ship stelena

anonymous asked:

DE toxic posts? and do you have the link to the reason why you ship steferine?

http://zalrb.tumblr.com/post/139498020585/what-about-stelena-makes-them-superior-to-delena

http://zalrb.tumblr.com/post/147683641640/people-who-ship-stelena-ship-with-boring

http://zalrb.tumblr.com/post/149414909030/it-was-stefans-love-who-healed-her-broken-heart

http://zalrb.tumblr.com/post/148858806060/whats-your-opinion-about-delenas-who-says-stefan

http://zalrb.tumblr.com/post/156271893305/what-is-a-toxic-relationship

I have a few Steferine posts, my earlier posts are a lot more forgiving to Steferine, my more recent ones delve into the problematic nature of Steferine and why we shouldn’t turn a blind eye to that nature.

http://zalrb.tumblr.com/post/157278273885/right-so

http://zalrb.tumblr.com/post/145517275360/why-do-you-hate-daroline-if-you-ship-steferine

http://zalrb.tumblr.com/post/140951172370/do-you-have-a-favorite-steferine-moment-in-the

http://zalrb.tumblr.com/post/154688536065/so-i-was-explaining-why-damon-was-a-rapist-to

http://zalrb.tumblr.com/post/154688949585/katherine-only-compelled-stefans-fear-away-she

When you meet someone that ships all your ships

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Top 20 ships in The Vampire Diaries (as voted by my followers) #07 → Elena x Stefan
“Do you know why I was even on that bridge? I was coming back for you, Stefan. I had to choose and I picked you because I love you. No matter what happens, it’s the best choice I ever made.”

Recently I was returning a book to the school library and..
  • Librarian: Thanks sweetie, do you want to borrow some other book.
  • Me: I don't know. Maybe something not so long approx. 120k words.
  • Librarian: What?
  • Me: What?
  • That was the moment I realized my fanfiction addiction had gone too far.
Me watching TV like:
  • <p> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b>Me:</b> Old MacDonald had a farm. Eee ay eee ay oh. And on this farm he had some pairings. Hell oh hell oh no. With a new ship here...wait there's a new ship there...here a ship...there a ship...everywhere potential ships...<p/><b></b> ...Damn Old MacDonald and his farm. Now I'm shipping all these hoes.<p/></p><p/></p><p/></p><p/></p>
Wild Concept

Everyone ships whatever the fuck they want without shitting all over each other and the hard working writers. Maybe focus your energy on your love for something, because running a hate focused blog is just sad. For a community of people so supportive of kindness, individuality, and love in the real world, I sure do see a lot of hate around fandoms on here.

Take comfort in the fact that it is Stefan and no one else that had the biggest impact on Elena’s life.  Take comfort in the fact that Stefan is still the person that knows Elena best. These are all canon facts. Take comfort in the fact that if circumstances were slightly different Stelena would have found their way back to each other . I mean is there even a question? Take comfort in the fact that Stefan was the best choice.  Take comfort in the fact that Stefan brought Elena back to life and then it was Stefan again who gave her a chance at a normal life gave her life back to her.  Take comfort in the fact that it was Stefan who understood Elena’s dreams and wishes the best. Take comfort in the fact that it took Elena changing into another species entirely to pull her away from Stefan. Take comfort in the fact that Stelena was light Delena was darkness. Take comfort in the fact that Stelena was selfless till the very end. Isn’t that what love should be? And this is who Stefan is he just wants to see Elena happy he wants Elena to live and fight another day even if it isn’t with him. I mean we all remember the girl who cried and told him she wants to grow old she wants the choices ( The Last Day) and he wasn’t even mad that she didn’t say I’m ready to be a vampire with you. He understood. Which will always be the eternal difference between him and Damon.  Take comfort in the fact that Elena’s last scene was her thanking Stefan and no one else and basically sitting there smiling. Remembering Stefan fondly like we all will. Take comfort in the fact that Stefan never compelled Elena or tried too because it was always supposed to be her choice. Take comfort in the fact that Stelena was is and always will be the anchor of this show. Take comfort in the fact that the show started with Stefan saving Elena and ended with Stefan saving Elena. 

Take comfort in the fact that Stelena is the best choice and do not regret anything. Because we made the best choice we ever could by supporting this beautiful ship.