral (Preference in giving or receiving, skill, etc) 

P = Pace (Are they fast and rough? Slow and sensual? etc.) 

Q = Quickie (Their opinions on quickies rather than proper sex, how often, etc.) 

R = Risk (Are they game to experiment, do they take risks, etc.) 

S = Stamina (How many rounds can they go for, how long do they last…) 

T = Toy (Do they own toys? Do they use them? On a partner or themselves?) 

U = Unfair (how much they like to tease) 

V = Volume (How loud they are, what sounds they make) 

W = Wild Card (Get a random headcanon for the character of your choice) 

X = X-Ray (Let’s see what’s going on in those pants, picture or words) 

Y = Yearning (How high is their sex drive?) 

Z = ZZZ (… how quickly they fall asleep afterwards)

Why is the B.A.P tag on tumblr everything but B.A.P themselves?

Like I wanted to see some quality B.A.P content a few seconds ago and all I saw was stuff about Zico and other fandoms fan art that had nothing to do with kpop in general and I’m- ….like Zico has his own tag and everything else isn’t even remotely related to kpop. There are tags for a reason.

This doesn’t just go for B.A.P either. It goes for other groups too. Like, can people please tag things properly!?! It’s frustrating asf and borderline disrespectful. Groups have individual tags for a reason. Even if ur blog is multi fandom (this mainly goes for fic writers), please tag it for that specific group only.

I know what u all are trying to do by getting some of ur content out there, but it’s really freakin’ annoying when I’m scrolling through Got7 and see BTS, or scrolling through Monsta x and seeing VIXX content, or even the BTS tag being filled with Monsta x or Seventeen, and scrolling through Seventeen and seeing Nu'est and etc.
Like I said, I get it but there are separate tags for a reason. There is no reason why you should be tagging random groups.
I can guarantee that ur content will still be seen w/o having to tag multiple groups unrelated to what u have made.

Please and thank you… sincerely an annoyed tumblr user.

follow spree

i made this blog not long ago and am still looking for more tumblrs to follow. i’ve included groups that i’d like to see more of on my dash. if you post any of these or you’re mainly a kpop blog like / reblog (to spread info) also follow if you’d like (who doesn’t like mutuals) and i will check them all out. here we go:

beat win
block b
boys republic
mr mr
teen top
topp dogg

brave girls
hello venus
ladies code
oh my girl

(should have mentioned this before, i prefer blogs with a tag system)

ok im being ugly and im probably not gonna continue w/ my afterlife novel (idk tho it’s going good rn i’m just having writer’s block) so if i start a new novel soon which of these should it be?

