she gives such good advice


bernie wolfe + @ao3tagoftheday (2/?)


pike is the best portrayal of a mom friend bc on one hand she’s almost painfully empathetic and loyal to her friends, tries to give good advice even if she’s not 100% sure what’s going on, puts the needs of others before herself most if not all the time, and literally is responsible for keeping her family alive

and on the other she enthusiastically slams down alcohol like a champ, once threatened to beat up the goddess of death if she hurt her friend, would apparently try drugs to understand where scanlan was coming from, got a ridiculous and disgusting family portrait made knowing full-well what would happen, threatened to “burn down your whole fucking town” in scanlan’s resurrection ritual if they didn’t get him back, and told tary to continue pursuing the thread of banging the rest of vm AND told him that she could always see him and would know if he was looking at his flashcards or not


2x05 || 2x22


“What if he doesn’t want a child? Or what if he does but just not with me? Mary, I’m stressing out.” You said to your sister, voicing your thoughts to her. She was good at giving advice so naturally you had come to her when you found out from the doctor, but you still had yet to tell Bash.

“Y/N calm down. Bash loves you more than anything and he will love this child as well. I promise you.” Mary replied bringing you in for a hug but someone coughing interrupted the moment. You both pulled away to see Bash standing at the door with eyes only for you. Mary looked over at you and wished you good luck before leaving.

“You’re pregnant?” Bash asked softly.

“Yes.” You admitted looking down at your feet.

“Y/N, that’s amazing! We will have our own family with little versions of you and I running around the castle. We will be parents!” He exclaimed excitedly, walking up to you and wrapping his arms around you tightly, nuzzling his head into the crook of your neck.

“You’re not mad?” You asked quietly, still surprised at his reaction. He pulled back and took your face in his hands, looking deep into your eyes.

“Y/N. I love you and there is nothing I want more than to start a family with you. I hope that is what you want too.”

“Of course it is Bash. And I love you too.”


Requested by (x)

Yay!! Look at my baby, I finally made her ref :00
Name: Turquoise
Nicknames: Tur, my lady/my love (B. Topaz),  also I usually call her “Turque”
Pronouns: She/Her
Gem Placement: Lower Back
Allignment: Blue Diamond (although she actually serves anyone)
Weapon: TBA
Rank: Middle Rank, she’s like a lady of company
Status: Taken. She’s in a relationship with Blue Topaz
Sexuality: Homosexual.
Personality: She’s decided, inconformist, a dreamer. She’s actually pretty brave and outgoing. She can be a little stubborn. Her natural personality is full of joy, she’s almost all the time smiling and she’s very good giving advices. She’s totally an enthusiast.
Story: Turquoise is the gemstone of happiness. In Homeworld, Turquoises are used as accompanists for high rank gems. They make them laugh, they talk and they always have to be happy. When a gem is feeling bad, is upset or is confused about their life, a Turquoise is always there to make everything go okay. They are not like Pearls, they serve, but they kinda have an middle status. Although they’re basically used as clowns, they aren’t allowed to feel anger or sadness, they have to be the image of pure joy.
But my Turquoise is not exactly like the other ones, she’s an inconformist, she wants to feel whatever she wants. She was very loyal at first, she had fear of being shattered or something, but her life was normal and she was always happy. Until she met Blue Topaz. Seeing her, seeing Topaz’s Pearl, she understood that she didn’t want to fake anything that she didn’t feel for anyone. She became more decided and confident than Topaz. She was finally able to laugh, to love, to cry…but for real this time.


Bernie Wolfe Appreciation, day 11

S18 E45 Little Acorns: I liked these moments because she calms Raf, in a kind way, so they can focus on operating on Evie. She reassures Mikey, and gives him some good advice. But she’s also just very practical and professional in her focus on healing Evie and doing her job.

It’s one of those moments where it becomes very clear that 1) Bernie has grown since she started working on Keller, and 2) she can switch between work mode and colleague/friend, and sacrifice neither kindness nor her work focus. And I think that’s a beautiful thing.

