Straight men: “I’m going to shame women for their bodies until they change their bodies to meet my standards”.
Straight men after women change their bodies: “Now I’m going to also shame these women for altering their bodies to meet my standards”.
Straight men: “I’m going to shame women for wearing make up.”
Straight men to women who don’t wear make up: “And I’m also going to shame women for not wearing make up, and tell them how horrible their faces and skin look when they don’t wear make up”.
Straight men: “I’m going to shame women who don’t have long silky straight hair naturally, because you know that’s what I like.”
Straight men to women who change their hair to meet their standards: “But I’m also going to shame women who change their hair and add extensions to meet my standards, and at the same time make fun of women with short hair or natural hair, because they don’t meet my standards”.
Moral of this story is, don’t trust straight men’s comments about women’s looks or bodies.
Sometimes it feels good to start all
Over again! #BC ✂️✂️✂️✂️
I big chopped a few days ago and it feels amazing. The first couple of times, I’ll admit, is scary and emotional. After few times you realize that it’s only hair.. and that it’ll grow back!!
It’s better to have healthy hair than hold on to the damaged stands.
Go for it and have some fun with your hair!!