  • option a: a soft lonely lesbian has very unsupportive parents. she rly wants friends and one night while she’s sleeping she goes into this alternate universe that’s not only very accepting and supportive of lgbt ppl but is also?? basically a fairytale land? and she falls in luv w/ the princess and it’s very gay
  • option b: small fancy boarding school populated mainly by rich kids. the scholarship kids keep getting killed one by one (at the beginning of the novel there’s say 25 scholarship kids) and the remaining scholarship kids band together to figure out what the hell is happening. gay antics, roasting of rich kids, etc, ensues
  • option c: the main character has always lived in the shadow of her virtually flawless twin sister, until one day the older sister goes missing under shady circumstances. the main character has to figure out what happened to her older sister while also balancing hell year aka senior year, falling in love w/ her older sister’s best friend, etc
Today was PRIDE and I am proud of who I am
I fell into a trap, I’ve fallen into it before and just like then, it has consumed my life. I’m not a fangirl. I was, once, and god it sucked. As a fangirl you fall under this spell. You become convinced that you have a right to know everything about the person, that they are your friend. I’m not saying I’m not doing it this time, but the reasoning is different. I watched Eyewitness, Merlí, The Fosters, Degrassi, Glee, SKAM and Fisica O Quimica, just to name a few. I LOVED the queer representation. But it was only in the show (other than the flamboyant characters.) All the actors at least publicly were straight. Then came Riverdale. I shipped Jarchie immediately, but I’d been following Cole for years and didn’t really think anything about the actors in terms of sexuality. I mean, I was 12 when I used to watch Cole. His sexuality was literally the last thing on my mind. Then the road trip happened, the one down from Vancouver, and someone created the “Hungry Eyes” video. At that point, I just assumed. Oh, Cole and KJ are together, cool. There were Lilicole shippers, but the name Sprousehart didn’t even EXIST yet. I saw chemistry, saw they were dating…and then saw that people thought KJ was straight…just because. So I got involved. Started writing posts started trying to remind people that assuming someone is straight just because they haven’t said otherwise is an archaic system. When I found out that so many people didn’t see that KJ and Cole were together, I got angry, cause I FINALLY got those actors who were queer and semi out and proud of their relationship. I was confused and annoyed and lashed out. I’ve seen this before, first hand. I’ve watched friends go through this before so I put it on myself to make everything okay. I started imagining I’m a witch with a magic wand that can just change the world by supporting. I know how this ends. Or…I know how it can end. I can’t let someone else go through the same shit I’ve seen so many times. But I have to keep reminding myself, there is only so much I can do on the internet…and I’ve failed. My words have been twisted to show me making everything about hate. And with every post, I just seem to make it worse. I want to still be supportive and still be there for when that one artist needs me. But maybe it’s not worth it anymore. Maybe I should work on changing things out there, where God knows I say the wrong thing sometimes, but at least I can defend myself, put a name and job and compassion to my words. Tumblr is toxic. I’m reopening anon. I will not post hate, no matter what you write. I need to remove the toxicity from my blog and my life and start over. I’m starting with a clean slate…at least in my mind. The support blog I intended. Not posting “breadcrumbs.” Not posting hate. I tried this earlier in the week, but…well…that didn’t work. This is different, this time it’s for me. I’m not deleting what came before, that’s part of me too, but from now on I’m doing things differently. SHs do whatever you want. Who gave me the right to say when you’re reaching? You don’t own the tag, but it’s your posts and your thoughts. Do what you want. I’ll yell and scream in the silence of my own head. I should have done that in the first place. I’ve never been good at articulating myself, always finding some way to say EXACTLY the wrong thing, I guess things haven’t changed much. I mean well and never intentionally say stupid things. Maybe one day you will see that, maybe not. I do hope so. Today was pride, and I’m proud of who I am and what I believe in, even if I do fuck up sometimes.

Oh good lord, Pallettown—-you aren’t spreading the word of Jesus, here!! You are, in fact, fangirling (and yes, you very much are one) and shipping two real people, who aren’t teh ghey together….which, is totally fine for you to do and NO ONE would GAF if that’s all you did. But apparently, you felt this was your holy mission, and needed to inform and convert everyone… you tag invaded.

Again, all we have and ever wanted was for you to stop with your hate in our tags. You’ve been told this nine million times, by myself alone! You “didn’t fall into a trap”, yesterday, you simply decided to act like an asshole. No one “twisted your words”, you chose to be a dick. At least OWN your douchie-ness and apologize for real, this time.

Tag invasion is considered rude and violation for a reason—because it enters the space of others and can potentially upset them. I’ve actually seen it have devastating consequences. Literally stay out of our tags. Once and for all. Because simply blathering like this, in our tags, isn’t it.

Oh and you never “saw KJ and Cole were dating” because that never happened and never will.


                                                                           Anonymous: Why should you censor what you put your blog? If you don’t agree with what certain shippers are saying, you have every right to disagree and open a discourse about it. Does that mean I agree with being hateful and tearing others down for their opinions? Not at all. But you shouldn’t feel like you have to scream in silence. That defeats the whole purpose of a blog.                                                                                                                                                                                                        

Cause it’s not doing any good to anyone. I’m trying to be supportive and that’s just showing the flaws of someone else’s theory. If KJ looked at my blog, I think he’d be happy and find me supportive, but, if Cole did? I don’t know if he’d think I was much better than Zumpie. And that’s not who I want to be or what I want to be doing. I want my blog to be a safe space. Currently, it’s not. At all.

