should i tag it like that idk

concept: Jim making Spock go trick-or-treating with him when he finds out Spock’s never been. 

anonymous asked:

It would be cool if you guys could use "quasiplatonic relationship" instead of "queerplatonic relationship" to be more inclusive of LGBT people who are triggered by the word queer due to negative past experiences/abusive situations. (But most people who like the word tend to have zero respect for LGBT people who are traumatized by it or just uncomfortable and think we should "just get over it already" so Idk if you guys will even listen to me or consider what I'm saying.)

I use the word that’s requested. If a request said “[name] and [name] are in a quasiplatonic relationship”, that is what I would put in the caption!

I understand that “queer” can be hurtful, which is why I tag it with “q word”, so people negatively affected / triggered by it can blacklist it.

As such, I will continue to fulfill queer requests, as for some LGBTQ+ individuals, it’s a word that makes them feel happy, important, and represented. Just as I will happily fulfill quasi requests as well for those who prefer it.

I hope that helps!

anonymous asked:

am i the only one who really really doesnt like chase ross's 'femaleto___" tags? like, they just make me really uncomfortable idk why

No you wont be. I have an issue with those terms in general but we can each relate to them differently. It is wrong for me as it implies I ‘used to be’ something other than I am now which is completely false. Some others though do relate to having been female at some point in their life and therefore use that term for themselves. There is nothing wrong with self labelling, they should just not be used as blanket terms to refer to everyone. In terms of Chase I think he is using them for himself rather than for everyone. Many are trying to move away from the FTM label now due to the implications it carries. If someone wants to refer to themselves as it personally then that is fine

I need to do some work on the blog as the description hasnt been updated since opening so I will sort that out as well and change some things

does anyone else feel like….idk how to explain it….like completely disconnected from life around them? constantly going “these are my friends” and “this is my home” and “this is my life” and “this is my body” to remind yourself that you’re not just some timeless floating essence and even those mantras are completely useless and you almost never come down from it and you’re feeling like….everything is real but also completely fake at the same time

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Legolas reports back to his father.

one of the reasons people with bpd handle people rejecting them/abandoning them so hard is bc we base our identities around these people we get attached to. how THEY feel about us is who we ARE, in our minds. if they love us, we base our identities around that and believe we are loveable. if they leave us or decide they don’t like us anymore, we believe we are unloveable because we have no concrete sense of who we are, apart from how other people feel about us.

Please don’t think that you deserve to be misgendered because your pronouns are “too hard.”

Please don’t think that you deserve to be dead-named because your real name is “too different.”

Please don’t think that you deserve to have your gender invalidated because it’s “too new.”

Please don’t think that you deserve to suffer exorsexism because others can’t find it in themselves to learn or respect you.


You can be understood, and you have every right to live the way you wish.

You deserve to have a place in this world.

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Hey hey hey, @lanceweek​ Day 1 is here !  Inner Space/Outer Space.

Well i bet now you know how weak I am ? I couldn’t miss an occasion to draw Blue with her paladin 💙 

How dan and Phil probably broke up #56
  • Phil: Dani Snot On Fire
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she wasn’t interested in telling
other people’s f u t u r e s
 she was interested in going out
and finding h e r own

 lee ji eun as b l u e  s a r g e n t — the raven cycle

/slides this in/ I’m reading Shadow and Bone

The first attempt looked like early mcr gerard way and this is honestly only a small improvement

soul mate au where the most important thing your soul mate will ever say to you is written on your wrist

Yeah sure we can go for the obvious like “I love you” or “I will miss you” but what about real weird stuff like “Please accept the change, sir” or “Please play on, your music is lovely”. Then there is the straight up nasty stuff like “I promise I won’t kill you”

Feel free to add on