Previously: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
Post 1 is also where you’ll find the reason for this little series and the disclaimer.

catty-words  asked:

raven reyes' wardrobe though: her adorable and puffy red jacket. that tattered blue t-shirt that looked so cozy and well-worn. her space suit, especially the raven-imprinted helmet. her boots (especially in the scene where she first steps foot on a bed of crunchy autumn leaves). that white henley shirt with the grey sleeves that's just like A++ and too much for my bi ass. those fingerless gloves she wears for maybe an episode (madonna ain't got nothing on raven).

you asked for this, so expect it to be long. lets geek out about raven’s wardrobe and her general otherwordly fashion sense because goddamn the fashion police is trying to get to her all the time wanting to give her some advice, but? she always looks good.

let’s start with this one

if your otp is raven x a dark greenish sweater vest ft. fingerless gloves then welcome to the club. the ecology between her and this outfit largely revolves around the fact that raven is a smartass. the statement she makes with it: ‘I’m gonna find out your secret and then i’m gonna fuck you up’. why else do you think her gloves are so long? her detecting skillz are on point. the observer is aware and she is going to go hard. also, check the color coordination. she clearly knows her style, a specialist in the arts of colors for sure.

the famous red bomber jacket aka raven’s new clothing line called ‘i’m gonna rip you to shreds’

raven’s clothes are like chopping up onions. they are layered and you end up crying a lot - tears of joy of course. sometimes you wonder if raven’s clothes are just a part of her body anyway because how does one look so cute and fierce with a red bomber at the same time, let alone during a mission? the damn chemistry… it’s not even science anymore. raven x red jacket is pure passion and their love is going to cut you like a razor (watch out alie, she’s coming for you). also, color scheme! red jacket plus well-worn and cozy blue tattered shirt! u know what that means? raven is actually bi. BI.

a little bird in space

whenever i see raven in her space suit i forget that earth is filled with some spooky things like mutated animals or reapers. because why the fuck have that, when you can have this

she just looks super cute in it. how she works a space helmet with her signature on it because yes this is raven fucking reyes in space, the little bird. the lil sticker with her name on it that finn gave her, how big the space boots look, like where the hell are her feet? she is so tiny and you just wanna hug and protect her but goddamn you don’t really need to, because space makes her feel good. the suit makes her feel good. she looks the happiest when she is wearing it, when she gets to explore space in it, see the world from a whole new angle. that’s the thing about the suit. it looks heavy, but raven makes it appear so weightless because she feels so weightless when she is wearing it, just getting to float around (yes, the irony of that word doesn’t escape me), and enjoy life in its fullest. i think we can all agree that she deserves more spacewalks, and less pain. the things i’d do for raven to find the Polaris pod in polis tbh.

moving on.

they say the problems never end, but you know what else really never ends? raven’s great fashion sense. and raven x shirts is what dreams are made of

raven in a dark red wine t-shirt? check

raven in a classic henley shirt with dark grey sleeves? check

raven being so extra and owning a hollister sporty burnout v-neck shirt that looks just a bit different from the henley with the grey sleeves? check

raven in a black tank top with flexing muscles? check. also, you see alie in the bg right? the thing is, alie never controlled raven. raven is actually in control of alie. that woman is so attracted to the unknown magnetic force of raven’s outfits (its fucking raw magnetism i swear), especially that tank top and those arms, that she’s practically hypnotized. alie only knows fashion from ‘bratz fashion boutique’ for the nintendo DS, she’s never seen anyone dress like this before. so in her eyes it ain’t even science anymore, it’s a whole new world. and leave it to raven to dess- i mean, fight like a genius. she’s got this.

or this one? ravens got a thing for darker sleeves. i told you she appreciates color coordination, it sustains her.

also, skinny jeans are out they say. time for raven to hit the streets

the green pants are my aesthetic and the details you can see on the jeans in the picture to your right is my kink.

and then raven’s boots.

her presence is undeniable *crunch crunch* girl is never out of style. also, who needs leg warmers when you can just tug your hands into your boots??? she is about to become the greatest fashion icon, watch her (if she isnt already duh).

one of these days she’s going to bring back heelys and everyone will actually love her for it. cause raven can make everything cool.