It’s fascinating to me that A) she still brings me into something that has nothing to do with me. B) apparently ceasing tag invading is her “censoring herself” and terrible, but I’M not permitted to post my own, untagged opinions on MY blog and block anon haters—and everyone should “stand up to me” for daring to do so.

And also the apparent point of her blog always was to evangelize and inform all of us about teh ghey twu wuv of KJ and Cole….and thus force us to accept it. Except, ummmmm…..noooooo….

And Cole would unquestionably think you’re a fucking loon, dude. Stay the fuck out of our tags, once and for all

K-pop Top 5 Tag

I’ve been tagged by the wonderful, exposing @spring-gay

Top 5 Groups:
1. BTS
2. GOT7
4. Mamamoo
5. Gfriend

Top 5 Bias:
1. Jin
2. Jinyoung (GOT7)
3. Sanha
4. Moonbyulie
5. Eunha

Top 5 Bias Wreckers
1. Taehyung
3. Eunwoo
4. Solar
5. Yuju

Top 5 Favorite Song of This Year
1. She’s a Baby- Zico
2. Yesterday- Block B
3. Never Ever- GOT7
4. Rookie- Red Velvet
5. A Supplementary Story- BTS

Top 5 Favorite Songs of All Time
1. Like Rain Like Music- Kim Hyungsik [ ]
2. Understanding Men and Women- COOL [ ]
3. Remember- DJ DOC [ ]
4. No One Else- Lee Seung Chul [ ]
5. Lies- Big Bang

(lol i don’t think some of the songs above count as “kpop” but whatever)

Top 5 Favorite Albums
1. The Most Beautiful Moment in Life: Young Forever- BTS
2. Skool Luv Affair- BTS
3. MADE- Big Bang
4. The Red- Red Velvet
5.  Flight Log: Turbulence- GOT7

I tag: @ask-shapeshifter-tae @superfanboy19 @askminmin and anyone else who would like to do this!! :>

92 Questions~

I was tagged by @jeongjarsofhannie! Thank you so much you are a gem for thinking of me!! We should talk more~

rules: answer these 92 statements and tag 10 people! if there are questions that are too personal or you don’t want to answer, skip them or make a new one :^)

THE LAST (1-5):

  • drink: Cherry Dr. Pepper
  • phone call: Mother of mine!
  • text: Daaaa squad @strawberryboo @sambashua @king-hao
  • song you listened to: Listening to Toy by Block B rn!
  • time you cried: recently

HAVE YOU (6-11):

  • dated someone twice: yeah I forgive to easily 
  • kissed someone and regretted it: Most def
  • lost someone special: Unfortunately 
  • been depressed: Probably
  • gotten drunk and thrown up: Nah I don’t really drink 


  • Purple
  • Blue
  • Gray


  • made new friends: Yes!
  • fallen out of love: Yeah
  • laughed until you cried: Heck yes all the time!
  • found out someone was talking about you: lol I don’t really care
  • met someone who changed you: Def
  • found out who your friends are: Maybe?
  • kissed someone on your facebook list: Nope!
  • how many of your facebook friends do you know in real life: Almost all I only have like 86 lol
  • do you have any pets: One dog and his name is Loki!
  • do you want to change your name: Nope! I don’t think I’ll meet very many Kelbys!
  • what did you do for your last birthday: uhhh, I have no clue
  • what time did you wake up: 4:15am
  • what were you doing at midnight last night: Sleeping
  • name something you can’t wait for: Seventeen concert in August!!
  • when was the last time you saw your mom: Yesterday
  • what’s one thing you wish you could change in your life: Appreciate my dad more when he was here
  • what are you listening to right now: Never Ever, Got7
  • have you ever talked to a person named tom: Maybe lol
  • most visited website: Youtube and tumblr!~ I am constantly on them!


