as a (mostly) closeted lesbian i’m constantly second guessing my behaviour around straight women. is my behaviour predatory? should i offer to burn that song for her that she said can’t find anywhere? i want to ask her what perfume that is but is it creepy that i noticed? is it weird to ask to sketch her or draw/make something for her? what gifts are appropriate? what if i accidentally brush against her? did i linger too long when she asked me to fasten her necklace? should i put my arm around her for this drunk bathroom selfie? is it ok to share a blanket on movie night? should i keep my mouth shut when they’re talking about their ‘girl crushes’?
what if she finds out? will she stop being my friend? or worse will she lead me on for fun? will she think this was flirting? will she SAY this was flirting? if she has a bf how will he react? if she says she’s ok with it will she secretly be wary of me?