shitstirrer

hiitsmecharlie-deactivated20170  asked:

Marty Scurll! He's been best friends with (y/n) for a long time, in which he falls for her. She's a shy girl and doesn’t open up easily, so she's pretty much clueless to his advances and his flirting. Stupidly, he settled for only one night stands, pushing her even farther away. Until a new guy comes along, having the balls he didn't, and asking her out on a date! Angsty, fluff? 😘 Hope this is okay, Sam.

- Marty knew it was stupid, the fact that he couldn’t work up the nerve to tell you he loves you
- the Bucks and Zack only reminded him of it daily. Hell, even Ospreay got in on the Villain roasting
- It was stupid because he was able to take nameless and faceless ring rats back to his hotel room every night, but telling you he had feelings for you was the hardest thing he could imagine
- He tried to insinuate for months that he was interested, until he realized he was being entirely too subtle and you weren’t picking up on the cues
- You weren’t much better
- the Bucks, being the shitstirrers they are, were at their wits’ end trying to get the two of you to realize that this was meant to be
- But you were insistent that Marty only saw you as a friend
- You’d blast the music in your headphones at maximum volume whenever you had to walk past Marty’s room at night after the first couple times of hearing them and choking down every feeling of jealousy and envy you had
- Adam Cole was a dick dressed up like Prince Charming
- Cole wasn’t stupid, he knew what was going on. What better way to crawl underneath the Villain’s skin than to take his woman out from underneath his nose?
- You couldn’t see Cole’s true intentions, but man oh man, Marty was furious
- Marty quietly stewed for weeks. Weeks! Trying to work out why Cole?
- it all came to a head on the drive to the airport for some U.K. Shows
- You never saw it coming
- “He doesn’t deserve a woman like you… He’s blind and you deserve better. How could he ever think that he was worthy of your kindness?”
- You turned and just blinked at Marty’s outburst, too stunned to do much else
- “Fuck what’s he got that I don’t?!”
- you turned your eyes back to the road, your grip white knuckled on the steering wheel and tears burning at the back of your eyes
-“Dammit I fell for you years ago and I have been trying- busting my balls- to just get you to see me as a man who loves you as more than just your friend…”
- then his voice cracked and you almost started sobbing
- “What’s so awful about me? What did I do wrong?”
- the sudden confession from Marty still had you stunned and it took everything in you to continue driving and not to faint
- “I’d do anything to see you look at me the way you look at him. Give anything to take you out on a date- I want to take you out to dinner. I want to be the man who kisses you goodnight and soothes your soul…”
- You jerked the wheel to pull over rather suddenly to the side of the road
- the motion of the vehicle and the sudden proclamation of his name stopped Marty mid-ramble
- Moment of truth. Time to put up or shut up.

An Appeal for Kindness

I’m feeling pretty down right now, and I’m doing my best to be levelheaded about it. For a string of several days, people close to me have been abused needlessly by people in the PF and RF. Some of these perpetrators even play and RP on Balmung. And that’s supposed to be a normal thing, right? Don’t get so triggered, special snowflake, right?

Listen, many years ago when I was into BGs and Arena in WoW I was an absolute asshole to my teammates. Oh, were you in Arathi Basin and fighting on the road instead of watching the flag? Here, listen to me lecture you about that and call you an idiot for the duration of the BG! And if I see you in the next one? Get ready for part 2 because ADHD means you’re never done!

Yeah, it’s frustrating if you’re perceiving another player as being a problem. But as you can imagine those “lectures” I gave said a lot more about me than it did about the players I was railing against. If someone is being an absolute shitlord in PvP/PvE, you can bet good money on them having some issues they need to sort out in their personal lives. It wasn’t worth my time, anyone else’s time, and certainly not worth the cortisol I generated in my system. 

Now that I’m an old grizzled gamer lady, I sincerely regret being such a snot-nosed punk. I’m just so damn tired of seeing it now, but I not here to lecture and tell everyone to hold hands and sing. I’m asking for people to remind themselves of one thing:

There are human beings behind the screen.

Look, I have to fight that petty little part of my soul every time I see someone being lazy or just nasty in RF. I slip sometimes, because I am a Grade A Shitstirrer. Yeah, they’re wasting our time, but maybe they’re having a bad day. Maybe it’s something more serious. It doesn’t matter because we don’t need to pile anything else on anyone. In those moments I take a deep breath and imagine all that petty salt draining away, and remind myself that I have no idea what is going on with the person on the other end of the screen. 

Am I saying that if you meet an abusive jerk in the DF that you should always try to fight them with kindness? No. You don’t need to stand for abuse. Use the tools given to you in game to kick them out, or leave for your own peace of mind. What I am asking is that you consider a kind route when you are frustrated with a stranger. Doing anything else isn’t worth it. I’m asking you to join me in a concentrated effort to be kind. 

I know this likely won’t pass through the awareness of some our rudest players in the game, but I see similar things going on in our RP community, and I think if we make a habit of kindness and compassion, we might have some measurable impact.

I’d like to think so anyway.

- Dora (Nako’s player.)

anonymous asked:

Idk James seems to have some grudge because he thinks she did Harry wrong, which is sad and petty, since neither Tay or Harry seem to have bad blood. James is also friends w hiddles and he made some comments on his show (implying) Taylor used him for pr iirc. He's a shitstirrer

Taylor Swift used Tom for PR?…. i mean no offense to Tom but the only one who had anything to promote and who was campaigning for the Emmys and GG and Bond etc was Tom… like can James just use his brain, Taylor didn’t have anything to promote LMAO 

anonymous asked:

Imagine Adam cole being jealous of one of the BC members being too close to you

- Adam liked Kenny well enough, sure
- but he hated, absolutely hated, that whenever Kenny came to visit the States from Japan, you fussed over the man from Winnipeg
- deep down, he knew its because you were good friends with Kenny and you missed him something fierce as he didn’t get much time away from Japan
- there was just something about watching you wrap your arms around Kenny and look up at him in an adoring way that made Adam’s blood boil
- Adam wasn’t jealous
- but he couldn’t help the way he tensed up when you touched the Canadian or how his fist would clench so tightly his knuckles went white when Kenny wrapped an arm around your shoulders
- Adam’s mood would deteriorate rapidly over the course of Kenny’s visit, snapping at friends and innocent bystanders alike within days
- Kenny knows how Adam reacts when he was in your vicinity and Kenny, that little shitstirrer, began to up the ante
- it started with little things, like giving you piggy back rides and giving you his hoody when he was cold
- but Adam went through the roof when he walked in on you and Kenny, wrapped up in a veritable cocoon of blankets, cuddled up on the couch for a well deserved mid afternoon nap
- “What the FUCK is going on here?!”

so... someone gave macken a mike then, you *DO* know he does some of that shit deliberately, right? i swear. the man is a troll at times. and i say that with the utmost grá for him. just be glad he hasn't got the same tendancies as i have. the fandom wouldnt know what hit it.

i mean comon. if i had that sort of power… 

I am literally laughing...

So many IHers, Orgs, and “I don’t ship Bleach but I see Ichihime” people are stalking the Ichiruki tag and responding. AND THEY HAVE THE NERVE TO CALL US SALTY?!?! THEY HAVE THE NERVE TO CALL US SHITSTIRRERS?!?!?

Y'all tags must be mighty boring because y'all stay in the Ichiruki tag looking for shit

Originally posted by bricesander