  • moles: Too many to name them
  • marks: I have a scar on my left eye, and a scar on my thumb from cutting it twice in the same place loool and alot of burn marks cause I’m a cook!
  • childhood dream: Something to do with animals
  • hair color: plain old brown
  • long hair or short: I have medium length
  • do you have a crush on someone: Nope!
  • what do you like about yourself: Humor? Eyes? lol idk
  • piercings: Just my ears, 3 on the left and 2 on the right!
  • blood type: not a clue
  • nickname: Kelb, Kelbo
  • relationship status: Single and free~
  • zodiac: Leo! Like my boy Coups~
  • pronouns: she/her
  • favorite tv show: The Office, it is the best!
  • tattoos: Nope! 
  • right or left hand: Right!
  • surgery: Appendix when I was in 6th grade , and I had stitches in my thumb twice!
  • hair dyed in a different color: Black like once
  • sport: You know, I’m good.
  • vacation: I went to Arizona and Cali. last year and it was too good!
  • pair of trainers: lol I have like 2 


  • eating: Nothing atm
  • drinking: Nothing
  • i’m about to: Relax cause I am not at work~
  • waiting for: My mother
  • get married: Maybe?
  • career: Chef!


  • hugs or kisses: Neither, unless you are my s/o lol
  • lips or eyes: Eyes!
  • shorter or taller: Doesn’t matter but I’m pretty short!
  • older or younger: Doesn’t matter! 
  • nice arms or nice stomach: Who cares?
  • sensitive or loud: I am very loud looool
  • hook up or relationship: Relationship, a hookup would be too stressful
  • troublemaker or hesitant: Hesitant!

HAVE YOU EVER (74-83):

  • kissed a stranger: nahhhh
  • drank hard liquor: like once
  • lost glasses/contact lenses: I don’t wear either
  • turned someone down: yeah but I always feel bad..
  • sex in the first date: no way
  • broken someone’s heart: Yeah and it’s not fun
  • had your heart broken: not really
  • been arrested: Nope! I’m an innocent lolol
  • cried when someone died: I don’t show emotions well so yeah just alone
  • fallen for a friend: Nope!


  • yourself: Most of the time
  • miracles: I’m not superstitious, but I’m alittle stitious.
  • love at first sight: maybe?
  • santa claus: Well duh, dreams never die!!
  • kiss on the first date: ehh
  • angels: I swear shit happens now that my dad passed away, like he is there.

OTHER (90-92):

  • favorite thing to do when you’re bored: Make gifs~ Listen to music!
  • do you wear socks to sleep: Yup! Too lazy to take them off!
  • favorite movies: Marvel movies, Harry potter, The dead Poets Society, Across The Universe, Studio Ghibli, Idk there is alot lool

Ok I tag~ @strawberryboo @sambashua @king-hao @kae-popx @cutie-dawn @22wooji @s-lay-ing! All my main bishes! 

sunquail  asked:

A TO M >:O

atom. the building block of matter

i’m. gonna. pick a couple from there that i like. yo uand snow…. are enablers

B: Any of your stories inspired by personal experience? Yes. I’ve used a shower before, so I know. :^) literally any time aoi has anxiety it’s because i recently had anxiety in real life and i was working through it

C: What character do you identify with most? Aoi but only because he’s dating Light Field. i don’t relate to any of these jokers

I: Do you have a guilty pleasure in fic (reading or writing)? yeah i like when they suffer

K: What’s the angstiest idea you’ve ever come up with? beth and i were emailing at work the other day about “what if aoi was only like, regular siblings with akane. like sure he cares about her and he sure doesn’t want her to die so he helps save her life but he’s kinda sick and tired of her bullshit by the time the second nonary game rolls around so when she’s like ‘ok next we have to go to the moon for 45 years to save humanity’ he’s just like ‘fuck it you’re on your own for this one. i’m out’ and everything’s awkward and sad”

thank you, for your interst.!


a) I will from now on have a special OOC tag for this blog to block posts like this one (not that I write a lot of them): “Mr Lascelles is not at home”.

b) I want to raise money for a selfish cause at a time when I should be saving. You may not know it but I used to draw. Just gauging interest now: Would anyone be interested in an art commission? How about writing, spellchecking, formatting ebooks, ebook covers? I can do all that. I formatted this one and made the cover for this one.

anonymous asked:

You never heard of abusive ships before huh? Gays ship them too. Its 2017 let fiction be fiction and block the ship.