Voltron Episode 13 Season 2:

Never thought I’d feel sorry for Haggar, but I swear she gives good advice and Zarkon just ignores her.  “Don’t go into the trap my lord!” “But the Black Lion!!!!!!” “Your obsession the Black Lion is going to destroy your empire!” “Know your place wench, and the Black Lion shale be MINE!!!!”  I’d have shot him and took over the empire myself in her position.

Did Zarkon get brainwashed at some point.  He seems stupid evil sometimes.

Oh hey, team Voltron now officially knows about the Galra empire planet destroying abilities.

Zarkon if you had your own Zarkon bot why did you need the black lion again?

Sweet, I like Allura waking up and figuring out what she can do to help.  Doesn’t feel like forced usefulness.  She’s doing something vital.

Feels important that Keith is the one to tell Shiro to fight Zarkon’s attempt to control the black lion.

Keith showing off his leadership skills.  Smoothly taking over while Shiro is unconscious.

The cloaked druids actually look empty when Allura knocks off a mask.

You know what.  I think Haggar is a Altean/Galra hybrid.  Galra basically breeding with everyone in the galaxy would explain the vast differences in physical appearances between all the commanders.

Definitely concentrating on Keith being worried about Shiro in that last scene.

Damn cliffhanger.  They better find Shiro next season.

I saw School of Ghoul on my dash today and read it again. Really if you haven’t read it yet then do it now. I will tell you why:

- it’s a parody by Ishida
- Kaneki lives a good life (okay, he’s still a ghoul, but it’s about Kaneki’s school   life so there will be lots of funny moments)
- Every student thinks they are the only ghoul in the school
- Most of the characters are the same age (Kaneki, Touka, Shuu, Uta, Hinami,   Yomo are in the same class)
- Kureo Mado and Amon are teachers
- Shuu uses swear words once again (poor kid nobody really wants to play         squash with him)
- Touka notices Kaneki is interested in Rize and wants to give him good advice   because she thinks this is what a normal human would do (We all need dating   coach Touka)
- Yomo joins the Judo club
- Kaneki and his friends go to a karaoke bar
- Tsukiyama Shuu (you will know what I mean if you read it)

You can find the translated ‘chapters’ by Talalanlalan here:
Tsukiyama’s blog

Arrow AU: Malcolm Merlyn is shot dead in an alleyway when Tommy Merlyn is eight years old. Rebecca Merlyn takes one look at the Glades and decides that she’s changing the place for the better. Tommy Merlyn’s father figure growing up is Robert Queen. Tommy and Oliver both end up on the gambit. 

I like my stepmom I really do, but she is most definitely someone who could always function. She might have bad days or off days but in the end she could pick herself up and do shit.

I'm​ not like that. I will spends hours lying in the same position doing something pointless because I physically cannot get up and do the more productive thing I WANT to do. I can hardly envision where I’ll be in a week, let alone planning my future.

She’s someone who has always had drive, means, and ability.

I’m not.

Gabrielle Delacour is online!

Years after the Battle of Hogwarts, before the events of Cursed Child, Gabrielle is a wandmaker’s apprentice. She’s recovering from PTSD associated with the Triwizard Tournament. She’s particularly good at giving advice on self-care, self-love, and how to make the most of the moment. She’s enjoying a lovely café au lait

Come talk to Gigi! Can you guess her Patronus?

Gia: Gabrielle and I have a lot in common. I am qualified to give advice regarding these subjects if you need it.

Tag Game!

Tag game!

Hello! I got tagged by @thingsilearnedatuni   thanks so much! ♥

1. what subjects are you currently studying?

