ship all the ships!!!

excuse my french but antiLams shit is fucking ridiculous. like….

LGBT+ person: realizes an influential founder of the United States was not straight and, enthusiastic to find representation in a powerful figure, throws their focus on the most loving relationship Hamilton had with another man rather than his heteronormative relationships that dominate academia…

but see, if you really like Lams- or any m/m ship, it’s not that you crave representation that validates your existence and ambition or that you prefer relationships with equal agency and characters that are not only fleshed out by their canon but also easily able to engage with the major conflicts therein, you just hate women. you just want smut with schlongs. you’re horrible. sexist. perverted.

there’s a difference between using fandom as a vehicle for your validation or creativity and using it for jacking off. let’s not assume the worst of people.

Dunno what the fuck’s going on in the fandom rn, but for the record; Rohan is my least favourite JoJo character, and he legitimately made me dislike part 4 more than I logically should.

anonymous asked:

I self-ship myself as well and I think that is something acceptable to do. But idk it hurts me so much to realise that they are not real, y'know? Like everything you imagine of them, is not real??That everything is just in your head. And if you ever ( actually never ) happen to meet this person, what if they don't like you? You can never know since they are fictional... I'm sorry if I complain about it but i just wondered if you sometimes feel the same and if yes, how do you cope with it?

there, there, anon.  i know real life is hard sometimes, but yeah, i do have those thoughts sometimes!!  i think everybody in the community has those thoughts from time to time, but you know what?  i just refuse to believe them.  your faves LOVE you, and even if they didn’t, then that means that they just didn’t deserve your greatness and big ol’ heart full of love.

don’t let yourself get discouraged and go into a rut.  your f/o’s at the very least would want you to love yourself and know you’re deserving of all the love in the world.  just because it isn’t real doesn’t mean that it’s not real, you know?  if it makes you happy and contributes to your life, then that’s all you really need.

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Everyone is smiling except Keith, because he’s got better things to do than smile at you.  

Right! So I made y’all a few icons you never asked for! If anyone wants one with a different flag behind it, feel free to PM me, I’ll fix you up.

Fixed version: And by this, I mean I’ll 100% make this post about pride, and not about my headcanons for the characters :)