should i do these for the other girls too

We teach girls to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller. We say to girls, you can have ambition, but not too much. You should aim to be successful, but not too successful. Otherwise, you would threaten the man. Because I am female, I am expected to aspire to marriage. I am expected to make my life choices always keeping in mind that marriage is the most important. Now marriage can be a source of joy and love and mutual support but why do we teach girls to aspire to marriage and we don’t teach boys the same? We raise girls to see each other as competitors not for jobs or accomplishments, which I think can be a good thing, but for the attention of men. We teach girls that they cannot be sexual beings in the way that boys are. Feminist: a person who believes in the social, political, and economic equality of the sexes
—  Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
When it Rains || Chapter Two

Genre: Angst, Fluff, (eventual) smut

Pairing: Jungkook x Reader, Jimin x Reader

Word Count: 1527

A/N: Thank you all so much for the love on the first chapter! I hope you enjoy this one too! Feel free to message me your thoughts and opinions! I hope I didn’t disappoint!

Originally posted by sugutie

It had been a couple of days since you met Jimin and Jungkook was still pissed at you. After Jimin left that day he accused you of cheating and all kinds of other shit that he should know you would never do to him. Jungkook had this idea going through his head. The idea that he could talk to other girls but you couldn’t even make eye contact with another guy. He interrogated you like you committed a crime. Asking questions such as, “who the fuck was that”, or “why were you with him”. You had to thoroughly explain to him that Jimin was just walking you home since he was too “busy” to pick you up. That shut him the hell up and you could see the glint of regret in his eyes but he gave you the cold shoulder because he didn’t want to admit he was in the wrong.

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BTS reaction when you buy them a ton of gifts

requested by @silexia

Seokjin

“You shouldn’t have! The only gift I need is your love, that would make me the happiest man on earth.”

Originally posted by myloveseokjin

Yoongi

“Next time, give me something you own, I would cherish that much more - but thank you.”

Originally posted by sugagifs

Namjoon

“Ah, really, this girl. She’s too good to me.”

*flustered af*

Originally posted by rapfluff

Hoseok

“You know, I love all of these things you give to me, I really do. But, do you also know what gift I would love the most? A dance with you.”

Originally posted by hoseokxx

Jimin

“Aish, why would you do this, I don’t deserve you~”

*shy mochi*

Originally posted by jmins

Taehyung

“Look, I got loads of things for you too! I hope you enjoy them as much as I enjoy the ones you give me.”

Originally posted by hobibaehyung

Jungkook

“I should be the one buying you gifts, not the other way around!”

*secretly enjoys being overwhelmed with gifts*

Originally posted by officialwookkibby

-Moon

A HO'S GUIDE TO NOT CATCHIN FEELINGS

Okay so as of right now i’m playing a VERY dangerous game of casually hooking up with an ex, and girl you already know i CANNOT afford to catch feelings! So it got me thinkin, i’m sure my fellow thotties out there would appreciate a post on how to avoid catching feelings for someone who should be nothing more than a casual hook up.

First things first, you’re with this person to get laid, not to get emotionally involved with. You have to go into this with the mindset that you want nothing to do with this person other than sex. Don’t spend too much time together. You shouldnt be hooking up every day or even every other day. Try seeing the person you’re hooking up with maybe 2-3 times a week. If you’re constantly hanging out, feelings are hard not to develop. That being said, dont text the person or wait for a call from them. Youve GOT to make yourself less available. Distract yourself and stay busy, maybe even get a second hook up buddy (But please! If youre going to have multiple sex partners (even if its just one), please please please get tested, use protection, and stay safe)

Secondly, if you’re biologically ‘female’ (meaning you have a vagina) keep in mind the chances of getting attached increase if you’re engaging in sexual intercourse. During sex, the female brain releases a hormone called oxytocin. Sometimes known as the attachment hormone, oxytocin can induce feelings of love and closeness, so even if you had no romantic interest in your hook-up, your body might trick you into thinking that you do. If you start feeling somethin romantic for this person, the only thing you can really do is avoid talking to them/talking about them for a couple of days, and dont even DARE stalk their social media accounts.

Lastly, keep your expectations low. The person you’re fucking is not yours and you are not theirs. Dont get pissed when they forget your birthday or how much creamer you like in your coffee. They owe you nothing but good sex, just like how you owe them nothing but the same. This is about having fun and shamelessly enjoying yourself, dont make it complicated by getting feelings involved. Easier said than done, I know. But if you cant casually hook up without feelings developing, maybe hooking up just isnt for you, and thats okay. It isnt for everyone.