me, a lowly peon: i think straight women should be held accountable for their own homophobia

you, an intellectual: b-but!!!!! th… the gays are…. *spins wheel* homophobic too?!

yknow what im not done here, this ask has so much to unpack… u kno its a good ask when the anon unironically uses Gays in 2017 lol, also how am i gonna block a ship if the only thing ppl tag it with is the character names lmao??? abusive ships r bad even if The Gays ship them and if they do they should take responsibility, maybe u should ask urself why u send weird and rude anon messages when i say straight women should take responsibility too

there was also the whole Thing of straight women constantly shipping abusive mlm ships tying back into homophobia, but what do i know??? just a dumb fuckin Gay 

I’ve Got Your Back

Originally posted by blackinjustice

Originally posted by theladyfiend

Based on Anonymous Prompt: Hi! I love your writing! Nightmares is one of my faves. I wanted to ask if I can send in a request? Stevexreader where the reader is a SHIELD agent and when Steve is surrounded the reader saves him bc Fury send her to look after him. End with fluff?

A/N: I wrote this one surprisingly quickly.  Maybe my writer’s block is gone…?  Knock on wood.  Anyway, I really like this one and I hope you to do!

Tagging @pleasecallmecaptain, @mattymattymerduck, @writingbarnes, @kissofvenom922, and @b-orderline.


“Heading out?”

You grin as Steve turns to face you.  You can see the tension in his shoulders, the way his jaw remains clenched, but in spite of everything, he still lets a smile grace his lips.

“Solo mission,” he says.  “Taking out a minor Hydra base.  Should be a piece of cake.”

“Oh,” you say, as if you don’t know all of these things.  “Need any backup?”

“You doubting me?” he grins and you shake your head.

“Old geezer like you?” you toss back.  “All the time.”

“I’m fine,” he says.  “I’ll be back before you even have time to miss me.”

“Who says I’ll miss you?”  Steve shrugs playfully and turns to walk away.  “Don’t get killed,” you shout after him.

“I’ll be fine!” he replies.  “What’s the worst thing that could happen?”


He’s surrounded.

Steve can easily take out Hydra operatives.  Hell, he can easily take out whole teams of Hydra operatives.

But he counts almost 40 guards, surrounding him in the narrow hallway from all directions, various weapons pointed at him and primed to take him down.  How the hell did an easy solo mission turned into this?

“Captain!  Put down your shield, slowly!” one of the soldiers shouts out.  “No sudden movements!” 

Steve looks around, brain running through endless scenarios.  Unfortunately, all of them end with him, on the ground, bleeding out.  Taking a deep breath, he kneels down to the ground, placing his shield gently at his feet.

Suddenly, all of the lights in the hallway turn out.  Steve seizes the moment and grabs his shield, using it to knock down the five nearest guards.  

As his eyes start to adjust to the darkness, Steve can make out a faint figure, taking out the outermost guards.  He shakes his head and continues to fight, taking down soldier after soldier.

Ten seconds later, the lights flicker back on, revealing just a dozen of soldiers left.  Steve moves, purely on instinct, blocking, punching, throwing his shield.  He turns to take the final soldier down, knocking them to the ground with his shield.  

But this soldier lets out a decidedly un-Hydra like string of curses and lands with a soft oof that makes Steve look twice.

“(Y/N)?” he says, frozen in place.

“The one and only,” you groan from the ground.  Steve hurries over and crouches down next to you.  “Missed you so much I thought I’d come crash your mission.”

“Are you okay?” he says, his hands brushing over your body, looking for wounds.  “I’m sorry, I thought you were-”

“Yeah,” you say, gritting your teeth as he applies pressure to a bullet graze on your arm.  “Well, I’m your back-up.  Surprise.”

“I said-”

“Fury’s orders,” you reply.  “I asked you as a courtesy.  You said no, but you’re not my boss.  Can’t have Captain America getting himself killed, now, can we?”

“What hurts?” Steve asks.

“Everything?”  Steve looks at you and you relent.  “Obviously there’s the graze. There’s something wrong with my right leg.  Probably a fracture.  I took a couple punches to the ribs, but other than that, I’m just peachy.  And you’re not dead, so I won’t get fired.  You’re welcome for the power outage.”

