she needs so much therapy

Ok, so you have the option of 45 days in jail or continuing probation, right?  The sensible option is to take the probation because it, y'know, means not going to jail.

This girl?  Says no because if she’s on probation she can’t smoke weed.

In case you’re unfamiliar with US law: she can’t smoke weed when she’s off probation either.  It’s illegal.  Even with the states that have legalised it, it is against federal law.  You really don’t want to violate those.