Right now I’m studying: Psychopathology II, Psychological Statistics III & Forensic Psychopathology. Also I’m currently doing research for my bachelor thesis for Psychology :)

2. who would you say is your biggest influence?

My mother [& dad sometimes haha], she’s my best friend. I can talk about anything with her. She also gives good advice, sometimes… hahaha

3. whats one country you would like to visit?

South Korea and France [I’ve been to France so many times, but I just can’t get enough of it??] also England. 

4. what’s your favourite book?

I don’t really have a favorite book. I like most things written by Stephen King.

5. what do you do to keep yourself motivated?

Trying to be positive. I also think of why I started doing this and what my end goal is when it becomes hard. 

6. what language would you really like to learn?

French & Russian

7. what holiday do you prefer, christmas or halloween?

I can’t choosee!!! Tho we don’t really have halloween here where I live.. So I guess Christmas.

8. how old are you?


9. whats your favourite season?

Spring  Autmn

10. who is your favourite band/singer?

BTS, Rihanna, Selena Gomez, Daya, Maggie Lindeman, Melanie Martinez & Julia Michaels. I need more male singers.. hahaha

11. have you had a good day today?

Yess <3 thanks for asking. Every day is a good day :D

I tag: @mado-kaa @springgette @meowthiesaurus @peachkiss @pastel-blaster

@alpacaaffair @strive-for-da-best @lonely-pink-rose & @sky-child

anonymous asked:


tag 3 friends and your 3 favorite things about them!

ok i have a few of these messages so i’m gonna do a few bc i have a lot of friends on here

@stayliabinsky is one of my best friends. she is one of the funniest people i know!! she gives good advice and boosts my self esteem constantly 💖
@isthisaestheticyett is someone i’ve become a lot closer with this year!! good friend, great gay, came for the friendship stayed for the memes
@dumbweed is so sweet and nice and beautiful and we both love the office and she’s such a good friend ahh

anonymous asked:

Hey Ella, can I get some advice? I have this problem with my best friend where whenever I (rarely) come to her to talk about like emotional stuff, she just hurls cliches at me until I shut up, and I leave feeling worse. She is an otherwise great friend. I try really hard to be a good listener so it's hard to explain to her, when she asks what's she's doing wrong. Any idea what I should do? Thank you

She probably is just doing her best to help. She’s just not good at giving advice, champ. We can’t all be.

How To // Luke x Reader

can you do a Luke skywalker imagine where the reader is generally in a bad mood and Luke likes her a lot but is too afraid/intimidated to talk to her? he goes to Han for advice because Han is her best friend but Han gives him terrible advice that could get his balls cut off lmao. so he goes to leia next and she actually gives him good advice! the reader is fixing the falcon and Luke goes up to her & makes a fool of himself but she finds it cute, though she won’t admit it infront of han! tysm!!!

Some called you passive aggressive and some called you pissy assed. But honestly, you were just kept to yourself. However, when someone pissed you off, that’s when you became what the people thought you were.

And that’s why Luke was so intimidated to talk to you. He was afraid that you would lash out on him and that wasn’t the exact reaction he wanted from his crush.

Today, you were in one of those moods where you weren’t in a bad mood, but you didn’t want anyone to bother you. Luke, of course, was afraid of talking to you. Seeking help, we went inside the Falcon trying to find Han, your best friend.

“Hey, Han. I need some advice,” Luke starts, sitting down next to Han at the front of the ship as he works the control panel.

Han stops what he is doing and looks at Luke. “Oh, yeah okay. What’s the deal?”

Breathing in, Luke says, “As you know, I like (Y/N) and you are her best friend so…”

Han nods his head, knowing what the boy is going to ask. “You need help asking her out. I got you,” he smiles, patting his back. “Well, first thins first-”

“Hold up. I don’t want to ask her out just yet. I want to talk to her more, you know? Get to know her better?” Luke reasons as Han nods. “I just get very intimidated by her because she always seems like she doesn’t want to be bothered.”