“I don’t need backup,” Steve says stubbornly, and you roll your eyes.  “I appreciate you being here, but I don’t need-”

Just over Steve’s shoulder, you catch sight of a lone Hydra guard, gun trained for Steve’s back.  You reach into your holster and fire under Steve’s elbow, hitting the guard straight in the chest.  

Steve whirls around, then looks back at you, stunned.

“You were saying?” you smirk.  “Something about not needing backup, I believe.”

“I would’ve-”

“Again, you’re welcome,” you smile, pushing yourself up into a sitting position.  “I’ve got your back.”  Steve sighs and shakes his head.

“Thank you,” he says.  He offers you his hand and you take it, pulling yourself to your feet.  You take a ginger step forward on your right foot and immediately fall forward.  Steve’s arm shoots out and wraps itself around your waist, steadying you. 

“You can’t walk,” he says.  

“I can walk fine,” you retort.  “It’ll be slow, but I can-”

Without waiting for you to finish, Steve scoops you up and begins to carry you away, bridal-style.

“Steve, put me down,” you protest.  “I can walk.”

“Yeah, and I don’t need backup,” Steve says.  “How did you get here?” 

“I was on the Quinjet,” you say simply.

“What?” Steve says.  “I didn’t-”

“Steve, I am a spy for a living,” you interrupt.  “And believe it or not, I’m pretty good at my job.”

“Well, you can’t walk,” Steve says, and you see the teasing twinkle in his eye.

“I can walk,” you reply.  “I can walk perfectly fine, and if-”

“What are you doing tonight?”

“You mean after I go get patched up?  Hot shower, dinner and a movie.”

“Want some company?”

“You want to take a shower with me?”  Steve’s cheeks flush and you get a small kick out of knowing you made Captain America himself blush.

“No, I mean I wouldn’t say no, but…” Steve stumbles over his words, which only intensifies the red in his cheeks.  “That’s not what I meant.”

“I’m only teasing,” you say.  “I knew what you meant.  And yes, I’d love some company.”

“Ok,” Steve says.

“You know what else I’d love?” you ask, the smirk creeping back onto your face.


“Something to distract me from the excessive pain I’m in.”  You raise your eyebrows suggestively, and Steve furrows his.

“Are you in a lot of pain?  I think there’s some painkiller back on the Quinjet, I-”



“I was asking you to kiss me,” you say, matter-of-factly.  “To distract me from the pain.”

“Oh, that’s what you meant,” Steve says.

“Yeah,” you sigh.  “That’s what I meant.”

“It was a little vague.”

“I was flirting.”

“Have you been doing that often?”

“Only every time we talk,” you say.  “At least, I’ve been trying.”

“Oh.  If I’d known, I’d have kissed you sooner.”

“You still haven’t done it.”


He leans his head down and presses his lips against yours.  You smile into the kiss, your hands wrapping around the back of his neck to pull him closer.  

Out of the corner of your eye, you catch a flicker of movement and shake your head.  Not again.  

Without breaking the kiss, you reach down for your gun, using Steve’s shoulder to steady your arm and pull the trigger.  Steve jumps and pulls back as the Hydra goon slides to the ground.


“I’ve got your back.”

please read

I actually never told my opinion about all those kpop wars becuase I didn’t want to cause next one BUT after MMA and MAMA things went even worse and I couldn’t let it in anymore. This may be too long but those who care about their idols please read it all and tell me how you feel about my opinion BECAUSE my opinions aren’t perfect nor yours nor anyones. We all think differetly about this situation but EVERYONE has a point somewhere.

First of all, I know that the “BTS doesn’t deserve MMA award let’s call to Melon to tell them they should give the award to EXO” war was caused mainly because of korean fans. Well, at least from what I read, everywhere were korean exo-ls complaining about it. I didn’t care about this that much because Melon CAN’T do something like this. 

