So my family are all pretty unaffirming so I didn't expect to have a great thanksgiving. However, I came out to my aunt who I had no idea didn't know, and she was immediately accepting. Changed my name and invited me out to lunch w her and was just generally great to talk to for the night. On top of that, my parents and siblings have agreed to use a gender neutral name for me and they/them pronouns. So things are looking up!