The smuggler understands his predicament. “Okay, well first thing you need to know is that you don’t flirt with her ever. She will just get more pissed off than see actually is,” he says as Luke makes mental notes.

“But how do I get my point across that I like her?” Luke asks confused. This wasn’t the advice he was expecting to receive.

Han rolls his eyes, “Kid, I’m getting there. Calm your hormonal ass.” Luke shrinks back into his chair. “That being said, don’t really talk to her at all. Only if she speaks to you. But if you are so inclined to talk to her, then be gentle. If she reacts irrationally, go at her. She loves it. Girls love it when you give them a hard time.”

“Isn’t that the other way around. Guys like it when girls give them a hard time?” Luke interrogates the man in front of him. None of the information he was getting was relevant to his case.

Groaning, Han says, “Did I come to you for advice? Now, shut up and listen. All of this sounds wrong because (Y/N) isn’t your typical girl. So, just follow those steps and before you know it, she’ll be begging for you.”

Luke reluctantly nods his head. “Alright. Thanks, Han.” I guess.

He knew that this wasn’t how you would wanted to be treated or any girl for that matter. Looking for his sister, he finds Leia sitting down fussing with some wires and controls in the back of the ship. “Leia. I need help,” he speaks.

She sits up immediately. “Sure. What’s going on?” she asks, rubbing his shoulder as he sits on the floor next to her.

“Well, I have had feelings for (Y/N) for a while now and I am too afraid to talk to her because I feel like she’ll just reject me. So, for advice, I went to Han an-”

“Oh, no,” Leia groans. “What did he say?”

Luke clears his throat. “He said to not flirt and don’t talk to her that much. But if I feel so inclined be gentle. But if she is snappish, be snappish back.”

Leia runs fingers through her hair in distress. “You can see how I fell in love with him…” she teases earning a faint laugh from her brother. “Forget all that crap. If you want advice on how to talk to a lady, ask another lady. Trust me, the results will be more in your favor.”

Nodding his head, Luke says, “So, you will help me?”

She laughs at her brother. “Of course. First thing you want to do is kind of ease your way into a conversation. Don’t come out with a straight compliment. That makes us girls feel uncomfortable. Just open up casually. Next, just talk to her like a normal human being. You know, because she is one,” Leia goes on for another few minutes on giving some solid advice.

Thanking his sister, Luke stands up and exits the Falcon, looking for you. Outside, you are checking some fuel valves, grease stained. Butterflies erupt in Luke’s stomach as he approaches you.

Closing the valve hatch, you notice that Luke is walking towards you.

Oh, God did he have to come now of all times? I must look awful.

“Hi,” he greets with a smile, internally hoping that was sufficient enough to spark conversation. “So, uh, what are you doing?”

“Checked the fuel valves. Fine as usual,” you respond, grabbing a towel from the toolbox, wiping the grease off your hands. “So, how are you?”

Finally! Conversation! Luke thinks.

For the next half hour, Luke and you are chatting and laughing. You being the one laughing because he was obviously trying to act smooth around you, failing miserably in the process. One time in the process, he tripped and almost fell over.

You had to admit, after today, your feelings for him have become more solidified and predominant. Walking onto the Falcon, you have a small smile on your face as you encounter Han.

“So, how was lover boy?” Han teases as you punch his arm.

“Shut up!” you laugh, walking to the front of the ship as he follows you.

“C'mon, tell me how my boy was!” he begs, you refusing him laughing the entire time.

“Singles! Couples!  ‘it’s complicated’s’!”

“Lend me a moment of your time!”

“Are you unlucky in love?  Do you need something to spice up your romance?  Trying to make your relationship less ‘complicated’ or more complicated if you swing that way?”

“Then do I have news for you!”

“The famous bridge troll turned bag lady has decided to start giving out relationship advice!  And is she ever good at it.”

“So why hesitate?  Go send her your romantic questions now!