I don’t ship Kara and Mon-El because in my mind they were always supposed to be sibling-like. Some of my favourite interactions between them are the ones where they’re goofing around, doing similar things to what Kara and Alex do together. With Mon-El, Kara can finally complete her life mission, to protect someone and be a guiding hand in this new world, like she was meant to with Clark. Instead, we have a situation where every major male character other than J’onn have had crushes and kissed Kara, reinforcing the absurd idea that male-female friendships are impossible because someone will always fall for the other. Give me a platonic Kara and Mon-El relationship over this half baked lovey dovey crap any day.