I hope y'all got a kick out of this and learned a thing or two! Remember, never doubt the power of the pussy. Know your worth and know how fucking kick ass and beautiful you are.

About Hang out Crisis and stuff

Hey Guys!

Since I get asked about Hang out crisis DAILY (no joke) I thought I should make a post.

We did not drop it.
We are working on it.
The girl cleaning it is busting her ass off.
It’s her first time cleaning and she’s doing a great job.
But it takes time, because Owaru has a sfx fetish and plasters everything with them.
We will update it when we will update it.
We are working on many projects “behind the scenes”.
But sometimes life happens.
And things delay.
Yes, the Hang out crisis chapter is taking super long.
That’s how it is. Can’t be helped.
I know you’re waiting for many other updates too.
I’m deeply sorry about that, but believe me, I’m stressing out over it a LOT. Not like I don’t give a fck.
But like I said, life happens.
I tried telling my life to stfu and let me work, but it won’t listen.
So I’m asking you to be patient, again.

WE DID NOT DROP ANYTHING!
Hell, we’re even still working on that Jealousy chapter xD

Believe me, we do our best.

Thankies for reading.

~Nini~

So I finally found time to read the new chapter halleliugh because lord knows I don’t have time to do anything more and holy shit was it a whirlwind of emotions. I know it’s really hard for me to cry when reading manga but OH MAN WAS I SOBBING LIKE A LITTLE ITTY BITTY GIRL WHEN I GOT TO THE ALL MIGHT part with Izuku. Like that definitely hit me a lot harder then it should have and I’m really scared to know when the death of All Might will really occur assuming Horikoshi will make that an actual thing. 

However, as much as that was the main thing from the chapter, I’m not really too focused on that now. Even though I do have a lot of thoughts and ideas, I find myself already finding a reflection of those thoughts onto others posts and I’m sure whatever bigger people in the fandom have had to say has already circled in the fandom enough where I would just be repeating them. 

What I wanted to talk about was, of course, my darling princess, Ochako, and Tsuyu and how proud I am of where they are now. When we started off the series, those two were definitely up there girls who most definitely were able to kick some major freaking ass as seen through the USJ fight and even through the Sports Festival (which we will soon see in animation!). However, one could tell that there was needed improvement, especially with Ochako choosing Gunhead to become stronger. So, knowing how they were in the beginning, it’s absolutely phenomenal to see them doing such a major move like this:

I mean, this is absolutely so cool to see, especially since this is the similar attack Ochako tried to use on Katsuki during their fight. Of course, at the time she first used it, it didn’t work out exactly how she wanted it but now, with the collaboration of Tsuyu, they were able to execute it almost flawlessly and really use it against the villains that they were fighting against. Overall, seeing their teamwork and how well they executed the attack really brought me joy and I can’t wait to see what other attacks they have in store.

Now, of course, this isn’t the only thing that got me hyped. What really got me hyped and excited was this part over here

For room purposes I will not add the other photo here but essentially, Ryukyu told Ochako and Tsuyu that the case they would be working on would be the one that involved the two villain groups battling it out and all that stuff Izuku is worrying about now.

Now, while this may not really get other people’s feathers riled up, it certainly makes mine , I mean to me, I’m taking this as a “Ochako and Tsuyu are going to finally be involved in a villain case like this”. To me, this is a sign that they’re finally going to be more involved, that we finally get to see more of them in action! Lately, while the series does showcase their abilities and strength, often times the powers of the main boys do tend to overshadow them and we don’t get to see them doing as much. There’s a reason these two were dropped down so many popularity points in the poll and a bit part of that was their lack of presence in the latest chapters. So, to hear that Ryukyu wants them to be involved with this new case of villains makes me super excited because this is a time for them to really showcase the growth they have received over the course of the year they’ve been at UA and really finally be involved in an arc instead of having a moment here and there. This time, they will possibly be working alongside Izuku and alongside the Big 3 for this new case and I’m really excited what kinds of moments will occur from them being there, especially between Izuku and Ochako. While I’m a diehard Kacchako fan, it’ll be really interesting to see how Ochako will handle her feelings of Deku side by side as she’s working with him, especially since she did say she was going to push them down. It’ll be interesting to see how she handles herself emotionally and really overall, how both her and Tsuyu will grow in ways that even Iida and Todoroki grew in during their respective arcs. I really hope they have a much larger role in this arc and I’m just so excited to see what else my princess is capable of!

