should i put this in my selfie tag

as a (mostly) closeted lesbian i’m constantly second guessing my behaviour around straight women. is my behaviour predatory? should i offer to burn that song for her that she said can’t find anywhere? i want to ask her what perfume that is but is it creepy that i noticed? is it weird to ask to sketch her or draw/make something for her? what gifts are appropriate? what if i accidentally brush against her? did i linger too long when she asked me to fasten her necklace? should i put my arm around her for this drunk bathroom selfie? is it ok to share a blanket on movie night? should i keep my mouth shut when they’re talking about their ‘girl crushes’?
what if she finds out? will she stop being my friend? or worse will she lead me on for fun? will she think this was flirting? will she SAY this was flirting? if she has a bf how will he react? if she says she’s ok with it will she secretly be wary of me?




Bias Selca Tag ヾ(^∇^)

Tagged by: @ranqueenie@mark2young2jae @mjbm @dsouls @igot7-love @umma-jy @spellboundffgc21 @spellboundff @acousticjin (sorry if i missed anyone :( )

My bias Coco is so cute! I needed my sister’s dog to do this though xD I do not know how Coco’s mommy does these selcas in the most awkward position but still looks cute :( Ignore me and pay more attention to Coco and Buggzie ^^ I should have put a bow on him xD if only i had some

Tagging: @myangelbammie97 @got7ish @2jaekisses @jajalone @ult2jae @coco-man @holyfuckmark @got7europe @parkjinyoungology and everyone else, if you wanna do it <3

Yo I recently hit 1.7k so this is my 1.7k promo. I haven’t done a promo since I got 200 followers so this should be interesting.

-40+ notes or this didn’t happen
-reblog this, like to bookmark etc
-must be following me (I will be checking)
-put your aesthetic tags in the tags
-extra cred if you rb my selfies (click ‘tara’ in my bio)(nice tags are welcome)

-best url
-best mobile theme
-best band
-best aesthetic
-favourite mutuals

I’ll be posting the results on the 1st of April. Good luck!! 🐝🌹


OMG WE MADE IT TO SHOW DAY!!!  This is my pregame picture. I’ll be celebrating with champagne and peach nectar bellinis for the actual show, but my icloud sucks so I had to get ready for the pic ahead of time. So I HAD to have a drink. Nothing to do with being anxious. Oh, I’ve got a new chapter in my prompt fics up. This is my last Polis prompt and I had to get it out before we saw Polis. Just finished it and I think I like it, especially the ending. 

I’m putting anon back on for my asks. Sorry about that. There were people buggng me with fake leaked scripts and I didn’t want to play. I won’t be here much until the show anyway, because I have some things to do. Partly I have to finish watching Perverse Instantiation part 2. Can you believe I didn’t finish my rewatch yet? I have 30 minutes left.  Which will take me an hour+ prob. I’ll try to get it posted so if you want a refresher on what happened, it will be both parts 1 and 2. More transcription than I should do, and a healthy dose of commentary. 


tagging @junebugninja @forgivenessishardforus @jane-doe07 @the-ships-to-rule-them-all @ginalou16 @insufficient-earth-skills @pixydustedviewfinder @falafel14 @ravenreyess @pixydustedviewfinder


Hello~ I was tagged by @daestopiaa and @happy-daes for the bias selfie tag. Last time I put up my dork face my hair was dark and longer, so here’s the grandma who runs this blog as of ~today~!

I’ll tag @jongup-is-an-enigma, @roses-for-jongup, @anna-something, @brainboxercheetos, @daehyunny, @foxjae, @fae-hyun, @holyjongbutt, @kitty-dae, @zeloswaffles, @bapofficial, @bap-time if you feel like it! Sorry if you’ve already been tagged ^^;

A safe place for LGBT members of the Studyblr community.

(Even if you don’t qualify to join the group- please reblog to get the word out! It means a lot to me!)


  • New friends!
  • (Optional) Skype group chat!
  • People who’ll reblog your original content!
  • Selfie reblogs!
  • A support group, accessible to everyone. ☺


  • To apply, you must be on the LGBTQIAP+ spectrum. We love allies, but this group is specifically for LGBT people!
  • I am not accepting applications from people who are are: truscum, TERF/TWERF, ableist, or anti-otherkin. This is a safe space for everyone.
  • Reblog this post, and if your studyblr is your sideblog, put your main in the tags!


  • Once you’re accepted, please track the tag #lgbtstudynet ! Post your original content, selfies, whatever in that tag. Members should reblog each other’s posts!
  • If you want to be a part of the Skype group, I will add you to it ASAP.
  • I will add your Studyblr URL to this blogroll. Please follow everyone else in the network!

just so u kno, I am a dude, and when u guys put in tags or whatever on my selfies or send me asks w smth along the lines of “this is why I’m bi” in regards to how I look and I see that u r in fact a girl

just know that my brain is automatically gonna think the reason ur saying that is bc u think I’m a girl too. if that isn’t the case then ignore me but if it is pls for the love of god do not assume ppl’s gender !!!!!!! like cmon we should be past this !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


six selfies from 2016 aka the year i got hot

unfortunately for u i should have taken some of me recently as i recently went to a party where i put together an incredible outfit that for the first time i felt like i was really reflecting my own style and got my makeup just perfect and looked so good it was true final form stuff :ppppppp ~i hide my low self-esteem through forced vanity~

i was tagged by @regular-lesbian, i think most people i know have already done it? so i tag @lezdeth, @frogmasterr @ghastlyparody, @baby-catt, @theladybluebird & @baeddel (but don’t feel pressured xx)


I got tagged by @inquisitorshepardcommander, @localvenus, @thisdragonhoardsgames, @arkadycosplay, @heroofferelden, @light-scales, and… idk if there are more of you but you get the idea. I’m glad everyone tagged me to do my 10 favorite selfies from 2015 because you all know I’m selfie trash.

And gosh I’m a week behind on doing this because of FINALS, so you’ve all probably been tagged already! Ahh! Alright I’ll tag @cheekywithcullen, obviously. @falsesecuritysketches (only I know you don’t dig selfies much so you should do your 10 favorite art pieces from 2015!). And let’s do some strangers who have put their wonderful selfies on my dash recently. @manamune @vagadonb @orisoni  AND OH OH @yangswife @gonetotheoutback, @leviathansky and @paintedmaple. Plus a blanket tag that I mean in EARNEST because everyone should flaunt their fav photos for the end of the year.

sooooo since theres all those phan networks i figure i would make a Phan Family bc i feel like a family would be closer than a network. So basically that photo is a family symbol sorta like a gang sign be I’m hella rad like that but anyway, I’m going to call this the Umphamily ^-^

How to join this rad thing

1) take a rough selfie of you making this shit symbol and tag me (umphan) i will reblog it and tag it to umphamily PLEASE DO NNPT FORGEY TO TAG UMPHAN OR UMPHAMILY

after a while i’ll compile a master post of all the umphamily members and put it on my sidebar or something

Well it would be nice if you……

1) you should probably follow me bc I’m the host

2) it would be super lovely if you followed and talked to each other

3) plus… u make friends and gain followers !!!

so reblog this and tell your friends, forever accepting umphamily members and i will keep the member list as updated as possible, have a rad day