Then there are, how I call it, “childish wars” between ARMYs and EXOLs. Honestly… Do you really have to? Are you that childish to complain or hate or stick out EVERY fucking thing the idols do? Do you really have to compare your idols to someone else? Are you really that low that you have to do that? The “oh look, BTS are so rude to not bow politely while recieving the award. beucase oh look Suho bowed 90° he is the existence of perfection and decency” OR “oh look, Lay’s speech was so rude, instead of thanking his fans and staff and family and members for that award that he doesn’t deserve he insulted BTS and said that they’re kings and no one can replace them.” 

*sighs* *sighs* *siiiiiiiiiiighs* *shows you my finger that is between ring finger and index finger* don’t want to be that rude so yeah, but i know you got it. 

I didn’t hear a word about BTS in Lay’s speech. I didn’t saw BTS not bowing while recieving the award. 

I fucking heard Lay being grateful and showing exo-ls their love and gratitude. I fucking saw all BTS members bowing while recieving the award and bowing 90° to fans at the end. 

SO SHUT YOUR FUCKING MOUTH. YOU JUST SEE WHAT YOU WANT TO SEE. ehm… sorry for my burst. So… Yeah, those fans who bash other idols all the time, the shame is on you, the fault is yours. Can’t you see your beloved idols are trying so hard to accomplish your dreams and wishes? They’re trying so hard to show you that they’re someone who you can be proud of. So why would you do something that can hurt them or their career or their lives or lives of their family? Why are you so selfish? Stop wearing those pink glasses and try to look at the world from someone else’s point of view. Try to understand someone else’s opinion, situation. I’m not saying you can’t have your opinion EVERYBODY CAN but try to understand sometimes.

If I could compare kpop to something, it would be food. Kpop industry in general.

Kpop is the food and fans are the eaters. 

When you’re listening to a music you either start stanning a group immediately or after some time. But that’s not important. The important is that when you eat something and you really like it you’ll eat it as much as you can. Maybe every day or every week. But there is some food that when you tasteit you don’t like it. And what do you do with food you don’t like? Do you tweet about them saying how awful they are? How much you hate them? Do you tweet about every signle piece of the food every day saying how they don’t deserve to be on plate? Or do you just throw it away and don’t eat it anymore? You’ll stop eating it right? You’ll say your mom or idk whoever to not to cook that again because you don’t like it. You’ll come to restaurant and order something you like and not something you don’t like. You won’t order something and then stare at it the whole time, then bringing your phone and tweeting about how you hate it. It’s waste of your time and money, right? 

So tell me WHY the fuck do you do this to idols? 

Why don’t you just live happy life listening to your favorite group, tweeting them about how much you love them and how much are you proud of them. Why would you spend your time bashing other’s succes, effort and dreams?

Also I’m not saying you can’t say something against someone who is bashing your idol BUT try to be more mature than them and talk to them. If they don’t listen, they are not worth it. They’re not worth your effort. So just leave them. You said what you wanted and that’s enough.

Man, I don’t know if I told everything but I hope so. I also hope that someone will read it till the end and think about it. I’m not saying that you should listen to me but try to think and understand. This is just my opinion and I needed to write my thoughts out because my mind would just *BAM* if I didn’t.

As one wise human said: “Don’t judge the fandom because of a fan. But don’t judge a fan because of the fandom either.” There is nothing more accurate than this.

Also this is not related to ARMYs and EXOLs only! I just write them as an example because I’m ARMY and I also love listening to EXO and well let’s be honest… those two fandoms are getting worse and worse. But still, I’m not ashamed of calling myself an ARMY because I’m so so so proud to call myself a fan of BTS. AND YOU should be proud too! Be proud of what and who you like!

As I said this is related to kpop industry in general.

it’s a mess i know but i hope you get my point


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anonymous asked:

hey, as a trauma blog i thought i should warn you that an abuser is following & frequently reblogging from you. he (princeryderr) is a near22 year old that dated and abused a 16 year old. he is very aggressive and harassed/es everyone who points out that was wrong via vagues (/tagged/r (kid); tagged/L (person he is currently "stalking") tagged/b; /tagged/g tagged/sug un). he stalked someone to delusions, and recently posted the ip info of L and R (even tho L was doxxed by their abuser/his friend

Oh shit thank you so much for telling me! I blocked them.