Honestly I wanna just say, you don’t need to feel guilty about not knowing a kpop group as well as some other fans. It’s totally okay to just like a group because of their music, no one is forcing you to like them as people. I mean, they’re mainly in the music industry because they want people to hear their music. Of course, if you end up liking them as people, that’s just an extra bonus. Also fuck the fans who judge you for that, you don’t need to know every detail about your bias, it doesn’t mean you’re a fake fan

Helloo!!! I’ve been reblogging some stuff for some time but I decided that maybe I should formally introduce myself if i plan on posting my stuff here too!

  • My name is Aditi and I am a 16-year-old girl from Estonia!
  • My instagram is @adititoome and my other tumblr is @bluejeansprouse​
  • I will try to post my own stuff here whenever I’m happy with something I’ve made, I don’t know how often that will happen but we’ll see!
  • Some facts about me: I am a vegetarian (have been my whole life), I enjoy drumming and do it usually once a week, my current favorite youtuber is Conan Gray and I enjoy reading books and watching movies and tv shows (so feel free to recommend me some of those)(<–also recommend me good songs!)
how long do you think it takes someone to recognize a soulmate? two hours? three? when I was sitting in that train station, did you know I never thought once that you might not show up? did you know you’re the reason gin keeps sneaking into my poetry? and how come we both need to write poetry to feel clean? and can we visit GOMA again so I can view you next to the art? and is it too much for me to book a plane ticket just because you’re sad? is it enough? should I be doing more on the bad days? what good intentions don’t get swallowed up by distance? do you remember when I wrote all those poems for a man in California, while you loved a man in California?  how I watched the girl I loved get married and two years later, you did the same thing? how we’re always just out of sync with each other? one move off or three steps behind? do you really think it’s true, about the stars and how I found you? did you know I’d snuff them out if I could? if it meant there’d be nothing star-crossed about this? tell me again how long you think it takes someone to recognize a soulmate? one night? two? the amount of time it takes you to buy sugar and run home to put the kettle on?
—  FLUSHED CHEEKS AND SOFT EXCLAMATIONS by Trista Mateer
Got stopped doing a walk out

My hearts still pounding. I knew i should’ve used the other door but there were too many people in my way! Saturday morning…the greeter asked to see my receipt on the way out…GRABBED MY CART and was like repeating “i need to see your receipt” so whats this girl do? I grabbed my wallet book and skipped the. Fuck out the door. Aint no old lady sending me to jail hellll naw.
Stay safe ladies. And remember these associates aren’t cops. You can still run. Just be safe. Laying low for a lil while on the groceries…but idk how im gonna get food for this week :(

10

The only thing I have to do is be happy with myself - and I am! I want to be able to eat a burger without someone having their say about my figure. I’m not particularly dainty by nature and don’t plan to starve myself to change that. Girls should accept themselves the way they are. And others need to be more accepting of us too - we deserve more respect! I like myself the way I’m and would never starve in order to look the way others expect me to. There will always be people who criticize me, and I’m a very sensitive person, but I have learnt to care less about what people think. In the past year I’ve become far more confident and now I’m happier and more relaxed than I’ve ever been! 

kyu is enjoyable, BUT

2 girls is 2 few. on a team of six two girls is fine but on a team of nine, soon to be 11, it’s pathetic. maybe mr toei is like “we haven’t done a one girl season in a while, let’s get that ratio down” but? they should just stop doing one girl seasons imo

nine is too many. like, naga and balance were introduced as these ultimate partners but there’s already been an episode go by where they barely speak to each other. I think overall they’ll probably manage to balance screen time out but I do think this was biting off more than they could chew

what was up with stinger secretly being a good guy the whole time. I guess I would have to rewatch his intro ep to see if that makes any sense bc I feel like it didnt

anonymous asked:

Saying that the kiss violates human rights is just a bullshit! I guess you never dated because that is called flirting, sweetheat. Did you see her face after it? Clearly not because she clearly enjoyed it, so I guess you're just trying too hard :)

When a guy does something against girl’s will and wishes – it’s flirting? Well, if it’s called flirting these days then yes, I haven’t flirted in my whole entire life. THANK GOD.

Oh, yes. She asked him not to do it, he did it anyway and she smiled, so in other words guys should do anything they want, because when girls say NO, they clearly mean YES.

It’s just me, or it smells like rape culture?

anonymous asked:

i love bts as much as the next person but tbh when ppl be shipping the boys together and they think it's deadass real,, it makes me super uncomfortable like its fine if they wanna like them together but idk just to the point where they think its a thing thats actually happening kinda gets me. what u think sis

i agree, i think ppl take it too far sometimes. like bts is not really fucking each other yall. it annoys me bc boys should b able to touch each other and be really friendly and physically w one another without ppl making it sexual or think there’s some intentions behind it. girls can touch each other and be physically close and really friendly without it being sexual or romantic, so why can’t boys do it???? some ppl r just pervs 🗣

anonymous asked:

Sometimes I really wonder if Vmin realizes how sexual or kinky they're acting or is everything really just innocent playing with them like?? Maybe we're just too perverted lmao

Tbh, I think they are both some super duper perv dudes (Tae oh god Tae, between him and Joonie idk how who’s the most kinky, and Jimin is more subtle, but DO YOU REMEMBER THE TIME WHEN HE SAID “IT’S NOT HIS BACK YOU GUYS SHOULD ANTICIPATE” AND THEN LOOKED DOWN AT TAE’S CROTCH??? cos I damn do, man), but idk THEY ALSO LOOKS SO INNOCENT AND CUTE AND CARING WITH EACH OTHER???

Girl, how they mess with our brains so much. I low-key think that they perfectly know the fans live for their “”””””playing around””””””” and they enjoy it *massive eyeroll* It’s a bit like… you know, when they all shift from adorably cute to smoking sexy in 0.23 sec and you are like HOW??? 

H O W  I S  T H I S  E V E N  P O S S I B L E ? ? ?

And you simply don’t know where truth lies and never will  ¯¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I swear, they must have had some sort of classes to be this good at it

kerbros69  asked:

Natza Drabble: Irene babysitting their child?

“Grandma~”

“Hn? What is it dear?”

“Why do you and Mommy look the same?”

“That’s because…we’re mother and daughter~ You’ll grow up to be just as pretty as your Mommy and Grandmother~”

“But all the other kids don’t look the same like you and Mommy do~”

**…this kid’s really perceptive… Should I tell her? Or should…I… *evil grin**
“I know~ do you want to look like Grandma Irene for when Mommy comes home? It will be a surprise~”

“Okay!”

**This is for all the times you ignored me, Erza!**


“We’re home~!”

“Ah, Natsu, welcome home dear. And you too, daughter.”

“…Mother.”

“Where’s my lil baby girl…!”

“I’m here Daddy!”

“!!!!!”

“Ufuu ufuu…”

“Honey, what happened to your face?”

“Grandma enchanted me~”

“YOU THIEVING WITCH! I WASN’T GOOD ENOUGH SO NOW YOU TRY TO ENCHANT MY DAUGHTER NOW!?!?!”

“GET OVER YOURSELF! IT WAS JUST A JOKE!!!”

“Hey, that’s a pretty cool trick, angel~”

“Thanks Daddy~ But… what’s wrong with Mommy and Grandma?”

“Oh that…We’ll leave them be for a while.”

“Can we go outside.”

“That’s probably a good idea, angel.”
*ignoring the crashing and explosions*


Erza’s trigger word is now ‘enchantment’. XD

We teach girls to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller
We say to girls: “You can have ambition, but not too much
You should aim to be successful, but not too successful
Otherwise, you will threaten the man”
Because I am female, I am expected to aspire to marriage
I am expected to make my life choices
Always keeping in mind that marriage is the most important
Now, marriage can be a source of joy and love and mutual support
But why do we teach girls to aspire to marriage
And we don’t teach boys the same?
We raise girls to see each other as competitors
Not for jobs or for accomplishments, which I think can be a good thing
But for the attention of men
We teach girls that they cannot be sexual beings in the way that boys are
Feminist: a person who believes in the social
Political, and economic equality of the sexes
—  ***Flawless by Beyoncé ft. Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
Kyungsoo's Confession
Do Kyungsoo
Kyungsoo's Confession

Maybe I shouldn’t have told him

Just for a minute, I thought of making you continue waiting

Be a bad person and be selfish for once 

For once, I didn’t want to be a good guy

But you looked so cold

You were the first girl I reached out to without hesitation

“Can I be the one that you like the most?”

I never knew that my heart could beat so fast

But I was too slow and cowardly to beat the memories you share with him

I like you. I like you.

“We are friends, right?”

“Yes, we are.”

“We should be friends too”

“Friends?”

“Talk freely and call each other by names. Can we do that?”

“Sure.”

I am such an idiot.

I’ll never again ask a girl to be my friend

Maybe some day the girl I like will like me back

It will be a miracle to me.

anonymous asked:

Hi! I'm the one who asked whether I should tell my long distance girl that I love her or not. So... I did yesterday! I was so stressed, my hands were literally shaking bc she means the world to me. She said that what that I told her was just beautiful and I made her really happy. She loves me too!!! She made my day, week, life!😂 I just love every little thing about her and can't even look at others. I just hope we'll manage to break the distance one day. I truly do love her ❤

YES!!!! That’s so nice!!! I’m so happy for you!!!